How To Get The Attention Of The Girl You Like – Using Intrigue Pings
“Derek, can you teach me how to get women’s attention?”
This was the request of Matthew, one of my Shogun Method clients.
Matthew was still single at 35. He had been a single guy all his life. And for years he had been desperate for a girlfriend.
Table of Contents
- How To Get The Attention Of The Girl You Like – Using Intrigue Pings
- Matthew’s Problem: He’s Invisible To Women
- This Is NOT A Pickup Artist (“PUA”) Guide
- How To Get Women’s Attention – Use Intrigue Pings
- Can You Finish What You Start?
Matthew’s Problem: He’s Invisible To Women
Matthew was a rather awkward guy… not to mention rather plain-looking.
He was pretty much invisible to women. They almost never notice him.
And to make things worse… he just didn’t know how to get their attention. He’s absolutely clueless about what women find attractive in a man.
Sometimes, he’d spot a woman he’d REALLY like to know better… but he’d get too nervous…
…and before too long, she’d be gone, and he’d be kicking himself for losing yet another opportunity.
Does any of that sound familiar to you?
Are you also looking for a girlfriend, but you’ve been awkward with the ladies all your life?
And are you looking for a fool proof way to approach women, get to know them better, and go on dates with them?
Do you want to know how to be attractive to women?
You know what? You’re not alone. It’s a problem most guys go through in their lives.
And it’s a problem we’ll solve in this Shogun Method guide.
First things first…
This Is NOT A Pickup Artist (“PUA”) Guide
Most inexperienced guys try Pickup Artist routines to get better with the ladies.
They’d approach a woman, say a rehearsed line, and hope she finds them attractive.
Rinse and repeat until they find a woman who’s interested. It’s a number’s game.
And as long as you’re thick-skinned enough, you’ll definitely end up with someone… as long as you’re not choosy.
As you might guess, Pickup Artist routines have certain problems…
Pickup Problem #1: It’s Insincere And Scripted
Have you ever tried using a pickup line on a woman, and it failed miserably?
Or, maybe it worked at first… but eventually, she lost interest in you?
You know why?
It’s all because of a thing called “intuition.” Women have it.
And with it, they can sense insincerity in you.
As soon as they find out you’re playing them – and you ARE, if you use Pickup Artist routines…
…then they turn “cold” on you.
They lose all interest in you, and they just want to get away from you.
And when that happens… well, prepare for severe heartbreak and rejection pain.
The only way you can succeed with Pickup Artist routines is when you get lucky.
You can, for instance, meet a woman who IS dumb, and doesn’t realize you’re playing them.
Or, you can meet a woman who’s so desperate for a man that she’ll say “yes” to even you.
Answer me honestly:
Is that the kind of woman you want?
No, right? (I hope not!)
Pickup Problem #2: Too Much Work (For Too Little Reward)
Pickup Artist “gurus” would tell you that to be good with women, you’ll need to do a lot of work during your interaction.
You got to learn and memorize a bunch of lines and routines…
You got to impress her…
You got to lead the conversation…
You got to keep her from getting bored…
Don’t kid yourself. That’s WAY too much work.
And that’s why our technique is different from the typical, cookie-cutter Pickup Artist approach.
With our technique:
- The woman does most of the work in the interaction
- SHE chases YOU, and not the other way around
- There’s nothing to rehearse, and everything is natural and effortless
Sounds great, right?
It’s the technique I taught to Matthew when he came to me for help…
…and it’s the technique you’re about to discover today – Intrigue Pings.
How To Get Women’s Attention – Use Intrigue Pings
What’s an “Intrigue Ping?”
Simply, it’s a statement you use that grabs a woman’s attention and makes her curious about you… without fail.
That’s the key, by the way. You MUST make women curious.
Not necessarily curious about YOU. Just curious. That’s it. That’s how she needs to feel when you approach her. Curious.
Because when a woman is curious, she can’t be “cold.” A woman can’t be curious and cold to you at the same time.
When she’s cold, she moves AWAY from you.
But when she’s curious, she moves TOWARDS you. She wants to figure you out. And as long as she’s curious, you’ll keep her interested in you.
That’s how powerful Intrigue Pings are at getting women’s attention.
The best part – it WORKS.
The second-best part? It’s easy to do.
Structure of an Intrigue Ping
I taught Matthew the three parts of an Intrigue Ping:
- The first half of his statement, which is meant to make the woman curious,
- Her response, and
- The second half of his statement, which is a question tailored to the situation.
Here’s the formula to remember:
[Statement / Response / Statement]
That’s it. Easy, right?
