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Want A Submissive Wife? Turn Her Submissive In Two Steps

The other day I received a surprise phone call from a college friend I hadn’t seen in more than a decade.

John and I traveled parallel paths for more than 5 years. We were good wingmen to each other as we chased college girls.

After college, John went to work for corporate America. He then married a girl from his softball league. I dedicated my life to finding the most effective way to attract women.

After catching up and reminiscing about old times, he told me the real reason for his call:

“Derek, I fucking hate what I’ve become.”

“What do you mean?” I asked.

“My marriage. I backslid. She’s got my balls in a vice grip.”

John then listed his wife’s sins:

• When they got married, she didn’t take John’s last name – she hyphenated her married name
• She lost interest in sex soon after they got married. She refuses to have sex anywhere but the bed. Giving blowjobs? “Stop being disgusting, John,” she says
• She has a large group of male friends and John has to “accept it”
• She’s having more and more “girls’ nights out” and again, John has to accept it
• From a submissive girlfriend during their dating days, she has transformed into a narcissistic wife – now her needs come first before his, every time

The list went on and on.

While I was delighted to reconnect with an old friend, our phone conversation also left me sad. It was depressing how weak, boring, and domesticated my best buddy from college had become.

I knew what advice to give John because I had already given the same advice to thousands of other men.

And if you’re in the same situation as John is, then the information in this article will change your life, too.

Before we continue, take a moment to download the official Companion Guide for this article.

It’s called the Submissive Wife Action Checklist, and it summarizes all the points you’ll learn in this guide – in easy-to-follow, step-by-step format.

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Think of it as a handy cheat sheet–with it, you’ll solve your marriage problems more easily and quickly. It will give you a simple checklist so that you do everything you need to do without missing a step.

And that’s not all. The Submissive Wife Action Checklist will also teach you a bonus technique that isn’t covered in this article.

It’s called Passive Dread, and it’s a great way to prevent your wife from dominating your marriage in the first place.

So if you want to fix the problem before it becomes a real problem – then learn Passive Dread now. And it’s all inside the Action Checklist as a bonus technique to accompany everything you read here. You’ll like it – trust me on this.

Go ahead – download your copy of the Submissive Wife Action Checklist now before we continue.

Submission In Marriage (Why Being A Submissive Husband Sucks)

Make no mistake… being a submissive husband will make you feel both unmanly and unhappy.

Don’t underestimate what it will do to you… it crushes a man’s soul like nothing else.

Here’s the deal:

Women, despite what the media tells us, want a man who will stand up for himself.

She wants a man who will put her in her place when she acts up like a child.

This is the reason why women in developed countries are so unhappy. There are so many weak men around and they have no strong men to guide them anymore.

Warning: You’re Getting Emasculated Slowly…

So, let me ask you this question…

What has “modern” marriage or relationship advice given us? 

Here’s what:

Weak, submissive men and career-focused, unhappy spinster women. 

Ever wondered why there are so many female sociopaths out there today?

You see, civilization and technology might have evolved at the speed of light….

…but biology and the psychology of attraction haven’t changed since Neanderthal times.

Here’s the thing…

Being submissive is a woman’s natural state. 

Happy wife, happy life?

Fuck that. I’ve got a better one…

Submissive wife, happy wife!

Subservient wife, joyful wife!

When she’s submissive or subservient, you’re more attracted to her. When you’re dominant, she’s more attracted to you. It’s a win-win situation.

Makes perfect sense, right?

Rules Of Attraction Will Never Change In A Million Years

The rules of attraction have been forged from millions of years of evolution.

And guess what? They’re not going away anytime soon. Not in the next 1,000,000 years.

How women fall in love has been set in stone since day one. (They all follow a four-step process called the IRAE Model. I wrote all about it in this short book.)

Now I know you’re saying…

“OK Derek, I get it. Thanks for the evolutionary psychology lesson. But is there any hope for turning my wife into a submissive woman?”

Glad you asked.

Good news: all hope is not lost.

You don’t have to fly to rural Vietnam and marry a simple country girl have a devoted wife.

No. You can turn around your current situation and get out of Submissive Husband Hell. Let me show you how. Keep reading until the end.

Sexually Submissive Wife

Women are born submissive, both emotionally and sexually.

