Submissive Wife

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The other day I received a surprise phone call from a college friend I hadn’t seen in more than a decade.

John and I traveled parallel paths for more than five years. We were good wingmen to each other as we chased college girls.

After college, John went to work for corporate America. He then married a girl from his softball league. I dedicated my life to finding the most effective way to attract women (and further them onward the path of emotional Enslavement).

After catching up and reminiscing about old times, he told me the real reason for his call–

“Derek, I fucking hate what I’ve become.”

“What do you mean?” I asked.

“My marriage. I fucked up. She’s got my balls in a vice grip.”

John then listed his wife’s sins…

• When they got married, she didn’t take John’s last name… she hyphenated her married name
• She lost interest in sex soon after they got married. She refuses to make love to him anywhere but the bed. Giving blowjobs? “Stop being disgusting, John,” she says
• She has a large group of male friends and John has to “accept it”
• She’s having more and more “girls nights out” and again, John has to accept it
• From a submissive girlfriend during their dating days, she has transformed into a narcissistic wife. Now her needs come first before his, every time

The list went on and on.

While I was delighted to reconnect with an old friend, the call also left me sad. It was depressing how weak, boring, and domesticated my best buddy from college had become.

I knew exactly how to help John because I had already helped thousands of other men in the same situation as him. My brothers in the Shogun Method community can attest to this.

And if you’re in the same pickle as John is, then the knowledge contained within this guide will change your life, too. Make sure you read everything and stay with me until the end. Put your trust in me and I will repay you in the truckloads, I promise.

Before we continue, do this first. Download the official Companion Guide for this article.

The Submissive Wife Action Checklist summarizes all the points you’ll learn in this guide–presented in an easy-to-follow, step-by-step format. free resource

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Think of it as a handy cheat sheet–with it, you’ll get from theory to action in the fastest time possible. It will give you a simple checklist inside a beautiful PDF so that you do everything you need to do without missing a step.

And that’s not all. The Submissive Wife Action Checklist also contains a bonus tactic that isn’t covered in this article.

We call the tactic  Passive Dread , and it’s a deadly effective way to turn the tables and neuter your wife’s dominance in the marriage.

Passive Dread works covertly to slowly seep into your wife’s mind so she gradually becomes passive over time. This happens without her knowing, and that’s why it’s so insidious.

Do you understand now why I am hiding the technique inside the PDF? Passive Dread is tremendously triggering to some people, and if I put it out on a blog article feminists will scream their heads off to get me canceled.

There are hoops to jump over to download this PDF (we need to confirm your email address and ensure you’re not in the blacklist), but it’s necessary to stop this knowledge to leak out to people who hate what we are doing.

Go ahead and download your copy of the Submissive Wife Action Checklist now before we continue. Once you learned the Passive Dread technique, you’ll understand why I am doing this. Click here.

Then, continue.

Make no mistake… being a submissive husband will make you feel both unmanly and unhappy.

Don’t underestimate what it will do to you. It crushes a man’s soul like nothing else.

Because, here’s the thing…

Women, despite what the media tells us, want a man who will stand up for himself.

She wants a man who will put her in her place when she acts up like a child.

This is the reason why women in developed countries are so unhappy. There are so many weak men around and they have no strong men to guide them anymore.

Let me ask you a question.

What has “modern” marriage or relationship advice given us? 

Here’s what:

Weak, submissive men and unhappy, directionless women. 

Also, ever wondered why there are so many female sociopaths out there today?

Answer: evolution.

You see, civilization and technology might have evolved at the speed of light….

…but biology and the psychology of attraction haven’t changed since Neanderthal times.

Some people call this backward thinking, but this is 100% true–

Being submissive is a woman’s natural state. 

Happy wife, happy life?

Fuck that. I’ve got a better one…

Submissive wife, happy wife.

Subservient wife, joyful wife.

