How To Win Her Heart Forever (By Enslaving Her!)
Got a girl in your mind?
Want to steal her heart, but you don’t know how?
Here’s the thing…
Most Pickup Artist (PUA) advice today would tell you that to steal a girl’s heart, you’ll need to“make her like you.”
THIS guide, on the other hand, will tell you that it’s horseshit.
Let’s get it out of the way as early as now:
“Making a woman like you” is suicide in the dating game.
And this Shogun Method guide will show you why, and what you should be doing instead.
Let’s get started!
Table of Contents
- How To Win Her Heart Forever (By Enslaving Her!)
- Why “Trying To Steal A Girl’s Heart” Is Counter-Intuitive
- How NOT To Win A Girl’s Heart
- How To Win A Girl’s Heart (The RIGHT Way)
- Why Shogun Method Works Where PUA Trickery Falls Short
- How To Win A Girl’s Heart With Shogun Method
- How To Win Her Heart Forever
Why “Trying To Steal A Girl’s Heart” Is Counter-Intuitive
Picture this for a second…
Some clueless guy tries to “steal a girl’s heart” by making her like him. He makes all the classic mistakes of courtship, such as:
- Giving her gifts…
- Doing her favors…
- Sending her flowers…
- Holding doors, pulling out chairs…
- Confessing his love…
- Trying his best to make her happy…
Now, why are these sweet gestures “mistakes?”
Simple – because they BACKFIRE.
Instead of making her like you more, they make her IGNORE you and AVOID you. It’s true!
At best, she’ll be polite and tell you: “I love you, but only as a friend.” Ouch.
At worst, she’ll tell you: “Get the hell out of my life.” Double ouch.
But what EXACTLY goes wrong when you try to make a woman like you more?
The short answer: EVERYTHING.
Trying to steal a girl’s heart is unnatural. And it’s not something Mother Nature designed women to respond to in a positive way.
In fact, women are hard-wired to HATE it.
Here’s why…
How NOT To Win A Girl’s Heart
Why do women hate it when you try to “steal their heart”?
Simple – because they feel that it’s MANIPULATIVE.
Think about it… you’re trying to “trick” her into liking you. You’re behaving in a way that’s NOT natural to you, but instead meant to make her feel more attracted to you.
Women have certain words for it: for example… “creepy” and “rapey”.
So if you don’t want the women you like to avoid you at all costs, what should you do?
Answer:
The exact OPPOSITE.
Instead of trying to steal her heart, make her want to steal yours.
Only this time… you don’t do it SO OBVIOUSLY.
How To Win A Girl’s Heart (The RIGHT Way)
In case you haven’t noticed, the advice you get from me is quite “Anti-Pickup.”
The reason for that it’s quite simple…
Because about 98% of Pickup Artist advice is regurgitated trash.
It’s gotten recycled so many times that it’s been diluted and watered down to hell.
Now, that being said, the REAL masters of Pickup (the ones who started the whole thing a decade ago) have the right idea.
They’re the ones who’d tell you:
Instead of making women like you, become the kind of man women NATURALLY like.
And there are many long-term ways of doing so, for example –
- Being an all-around great guy that women want to be with…
- Taking care of your health: eat, sleep, and exercise right…
- Taking care of your appearance…
- Being professionally successful…
- Having social proof–being popular, well-liked, and well-connected…
In a nutshell, here’s all the relationship advice you need:
You want to become the type of strong, dominant, successful man that ALL women want.
You want to have all the traits that women find attractive in a man.
Here’s the catch, though… there are two drawbacks to this approach:
- It can take YEARS, sometimes DECADES, to reach that level of success with women, and
- Even when you DO become that kind of guy, you’ll still need to know how to handle a relationship. That’s an entirely different skillset.
That’s where the Shogun Method comes in.
Why Shogun Method Works Where PUA Trickery Falls Short
In Shogun Method, we use Mind Control.
We use applied psychology and mind manipulation on women.
The goal? To create exciting, rewarding, lifelong relationships with them.
(I’m not here to shill Shogun Method, but you should read this review. It will open your eyes to all the possibilities out there once you have mastered it.)
Now, I know what you’re thinking:
“Wait, I thought you said women HATE being manipulated?”

