“What Should I Do If My Girlfriend Cheated On Me?”
Did your girlfriend just cheat on you?
Was she a woman you really loved, but now she’s betrayed your trust?
Do you now feel angry and frustrated, and you want to get over her… but you just can’t?
Well, guess what? You’re not alone.
I meet lots of good, upstanding men who get cheated on by their girlfriends and wives.
It’s not fair, for sure. In fact, it’s downright sickening. But it happens. And it’s exactly what happened to Sean, who got cheated on by his girlfriend of three years, Robyn.
Sean found out too late that Robyn had been seeing – and sleeping with – an old ex-boyfriend of hers.
“Three fucking years, Derek. It really hurts,” Sean told me.
“I know I should just forget her cheating ass and get over it. But I just can’t. Three years, man. She was my everything. What should I do?”
“At least, teach me how to get over a cheating girlfriend. I’m really suffering here. Help me.”
What I told Sean that day was the exact same thing I told hundreds of other betrayed men before him…
…and it’s what you’ll be reading about in this Shogun Method definitive guide to getting over a cheating girlfriend.
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Table of Contents
- “What Should I Do If My Girlfriend Cheated On Me?”
- Why She Cheats On You
- Why You Must Give Her The Emotional Drama She Needs
- How To Get Over A Cheating Girlfriend
- How Sean Got Robyn Back
- Bulletproof Your Girlfriend From Cheating: Use Fractionation!
Why She Cheats On You
Let’s get straight to the point:
Why does your girlfriend cheat on you?
To answer that question, let’s take a step back and ponder over this instead:
Why do people cheat?
It turns out that the motivation for cheating is different between men and women.
When men cheat, 90% of the time, it’s for physical reasons.
Their physical needs are not being met in their relationship. It might be sex, or physical intimacy, or sexual fun, whatever.
Imagine being married to a woman who will NOT put out for you. How would you feel?
You’ll feel like getting pussy elsewhere, that’s what. It’s just biology.
Meanwhile, guess what? When women cheat, it’s a totally different story.
90% of the time, it’s an EMOTIONAL thing. Their EMOTIONAL needs are not being met.
Women’s Needs Are More Emotional Than Physical
This is where most guys stop me and say:
“You mean my girlfriend cheated on me because I wasn’t meeting her emotional needs? Derek! I made her happy! I gave her everything she wanted and needed! What more could she want?”
Let me break it to you gently…
When it comes to making your girlfriend feel emotionally fulfilled…
…it’s a MISTAKE to think you just need to make her happy.
That’s the mistake most good guys make.
They don’t realize that she also needs NEGATIVE emotions.
A bit of pain here…
A bit of frustration there…
A dose of drama daily…
…which then balanced off with the right amount of positive emotions.
Rinse and repeat.
Women’s Addiction To Emotional Rollercoasters
In other words, women need what’s called the EMOTIONAL ROLLERCOASTER.
And it’s what all women live for. They want it. They need it. They can’t live without it.
Here’s the kicker…
If they can’t find emotional drama in their relationship, they’ll either create it… or look for it elsewhere.
Make no mistake…
The natural need for emotional rollercoasters is hard-coded in the female psyche. They are born with it. They can’t fight it. They are powerless against it.
And it’s the reason why women are addicted to:
- Soap operas
- TV dramas
- Erotic or fantasy novels
- Most other girly things
And guess what? 90% of the time, it’s the reason why women cheat in their relationships.
Why You Must Give Her The Emotional Drama She Needs
Here’s the key to understanding relationships…
Picture this scenario in your mind for a moment…
Imagine if she HADN’T cheated on you yet.
Imagine if you were still in a relationship together. You’re still in love with each other… but you feel she’s slipping away for some reason.
And imagine you KNEW she was slipping away because her emotional needs weren’t being met. (Maybe you’ve noticed that she has become emotionally unavailable over time.)
What should you do?
This is what I teach every man whose woman is in danger of leaving him:
You must learn how to put her on emotional rollercoasters.
Without question, it’s the number one skill that you must have as a boyfriend or husband.
Of course, that doesn’t mean you should hurt her or fight her on purpose. That’s just stupid, right?
This is how you should do it instead:
Use Mind Control.
Don’t let that rather technical-sounding name bother you.
Fractionation is simply “storytelling”.
With this Mind Control tactic, you’ll be telling her stories that will do one thing…
…to put her on an emotional rollercoaster.
I’ll show you how to do that in a minute, so keep reading. For now, understand this –
Fractionation is everywhere around us.
The mass media use Fractionation ruthlessly to build a rabid audience (especially with women.)
You now know why TV shows and romance novels are so popular with women. They are laced with Fractionation, designed to put women on emotional rollercoasters.
Women simply can’t resist Fractionation because it’s hard-cored in the female psychology.
