Dating A Dominant Woman? Here’s How To TAME Her Into A Chihuahua
Listen up now:
Very few men realize how important DOMINANCE is to a woman.
But believe me, because this is true:
Unless you’re the “Shot Caller” in her life…
…you’re going to get dumped. (It’s just a matter of time.)
Make no mistake:
Dating a dominant woman is one of the trickiest things you can ever do.
This Shogun Method guide will help you navigate these murky waters, and more.
How To Know If A Woman Is Dominant
Unfortunately with some women it’s pretty much impossible to win with them.
No matter how hard you try to dominate her it just doesn’t work.
In fact, the harder you push…
…the harder she pushes back.
(You know what I’m talking about, those “strong, independent women”… they are quite a handful to handle.)
Let’s say you’re dating one of these women…
… and it’s driving you up the wall.
You can’t figure out how she thinks when it comes to love and relationships…
(Or how you can gain control over her.)
And you want to know how to treat a dominant woman and make her less dominant.
Well, here’s an example of how I did this in my own life:
Many moons ago I met this girl called Sandra.
And let me tell you…
There are signs a woman is dominant and she showed every one of them:
Five Signs A Woman Is Dominant
- From our first date she tried to control me.
- She was always right, no exceptions.
- She always knew more than me about everything.
- My ideas and suggestions sucked (according to her.) For me to get a brilliant thought was impossible in her mind.
- She had to get her way every single time.
And as our relationship progressed it got worse.
Eventually I felt like her pet Chihuahua.
Looking back, I realize this was because I was WEAK.
Instead of trying to get the upper hand I let her walk all over me.
Things came to a head one night when I took her out for dinner…
There was a wait at the restaurant and so we sat at the bar.
Suddenly she saw these two guys she knew from college.
They came over to us and guess what happened?
She starts talking and laughing with them…
…while not even bothering to introduce me.
She Was Dominant Because I Was Weak
Later on I realized this was because Sandra was what you’d call a “High Maintenance Woman”.
What I mean is this:
Her dominance wasn’t because she was a “strong, independent woman.”
Nope, it hinged almost entirely upon my WEAKNESS.
And the reason why she treated me like a doormat is because that I WAS ONE.
The problem wasn’t HER… it was ME.
(This was also why our relationship fell apart.)
What A Dominant Woman Wants
By now, this should be obvious:
Women don’t want clingy “Nice Guy” doormats.
They want a strong man who makes them submit.
And the truth is this…
She’s ONLY going to be happy if you DOMINATE her.
But this is also a HUGE warning sign.
As I just said, your girlfriend isn’t dominant.
It only seems this way.
And it seems this way because you’re WEAK.
If this is true, then guess what?
Your relationship is DOOMED.
And you’re on borrowed time. Why? Because you’re eventually going to get dumped… if you don’t act fast.
So what does a dominant woman want then?
How do you take back control?
And get her to dial down the dominating behavior?
How to do it without creating conflict that ends the relationship?
To achieve all this you have to accept is that her mind has flaws.
Guess what? Calling the female mind “flawed” is the understatement of the century.
In fact, the female mind is pretty much BONKERS.
And the key to success is learning to understand and manipulate these flaws.
How To Treat A Dominant Woman
Action Limit & Pain Limit
I’ll give you a good example of how to manipulate a woman in action, so pay attention.
In Shogun Method I talk about something called the “Action Limit” and the “Pain Limit”.
These are concepts related to your attractiveness in her eyes. You can think of them on a scale from 1-10.
The Action Limit is how desirable you need to be for her to say YES.
For example, getting a supermodel’s phone number may have an Action Limit of 10.
(Basically it’s extremely difficult even if you have “game”.)
And Pain Limit refers to the discomfort she feels in relation to her actions with you.
These two Limits are related this way:
Once a woman reaches her Pain Limit, her Action Limit goes down temporarily.
In the supermodel example above, a supermodel may happily give you her digits… if you make it uncomfortable for her to keep it from you.
(Her Pain Limit is reached, and her Action Limit goes down.)
Now here’s why I say the female mind is crazy.
(And how you can use this to your advantage.)
Both men and women are FAR more motivated by pain than by pleasure.
Think about a painful situation in your life you’d do ANYTHING to escape.
And it’s this pain which LEADS to ACTION.
Putting Your Dominant Woman Through Emotional Rollercoasters
So here’s the trick…
YOU can be the CAUSE of someone’s pain…
And at the same time position yourself as the SOLUTION to that pain.
This is the key to making almost any woman fall in love with you…
…and it’s also how you make her less dominant.
It’s as simple as putting her on an emotional rollercoaster of pain and drama…
…and doing it over and over again.
Do this right and you’ll gain total control over her.
She will become compliant with your every need and want…
…and eventually transform into the low maintenance, submissive girlfriend or wife of your dreams.
One Simple Trick To Make Your Woman Less Dominant
Before I reveal the “secret sauce” there’s something you need to know…
Right now you’re dealing with a dominant woman, right?
And sorry as I am to say this… but it means you’re probably a WEAK guy.
Which also means you might think this technique is, “manipulative” or even “abusive.”
But that’s okay.
I’ll admit that it’s manipulative, but hardly abusive. And once you’ve tried it for yourself you’ll understand.
Now the way to put women on an emotional roller coaster is with FRACTIONATION.
Fractionation is a simple Mind Control technique. And it works like magic.
For example, remember earlier when I told you about my date with Sandra?
Here’s how it turned out…
Those guys came over both hugged her.
She’s talking with them and laughing and reminiscing about past times…
…and I’m basically sitting there like a chump.
So I started to get them to fractionate.
And pretty soon I have the group’s undivided attention.
They’re eating out of my hand and hanging on every word.
Before long she’s forgotten completely about the college boys. (Who then left to get their table.)
Without her even noticing!
(Better yet… they both spent the whole night throwing jealous looks at me.)
Fractionation Makes You The Dominant Partner
Bottom line: it’s ALL about dominance.
And Fractionation works to make you the dominant partner in the relationship.
With it you can put her on a rollercoaster of wild emotions.
More importantly, Fractionation allows you to become the psychological authority in her life.
And this lets you further dominate every part of her mind.
Remember, my bedrock philosophy is this…
(And it’s worked very well for me.)
…women WANT to be dominated.
So, if this makes you feel guilty then you need to get over it.
Another thing you should realize is this:
Most women have almost NO self-awareness.
They go through life wondering why they can’t “find a good man.”
And why they always wind up with “losers.”
With Fractionation you can break this pattern…
…and give her what she really wants.
You can become the strong man she’s always craved.
And overnight she’ll transform into your dream girl…
…and become the type of women you’ve always wanted.
The man who dominates his women also enjoys her slavish attention.
You must experience this for yourself to know how true it is.
In my Online Masterclass you’ll learn the ins and outs of Fractionation (and a portfolio of Mind Control tactics.)
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