Personal & Intimate Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend
Looking for deep questions to ask your girlfriend?
If so, let me pat you on the back. That’s a good sign, and here’s why…
You’re a boyfriend who knows that no matter how good your relationship is, you can still make it better.
It’s also a sign that you don’t buy into the “Pickup Artist” (PUA) crap that’s so prevalent today.
Crappy PUA advice would tell you:
- You don’t need to ask your girlfriend deep questions
- You just let her do most of the talking, because she’ll feel you’re more powerful than her
- Communication is 90% nonverbal anyways
All those points are total bullshit, by the way…
…and yet sadly, so many men fall for the bullshit. It’s the reason why so many guys who follow PUA advice end up unsuccessful and miserable.
Here’s the truth about communication in dating:
It’s 90% verbal.
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Communication In Dating Is 90% Verbal
Don’t let that surprise you.
Certainly, don’t buy into that “communication is 90% body language” crap.
Here’s the deal…
Say the right words at the right time, and you’ll win ANY woman over.
That’s right – ANY woman.
And that’s why Shogun Method is so powerful. After all, Mind Control is all about saying the right words and triggering the right feelings.
Asking Deep, Personal Questions
So, what are the “right words” to say then?
They all start with asking your girlfriend deep personal questions. These are the questions that will make her fall deeper in love with you.
This guide will show you how it’s done.
You’re about to learn a Shogun Method technique that will help you find the right questions to ask…
…and in return, she’ll reward you with everything you’ve ever wanted in a relationship.
Respect.
Obedience.
Fun.
Peace of mind.
Support.
Unwavering loyalty.
Sexual satisfaction.
So much more.
That’s what you get by asking the right questions!
Let’s start by taking a closer look at…
What NOT To Do (If You Want Your Girlfriend To Love You)
First, let’s talk about what NOT to do with your girlfriend.
You guessed it… it’s all about the Pickup Artist advice that’s getting regurgitated on the Internet over and over.
How Pickup Artists “Seduce” Women
The typical Pickup Artist process of “seduction” usually goes along these lines:
- You work for months on your fundamentals: body language, fashion, grooming, fitness, etc
- You catch women’s attention with seemingly “witty” pickup lines and “opener routines”
- You build a connection by teasing and “negging” them
- You flirt with them until they’re interested in you, too
- You isolate them and make the sex happen
But that’s it.
Notice what’s missing?
Pickup Artist advice is all about “seduction”… but not much else. (Heck, it doesn’t even teach you how to be a player properly.)
Pickup Artist advice has very little insight into starting and building long-term relationships.
And unfortunately, most guys make that mistake. They follow Pickup Artist advice in their long-term relationships.
Naturally, it doesn’t work. It CAN’T work.
So, that’s your first lesson:
If you’re looking for deep questions to ask your girlfriend, DON’T get them from Pickup Artist sites or ebooks.
Instead, use what works – Mind Control!
The Best “Deep Question” To Ask Your Girlfriend
What makes a “good” deep question to ask your girlfriend?
Without a doubt, it’s a question that uncovers her deepest values, loves, beliefs, fears, and hopes.
It’s also a question that’s spoken in HER language – in the language she uses to speak to herself, in her mind.
To really get into your girlfriend’s mind and heart, here’s a Shogun Method technique called…
The Value Elicitation Sequence
The Value Elicitation Sequence is a core Shogun Method technique.
It’s a Mind Control tactic that makes a woman reveal:
- Her deepest feelings, values, beliefs, etc; and
- The language she uses to speak to herself in her mind
Let’s see how it works!
Step#1: Ask her a deep, meaningful question
Good sample questions include:
- What are your plans for the future?
- If money weren’t an issue, what would you do with your life?
Let’s use a sample dialogue:
YOU: “If money weren’t an issue, what would you do with your life?”
HER: “Hmm… I’d probably take a year off from work. And then I’ll come back to the workforce and do something I love.”
After she gives you her answer, move to Step #2…
Step #2: Ask her about her answer
Sample dialogue:
YOU: “Take a year off from work, huh? Why’s that important to you?”
HER: “Well… I’ve been working nonstop for almost 10 years. I’m tired. I need to care for myself before I can care for you and other people. But I won’t stay away from work for long. I don’t want to be lazy. I want security, but I also want fulfillment. Hopefully, I’ll be making a living doing what I love, for the people I love.”
Step #3: Take note of her keywords
In the example above, she used words and phrases like:
- Care for myself
- Care for you and other people
- Lazy
- Security
- Fulfillment
- Doing what I love for the people I love
Note these down, and then move on to the fourth step…
Step #4: Reaffirm her by repeating her keywords, and put yourself in the picture
Here’s an example:
YOU: “So you don’t want to be lazy, and you want the security and fulfillment of doing work you love, for the people you love. I can relate. I feel the same way. I hate being lazy and useless”
HER: “Really?”
YOU: “Yup. Our relationship is going to be all about security and fulfillment. I believe it’s the only way we could live our lives with no regrets.”
Simple, right?
Just a few questions here, a few reaffirmations there.
But it’s enough to make your girlfriend:
- Love you more
- Respect you more
- Trust you more
- Follow you more
- Surrender to your control and dominance
- Feel emotionally addicted to you for life
And the best part? You can use this technique as often as you want.
It’s just words, after all. ANYONE can learn it.
Why Mind Control Works So Well
The Value Elicitation Sequence works so well because of the following two reasons:
- The right questions will make her open up about her deepest thoughts and feelings. Women love the opportunity to be completely honest about themselves, without being judged.
- You’re using the same words and phrases she uses to speak to herself in her mind. When she hears you speak, she’ll instantly accept it as truth, and she’ll trust you even more.
That’s the power of knowing the right words to say, and the right feelings to trigger.
That’s the power of Mind Control.
That’s the power of Shogun Method.
And that power can be yours TODAY.
How To Make Your Girlfriend Love You Totally
Want to start asking the right questions to your girlfriend?
Want to start having the right kinds of conversations with her?
Want to build a strong, happy, lifelong relationship for the both of you?
Then I strongly suggest you forget all the Pickup Artist advice you’ve ever read about…
…and instead, start using Mind Control.
Real Mind Control Is All You Need
I’d have to clarify this for you…
This isn’t the hokey “Hollywood” kind of Mind Control.
It’s none of the “you’re now feeling sleepy” showman hypnosis that you see on TV.
It’s the kind of Mind Control that’s backed by decades of science.
Psychology, social exchange theory, scientific hypnosis… that’s what Shogun Method is all about.
And it’s the kind of Mind Control you’ll learn and master TODAY.
All you’ll need to do is to join my Online Masterclass on Mind Control. You can signup below – limited slots only:
Request Invite For Derek Rake’s Masterclass
(IMPORTANT: Use your best email address to sign up. If you qualify for the Masterclass, I’ll email you your very own Invite Ticket right away.)
So, remember…
Your road to success and happiness in life and love is just beginning.
Having a girlfriend is just “phase one.”
If you love her, and if you want to spend the rest of your life with her…
…then you’ll need to keep deepening and strengthening the love she feels for you, as the years go by.
You’ve just learned the wrong and right ways to do that.
Forget the wrong way. Do it the right way. Learn Mind Control today!
I’ll see you in the Masterclass,
P.S: Questions? Comments? Perhaps you have a few good Value Eliciting Sequence questions to share with me. Let me know by sounding off in the comments section below.
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