And once a woman is on an emotional rollercoaster…
- She stops making conscious decisions, and starts following her heart
- She stops trying to logically make sense of what’s going on around her
- She just goes along for the ride, throwing caution out of the window
You might have experienced the same kind of emotional rollercoaster yourself. It’s when you:
- Follow an addicting TV show like Game of Thrones
- Play a video game you just can’t stop playing
- Read a book you just can’t put down
- Supported and promoted a political figure whose policies resonated with you
Notice the effect the emotional rollercoaster had on you?
It’s addicting. Bewitching, even.
And you followed that TV show, video game, book, or political figure wherever it took you. Right?
Now imagine this:
What if your girlfriend got the exact same kind of emotional rollercoaster from YOU?
This is what happens:
- She’ll be addicted to you
- She’ll be bewitched by you
- She’ll follow you wherever you took her
- She’ll obey whatever you told her
- She’ll never leave you for another guy
You know what? This is the reason why some women who are stuck with jerk boyfriends seem perfectly happy.
It’s not because they’re stupid. It’s because they’re getting their regular dose of emotional rollercoasters.
What if your girlfriend got her dose of emotional rollercoasters from you? She would NEVER have left. Believe me.
Speaking of your girlfriend, let’s snap back to reality now.
Your girlfriend cheated on you.
You’re frustrated as HELL.
You want to get over her.
But since you love her so much, you just can’t do it.
What should you do then? How can you save the relationship when it’s hurting so much?
How To Get Over A Cheating Girlfriend
When a girlfriend cheats on you, a real man will only react in one of two ways:
- He gets over her and moves on with his life; or
- He wins her back and KEEPS her for the rest of his life.
There’s no in-between. There’s no space for “I want to get over her, but I still love her.”
That’s weak shit.
So, your thought process should go this way:
Can you get over her?
- If the answer is “yes,” then get over her already.
- If the answer is “no,” then that means you still love her.
And if you still love her, then you must do two things:
- You got to win her back, and
- You got to make her “cheat proof” from now on.
And Fractionation will help you do both, just as it helped Sean do both to Robyn.
How Sean Got Robyn Back
After learning Fractionation from me, Sean used it on Robyn in the weeks after their breakup.
With the technique, he put her on an emotional rollercoaster she couldn’t control. And here was how he did it:
Starting From The “Friend Zone”
First, he knew that Robyn expected him to be angry and hateful. After all, she was the one who cheated on him.
So he surprised her by meeting up with her and treating her like she was an old friend. (Or, he had effectively put himself in the “Friend Zone”.)
He was genuinely happy to see her, and he made no mention of her cheating episode.
And then, while Robyn was under Fractionation’s spell (and therefore open to suggestion) …
…Sean sneakily planted doubt about her new boyfriend.
“A few friends of a friend told me they knew your new boyfriend,” he told her. “They said he was a bit of a douche. Is that true?”
And because Sean was seen as a “friend”, Robyn didn’t suspect a thing.
More Emotional Rollercoasters
Over the next few weeks, Sean and Robyn met a few more times. Each time, Sean put Robyn on an emotional rollercoaster and sowed more doubt on her new boyfriend.
And sure enough, Robyn started complaining to Sean about her new boyfriend.
In fact, every time they met, she had something to complain about.
Until finally, she begged to meet up with Sean to complain about the next dumb thing her new boyfriend did.
That’s when Sean finished him off. “Well, don’t be stupid any longer, woman,” he told her. “Dump his ass already.”
And that’s exactly what she did.
After that, she apologized to Sean for cheating on him, and begged to get back together with him.
Close The Deal With Fractionation
You know what? Even then, Sean wasn’t done. He had some Fractionation magic left to do.
He didn’t say “yes” right away. Instead, he set some conditions for the new relationship, including…
- He would not tolerate any more disrespect from her
- She was to respect his authority in the relationship or else
- Another whiff of infidelity and she can kiss him goodbye for good
…to which Robyn readily (and happily) agreed.
Today, Sean is back in a relationship with Robyn again, and they both can’t be happier.
Bulletproof Your Girlfriend From Cheating: Use Fractionation!
Answer me this:
Do you want the same happy ending for yourself?
You now know how to bring it about.
Bottom line: you MUST give her the emotional fulfillment she needs.
By putting her on emotional rollercoasters.
And you can only do that by mastering Fractionation.
And guess what? You can learn Fractionation RIGHT NOW. Yes, NOW.
I’ll teach you how to get any woman to Fractionate easily and quickly – once you have joined my Online Masterclass on Mind Control:
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So, let’s recap…
When your girlfriend cheats on you, it’s because you didn’t meet her emotional needs.
You then have two choices:
- Option #1: You can get over her and move on, or…
- Option #2: You can get her back and KEEP her.
There’s no in-between.
So, which one is it?
If it’s Option #1 for you… then, good luck.
But you’ve got the motivation to go for Option #2… then you know what to do! Master Fractionation now.
I’ll see you in the Masterclass next,
P.S: Questions? Comments? A story to share? Let me know in the comments section below.