Signs Your Spouse Is Cheating With A Coworker
Do you suspect your girlfriend or wife is cheating on you with someone she’s working with?
Do you want to know if she’s having an affair with someone at her workplace?
Wanting to know about how to catch a cheating spouse? Do you suspect that she doesn’t love you anymore? Are you looking for signs she is cheating with a coworker (or worse, her boss)?
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Ten Signs She Is Cheating At Work
Check if you’ve noticed any of the following signs:
- She’s been overly protective of her phone. It never leaves her side. It has a new password she won’t share with you. It’s always set to silent/vibrate. She’s been putting it face-down a lot. When someone does call her, even if it’s just someone from work, she goes to another room for privacy.
- She just created a new “work-related” account on Facebook but didn’t add you as a friend. Her status remains “single”.
- If you’re married, she doesn’t wear her ring to her workplace. Or, you catch her keeping her ring as she steps into the office.
- She’s been working on her appearance lately. She’s been working out, getting tanned, shopping for clothes, and getting makeovers. She’s also been wearing sexy underwear under her work clothes.
- She works overtime. A lot.
- She starts taking “work-related” trips.
- She’s been saying things like “privacy,” “confused,” and “need to figure things out” lately.
- She’s extremely hot-and-cold. Sometimes she’s the loving, caring, affectionate, submissive wife you fell in love with. Other times, she distances herself from you, especially when you try to ask her about work.
- She adopted new hobbies out of the blue.
- She makes you feel crazy, insignificant, or a failure in life. You almost feel like it’s YOUR fault she’s cheating on you
If any of these sound like your girlfriend or wife… then you can probably relate to Perry.
Perry was a 41-year-old software engineer who recently asked me for help.
He had suspected that his wife, Heather, had been cheating on him with her boss.
“Heather’s boss is this young, handsome, savvy CEO-type guy, and I think she’s been seeing him,” Perry told me.
“I can’t compete with that. But what can I do to keep her? Should I talk to her? Beg her to stay? Should I threaten her? Help me out, Derek!”
Pretty crazy, huh?
You Are Not Alone In This
OK, you probably feel the same way like Perry did.
You feel helpless, emasculated, and beaten. You feel like a loser beta male in life.
Hey, I get it.
And guess what? I got some good news, too.
Hundreds of other men have come to me with the exact same problem as yours and Perry’s.
And that means there’s already a proven SOLUTION to your problem.
And in this Shogun Method guide, that solution will be revealed to you.
If it works for so many others before you, it WILL work for you. It’s true.
Sounds good?
Let’s jump right in!
If You See The Signs She Is Cheating At Work…
First, the bad news.
Remember the list of ten tell-tale signs of cheating at the beginning of this guide? They’re all legitimate signs she’s cheating on you with someone she’s working with.
I’ve interviewed hundreds of guys in the same situation as you. Those ten signs keep popping up. It’s no coincidence. Believe me.
“I Was Right To Cheat On This Loser.”
When the same guys ask me whether they should talk or beg or threaten their women to make them stop cheating…
…my answer is always the same:
“None of that crap.”
Why?
It’s all because of a simple fact on how women typically think and behave…
- If she respects you, then everything you do is right, even if you’re not always right.
- If she DOESN’T respect you, then everything you do is wrong, even if you’re not always wrong.
It’s true!
If she does NOT respect you – which is the case when she’s cheating on you – then you won’t get through to her.
In fact, while you’re talking or begging or threatening her to stop cheating, she’ll roll her eyes and think:
“Yup, I was RIGHT to cheat on this loser.”
Cheating Is Not About “Right” Or “Wrong”
Now you may think to yourself:
“Cheating is wrong, period.”
Well, you know what?
It doesn’t matter if she’s right or wrong.
In her mind, she CONVINCES herself she’s right. And that’s all that matters to her. (This is a common female psychology trait known as “solipsism“.)
And the more you try to keep her from cheating, guess what happens? The more she’ll do it!
All because she doesn’t respect you as a man.
My advice?
Don’t make that mistake.
Don’t try to “talk” her into staying with you.
Don’t give her a stronger reason to leave you.
Instead, do this…
What To Do If She’s Cheating On You
When you’re sure she’s cheating on you with someone she’s working with, follow this piece of sage advice:
Fucking dump her ass.
I’m not even kidding. If she cheats on you, leave her. (And if you want to get over her fast, read this.)
