Clean Slate Relationships: How To Start Things Over
Want to learn how to start a relationship over?
Ever wondered how you can “reboot” a relationship and start with a clean slate?
You might have many reasons to want to do that… for example:
- You cheated on your woman, and she no longer trusts you, but you still love her, or…
- She cheated on you, and you’re deeply hurt, but you still want your relationship to work, or…
- You feel one or both of you are falling out of love with each other
Or, any other situation that makes you wish you could start over.
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Table of Contents
- Clean Slate Relationships: How To Start Things Over
- First Things First…
- How To Start A Relationship Over (The WRONG Way)
- Starting Over In A New Relationship – What Works
- Rebooting Your Relationship: Four Stages Of Love
- How To Start Over In A Relationship Or Marriage: Enslave Her!
- Take The Next Step Forward
First Things First…
Whatever your reason for wanting to start your relationship over, let me say this:
Don’t feel ashamed.
It’s entirely normal and natural to want a second chance, a fresh start, a clean slate.
So it’s absolutely nothing to be ashamed of.
However, I’ll say this, too:
While it’s not your fault, it is now your responsibility to fix your relationship problems.
After all, the relationship won’t restart itself automatically, right?
And you can’t count on your woman to start the relationship over for you.
So, it’s on you. Entirely!
And since you’re reading this article, then you’re pretty much on the right track. Congrats.
In this guide, I’ll teach you what I teach all my Shogun Method clients who want to start their relationships over “with a clean slate”.
You’re about to learn how to make your relationship better than ever before…
…no matter what might have happened in the past.
You’ll learn how to understand women on a deeper level, and use that deep understanding to rebuild a relationship from scratch.
Sounds good?
Great. Let’s dig in!
How To Start A Relationship Over (The WRONG Way)
Let’s start with what you should NEVER do…
First of all, do NOT follow what I call “Oprah advice” on fixing a relationship.
“Oprah advice” includes:
- Being 100% honest with your woman…
- Focusing completely on making her happy (often at your own expense)…
- Being truly sorry if you’re at fault (and maybe even if you’re not)…
…and other such bullshit.
This kind of “common sense” advice may be good for making Oprah’s audiences and viewers clap their hands…
…but in real life? 100% WORTHLESS.
Know this –
Common, cookie-cutter “dating advice” doesn’t work. If it did, then why do HALF of all marriages STILL end in divorce? Right?
So, don’t waste your time. You’ll need a different approach – one that DOES work.
Starting Over In A New Relationship – What Works
So, what DOES work?
Answer:
Mind Control.
Hypnosis.
No, not the hokey kind you see on TV and in Hollywood movies.
Stage hypnosis? The kind which goes: “You’ll fall asleep in 5,4,3,2,1…”? No, not that also.
I’m talking about the same kind of techniques that hypnotherapists use today.
It’s the kind of scientific hypnosis that:
- Cures depression
- Breaks lifelong bad habits
- Erases addictions of any kind
- Cures anxiety and phobias
- Helps patients overcome emotional trauma
- And so much more
And yes – it can, and will, start your relationship over, too.
You’re about to use hypnosis to craft a better, stronger, happier relationship. And it’ll be with the same woman you still love today.
In short, you’ll learn how to hypnotize her into falling in love with you… again.
Rebooting Your Relationship: Four Stages Of Love
Understand this:
When you want to start a relationship over, you’ll need to restart the entire process of falling in love.
That means starting from scratch. It’s necessary if you want to wipe the slate clean.
It’s easier to understand when you know the four stages every happy relationship goes through…
Four Stages Of Love
Those four stages of love are:
- The Intrigue Stage, where you first meet and get interested in each other
- The Rapport Stage, where you get to know each other better
- The Attraction Stage, where you fall in love with each other
- The Enslavement Stage, where she becomes emotionally addicted to you for life
Inside Shogun Method, this is known as the IRAE Model. (IRAE stands for Intrigue – Rapport – Attraction – Enslavement.)
It’s the “ladder of love” that frames the Shogun Method and all its strategies. It’s the definitive roadmap on how to make a girl fall in love with you from scratch.
Here’s how you start your relationship over:
First, you break up with your woman.
This is a crucial step. You’ll need to spend time away from each other.
Why? Because it gives her a chance to miss you and feel curious about you again.
Without it, the rest of the process won’t work.
Now, if your relationship isn’t too messed up, you can just agree with your woman to “cool off.”
Some Shogun Method clients have told me that they didn’t have to break up with their women. They just needed to take a time-out of at least a few weeks.
Whichever works. But you MUST spend time away from each other. That’s key. If you want to know the best way to fix a relationship, then this is the super important step that you must take.
Once you do that, you can then take your relationship through the “ladder of love” one more time.
#1: Enter The Intrigue Stage
After a few weeks of no contact, she’ll miss you enough to contact you.
When she does (or when you contact her first and she replies amiably), agree to meet up.
This is your “First Date 2.0,” where you ignite the “spark” again.
Whatever you do, don’t mention your previous relationship here.
The breakup was likely painful for her. So, seeing you again will have an addicting effect on her – like getting her fix after weeks of not having it.
