Is Your Ex-Girlfriend Over You?
Want to know about the signs that your ex-girlfriend has moved on? Well, first tell me if this sounds familiar:
I have a friend – let’s call him Dave. Every time I see Dave, he bitches and moans about some girl who dumped him years ago.
Me and Dave would crack a beer and he’d start talking about his ex, Dana.
(Dana dumped him rather unceremoniously… by text message.)
According to him:
“Within three weeks she was posting pictures of herself on Facebook with her new boyfriend. Biatch.”
To this day he’s never gotten over it.
(I’m not surprised… shit like that will fucking scar you for life.)
There he was, planning his future, thinking about the wedding, house and baby…
…when suddenly she tosses him out of her life like he’s yesterday’s news.
This type of breakup can mess you up forever!
And if you’ve been dumped like this you’ll know what I’m talking about.
Well, let’s fix that today.
This comprehensive guide will cover everything you need to know about your problem and how to solve it (using killer Shogun Method techniques.)
You’ll be learning:
- The main reason WHY you feel so miserable and messed up
- The signs your ex-girlfriend is never coming back
- The stupid mistake that most men make (and you must avoid doing at all costs)
- How to get her back even if she’s already “moved on”
- How to tell if she misses you and/or actually still cares about you
- And more
Just a fair warning: This guide can be quite long. And you might get overwhelmed by all the eye-opening information.
That’s why I prepared a handy “cheat sheet” for you. It summarizes everything you’re about to learn in this Guide into easy-to-use “action checklists.” No matter what you plan to do about your ex-girlfriend, you’ll have all your answers in a handy PDF.
Plus, this “cheat sheet” also contains a Bonus Technique called the “DJF Protocol.” It’s a sneaky technique that makes your ex-girlfriend actually want you back – even if she’s already “moved on.” It’s the best way to “restart” your relationship and make it happier, stronger, and better than ever before.
If that sounds controversial, you’re right. That’s why I’m not covering it in this guide. I “protected” it by hiding it in the PDF. So check it out by downloading your free copy below:
Great. Now let’s get started by getting to the root of the problem.
Table of Contents
- 1 Is Your Ex-Girlfriend Over You?
- 2 Five Stages Of Breakup Grief
- 3 When You Just Can’t Move On
- 4 Eight (8) Signs Your Ex-Girlfriend Doesn’t Want You Back
- 5 Warning: Don’t Make This Stupid Mistake
- 6 How To Get Her Back: Even If She Has “Moved On”
- 7 How To Make Her Crawl Back To You (With Mind Control)
- 8 Frequently Asked Questions
Five Stages Of Breakup Grief
After a bad breakup every guy goes through five stages. (Kind of like the five stages of grief.)
Here they are…
- The first is Denial, “What’s happening? Is she really dumping me?”
- Then comes Disbelief, “What the heck. I can’t believe she’s doing this!”
- After that is Bargaining, “Hold on, don’t leave, I love you!”
- Then Depression, “I feel like shit how am I going to live without her?”
- Finally you come to Acceptance, “She’s really gone…”
This is the part where you realize she’s moved on with her life.
That she’s not in love with you anymore…
…and doesn’t want you anymore.
But for some reason a lot of guys CAN’T do this.
I know how you feel…
You’re still in love with her…
Desperately want to get back together…
And refuse to accept she’s moved on…
But don’t feel bad. It’s not your fault.
If you could STOP thinking about her you would, right?
But no matter what, pictures of her run through your mind ALL THE TIME.
EVERYTHING reminds you of her…
…and all you can think about is how to make your ex want you back.
But nothing works, it’s like talking to a wall.
And you know what? This needy desperation is making you even more unattractive.
When You Just Can’t Move On
Most guys would get the message and move on… but you just can’t.
Instead you find yourself becoming more and more obsessed (to the point where it makes you feel ill. Yes, physically ill.)
Even worse, you’re becoming that guy who checks his ex’s Facebook dozens of times a day…
…and Googles her name over and over again.
(Slowly, you’re turning into a creepy online stalker.)
You know you shouldn’t do it… but you just can’t help yourself.
And every time you visit her profile you see pictures that make you sick to your stomach.
But there’s a good reason why you’re acting this way.
You have to know if she’s moved on or not…
Is my ex-girlfriend over me?
Is she gone for good?
Does she still have feelings for me?
Maybe we can get back together?
So, how do you know if your ex-girlfriend has moved on?
