Signs Your Ex-Girlfriend Misses You
What are the signs she wants you back?
How can you tell for sure if your ex-girlfriend misses you?
Are there any “secret signs” your ex-girlfriend still loves you?
And most importantly…
What can you do to win her back… IF she wants you back?
These are just some of the questions I get asked a lot in the ShogunMethod.net coaching site. (Every Shogun Method client gets unlimited coaching for a lifetime.)
With over a decade of helping guys navigate through failing relationships (and fixing them), we have the answers, and they’re all in this guide.
Dig in!
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Can’t Get Over A Breakup? You’re Not Alone
Many of the guys who come to me for help because they can’t get over a breakup.
I talked to one of them recently: Justin, a businessman from Boston who just broke up with Iris, his wife of 11 years.
“Recently, Iris has been showing signs that make me think she misses me,” Justin told me.
“For instance, last week she got one of my friends to ask me how I was doing.”
“Interesting,” I said, motioning him to continue.
“And a few weeks before that, she called me at 2 AM, drunk,” he continued. “Does she want me back, Derek?”
I smiled and looked him in the eye.
“Actually, Justin, it doesn’t matter if she wants you back or not,” I told him.
“If YOU wanted HER back, and if you were willing to do whatever it took, you can get her back.”
“Really?”
“Yup. Do you want her back, Justin?”
Justin hesitated, and took a couple of seconds to compose this thoughts.
“Yeah, I do, I miss her a lot,” he sighed. “But during her drunk call, she DID tell me she hated me. And she’s already with another guy, so…”
I interrupted him. “That doesn’t matter,” I repeated. “Answer me this question. Do you want her back or not?”
“Yes,” he answered after a pause.
“Are you willing to do anything to get her back?”
“Yes,” he answered again.
“That’s all that matters,” I told him. “Now let’s get to work.”
That day, I showed Justin how to get his ex-wife back, no matter what “signs” he was getting from her.
And if you, too, want to get your ex-girlfriend or ex-wife back…
…and if you, too, are willing to do whatever it takes…
…then I wrote this Shogun Method guide specifically for you.
Let me start by categorically stating a fact…
Breakups Are Never “Final”
That’s right.
Breakups? Divorces? They’re never final.
Why not?
Because a breakup is a DECISION.
And decisions can CHANGE.
And women, when it comes to matters of love, make decisions NOT by facts.
Instead, they make their love decisions based on their EMOTIONS.
Or, more specifically – they make love decisions based on their CURRENT emotions.
It’s all about how they’re feeling AT THE MOMENT.
This is a “flaw” which is hard-coded inside the female psyche.
This female psychology “flaw” is the reason why that old female friend of yours once told you:
“I’m NEVER getting back with that jerk of an ex-boyfriend ever again!”
…only to hook up with the same jerk that weekend. Ever experienced that?
Here’s another thing you’ve probably experienced:
A female friend of yours told you about her “perfect” boyfriend or husband:
“I’m never EVER going to leave him!”
…but a few years later, things fell apart and they broke up.
Why do these things happen?
Here’s why…
When it comes to love, women make their decisions NOT by using facts, logic, or reason.
They use their emotions at the moment.
And that’s why you can get her back.
Pay attention because what I’m going to tell you next is super important:
If you can control her emotions, then you can control her decisions.
And one of those decisions will be to get back together with you.
No matter what happened before, or what she’s said before, or what “signs” she’s throwing at you right now.
Speaking of signs your ex-girlfriend is not over you – okay, let’s talk about “signs” for a moment…
Signs Your Ex-Girlfriend Doesn’t Want You Back
Of course, in some cases, she DOESN’T want you back.
Here are some signs she thinks it’s “game over”:
- Her relatives and friends don’t welcome you anymore
- She absolutely hates your guts and can’t stand being in your presence
- She will not meet up with you under any circumstance
- She wants absolutely nothing to do with you
- Either she blocked your number or she simply will not reply to you
- If you lived together once, she has returned (or thrown) all your stuff
- She keeps telling you to “move on” or to “get over it” or to “get out of her life”
- She becomes extra mean to you, behaving like an asshole just for the heck of it
- Her anger at you has turned into indifference and apathy
- She has a restraining order against you 🙂
If you see any (or, God forbid, all) of these signs, then you can be darn sure that she doesn’t want you back.
But even then, you can STILL get her back if you wanted to. You’ll discover how later in this guide.
For now, let’s take a look at the signs she DOES want you back.
Signs She Wants You Back But Won’t Admit It
Here’s the deal:
The signs she DOES want you back can be hard to spot. But, when you DO spot them, it’s safe to assume that she misses you.
So, watch out for these “she wants you back” signs:
Ten Signs Your Ex-Girlfriend Wants You Back
- On social media, she’s trying too hard to show she’s “moved on.” (e.g. partying hard, meeting handsome men, living the single life again, etc.)
