What Makes A Woman Happy In Life?
Are you deeply in love with your girlfriend or wife… but she seems to be getting unhappier as time goes by?
Have you been trying to make her happier… but everything seems to backfire on you?
Do you have that nagging feeling your relationship is about to end… and there’s nothing you can do about it?
Hey, we’ve all been there. You’re not alone!
Table of Contents
- What Makes A Woman Happy In Life?
- How To Make A Woman Happy – The Conventional Way
- How To Make A Woman Happy – The Real Deal
- She Hates It When You Try To Make Her Happy
- The Paradox Of Happy Relationships
- What Happens When She Starts Investing In You?
- How To Make Her Invest In You
- How To Enslave Your Woman (And Make Her Happy)
- “But Derek, this sounds… manipulative.”
How To Make A Woman Happy – The Conventional Way
Most guys have experienced busting their asses off to make their women happy.
They followed all the conventional ways to be the ray of sunshine in their women’s lives…
- They treated her like a queen
- They bought her gifts
- They did her favors
- They followed her preferences
- They (try their best to) please her in bed
- They were kind and considerate to their family and friends
- They try to do things that make them attractive to women
But instead of making them happy, what happened?
The women seemed to HATE them more as time went by.
If that sounds like your situation… then this Shogun Method guide is for you.
This guide will answer the following questions for you:
- Why is my woman unhappy, despite all my efforts?
- Why does she treat me worse the better I treat her?
- What am I doing wrong?
- What should I do to make things RIGHT?
If you want answers to those questions and more, then be sure to read to the very end of this guide.
And it’s going to save your relationship, no less.
How To Make A Woman Happy – The Real Deal
Here’s what’s REALLY going on in your relationship:
There’s a power struggle going on, and you’re LOSING it.
Think about it. Who has the POWER in your relationship right now – you or her?
If she’s the one making the rules in the relationship…
If she only “rewards” you (with sex, affection, or approval) when you follow the rules…
If she disrespects you, judges you, and criticizes you when you don’t…
…then she has the power. She wears the pants, not you.
Well, here’s the question…
Shouldn’t she be GLAD you love and respect her so much?
Because of one simple reason:
She Hates It When You Try To Make Her Happy
Do you LIKE it when you’re forced to act in a certain way?
Do you feel HAPPY when you’re INDEBTED to someone?
Guess what – that’s EXACTLY what you’re doing to her when you try to make her happy.
Here’s what really happens when you try to make a woman happy:
- You try to make her happy, such as by giving her a gift or doing her a favor
- She feels she owes you. And like any normal human being, she HATES the feeling of owing anyone anything
- The more you try to make her happy, the more she resents it
- The resentment shows in the form of disrespect, anger, judgment, insecurity, etc.
- It’s a downward spiral in a toxic relationship that keeps getting worse, unless it gets fixed, fast
So, as much as it might not make sense to you…
…if you want to make her happy, you got to STOP trying to make her happy.
Because obviously, the more you try, the LESS happy she’ll become.
Read this carefully:
There’s only one person in the world who can make her happy.
And surprise, surprise: It’s not you.
Only SHE can make herself happy. She knows this.
It’s about time you did, too.
The Paradox Of Happy Relationships
I’ll say it again:
If you want to make her happy, you got to stop trying to make her happy.
But that’s just Step One.
Step Two is to flip the script.
Instead of you investing your time, money, and energy trying to make her happy…
…make HER invest into making YOU happy.
- Make HER want what you want.
- Make HER care if you’re happy or not.
- Make HER want to make sure she pleases you well.
Flip the script.
Reverse the roles.
Restore the balance.
To Make Her Happy, Make Her Invested
Now, you might be wondering:
“Why the hell would she be happy if I made her do all those things?”
Answer: Human nature.
The more we invest in anything, the more we value it.
She hasn’t been investing in you. YOU’VE been doing all the investing.
As a result, she’s been valuing you less and less and LESS.
Think about it:
How would she feel if she realized she was dating (or worse, MARRIED TO) a slave?
Because that’s what you’ve been making her see you as. You’re a slave, and she’s training you.
She rewards you when you do something right and punishes you when you do something wrong.
Okay, so you’ve been treating her like a queen.
But a queen doesn’t need a slave.
She needs a KING.
And if you made her invest in YOU, a king is what you’ll become.
What Happens When She Starts Investing In You?
What happens when she stops seeing you as her “slave”?
What happens when she starts seeing you as her “king”?
Tons of good things:
- Instead of you begging for sex, she’ll give you sex whenever you want it
- Instead of you doing all the work in the relationship, she starts doing more than you
- She’ll start working hard to make sure you’re happy with her
- Instead of making the rules, she’ll follow yours
- She will almost never disrespect you or challenge your authority
- You’ll start doing whatever you want in life… and she won’t mind at all
Isn’t that so much better than wondering just what the hell you’re doing wrong?