Trust me when I say this:
Having no woman is MUCH BETTER than being with a disrespectful woman.
Remember: disrespect often is a symptom of something worse… she might be a sociopath for all you know. (Crazy women are everywhere.)
It’s just not worth having that kind of “emotional tumor” in your life.
But what if you’re not 100% sure she’s cheating on you?
Or, what if she IS cheating, but you want to change her and keep her anyway?
Then you’ll need a slightly different approach.
Getting The Respect Back
Keep this in mind:
She’s straying because she doesn’t respect you as a man.
So if you want her to stop cheating… or if you want to make sure she NEVER cheats on you…
…then you must make her RESPECT you again.
How do you do that?
Remember, you can’t talk, beg, or threaten your way through to her. That puts you in a lose-lose situation…
So instead, put yourself in a win-win situation.
How?
By leaving her… or at least pretending to.
You’re going to learn how to do that – just like how Perry did it…
How Perry Got Heather Back
When Perry asked me for help, I taught him the three-step “fake breakup” strategy:
Step #1: Disappear.
First, Perry “disappeared” for three days. He just went out of town and cut off all communication with Heather and all their mutual friends.
Naturally, Heather went berserk. Her texts to Perry went from being confused, to angry, to downright enraged.
Through it all, Perry did not reply or pick up her calls. (This is key.)
Finally, on the third day, Heather calmed down enough to text him how worried she was.
That was the sign Perry was waiting for. Heather had “snapped” out of her bad behavior, and was now completely focused on Perry.
Step #2: Do A “Fake Breakup” Until She Starts Respecting You Again
Perry finally showed up back at their home. As expected, Heather immediately asked what happened.
As I’d instructed, Perry answered: “I think we should spend some time apart,” and didn’t elaborate.
For the next few hours, Heather pressed him for answers. Perry calmly put his foot down and declined to explain himself. As the hours passed, Heather got more and more stressed out.
Finally, Heather broke, and begged Perry for a compromise.
That was the next sign Perry was waiting for: when Heather asked him to name his terms.
She was respecting him again.
Step #3: Be Ruthless And Use MIND CONTROL On Her
Why Mind Control?
Because when it comes to changing a cheating wife or girlfriend, it’s her MIND you need to dominate.
Not her body…
Not her feelings….
… but her MIND.
Why?
Because when you control her mind, you control her feelings.
Control her feelings, control her actions.
Control her actions, control the relationship.
Get the picture?
How To Use Mind Control On Your Woman
Perry used Mind Control in two steps:
- First, he inflicted PRESSURE on Heather by naming his demands. No more cheating, no more seeing other guys, and no more disrespect… or she can say goodbye.
- Second, after Heather agreed to his terms, he gave her PLEASURE. (Use your imagination.)
(Mind Control–or any NLP seduction technique for that matter–is simply PRESSURE + PLEASURE on a woman over a period of time.)
Long story short – the plan worked.
Heather confessed she WAS seeing her boss but promised Perry she’d stop.
She even quit her job a few weeks later and started spending her time and energy making a happier home.
Better yet, Perry reports that Heather has never been happier and more satisfied…
And it’s all because she now sees him as the manliest guy in her life, and she couldn’t imagine being with anyone else.
But best of all:
Perry is now in full control of his relationship.
He’s the man.
He’s in charge.
And he’s never felt better in his life.
Now, before you say “That’s EXACTLY what I want!”, here’s a fair warning…
Mind Control Is NOT For Everybody
I gotta be honest with you: not all guys have what it takes to pull it off.
Let me put it this way…
…if you used Mind Control on your woman, and she stopped cheating on you…
…and THEN, sometime in the near or far future, YOU ended up cheating on HER…
…you’ll scar her for LIFE.
So, if you can’t trust yourself to be loyal to her for the rest of your life… DON’T USE MIND CONTROL.
I don’t advocate any form of cruelty towards women. And breaking her like that is one of the cruelest things you could ever do.
AND YET if you do love her…
…and if you want to keep her for the rest of your life…
…and if you’re man enough to promise to NEVER cheat on her, no matter the circumstances…
…then I’m about to give you something that’s going to change your life FOREVER.
It’s an invitation to my Online Masterclass on Mind Control. It’s the only class you’ll ever need to establish the dominance your woman desperately needs you to.