And that’s not all. When she’s submissive or subservient, you’re more attracted to her. When you’re dominant, she’s more attracted to you. It’s a win-win situation.

The rules of attraction have been forged from millions of years of evolution.

And guess what? They’re not going away anytime soon. Not in the next 1,000,000 years.

How women fall in love has been set in stone since day one. (They all follow a four-step process called the IRAE Model. I wrote all about it in this short book.)

Now, I know you’re saying…

“OK, Derek, thanks for the evolutionary psychology lesson. I get it. But is there any hope for turning my wife into a submissive woman?”

Glad you asked.

Good news. All hope is not lost.

You don’t have to fly to rural Vietnam and marry a simple country girl have a devoted wife.

No. You can turn around your current situation and get out of Submissive Husband Hell. All you need to do is to follow these specific steps and soon you’ll be in Dominant Husband Heaven.

And it has got to do with two words–Mind Control.

As evolution dictates: women are born submissive.

They are evolved to submit to men, both emotionally and sexually.

But, here’s the thing, though. Her submission follows a sequence. Before a woman submits to a man in the bedroom, she must first submit to him emotionally.

To a woman, emotions come first. Sex takes a backseat.

(This is, of course, opposite to how men would behave. We could fuck anything without all that emotional attachment nonsense.)

This is why the best foreplay happens outside the bedroom. She loves it when you lead, dominate and exert your authority upon her as her husband.

In fact, the more dominant you are with her, the more turned on she will be sexually. There’s no need to roleplay as a submissive wife… because she is already one, inside and outside the bedroom.

If BDSM tickles your fancy, then here’s a new idea: if you enslave her emotionally, there’s zero need for play pretend.

So, here’s what I want you to understand–

Want a sexually submissive wife? Then get her to submit to you emotionally.

That way, her obedience and devotion to you will seep into her sexual behavior naturally.

The key to sexual submission for a woman lies in your ability to dominate and emotionally enslave her. And again, it has got to do with these two words–Mind Control.

Here’s the kicker, though. Mind Control is not for everyone.

Pickup Artists and relationship gurus all tell you they’ve got magic tricks that work on every woman. I will promise you nothing of that sort.

Mind Control doesn’t 100% work on 100% of women. (In fact, nothing does.)

How much your woman will respond to Mind Control depends on several factors.

• The Familiarity Factor: how well she already knows you
• The Intelligence Factor: how smart she is
• The Emotional Baggage Factor: how vulnerable she is emotionally
• The Sensitivity Factor: how strong she is against social pressure
• The Motivation Factor: how driven are you to making her submit to you

In Shogun Method, we use these five factors to calculate a woman’s Vulnerability Score.

With this score, you will know how susceptible she is to Mind Control, so you can adjust your approach accordingly and hit her with the right amount of hypnosis.

Even better, you will get to profile your woman and find out her specific archetype based on how vulnerable she is.

What’s your woman’s Vulnerability Score?

Find out–take this quiz. free resource

Once you have gotten her score and the specific archetype, we’ll get into the meat of this guide.

Domination and emotional enslavement.

News flash: we are in the twenty-first century.

These days, you can’t physically dominate or enslave women. Domination and enslavement are as taboo as it gets.

Not that I advocate using force or coercion on a woman anyway. It’s against everything I believe in, it’s illegal, and it’s idiotic.

What I teach is psychological dominance. It’s been my life’s work with Shogun Method since 2015.

Knowing psychological dominance means knowing how to hack female psychology and make her bend to your will.

By the way, don’t get me wrong.

Being psychologically dominant does not mean throwing a hissy fit like a bad boy. 

Being a Bad Boy is all the rage on rubbish Pickup Artist forums. But here’s the truth–

Acting like a jerk when you’re not one is fake and try-hard.

Let me let you in on a secret about what really works instead.

Covert manipulation!

This is when you are a nice guy on the surface but you control her without her realizing it. Everything you do is hidden under a veneer of niceness and docility.

