Alpha Male Personality Traits: What They Are (And How You Can Acquire Them)
Want to become an “alpha male?” Well, who doesn’t, right?
You might have heard somewhere that to be good with the ladies, you’ll need to have alpha personality traits. And that of course, had led you here.
In this guide you’ll learn all four alpha male personality traits…
…and more importantly, how having these alpha male characteristics will help you be better in love and relationships.
Table of Contents
- 1 Alpha Male Personality Traits: What They Are (And How You Can Acquire Them)
- 2 Alpha Males In Relationships: Why They Do Better
- 3 What Society Gets Wrong About Alpha Males
- 4 5 Signs Of A “Fake” Alpha Male
- 5 4 Characteristics Of A REAL Alpha Male
- 6 How To Get the Biggest Alpha Personality Trait: Be An “Enslaver”
Alpha Males In Relationships: Why They Do Better
Let me take a guess here.
You might be a single man, and you want to make women like you more…
…or, you might already have a girlfriend or wife, and you want her to want you, love you and respect you more.
Look. Whatever your situation might be, it’s a GOOD thing you want to develop alpha personality traits.
It means this – you want to become better in life and love. And you know what? That’s admirable of you.
And you WILL be better… if you follow the CORRECT definition of “alpha male.”
The Correct Definition Of “Alpha Male”
Here’s the thing…
There’s the RIGHT definition of “alpha male”… and the WRONG one.
If you follow the RIGHT one, then it will lead to:
- Better interactions with women
- Better dates
- Better relationships
- Better sex
- Better marriages
- Better family
- Better everything
Sounds great, right?
And yet if you follow the WRONG way… then you’re setting yourself up for a LOT of pain.
Most of that pain will be unnecessary, self-inflicted… and just plain stupid.
So, here’s my advice:
Follow the RIGHT definition and avoid the WRONG one at all costs.
This guide will show you both. Don’t get them mixed up!
What Society Gets Wrong About Alpha Males
The Biological Pecking Order
Where does the term “alpha male” come from?
From Mother Nature, of course.
“Alpha male” is a term used in biology. In the hierarchy within a pack of animals:
- The “alpha male” is the leader. He gets the most food and has the most sex.
- The “beta male” is the second-in-command and next-in-line.
- The “gamma male” is a middle rank.
- The “delta male” is a lower rank.
- The “omega male” is the lowest rank of all… the outcast.
Make sense so far?
Here’s the thing you must understand about this “hierarchy”…
Even omega males get their share of food and sex… albeit the smallest share.
Now here’s where things get somewhat weird…
Alpha Males vs Beta Males
In human society, it seems there are only two ranks:
- The “alpha male” is the guy who gets all the ladies, is seen as a “winner,” and is totally cool.
- “Beta males” DON’T get the ladies, are seen as “losers,” and are totally uncool.
Which, of course, is a dumb hierarchy. But most guys seem to follow it.
The results? One fine mess:
- EVERY guy wants to be “alpha”
- However, since there can only be one “alpha” in a group, there’s a lot of posturing and fighting
- This leads to a lot of unnecessary friction between people and within groups
Don’t make that mistake! You want to be a REAL alpha male. And not a FAKE one.
Not only will the ladies love you more, but groups will love you more, too.
Plus, people will see you as a genuinely great guy who gets things done.
But…if you’re a fake one… then people will eventually all hate you. Full stop.
So that leads us to the next question:
Are you a real alpha male? Or a fake one?
Let’s find out next…
5 Signs Of A “Fake” Alpha Male
Check yourself to see if you have any of the following signs:
Sign #1: You Want To Be The Center of Attention
You feel restless when the group isn’t paying attention to you. As a result, you try to dominate the interaction or quietly undermine the authority in the group.
Sign #2: You Consciously Try to Exhibit “Alpha Male Body Language”
You want to be an alpha male, so you try to look the part. You try to dress like one, move like one, and push people around like one.
Sign #3: You Never Back Down From Insults
When someone insults you or disagrees with you, you take it personally. And you don’t stop until you “get your revenge,” whatever that might mean for you.
Sign #4: You Claw After Leadership Positions
You consciously try to get leadership positions, both at work and at play. You can’t stand being a “follower” because it makes you feel weak.
Sign #5: You’re Generally Loud, Rude, Or Aggressive
You’re a guy who throws his weight around, even when it’s not necessary. And it often leads to clashes and conflict within the group.
Here’s the problem: If you have EVEN JUST ONE of the signs above, then you’re probably a “fake” alpha male.
If anything, those are beta male traits which are unattractive and highly unappealing to women.
So, if you have them, you’ll need to break free of that, fast.
And instead, develop the alpha personality traits of a REAL man.
4 Characteristics Of A REAL Alpha Male
A REAL alpha personality is one that:
- Has unshakable confidence
- Commands respect
- Puts his woman under control and dominance
- Is stoic and emotionally unbreakable
- Is socially resourceful
- Has “game” – he deeply understands women and how to handle them
- Is skillfully manipulative, and can’t be manipulated
- Is genuinely likable, but not the stereotypical “nice guy”
- Gets the right results, and fast
And to build an alpha personality means you’ll need to build the following traits…
Trait #1: Narcissism
No, this doesn’t mean you must be egotistical.