But, here’s the thing, though…

Before a woman submits to a man in the bedroom, she must first submit to him emotionally. To a woman, emotions come first. Sex takes a backseat. (As you can see, this is opposite to how men would behave.)

Indeed, as any experienced Shogun will tell you, the best foreplay happens outside the bedroom. Lead, dominate and exert your authority upon her as her husband. In fact, the more dominant you are with her, the more turned on she will be sexually. There’s no need to roleplay as a submissive wife… because she is already one, inside and outside the bedroom. If BDSM tickles your fancy, then here’s a new idea: if you enslave her emotionally, there’s zero need for play pretend.

So, here’s what I want you to understand–

Want a sexually submissive wife? Then get her to submit to you emotionally. Her obedience and devotion to you will seep into her sexual behavior naturally.

The key to sexual submission for a woman lies in your ability to dominate and emotionally enslave her. And that is what we are going into next. Continue reading!

How To Dominate And Enslave Your Wife Emotionally

A Subservient Wife (How To Get One)

News flash: we are in the twenty-first century.

These days, you can’t physically dominate or enslave women anymore.

Not that I advocate using force or coercion on a woman anyway. It’s against everything I believe in, it’s illegal, and it never works.

What I teach is psychological dominance. It’s been my life’s work with Shogun Method.

You’ll need to know how to hack female psychology and make her bend to your will.

By the way, don’t get me wrong:

Being psychologically dominant does not mean acting like a bad boy. 

Being a Bad Boy is all the rage on rubbish Pickup Artist forums. but here’s the truth:

Acting like a jerk is fake and try-hard.

Let me let you in on a secret about what really works instead:

Covert Manipulation.

This is when you are a nice guy on the surface but you control her without anyone noticing.

We’ll talk more about how to manipulate women covertly in a short while…

For now, let’s riff a little more on why the concept of emotional enslavement and domination is key to your success.

Why You Need To Dominate (And Emotionally Enslave) Your Wife

Listen closely, my brother. Every man needs to know this.

Your marriage depends on your ability to enslave and dominate your wife.

Or, in other words, you must make your wife subservient to you. A subservient wife is what you want… not merely an obedient one.

And here’s what will happen if you don’t:

A man with more value or skills than you will pull her away from you. 

If it’s not clear enough, my point is this:

If you don’t learn to manipulate your woman emotionally, you’re trying to use reason to control her.

You and I both know that has never worked and never will.

After all, women respond to emotional persuasion, not rational persuasion.

(This is 100% in line with Shogun Method’s philosophy of Enslavement, Not Seduction.)

Right, enough with the Why. Let’s get to the How.

Let’s begin…

How To Make Your Wife Submissive (In Two Steps)

To make your wife submit to you, you have two options– 

1. Bargain with her. (Buy her flowers, chocolates, expensive shit.) Or,
2. Enslave her emotionally.

You know what? Bargaining is weak, expensive, and doesn’t work.

To hell with the niceties already. Enslavement is the true path to unconditional love and devotion. 

And if you’re willing to learn Enslavement, I’m willing to teach.

Let’s go!

Enslavement Step #1: Segregation

Segregation is not new at all.

It has been used to control people for centuries. Cults tell you not to listen to “naysayers” and “negative people”. That is a form of segregation.

Make no mistake… Segregation is quite amoral.

It’s no wonder that it’s popular with dictators, cult leaders and other evil men.

You, on the other hand, can use it for good, not bad.

And if your goal is to have a happy marriage with the woman you love, you’re using Segregation for good. So, stop worrying… you’re on the right track.

Now—here is all you do….

To create Segregation in your relationship, you need to use this Shogun Method technique-

Shared Experiences

Creating Shared Experiences is simple… it’s all about doing things together to deepen the bond between you.

What you want to do is to create a “both of us against the world” mindset…

You’ll create a conspiracy of sorts between you and your woman. It’s your world. You two are the emperor and empress – everybody else is a guest in your reality.

And guess what? BAD or NEGATIVE Shared Experiences work better than POSITIVE ones.

(In Shogun Method, we teach you how to engineer these Shared Experiences.)

Here are some examples…

It could be an outdoor date where you get caught in a thunderstorm.

Or, a mini disaster in the kitchen where a culinary adventure had gone bad.

When you have dates that mix both delight and disaster, you’ll make her more attached to you.

(If you already know Shogun Method, then you should be able to recognize this as a variant of the famous Fractionation technique.)