We’ll talk more about how to manipulate women covertly in a short while.

For now, let’s riff a little more on why the concept of emotional enslavement and domination is key to your success (and her happiness).

Listen closely, my brother. Every man needs to know this. That’s how important it is.

If there’s one message I want you to take away from me today, it’s this–

Your marriage depends on your ability to enslave and dominate your wife.

Or, in other words, you must make your wife subservient to you. A subservient wife is what you want… not merely an obedient one.

And here’s what will happen if you don’t–

A man with more value or skills than you will pull her away from you.

(God forbid if she meets a Shogun. Snatching her away from you is like taking candy from a toddler.)

If it’s not clear enough, my point is this.

If you don’t learn to manipulate your woman emotionally, as many men would, you’d be trying to use reason to deal with her.

You and I both know that has never worked (and never will.)

After all, women respond to emotional persuasion, not rational persuasion.

And that’s why, as a Shogun, you’ll learn that it’s all about enslavement, not seduction.

Right, enough with the Why. Let’s get to the How.

To make your wife submit to you, you have two options.

1. Bargain with her. (Buy her flowers, chocolates, fancy dinners, expensive shit.) Or,
2. Enslave her emotionally.

You know what? Bargaining is weak, expensive, and most importantly… it doesn’t work.

To hell with the niceties already. Emotional enslavement is the true path to unconditional love and devotion. 

And if you’re willing to learn Enslavement, I’m willing to teach.

Let’s go!

Segregation is hardly new.

It has been used to control people for centuries. Tyrannical governments separate people from their families. Cultists tell their adherents to ignore naysayers and “negative people”. Those are forms of segregation, physical and emotional.

Make no mistake. Segregation is quite amoral.

In fact, it’s a popular tactic with dictators, cult leaders and other evil men.

You, on the other hand, can use it for good, not bad.

And if your goal is to have a happy marriage with the woman you love, you’re using Segregation for good. So, you’re doing the right thing.

Now, with that out of the way, here’s what you gotta do.

To create Segregation in your relationship, you need to use this Shogun Method technique-

Shared Experiences

Creating Shared Experiences is about doing things together to deepen the bond between you.

What you want to do is to create a “both of us against the world” mindset…

You’ll create a conspiracy of sorts between you and your woman versus the rest of the world. It’s your private universe. You two are the emperor and empress in your own kingdom… everybody else is a guest in your reality.

And guess what?

Negative Shared Experiences work better than positive ones. It’s strange, but true. (This is especially so for women with high Vulnerability Scores–above 30. To find out your wife’s Vulnerability Scores, click here.)

In Shogun Method, we teach you how to engineer these negative Shared Experiences, but here are some examples to get you started.

For instance, it could be an outdoor date where you two get caught in a thunderstorm.

Or, a mini disaster in the kitchen where a culinary adventure had gone bad.

When you have experiences that mix both delight and disaster, her emotional attachment to you builds up.

(If you already know Shogun Method, then you should be able to recognize what’s brewing under all this–the good old Fractionation tactic.)

Got that?

Good. On to the second step.

Once you’ve Segregated her, then run an Enslavement routine on her.

The most foolproof way to enslave a woman is with the infamous Black Rose Sequence.

It’s the ultimate Enslavement tool–bar none.

Here’s the thing to know about the Black Rose.

It’s what’s hypnotists call a dark pattern and as such, it needs to be used with caution.

The Black Rose Sequence is the final technique taught in Shogun Method, and there’s a good reason for that.

You see, the Black Rose uses all the other techniques in the Shogun Method online course.

Dark Triad, Value Elicitation, Anchoring, Fractionation, Hypnotic Tactics, Barnum Statements, etc. The works.

As such, you’ll need to know all those techniques first before you can pull off the Black Rose like a pro.

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QUICK NOTE: With any problem, an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.