Instead, narcissism means you set limits to how much bullshit you’ll take from others. And this is a good thing.
Because let’s face it – you can tolerate a LOT of bullshit, and think you’re “strong.”
In reality, though, it makes you look weak. Other people will see you as a pushover or “yes-man.”
Meanwhile, when you have limits to how much crap you’ll take, nobody can push you around.
When someone crosses the line, you tell them calmly but firmly to stand down.
And if they keep at it, you need to have enough self-love and self-respect to:
- Turn around quietly
- Walk away
- Leave whatever you were discussing on the table, no matter how big of a deal it might have been
- Not interact with the insolent party until they apologize
When people see that kind of strength and integrity in you, they’ll respect you.
You don’t need to be the center of attention, like “fake alpha males” do.
Instead, you can show that you live by YOUR standards – not anyone else’s, and not any group’s.
That’s narcissism. And that’s the first trait you’ll need to develop.
Trait #2: Psychopathy
No, I’m not talking about having zero empathy for other people.
Instead, I’m talking about genuinely NOT GIVING A DAMN what other people think.
If people don’t get in the way of your goals and plans – then you’re friendly with them.
But if they do – then you do whatever it takes to get them out of the way. Even if it means hurting their feelings or ending relationships.
Psychopathy also means being completely immune to insults and personal attacks.
When someone insults you, you don’t fight fire with fire.
Why? Because doing so makes you look weak.
Instead, you take a deep breath, walk away, and refocus on your goals in life.
And speaking of goals – that leads us to Trait #3.
Trait #3: Machiavellian Tendencies
Being “Machiavellian” means having the tendency to be manipulative.
No, this doesn’t mean you “get ahead” in life at other people’s expense.
You don’t tear other people down to put yourself up. That’s “fake alpha” shit.
Instead, you readily manipulate people and relationships to get what you want.
- You have clear desired outcomes for everything you do in life
- You know WHY you want those outcomes
- You do whatever it takes to get those outcomes
- You’re willing to “get on the good side” of the right people to get those outcomes
- You’re willing to sweet-talk, bargain, and play politics to get what you want
Does that mean you shouldn’t have principles?
Far from it. It’s important to have principles…
…and yet if you had to choose between results and principles, you’d choose results every single time.
That’s what being Machiavellian means.
That way, people will know you don’t just talk shit. You back it up like a real man.
(Side note: You may have noticed that these three traits – narcissism, psychopathy and Machiavellianism – are what’s known as the “dark triad personality traits”).
Here’s the thing about being Machiavellian –
Perhaps strangely, it’s something people – especially women – respect.
And speaking of women…
Trait 4: Enslave, Not Seduce
This is where most “fake alpha males” go wrong…
Fake alphas SEDUCE women. They jump them, then they dump them.
Sure, it makes them feel “alpha.” But the women feel terrible, and everyone else thinks they’re jerks.
A real man, on the other hand, doesn’t do that.
He ENSLAVES his woman.
Not physically, of course. But emotionally.
He has what it takes to make her feel emotionally addicted to him… even for life.
The result? She becomes a completely happy, contented, and respectful girlfriend or wife.
She’s 100% ready, willing, and able to follow her man’s lead for the rest of her life.
How To Get the Biggest Alpha Personality Trait: Be An “Enslaver”
So, how do you Enslave a woman?
That’s what Shogun Method is all about. Enslavement, not seduction!
Obviously I can’t cram everything about Shogun Method in one article…
…however, you CAN learn the Shogun Method’s “mother technique” today.
That “mother technique” is called Fractionation. It’s the technique all the other Shogun Method techniques are based on.
Fractionation is a Mind Control technique that puts the listener on a thrill ride of emotional ups and downs.
The result is almost magical…
- She starts ignoring her logical objections to you
- She also starts following her emotions and being honest with herself
- Most importantly, she feels an ever-growing emotional attachment to you
- She ends up liking and trusting you completely, even in a short amount of time
And, used often enough, it can make ANY woman fall madly in love with you.
THAT’S the ultimate alpha personality trait if you ask me!
Here’s even more good news:
You can learn Fractionation immediately and start seeing results TODAY.
All you need to do is to join my online Masterclass on Fractionation. It’s in the link below:
Be sure to check it out!
So there you have it – the four alpha personality traits you’ll need to develop.
It may be overwhelming for you. I can understand that.
So, if you had to choose only ONE trait to develop… be an enslaver of women!
And you can do that by learning Fractionation.
You’ll have to see it to believe it, though.
Learn Fractionation today, then try it out on women tomorrow.
You’ll be shocked at how well it works… I can guarantee it!
I’ll see you in the Masterclass,
PS: Got questions or feedback? Post your comment below and I will answer personally.