Got that?

Good. On to the next step…

Enslavement Step #2: Black Rose Sequence

Once you’ve Segregated her, then run an Enslavement routine on her.

The most fool-proof way to enslave a woman is by using the infamous Black Rose Sequence.

It’s the ultimate Enslavement tool… bar none.

Here’s the thing to know…

It’s what’s called a dark pattern and as such, it needs to be used with caution.

The Black Rose Sequence is the last technique taught in Shogun Method, and there’s a good reason for that…

You see, the Black Rose uses all the other techniques in the course:

Dark Triad, Value Elicitation, Anchoring, Fractionation, Hypnotic Tactics, Barnum Statements, etc. The works.

As such, you’ll need to know all these techniques first before you can pull off the Black Rose like a pro.

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QUICK NOTE: With any problem, an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.

To prevent your wife from ever becoming dominant, use the Passive Dread technique now.

Learn how to use it by downloading your copy of the Submissive Wife Action Checklist. Click here.

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A Simpler Enslavement Technique: Fractionation

Don’t worry, though, because I won’t leave you high and dry…

You can use a simpler technique which will give you similar results. Here’s what that technique called:

Fractionation

If the Black Rose Sequence is a Howitzer, Fractionation is like a sniper rifle. It’s not as powerful but it can be just as deadly.

And you never know…

You might find that using Fractionation is enough to turn your relationship around. 

And if Fractionation doesn’t work, you can always bring out the big guns: the Black Rose Sequence.

But we don’t teach it to just anyone – it can do a lot of damage in the wrong hands.

I’m not kidding… this stuff is as serious as heart attack.

Here’s how Fractionation works in three simple steps: 

1. You build rapport with a woman
2. You deliberately break rapport with her
3. You pull her back into rapport, which is now stronger than the first time

Because, remember:

Pushing and pulling women between pain and pleasure is how you get a woman addicted to you emotionally.

I mean addicted like crack addicts–they’re no longer in control.

And you want that same ability with women… the ability to put her under your control and dominance.

Can you imagine having that ability?

People spend 4 years and $50,000 on a college degree…

…on knowledge that won’t change their lives. What a waste.

Here you’re getting the chance to learn a key skill that will guarantee you’ll never suck with women again.

Intrigued?

If yes, I’ve prepared an Online Masterclass that teaches the basics of Fractionation.

Because this Masterclass is online, you can watch it whenever you want from any device.

Click on the link below to secure your spot–

Online Mind Control Masterclass (Request Invitation)

Once you clicked on that link, you’ll see a new page.

On that page, enter your name and email to enroll into the Online Masterclass. And when you’re in the Masterclass, I’ll teach you how to use Mind Control to put any woman under your spell. Deal?

That’s all for today. See you at the Masterclass.

P/S: Before I go, want to know what I told my old college buddy John? 

I told him exactly what I’ve told you in this article…

…then I taught him Fractionation. He was so impressed he said he’ll teach it to his son one day.

While that sounded rather sweet, I told him:

“Screw that, John. How about using it RIGHT NOW to tame your controlling wife?”

He was taken aback, but then again, it was what he needed to get off his ass and take action.

After a couple of months, he came back a changed man:

“Derek, sorry that I doubted you, but this shit fucking worked. Long story short, I made her Fractionate, and then I used the Black Rose on her… hot damn, she’s like a docile little chihuahua now. Simply unbelievable. Where the fuck did you learn this shit!?”

“I feel like having X-Men-like ability to manipulate women with Mind Control. She’s now an open book to me. She defers to me on nearly everything! I think I might have cured her psychopathic tendencies. And guess what… she’s happier than ever.”

How about you?

Ever dreamed of having X-Men-like ability to manipulate women using mind control?

Yes?

Then, grab the chance to start your learning journey today. Join us… be a Shogun.

Apply to join the Online Mind Control Masterclass here.

P/P/S: Got questions? Comments? Reactions? Leave me a message below.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Can You Love a Woman into Submission?

Short answer: no.

Longer answer: love is not enough to make a woman submit to you. She needs to be emotionally addicted to you for submission to take place. In other words, she needs to be emotionally enslaved so she surrenders to your authority, willingly and lovingly.

As we Shoguns like to say: Enslavement, not seduction.

How to Make Your Wife Submissive Sexually?