Eight (8) Signs Your Ex-Girlfriend Doesn’t Want You Back
Here you go… the definitive list of eight (8) signs that your ex-girlfriend has moved on. Let’s go!
Signs Your Ex Is Never Coming Back
- She has a new boyfriend. (This is a pretty obvious sign!)
- She doesn’t return your calls or messages.
- She’s changed her style and looks completely different to the way she used to.
- You see her out somewhere and she “blanks” you. OUCH!
- She starts doing things she never wanted to do with you.
- She makes no effort to hang out with you or do things together. (So much for, “We’ll still be friends.”)
- She doesn’t care about the important events in your life. She still remembers your birthday obviously, but she doesn’t send you a wish.
- She unfriends or blocks you on FB and other social media or messaging apps.
BTW: here’s another way to find out if your girlfriend has moved on:
Ask a mutual friend if she thinks your ex still has feelings for you.
(Watch out though, you might not like what she has got to say!)
QUICK NOTE: Let’s face it. If you want your ex-girlfriend to come back to you eventually, then she must miss you. That’s the key, and that’s where most men fail to get their exes back. My advice? Make her miss you by using the “DJF Protocol,” which you can learn in the “cheat sheet” PDF I prepared for you. If you don’t have it yet, get it here now.
Warning: Don’t Make This Stupid Mistake
When a guy realizes his girl is gone for good he goes on “full tilt.”
In his desperation he stops thinking clearly…
…and becomes willing to believe in anything.
Yes, anything that gives him a slight glimmer of hope.
And like 1,000’s of other lost and misguided guys he stumbles across those dorky “Pick Up Artist” (PUA) sites.
Listen up because this is important.
Do yourself a favor and avoid wasting your money on those phony gimmicks.
Trust me – you’ll only embarrass yourself and wind up feeling like a loser.
Besides, PUA tricks are useless as fuck.
(Do you really want to go out to nightclubs alone and do 1,000 approaches? Probably not, right?)
And when all’s said and done, here’s what you need to realize.
You CAN make your girlfriend fall back in love with you…
…and it doesn’t take cookie cutter “Get Your Ex Back” tricks.
(That stuff is for kids, you know, like the male version of what you’d read in Cosmopolitan, i.e. “10 Ways To Get Your Ex Back” crap.)
Or impotent “Pickup Artist” routines.
Or becoming a supplicating door mat.
Nope, there’s a far easier way. And you’re going to learn this next.
How To Get Her Back: Even If She Has “Moved On”
The method I am about to show you –
It’s only for guys who have the balls to do what it takes.
(Same goes for everything related to Shogun Method. It’s for the bold and brave.)
You see, you have to be willing to do anything to get her back.
Because what it takes is giving up on “conventional” cookie cutter tricks.
Instead, you will be using hardcore Mind Control techniques.
(If you’ve heard of something called the October Man Sequence, then what you’re going to learn will be somewhat similar to that.)
But before we continue I want to warn you.
This isn’t for everyone.
(A lot of guys get squeamish the moment they hear the phrase “Mind Control.” Pussies.)
Words and phrases like “manipulation” and “Mind Control” may sound a little more sinister than they are.
In fact, what I’m about to show you is just a set of super advanced influence skills.
And people who are naturally persuasive use these techniques all the time.
I mean, have you ever wondered how some guys are able to make friends without even trying…
…and are liked by everyone wherever they go?
How do they become dominant with women, and stay that way?
And you know what? While this “Mind Control” stuff may sound complex, it’s a lot simpler than you think.
All you need is this easy-to-use thought manipulation technique I am going to show you next.
Enslavement, not seduction!
How To Make Her Crawl Back To You (With Mind Control)
With this technique, you can re-create a deep emotional connection with your ex-girlfriend in just minutes…
…and BRUTE-FORCE her to fall in love with you all over again.
And if you’re “playing for keeps” then this method can also be used to ENSLAVE her to you emotionally.
This technique is a Shogun Method concept called Fractionation, and while I could explain it here, I’d need another 3,000 words.
(Plus, my hand is already starting to cramp.)
So, to make it easier for those who are new to the Shogun Method world, I’ve recorded a special Online Masterclass.
This Masterclass gives an in-depth explanation of how Fractionation (and a slew of other Mind Control techniques) work.
(To request an invite, click here.)
In the Masterclass, you’ll learn why Mind Control is so effective on women…
And how to use “forbidden” Mind Control techniques to make your ex fall hopelessly back in love with you.