Yes, they do… when you OBVIOUSLY manipulate them, such as by giving them gifts and confessing your love.
Mind Control is different. The manipulation is not obvious. It’s covert, hidden, and low-key… just like the mind games women play on men.
The difference in the approach is minimal. But the difference in results?
ASTRONOMICAL.
How To Win A Girl’s Heart With Shogun Method
Quick question:
Do you have an irrational, yet rock-solid belief in anything?
For instance, you might believe in a certain politician, even when the media points out their faults 24/7.
Or, you might belong to a religion that has its flaws or weaknesses, but you’d rather die than abandon the faith.
Or, it might be a celebrity, a commercial brand, a sports team, etc.
You do, right?
Now think about whatever it is you truly, completely believe in. It doesn’t really matter what other people say, right? You believe it anyway.
She Needs To Believe You Are The “One”
Well, guess what – women have the same tendency, too. Except that they hold on to their beliefs about TEN TIMES more strongly than we guys do.
That’s why women believe in Oprah’s feel-good advice, even when they don’t really work in the real world…
It’s also why women keep stressing out over addictive TV dramas, even when you say it’s bad for them….
And it’s why so many women stick to abusive men, even when all their friends tell them to dump the bastards….
That’s the key to stealing a woman’s heart. BELIEF.
To REALLY steal a girl’s heart, you don’t need to be the strongest, manliest, most dominant guy in her life. (Or at least, you don’t need to be the one YET.)
She just needs to BELIEVE you’re the “One“. She needs to believe you’re a high value man worth being obedient to. And then you let human nature do the rest.
Relying On Human Nature (To Do The Work For You)
By “human nature,” I mean the natural female tendency to act upon what she believes in.
And when she believes, thinks, and feels you’re the strongest, manliest, most dominant guy in her life…
…and when she knows you’re AVAILABLE…
…you can bet she’s going to ACT on you!
She’ll chase you, she’ll drop hints around you, she’ll go out of her way to spend more time with you.
She’ll make it AS EASY AS POSSIBLE for you to make a move on her.
THAT’S what you want to happen.
Now the obvious question… how EXACTLY do you make that happen?
Answer:
With yet ANOTHER counter-intuitive idea… which you’re going to learn next.
How To Win Her Heart Forever
What’s that “other counter-intuitive idea?”
Just this:
Make her both happy AND sad.
Now you might be wondering:
“Now why in HELL would I want to make a woman SAD?”
Answer: Applied psychology, my friend.
Here’s the explanation…
When you ONLY make her happy – such as when you try to steal her heart the OBVIOUS way – you know the result.
At best, she’ll friend-zone you. At worst, she’ll hate you.
And when you ONLY make her sad… she’ll ALSO hate you. (Kinda obvious, right?)
But when you make her BOTH happy and sad? You put her on an emotional rollercoaster.
Female Addiction To Emotional Rollercoasters
Guess what? Emotional rollercoasters are what women love MOST in a relationship!
You see, they don’t want a boring, predictable, feel-good relationship. They want a relationship that’s a thrill ride from start to finish.
And that means you’ll need to avoid starting a relationship that’s all feel-good. Too many guys in her life have tried to do that. You don’t want her to think, “Oh, great… not another one.”
Instead, you want her to get so emotionally thrilled whenever she’s with you – so much that she thinks: “YES – he’s THE ONE!”
Here’s the deal…
Emotional rollercoasters are the most satisfying, addicting aspect of relationships for women.
Give her enough of them, and you can make her addicted to you FOR LIFE. It’s true!
So, how exactly do you give a woman emotional rollercoasters?
It’s not something you just go and do. Remember, there’s a science to these things…
…and I’m inviting you to become a MASTER of this science.
And that’s by joining my Online Masterclass on Mind Control.
By the time you finish the Masterclass, you’ll be a master of using applied psychology and Mind Control. And it’ll be your ticket to avoiding the friend zone and winning your woman’s heart forever.
Sign up for the Masterclass – click on the link below:

Request Invitation Ticket to Mind Control Online Masterclass
(IMPORTANT: Please use your best e-mail address when signing up. That’s where I’ll send your Invitation Ticket as soon as you pass our screening systems. Thank you for understanding.)
So, again:
When you want to steal a girl’s heart, remember that there’s a right way and a wrong way to do it.
The wrong way is to be OBVIOUS about your intentions. Avoid being obvious at all costs!
And when it comes to the right way, you have two roads to take:
- The long road, where you strive to become a strong, successful, dominant man…
- And the short road, where you make her SEE YOU as the strongest, most successful, most dominant man in her life.
You can take both roads, by the way. In fact, I encourage it.
But if you want QUICK results, you MUST take the short road, too. That’s the key.
And by joining my Masterclass, you’ll be taking the all-important first step on that road.
Take that first step now – join the Online Masterclass here.
Then, go sweep her off her feet!

P.S: Read more of our guides here.
P.P.S: Do you have a female friend who’s in love with an abusive jerk of a man? Tell us about her in the comments section below.
As a woman I do like excitement but I also like stability in a relationship if it is too rocky I will bail out of the relationship! If you truly want to help men hopefully you will tell them this! Especially a long term relationship as in marriage I like many women are not looking for a hookup and can see it from a mile away
A relationship that’s too stable is a problem. A man should rock the boat to keep things spicy!
She will tell her man she wants stability, but when the heck does a woman ever know what she wants? Never.