To prevent your wife from ever becoming dominant, use the Passive Dread technique now.

Learn how to use it by downloading your copy of the Submissive Wife Action Checklist. Click here.

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Don’t worry, though, because I won’t leave you high and dry…

You can use a simpler technique which may give you similar results.

Fractionation.

If the Black Rose Sequence is a howitzer, Fractionation is like a sniper rifle. It’s not as powerful but it can be just as deadly.

And you never know. You might find that using Fractionation is enough to turn your marriage around. 

And if Fractionation doesn’t work, you can always bring out the big guns: the Black Rose Sequence.

But we don’t teach it to just anyone–it can do a lot of damage in the wrong hands.

I’m not kidding… this stuff is as serious as heart attack.

Here’s how Fractionation works in three simple steps: 

1. You build rapport with a woman
2. You deliberately break rapport with her
3. You pull her back into rapport, which is now stronger than the first time

Because, remember–

Pushing and pulling women between pain and pleasure is how you get a woman addicted to you emotionally.

I mean addicted like crack addicts–they’re no longer in control over their own emotions and behavior.

And you want that same ability with women… the ability to put her emotions and behavior under your control and dominance.

Can you imagine having that ability?

People spend four years and $50,000 on a college degree on knowledge that won’t change their lives. What a waste of time and money.

Here you’re getting the chance to learn a key skill that will guarantee you’ll always get what you want with women.

Picture having the power that subdues any woman under your influence and dominance. What will you do with that power?

With Shogun Method, you can have that power.

Remember… nothing works 100%, not even Shogun Method. That’s reality.

But if you’re willing to give it your best shot, you’ll attain the ability that eludes 99% of men, and you’ll live the best life you’ll ever live.

The knowledge is now right in front of you. Will you take it?

Click here if your answer is yes.

P/S: Before I go, want to know what I told my old college buddy John? 

I taught him exactly what I’ve taught you in this guide.

Passive Dread. Two steps to emotional Enslavement. The Black Rose Sequence. Fractionation.

Guess what? He was so impressed he said he’ll teach it to his son one day.

While that sounded rather sweet, I told him,

“Screw that, John. How about using it right now to tame your controlling wife?”

He was taken aback, but then again, it was what he needed to get off his ass and take action.

After a couple of months, he came back a changed man.

“Derek, sorry that I doubted you, but this shit fucking worked. Long story short, I made her Fractionate, and then I used the Black Rose on her… hot damn, she’s like a docile little chihuahua now. Simply unbelievable. Where the fuck did you learn this shit!?”

“I feel like having X-Men-like ability to manipulate women with Mind Control. She’s now an open book to me. She defers to me on nearly everything! I think I might have cured her psychopathic tendencies. And guess what… she’s happier than ever.”

How about you?

Ever dreamed of having X-Men-like ability to manipulate women using Mind Control?

Yes?

Then, do the best thing you can do for yourself–start your Shogun Method journey today. Join us.

Remember. Fortune favors the bold. Act now. Be a Shogun.

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It doesn’t. In fact, nothing works 100%. Be wary of anyone claiming that something does.

Will Mind Control work on your woman?

It depends on how high her Vulnerability Score is. Find out by taking this quiz.

Short answer: no.

Longer answer: love is not enough to make a woman submit to you. She needs to be emotionally addicted to you for submission to take place. In other words, she needs to be emotionally enslaved so she surrenders to your authority, willingly and lovingly.

As we Shoguns like to say–

Enslavement, not seduction.

Build Intrigue. Foster rapport. Create attraction. Enslave emotionally. In short, the IRAE Model. It’s the foundation to everything we do as Shoguns.

Read about it in this short digital book. It’s free.

The short answer is you don’t. What you want is to awaken your wife to re-embrace her true nature as a submissive woman, obedient to her man.

Surely, you only want your wife to be a slut to you. For that, you will need to dominate and enslave her emotionally.