In fact, she’ll beg you to be her boyfriend again.
So, you think your girlfriend has moved on? Listen to me and don’t give up hope yet.
It’s not too late because you’re reading this guide. (And yes, it works even if she’s gone with another guy.)
With Fractionation you can rekindle the fires of love.
And in case you’re wondering… this isn’t some creepy re-purposed Pickup Artist technique. Far from it!
When you are using this technique, it will seem as if you’re having a regular conversation. It will sound completely harmless and entirely natural.
(Except that in about 15 minutes she will be looking at you with brand new eyes. You will be amazed at how fast it will work its magic for you. Trust me on this.)
I’ve taught this technique to 1,000’s of guys over the years, and have an almost 100% run rate. So there’s every reason that it will work for you also.
So, here’s the deal…
You’re serious about getting your girlfriend back, right?
And you’ll do whatever it takes to make her come back to you, correct?
If yes, then request an invite for my Online Masterclass by clicking this link below:
Do it. Click the link and follow the instructions.
Shogun Method: Enslavement, Not Seduction!
Frequently Asked Questions
What Are The Signs Your Ex-Girlfriend Isn’t Over You?
I’ve received a question from a DerekRake.com reader:
“These are the signs that your ex-girlfriend has moved on. What if she has got feelings for you still? What would those signs be?”
Well, the answer’s pretty simple – the signs would be directly opposite of what I’ve shared above –
Signs Your Ex-Girlfriend Isn’t Over You
- She doesn’t have a new guy in her life yet.
- She returns your calls or messages promptly.
- She still sports the same look.
- You see her out somewhere and she is delighted to see you.
- She still does what she used to do with you… but on her own.
- If she used to play mind games on you, she has stopped doing that.
“If She Blocks You, She Loves You.” Is That True?
That’s complete baloney, and here’s why…
If she still loves you, she will leave a way “out” for you – and completely blocking you wouldn’t make sense for her.
“If she had never dumped you, she had never loved you.” Again, this is false.
If you are currently blocked, then fret not – it might not last long. Check back again – and when she unblocks you, then you’ll get to use Fractionation (and Shogun Method) on her.
“Does My Ex Miss Me After Dumping Me? What Are The Signs?”
Earlier we discussed the eight signs she’s not over you yet. These are signs that she hasn’t gotten over being single again, away from you. It doesn’t necessarily mean she misses you.
And that’s important, because she’ll only consider getting back together if she misses YOU, too.
Here are the most obvious signs she misses you:
- She makes an effort to hang out with you or do things together.
- She cares about the important events in your life. She still remembers your birthday, and she’s the first to wish you at 12.01am.
- She bugs you on FB and other social media or messaging apps.
- She constantly reaches out to you to talk, even if only via private message or text
- She outright tells you she misses you. Or if not, she’ll reminisce about the fun times you spent
“My Ex-Girlfriend Has A New Boyfriend. Can I Still Get Her Back?”
Yes, but you don’t want to “convince” or “force” her back to you. That’s just a sign of weakness, and even if she did come back to you, she’ll just leave you for another guy later on. Not worth it, right?
So instead, you’ll want her to come back to you of her own accord. You’ll want the “getting back together” to be her idea, not yours. That’s the only way she can come back and stay.
So how exactly do you do that? The answer is in the “Signs Your Ex-Girlfriend Has Moved On” Action Checklist. Check out the Bonus Technique section of the Guide, where you’ll learn how to use the “DJF Protocol” to make her want to come back to you… even if she’s already found someone new.
“How To Tell If Your Ex Still Cares About You?”
When your ex-girlfriend still stays in touch with you even after breaking up with you, it usually means one of three things:
- Either she likes you enough to still want to be friends…
- …or she doesn’t miss you, but she misses how it feels to be someone’s girlfriend…
- …or she misses you and wants you back, but she doesn’t want to look like she made a mistake by breaking up with you.
To get a good idea of where she stands, take note of what she talks to you about:
- If she talks about fun things like concerts, movies, TV shows, gossip, etc… or if she asks for advice about other men… then she just wants to be friends.
- If she’s reminiscing about the fun times you spent, then she misses how it feels to be someone’s girlfriend.
- If she’s hinting about getting back together – as though she wants YOU to make the move, to save herself the trouble and embarrassment – then she wants you back.
So find out what she’s really up to, and act accordingly.
Do you have any other questions? If you do, submit them below and I will answer them personally.
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