- She’s already dating/seeing someone else just DAYS after breaking up with you. (It’s a sign she’s having withdrawal symptoms)
- She’s depressed
- When she talks to you, she talks about the relationship you once had (“remember the time…”)
- She “accidentally” bumps into you in town
- She still contacts you, even if she says she hates you
- She calls you up just to ask how you’re doing
- When she gets drunk, you’re the one she calls
- Your mutual friends tell you that she still talks and asks about you from time to time
- She keeps in touch with your family members, and tries to remain on good terms with them
Here’s the good news:
If she shows even just ONE of the signs above, then there’s a pretty good chance she misses you.
And you SHOULD get her back!
Next, I’ll share with you how Justin did it… and how you can use the same technique to get your ex back.
How To Get Your Ex Back: Using Fractionation
What I taught Justin was a Mind Manipulation technique.
It’s called “Fractionation”.
Fractionation pretty much storytelling on steroids. What it does is that it puts your woman on an emotional rollercoaster.
The effect? She gets COMPLETELY hooked on you.
Ever gotten addicted on a TV series like Game of Thrones or The Walking Dead?
Yup – you got hooked because of the emotional rollercoaster you’ve been put on.
That’s the power of Fractionation. It makes you “forget” logic and reasoning. You need the fix like an addict. So you’d do ANYTHING to watch the next episode.
I told Justin that if he wanted Iris back, he had to use Fractionation.
He had to put her on an emotional rollercoaster.
That way, he could manipulate her mind…
…and if he could manipulate her mind, he could manipulate her emotions…
…and if he could manipulate her emotions, he could manipulate her decisions.
Makes sense, right?
How To Use Fractionation – Step By Step
Long story short… here’s how Justin did it in five simple steps:
- Step #1: He gave Iris some good emotions by agreeing to meet up with her.
- Step #2: He gave her some BAD emotions by showing her he was “doing just fine” without her.
- Step #3: He kept Iris on an emotional rollercoaster by meeting her. He was giving her a taste of the things she used to enjoy with Justin… but never enough.
- Step #4: Soon, Iris started telling Justin about her problems with her new boyfriend. Justin used more Fractionation to show Iris she was settling for someone much worse. (At this point, she was liking Justin more and more)
- Step #5: Finally, after Iris had a bad fight with her new boyfriend, Justin gave the finishing blow. “What the hell are you waiting for? Dump his ass and come over.”
…which was exactly what Iris did. She dumped her boyfriend, came back to Justin, and got back together with him.
Today, Justin and Iris are happier than ever before. Only this time, Justin is completely in control and in charge of the relationship. And Iris LOVES him that way.
You Can Get Your Ex Back: If You Take Action Right Now
Justin did what seemed to be “impossible” at first…
…and yet it turned out to be one of the easiest things he did.
And guess what? Now, it’s your turn.
Here’s the good news…
If you follow what I ask you to do exactly, you can pretty much get ANY woman back into your life.
It’s true.
Heck, you don’t even need to go through all five steps Justin did. Sometimes, you can make it to Step #3 (or even Step #2) and it’ll be enough to make her want you back. Believe me.
But here’s the catch, though…
You MUST master Fractionation. No exception to this at all.
Fractionation is the key to the whole plan. Without it, you WON’T get her back.
Good news: you can master Fractionation TODAY.
Yes – TODAY. As in, RIGHT NOW.
All you need to do is to join my Online Masterclass on Mind Control.
In the Masterclass I teach the simplest and quickest way to master Fractionation (and a portfolio of Mind Control tactics).
Your next step is to click on this link now:
[REQUEST ACCESS] Derek Rake’s Masterclass On Mind Control
Once you clicked on that link, the registration page for the Masterclass comes up. There, enter your best email address because we qualify everyone who signs up. (You’ll get an Invite emailed to you once you qualify.)
Now remember…
It doesn’t matter what caused your breakup.
Truthfully, it doesn’t even matter what “signs” your ex is showing.
All that matters are two things:
- You want her back, and
- You’re willing to do whatever it takes.
So, answer me –
Do you want her back?
Are you willing to do whatever it takes?
Yes?
Then you CAN get her back. All you need now is to learn how to use Fractionation on her.
I’ll see you at the Masterclass,
P.S: Questions? Comments? A story to share about your ex? Sound off in the comments section below.
How can i get my ex girlfriend back? Is there any chance for us to get back together? We had some communication problems in our relationship. I had trouble opening up to her on some issues.
Does she display the signs that she wants you back?
How would I master Fractionation? I’ve watched your masterclass video several times and took extensive notes, got versed in Implanted Commands and NLP research of my own, and learned the Black Rose. I already have a woman in mind (my girl), of course. I just need to practice this shit. Any suggestions on how to get practice in?
Keep doing it until you master it. Of course, also use Black Rose Boosters if you haven’t done so yet.