In Shogun Method, I’ll teach you identity replacement–an advanced emotional enslavement technique where you’ll create a character for your wife to play. (I call this character Persephone.) There, she can be as slutty as you like–but only upon a specific hypnotic trigger you control.

Go to Module 7 of Shogun Method to learn this technique.

My time is limited to coaching my brother Shoguns–they will always come first for me. But, if you’d like to find out more if there are slots available for my coaching service, click here.

Submission of inquiry does not guarantee a slot. Thank you for understanding.

A woman could be as headstrong and independent as she can be. And yet, when she’s in a relationship, she defers to you when it comes to making big decisions and setting hard rules. That’s submissiveness in a nutshell.

You can tell a woman is submissive right from the first few dates you take her on. She’ll follow your lead, she’ll respect your opinion even if she disagrees with it, and so on.

Take note–submissive doesn’t mean needy. If she’s needy, that’s a bad sign… because women show neediness to exploit men. If you’re a people-pleaser type of guy, avoid needy women–they’re a trap.

What are examples of submissive behavior? How does a wife show submission to her husband?

A submissive wife–

• Lets the husband make important decisions regarding the family, and herself
• Accepts the husband’s leadership and authority wholeheartedly
• Admires and appreciates the husband’s talents and abilities
• Is conscious about her role as a devoted wife and dutiful mother
• Protects her modesty and never court attention outside the marriage
• Is mindful about what she shares on social media, if anything at all
• Never raises her voice at her husband no matter what
• Supports her husband’s mission and understands she is secondary to his life purpose
• Sees her own femininity as complementary to her husband’s masculinity
• Steers away from ugly feminism and embraces her own womanliness as something to be proud of
• Loves masculinity and teaches her sons the importance of being manly
• Knows her husband is attractive, and is wary that she may not be able to satisfy him completely
• Only has eyes for her husband, and nobody else
• May disagree with her husband sometimes, but she never retorts in a rude way
• Doesn’t discolor her hair or scar her body with tattoos and piercings
• Willing to try anything that will make her husband happy
• Defends her husband’s honor in his absence

A submissive wife’s subservience to her husband stems from deep-seated respect… a respect for his dominance, authority and leadership.

Rule #1: Being a good husband means being a leader.

You can let her decide on most of the smaller, inconsequential things in the marriage. But when it’s about big, household-affecting decisions, you put your foot down and take charge. Your leadership is what a submissive wife needs the most.

Speaking of needs, here’s Rule #2:

Give her all she needs, but not all she wants.

The more you spoil her, the more she feels she controls you. That leads to more domineering behavior from her. It’s all in the habits that she builds up over the years.

And Rule #3:

Always be ready to put her in her place.

Sometimes, she’ll act up and push you around. Keep in mind that she’s not challenging you–she’s testing you. If you give her what she wants, you fail the test, and her tests will come more frequently and intensely.

You can only pass these tests by putting her in her place. Be ready to discipline her if that’s what it takes (although I draw the line on physical discipline). The key is to show (not tell) her you’re in charge, not her.

While these tests are unavoidable in any marriage, you can minimize them by using the Passive Dread technique. Use it on her today. Learn how it works in the Submissive Wife Action Checklist. It’s in the final section of the PDF.

The easiest and safest way would be via the Fractionation Hypnosis technique. It’s a storytelling technique that makes her feel emotionally addicted to you. The more you Fractionate her, the more addicted she gets.

The more addicted she gets to you, the more submissive she becomes. She’ll start doing whatever it takes to keep you. (Like, you know, addicts tend to do.)

Here’s the good news: Anyone, including new Shoguns like you, can master Fractionation. Even if you don’t know anything about hypnosis.

In fact, if you only had the time to master one Mind Control technique, make it Fractionation. It can single-handedly save your marriage, as it did John’s.

The best place to learn Fractionation is inside Shogun Method’s Fast Start Module.

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