Build Intrigue. Create rapport. Attract. Enslave emotionally. In short, the IRAE Model. It’s the foundation to everything we do as Shoguns.

Read about it in this short digital book. It’s free.

How to Turn Your Wife into a Slut?

The short answer is you don’t. What you want is to awaken your wife to re-embrace her true nature as a submissive woman, obedient to her man.

Surely, you only want your wife to be a slut to you. For that, you will need to dominate and enslave her emotionally.

In Shogun Method, I’ll teach you identity replacement–an advanced emotional enslavement technique where you’ll create a character for your wife to play. (I call this character Persephone.) There, she can be as slutty as you like–but only upon a specific hypnotic trigger controlled by you.

Go to Module 7 of Shogun Method to learn this technique.

How Can You Tell if a Woman is Submissive?

A woman could be as headstrong and independent as she can be. And yet, when she’s in a relationship, she defers to you when it comes to making big decisions and setting hard rules. That’s submissiveness in a nutshell.

You can tell a woman is submissive right from the first few dates you take her on. She’ll follow your lead, she’ll respect your opinion even if she disagrees with it, and so on.

Take note – “submissive” doesn’t mean “needy.” If she’s needy, that’s a bad sign – she can use her neediness as a means to dominate you. If you’re a people-pleaser type of guy (or even if you used to be), avoid needy women at all costs – they’re a trap.

Characteristics of a Submissive Wife: What Are Those?

What are examples of submissive behavior? How does a woman show submission to a man?

A submissive wife–

• Lets the husband make important decisions regarding the family, and herself
• Accepts the husband’s leadership and authority wholeheartedly
• Admires and appreciates the husband’s talents and abilities
• Is conscious about her role as a devoted wife and dutiful mother
• Protects her modesty and never court attention outside the marriage
• Is mindful about what she shares on social media, if anything at all
• Never raises her voice at her husband no matter what
• Supports her husband’s mission and understands she is secondary to his life purpose
• Sees her own femininity as complementary to her husband’s masculinity
• Steers away from ugly feminism and embraces her own womanliness as something to be proud of
• Loves masculinity and teaches her sons the importance of being manly
• Knows her husband is attractive, and is wary that she may not be able to satisfy him completely
• Only has eyes for her husband, and nobody else
• May disagree with her husband sometimes, but she never retorts in a rude way
• Doesn’t discolor her hair or scar her body with tattoos and piercings
• Willing to try anything that will make her husband happy
• Defends her husband’s honor in his absence

A submissive wife’s subservience to her husband stems from deep-seated respect… a respect for his dominance, authority and leadership.

How To Be A Good Husband To A Submissive Wife?

Rule #1 is this: Being a good husband means being a good leader.

You can let her make most of the smaller, inconsequential decisions in the marriage. But when it comes to the big, household-affecting decisions, you put your foot down and take charge. Your leadership is what a submissive wife needs the most.

Speaking of needs, here’s Rule #2: Give her all she needs, but not all she wants.

The more you spoil her, the more she feels she controls you instead of the other way around. That leads to more domineering behavior from her.

And Rule #3: Always be ready to put her in her place.

Sometimes, she WILL act up and try to push you around. Keep in mind that she’s not challenging you – she’s TESTING you. If you give her what she wants, you fail the test, and her tests will come more frequently and intensely.

You can only pass these “tests” by putting her in her place. Be ready to discipline her if that’s what it takes (although I draw the line on physical discipline). The key is to firmly show her that you’re in charge, not her.

While these “tests” are unavoidable in any marriage, you CAN minimize them by using the Passive Dread technique. Use the Passive Dread technique on her today. Learn how it works in the Submissive Wife Action Checklist.

Hypnosis For Submissive: How Do I Hypnotize My Wife To Be Submissive?

The easiest and safest way would be via the Fractionation Hypnosis technique. It’s a storytelling technique that makes her feel emotionally addicted to you. The more you Fractionate her, the more addicted she gets.

The more addicted she gets to you, the more submissive she becomes. She’ll start doing whatever it takes to keep you. (Like, you know, addicts tend to do.)

Here’s the good news: Anyone, including new Shoguns like you, can master Fractionation. Even if you don’t know anything about hypnosis.

In fact, if you only had the time to master one Mind Control technique, better make it Fractionation. It can single-handedly save your marriage, as it did John’s.

To learn all about Fractionation, click here now.