Once she’s happy to be spending time with you again, you’re ready for Step #2.
#2: Set the Stage With Rapport
Here, you’ll want to make her feel some pain, some pleasure, more pain, and more pleasure.
Basically, you’ll put her on an ever-intensifying emotional rollercoaster.
Here are some ways of making her feel pain:
- Expressing how you’re “doing just fine” without her (inadequacy)
- Hinting that you’ve been seeing other women lately (jealousy)
- Touching on memories where she hurt you in the past (guilt)
And here are some ways of making her feel pleasure:
- Telling her you miss spending time with her (comfort)
- Reliving the fun and naughty times you shared with each other (nostalgia)
- Hinting what you’d do differently if you ended up together again (eager anticipation)
Remember: You MUST make her feel pain. (i.e. not just pleasure.)
Otherwise, she won’t be interested enough to move on to Step #3 with you.
However, if you do it right, she’ll show signs that she wants to get back together again.
When that happens, you’re ready for the next step – to get her into the “Attraction” stage in the IRAE Model.
#3: Trigger Attraction
This part is straightforward – you get back together again.
It’s best if you don’t talk about it. The best scenario is when you get romantic, you kiss her, and then you swiftly seduce her.
When you wake up, you’re back together again.
But you know what? You’re not done yet.
There’s still Step #4…
#4: Enslave Her
This is the Stage you didn’t pass the first time around.
If you did manage to Enslave her the first time, then you wouldn’t have needed to restart the relationship. It’s true.
And here’s why…
When a woman is Enslaved to you, it won’t matter what you or she does in the relationship. She’ll love you and respect you FOREVER.
That’s because Enslavement makes her emotionally addicted to you for life. (She’ll need you to survive like she needs water to drink and air to breathe.)
Without Enslavement, your relationship will forever be vulnerable to fights, breakups, infidelity and all that shit.
But WITH Enslavement, your relationship will be UNBREAKABLE.
How To Start Over In A Relationship Or Marriage: Enslave Her!
So, how do you Enslave your woman then?
Answer: by using Fractionation on her for the rest of your lives together.
Fractio-what?
Fractionation. It’s the hypnosis technique you’ve been using right from Step #1 above (Intrigue stage in the IRAE Model.)
Let me explain…
What Fractionation Is and How It Works
Fractionation is a hypnosis technique that puts your woman on an emotional rollercoaster.
Did you notice it in the four steps above?
- When you break up with her, you make her experience pain
- When you meet up again after a few weeks, she feels relief from the pain
- Throughout the Rapport stage, you make her feel pain, pleasure, and more pain
- In the Attraction stage, you give her a HUGE shot of pleasure
- In the Enslavement stage, you continue giving her emotional rollercoasters (pain and pleasure repeatedly)
Did you see all that?
Now here’s where the power of Fractionation lies…
Women are POWERLESS against emotional rollercoasters.
Emotional rollercoasters make women:
- Lower their logical defenses. (They stop thinking about WHY they shouldn’t do something, like getting back with you)
- Start acting on emotions but in a good way. (She’ll get an overwhelming need to be with you again)
- See you as a strong, dominant, “I’m in charge” man (someone she’d love to spend the rest of her life with)
- Transform completely into a submissive girlfriend or wife
- Stop being negative about everything and adopt a more cheery outlook in life
In short, she’ll like you more, trust you more, love you more, and respect you more. She’ll be a happier person, too.
Sounds great, right?
Take The Next Step Forward
I know…
All this information might feel a little overwhelming to you right now…
…and you know what? That’s perfectly understandable.
After all, this is new knowledge to you, and they don’t exactly teach Fractionation in school.
However, you can rest on the fact that 17,000+ of Shogun Method clients (so far) have used it to:
- Start their relationships over
- Fix their relationships
- Save their marriages
- Get their ex-girlfriends and ex-wives back
- Make their women treat them more respectfully for life
- Make long-distance relationships work
- Solve infidelity problems
- And much, much more.
So, now, it’s your turn.
Want to start your relationship over?
You can take action RIGHT NOW if you want to. And you definitely SHOULD. Because there’s absolutely no time to waste, right?
To start, learn Fractionation. It’s the key to everything.
Well, guess what? You can learn and master the art of Fractionation TODAY.
How?
By joining my Online Masterclass which is playing right now. Visit the link below to sign up:
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Once you’ve clicked the link, a signup page will come up. There, enter your best email address. If you qualify, I’ll email you your very own Invite Ticket to the Masterclass.
Remember…
It doesn’t matter what your reason is for wanting to start over with your woman.
But it WILL matter how you do it.
You now know the many wrong ways – and the one RIGHT way – to do it.
Do it wrong, and you’ll lose your woman and your relationship FOREVER.
But do it right?
You’ll get a woman who doesn’t just see you as her boyfriend or husband.
She’ll see you as the only man she could ever want to spend the rest of her life with.
So, don’t do it wrong – do it right! Click here now.
I’ll see you in the Masterclass,
PS: Need help? Got questions? Ask below!
Can i do the same if she broke up with me?