Now click on the link below –
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(The “Request Invite” page comes up next. There, enter your best e-mail address. It’s where I’ll send your Invite Ticket.)
Remember:
You can’t “convince” your woman to NOT cheat on you.
You can’t “negotiate” your way to make her DESIRE you again.
But you can FORCE her to stop… and afterward, you can make sure she NEVER cheats on you again.
This guide has just shown you how.
The catch?
You MUST master Mind Control.
And if you’re man enough for it, you know where to go. Sign up for the Masterclass here.
I’ll see you in the Masterclass next,
P.S.: Questions? Comments? Need help? Let me know by posting a message below. I will reply to each comment personally.
I know my wife is cheating with someone at work. I haven’t caught her yet, I think she’s too smart for that. She doesn’t work overtime or take trips out of town. But she constantly on facebook. She doesn’t share her phone with me like she used to, and when I ask her to see her phone she gets mad. If I walk by it she puts it on home screen. When I talk to her on her break I hear noises in the background and changes in her breathing. She doesn’t let me do the laundry. And when she finishes it she quickly puts her underwhere up when we used to do it together. I don’t know what to do. Her and her co worker has the same ours days and shift.
I’m sorry to hear that. How many of these signs she is cheating at work is she showing?
If she works at a place thats open to the public, start going in to visit her. See how she responds. Is she super nice to you? Does she tell you shes to busy right now ? Does she get angry, and short tempered, nerves. If its a place where you can’t go in. Barrow a friends car then around her lunch time sit in a area so you can see if she leaves for lunch, and who goes with her. Follow her if you have to. Then when she gets home ask her about her day. See how she responds. Then if you want to see her start to sweat. Tell her you saw someone that she works, but can’t remember her name. Then say she asked me a strange question. Wait for G/F to ask what was the question. Then tell her she asked me if we were still together. I said yes why? Keep an eye on your G/F. She will want to know who this girl is at that point. Well she told me that she has seen you, and co-worker spending alot of time together. Like you two are a couple. This should have all kinds of effects going through her at that moment. How she reacts will give you some answers. I did this to an ex of mine. I had a gut feeling about her ,and this guy. When I asked about him she tells me she don’t like him for varous reasons. Almost too many reasons why. I told her someone told me . She was obcessed with finding out who it ws that told me about her , and this guy. No one told me . She just did Always be ready for a sh..t storm to follow.
We moved to another city & my wife got a new job. Small Co. & HR lady, obviously gay, asked her questions about her marriage. How long married, did we have a good sexual relationship, did she have sex before marriage?, was she a virgin when we met etc. My wife needed the job so answered the Q’s but was getting aroused by them & the HR lady knew it! Then she asked what would you do if someone at work came on to you? She said I’d tell him no, I’m married! She said but what if the person persisted? Well I would try to get away from him. She then asked but what if that person overpowered you, would you fight or submit? My wife then said I would submit because I would not want to get hurt. Would you come to me to report it? She said yes and she said good, do that!
My wife then went to the interview with her new boss to be and of course he immediately started touching her boobs rubbing her neck & she understood that if she let him have her she would get the job otherwise no. So she let him have her & it was very good. He told her to report it to HR.
She was wet, just had an orgasm & went to the woman in H/r & she came around to her & said he fucked you good didn’t he! She realized this lesbian was about to take her too. She submitted and it was great! Now my wife has the best job one could ever have. Good pay, a nice place to work & sex every day.
I have a gut feeling my wife is lying and suspicion on cheating with someone at work. But no signs showed. So one night, she fell asleep and her phone was on standby mode. I went through her messages and spot several girlfriends texting her about the board of directors for her company has been staring at her on sevdral occasion. They think he likes hdr. My wife even replies agreeing to their statement. Several group pictures shows him posing behind her. When i confronted her, she goes crazy and says its nothing and i just like him as in a crush and this thing about him liking her is their office inside jokes. And he has no clue about it. She apologised and fast forward. After that confrontation, we have been actively having sex and she even suggest me to enter her forbjdden cave. Is that her being guilty? And i finally saw him. In person at the airport sending their pioneer staff after long service. Me and him were staring at each other when we’re not looking. Since my wife said he has no clue about the jokes, why were we in a staredown??
She’s probably not cheating on you (yet), but I can’t fault you for wanting to be protective. There are ways to prevent this but I can’t give you the entire plan here. Figure out a way to get in touch with me.