Intrigue Ping Examples
Now, let’s go through an example…
In Matthew’s case, he was a bookworm. He spent a LOT of his time in bookshops and coffee shops. That’s where I suggested he start meeting new women.
Here’s an example of an Intrigue Ping Matthew used in bookshops:
- HIM: (Triggering curiosity) “Hey, I know I shouldn’t be asking this, but…” [Statement]
- HER: (Curious) “Yes?” [Response]
- HIM: (Question to start the conversation) “…are you a fan of (author’s name), too?” [Statement]
And here’s one of his Intrigue Pings for women in coffee shops:
- HIM: (Triggering curiosity) “Hey, I know I’m going to regret asking this, but…” [Statement]
- HER: (Curious) “Yes?” [Response]
- HIM: (Question to start the conversation) “…have you ever tried the Hawaiian Kona Blend here?” [Statement]
What happened to Matthew after his first week of using Intrigue Pings?
He told me he had met more women and went on more dates than he ever had in his life.
And that’s what Intrigue Pings will do for you, too.
It catches women’s attention, gets them interested, and starts conversations in one smooth swoop.
You’ll be meeting more women, having more conversations, and going on more dates.
But that’s not the end.
Matthew soon came to me with ANOTHER problem…
Can You Finish What You Start?
“Derek, I got a little problem,” Matthew confessed after a few weeks of intense Shogun Method coaching.
“I told you I wanted a girlfriend, and I still do. But now I’m seeing FOUR women regularly. They’re all great. What should I do now?”
What a great problem to have, huh?
Anyway, I told Matthew:
“Pick the one you like best – then take her through the next three stages.”
Yes – there are three more stages.
The IRAE Model
With Intrigue Pings, you’ve just passed the first and most important stage – the Intrigue Stage.
But you’re not done yet. There are three more stages ahead of you:
- The Rapport Stage, where she gets to know you better than her own best friend;
- The Attraction Stage, where you become lovers; and
- The Enslavement Stage, where she becomes completely committed to you for life
In Shogun Method, we call these “stages of love” the IRAE Model.
(IRAE is simply the shorthand for Intrigue / Rapport / Attraction / Enslavement.)
And since you want to get a girlfriend, your goal is to reach the Enslavement Stage.
How do you do that?
Simple – you use the same grounding principle behind Intrigue Pings. It’s a Mind Control technique that forms the foundation of all other techniques in Shogun Method.
What’s this technique?
Well, it’s called Fractionation.
Simply, Fractionation is the act of putting women on subtle emotional rollercoasters.
Intrigue Pings work on the same basis – they put a woman on a tiny, yet powerful emotional rollercoaster:
- First, she feels PRESSURE in the form of curiosity – it’s like an itch she needs to scratch.
- Then, she feels PLEASURE when you satisfy her curiosity. It’s like scratching that itch.
And guess what? Emotional rollercoasters are ADDICTING to women.
The female mind needs it like a drug.
Emotional rollercoasters are the reason why women are addicted to TV dramas, erotic novels, shopping, and gossip.
And it’s going to be the reason why she will be addicted to YOU.
Here’s the problem, though…
I can’t write everything you need to know about Fractionation in one guide.
So, here’s something better – I’m inviting you to join my Online Masterclass on Mind Control.
You’ll learn everything you need to know to put women on emotional rollercoasters in the Masterclass.
Check it out in the link below, and sign up using your best e-mail address:
Fair warning, though:
Mind Control is NOT for everyone.
It’s NOT for guys who are looking for short-term relationships.
Well, some guys do use it to pick up skanks at the bar and have one-night stands, but that’s not the point here.
If you’re looking for a girlfriend, but aren’t planning to make her yours forever…
…then Fractionation will be OVERKILL.
When you take a woman all the way to the Enslavement Stage…
…when she becomes completely committed to you for life…
…and then like an asshole, you DUMP her later…
…then you’ll break her and scar her for life. PLEASE don’t be that irresponsible.
So if you’re just after a short-term relationship… then go use Pickup Artist tricks.
And if you do, accept the fact that all your relationships will end eventually. No matter how good they might be.
But if that’s not good enough for you…
…if you’re really “in it to win it”…
…if you’re tired of being single and lonely, and want to go all-in in finding a girlfriend…
…and if you’re totally, completely committed to making it work for the long-term…
…then my invitation stands. Sign up for my Online Masterclass here.
I’ll see you in the Masterclass,
P.S: Questions? Comments? Need help? Let me know below by posting me a comment.