Besides – yes, it’s her job to make herself happy.
But it’s so much EASIER for her to be happy when she knows she’s banging a king, and not a slave.
Get the picture?
Next, let’s get tactical and talk about how to make a woman invested in you instead.
How To Make Her Invest In You
What’s the best way to make a woman invest in you for the rest of her life?
Answer: by Enslaving her.
Now, before you react, let me explain.
I don’t mean PHYSICAL enslavement. That’s wrong, and pretty dumb, too.
What I’m talking about is EMOTIONAL enslavement.
It’s about making her feel totally, completely, emotionally ADDICTED to you… for life.
Enslavement And The IRAE Model
Enslavement is a Shogun Method concept.
It’s the last step in the four-stage “how to make a woman fall in love” process.
The entire four stages go this way:
- Intrigue: When you and your woman first got interested in each other
- Rapport: When you became friends
- Attraction: When you became lovers
- Enslavement: This is where she becomes completely committed to you for life
(This is known as the IRAE Model – IRAE stands for Intrigue, Rapport, Attraction and Enslavement.)
The IRAE Model is why Shogun Method is so much more effective than, say, Pickup Artist (PUA) advice.
Here’s the problem with PUA tactics – they only get you as far as Attraction (the third stage in the IRAE Model.)
According to these PUA jokers, once you seduce your woman, that’s it. It’s game over. You’ve won.
Of course, it doesn’t work that way.
You’re the living proof. You’re already at the Attraction stage. And yet the relationship is still spiraling down the toilet.
Make no mistake: You MUST Enslave her.
Enslavement is the only way to
- make her invest in you for the rest of her life, and
- give her best shot at becoming truly happy in life.
If you don’t Enslave her, she’ll either Enslave you… or leave you.
Either way, you lose.
So, don’t trap yourself like that.
Learn to Enslave her – it’s easy once you know how it’s done. And that’s what I am going to show you next.
How To Enslave Your Woman (And Make Her Happy)
There are two things you’ll need to do when Enslaving your woman:
- Reward her with something that makes her happy. Do this when she does something that pleases you… but only about half the time.
- The other half of the time, give her NEGATIVE emotions. Sadness, disappointment, fear, frustration, and such. Yes, even when she does something that pleases you.
Now, you might think:
“Wait, why should I give her negative emotions even when she pleases me? Shouldn’t I only do that when she does something I don’t like?”
The answer: No.
Remember: the goal here is NOT to “encourage good behavior and discourage bad behavior.”
The goal here is to MAKE HER INVEST IN YOU.
The goal is to make her work harder and harder to please you.
And nothing does that better than when:
- She does something that pleases you, and you reward her with something that makes her happy. (Sex, affection, money, conversation, etc.)
- Later, she does something ELSE that pleases you… but you give her a negative emotion for it. For instance, you can tell her she did it wrong, or you belittle her effort.
- As a result, you keep her guessing. She wonders what the hell she did wrong. She tries again, and then THIS time you reward her.
- Later, give her another negative emotion, making her work even harder to please you.
- She tries even harder, and then this time you reward her again…
See the pattern?
You’re unpredictable. You keep her guessing. You keep her investing in you.
And each time you reward her, she feels DOUBLE the satisfaction.
On and on until pleasing you becomes an ADDICTION for her.
And when that happens, congratulations, my friend – you’ve Enslaved her.
“But Derek, this sounds… manipulative.”
Now, you might look at the whole Enslavement thing and think: “This stuff is manipulative.”
But think about it – she’s been manipulating YOU for a while now. And she’s been doing it just to spite you.
YOU are manipulating her to save your relationship and give her a shot at true happiness.
Which situation is nobler?
So, flip the script. Reverse the roles. Make that woman invest in you for a change.
It’s going to make ALL the difference. Believe me.
Now, if you want a more in-depth guide on how to Enslave your woman and save your relationship…
…then here’s my invitation to you.
Attend my Online Masterclass on Mind Control. In this Masterclass, you’ll get a tour-de-force on how to enslave any woman emotionally using Mind Control.
You can join by signing up at the link below:
(Once you clicked on that link, the registration page will come up. Be sure to use your best e-mail address to sign up. That’s where I’ll e-mail your Invite Ticket as soon as you pass our screening process.)
So, remember this:
It’s not your job to make her happy.
That’s HER job.
What you CAN do is this:
Become the king in her life and give her the best chance at being truly happy.
You’ll need to do it quickly. Time’s running out… if she’s not invested in you, she’ll soon quit you. Believe me.
See you at the Masterclass,
P.S: Questions? Need help? Post me a message below and I’ll answer you personally, promise.