Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) Techniques For Seduction
Let me paint the scene for you:
I was sitting in my office here in sunny San Diego one day with a new Shogun Method client of mine.
(Let’s call him John.)
You see, John wasn’t exactly the best looking guy in the world. He didn’t have much experience with women, either. So, he’d come to me to learn some new skills to be better with the ladies.
I said to him:
“John, I just need some basic information from you before we start. First of all, how long have you been single?”
John leaned back in his chair and his eyes darted towards the ceiling. He took a deep breath then said:
“I don’t know. About three months?”
I looked John in the eye. “That’s not true, is it?” I asked him.
He dropped his head to the floor. “Okay, no. You got me. It’s more like three years,” he said. “What gave it away?”
“Your eyes,” I told him. “You looked up and to the right, which means you were creating information rather than truly remembering it.”
Needless to say, John was quite shocked.
“Is that even possible?” he asked. “I had no idea!”
As surprising as it might sound – yes. Reading someone in this way is entirely possible.
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NLP Seduction (How To Use NLP To Seduce Women)
“Decoding” someone’s non-verbal cues is just one of the many uses of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP).
Obviously, John’s next question was whether NLP had any use in the seduction world too.
Luckily for John, and for you, the answer is yes.
So, let’s delve a little further into some of the uses NLP has when used to seduce women.
Neuro-Linguistic Programming is a little-known branch of science loosely related to hypnotism. Unlike hypnotism, however, NLP is much more “social” in its approach.
Here’s how NLP compares to traditional hypnotism:
During hypnotism, the hypnotist delivers scripted dialogue to the target until she falls into a trance.
Similarly, NLP is about delivering a script (also known as “routines” and “sequences” in the seduction world). It can be used to implant thoughts and ideas into your target’s head in the same way hypnotism does.
Here’s how NLP is different from traditional hypnotism:
NLP “plants” thoughts into your target’s mind without the need to put her in an unconscious trance. As the name suggests, you are quite literally “programming” the thoughts in her head.
Sounds cool, right?
NLP Seduction In Action
Ask yourself this:
Do you know what women looking for in a guy?
It’s a question which men have pondered for centuries, but the answer is pretty obvious when you think about it…
Here’s the answer:
No one knows what women want in a guy – not even the women themselves. But, why is this so?
Well, the truth lies in a little tidbit of information regarding women psychology.
You see, unlike guys, women make their love-life decisions based on emotional responses. (Guys are more rational in their love lives; this is pretty much driven by how our brains are wired.)
This means that if you want a woman to fall in love with you, you need to make her feel it.
And this is where NLP has its greatest use.
You see, with NLP techniques, you’ll be able to build rapid rapport between you and your target on a subconscious level.
In other words, you can use NLP to create an emotional connection with her. You can then use this emotional connection to attract her to you.
Good. With this mind, let’s look at some specific NLP seduction techniques…
NLP Seduction Techniques
Has anyone ever told you that to be attractive to a girl, you need to “be like” her?
Sure, this is common advice given out by “Dating Gurus” or “Pickup Artists”.
However, I’m here to tell you that this cookie cutter advice is pretty much bullshit.
You see, you don’t want to “be like” a girl at all. And here’s the reason…
Women can sense if a guy is trying to mimic them just to build rapport. And guess what? You’ll come across as needy or desperate when they catch you.
Leave that to amateurish “Pickup Artists” and their clueless followers.
Instead, what you want to do is imply familiarity on a subconscious level. And this is where Mirroring comes in.
So what’s “Mirroring” then?
Mirroring is exactly as it sounds like. You want to copy (“mirror”) her actions shamelessly, but here’s a slight twist:
You’ll do it around three seconds after she’s carried them out.
So, let’s say you’re talking to a girl in a coffee shop. She runs her hand through her hair. You wait three seconds, then copy her by fiddling your hair a little.
By this point, she might have sat back in her chair. Therefore, you wait a further three seconds, then sit back in your chair.
But that’s not all.
Mirroring incorporates everything about her, from her breathing pattern to the volume of her voice. Match everything about her, and she’ll subconsciously begin to see you as being like her. Instant rapport-builder!
Everyone and his chihuahua has heard of hypnosis before, but ask yourself:
Do you truly understand what it does?
Hypnosis (and by extension, NLP) is able to alter a person’s thought patterns because there’s no resistance from the conscious brain.
In other words, NLP is designed to bypass the conscious mind.
Now here’s something about the conscious part of the mind that you must know…
Your conscious mind is the part of you that deals with cold logic, rationale and decision-making.
For some reason, it doesn’t like “new” ideas being thrown at it. Whenever something new comes up, it treats the thought suspiciously and with scrutiny.
What hypnosis and NLP do is remove this resistance (or rather, bypassing it). The NLP approach to this is through a technique known as Implanted Commands.
Firstly, you need to know something important about the female brain:
While a woman may or may not believe what you say, she will never doubt her own conclusions.
(Re-read that again if you need to because it’s important!)
This means that to seduce a woman, you’ll need to covertly “guide” her thoughts to come to the conclusions that you want…
…and this is how you’ll do that:
You’ll need to speak to a female the same way she talks to herself.
When you do this, her subconscious will believe it to be her own thoughts.
With Implanted Commands, you’ll “package” up a piece of information and feed it to her. When done correctly, she will think as if the information you’re feeding her are her own thoughts.
Do you see how powerful this can be? Quite awesome, right?
The entire list of Implanted Commands (44 of them) are inside Shogun Method, but here’s a sample line:
“Sure, I can tell you that if you agree to meet me for dinner it will change your life for the better, but I’d rather you experience it for yourself.”
The “meet me for dinner” part is the Implanted Command. The phrases around that phrase are designed to “hide the command” so that it goes undetected by her conscious mind.
Remember… what she cannot detect, she cannot resist.
As you’ve probably realized by now, NLP can be incredibly powerful when it comes to seducing women.
It may be strange to you, but NLP is not really that common in love and dating. In fact, it’s more commonly used by salesmen and high-profile marketers in the world of business than anywhere else.
There’s a good reason for this…
I’ve gotten a lot of flak from the people who know this stuff for “exposing” the use of NLP in seduction to “outsiders”…
“Derek, you’re crazy. The fewer people know about this shit, the better it is for the rest of us!”
I’m not having any of that!
The reality is that guys are getting the end of the short stick these days when it comes to dating…
…and I am on a mission to fix that problem.
Which means that I am spreading this knowledge far and wide.
This brings me to my next point:
The best way to get started on NLP seduction techniques is to through Fractionation.
Simply put, Fractionation is the tour-de-force of NLP seduction patterns. It combines positive body language, hypnosis-style scripts, NLP mind-hacks and expert storytelling to create a cocktail of emotions in your target.
To get started on Fractionation, click this link below:
In this Masterclass, I’ll share with you a collection of NLP and Mind Control techniques you can use to get tremendous success with women today.
See you at the Masterclass,
PS: Questions, comments or stories to share? Got a sticking point on how to use NLP tactics on women? Leave your questions and comments below.