What A Girl Says Vs What She Means
Has your girlfriend or wife ever gushed about something she absolutely “LOVED…”
…but later on, she told you she HATED it?
Or, how about this:
Has your girlfriend or wife ever told you something she wanted to do…
…and so you spent the next few days or weeks preparing to do that thing with her…
…but suddenly, she told you it was something she DIDN’T want to do?
What’s going on?
Why do women say one thing and mean something else?
Why do they keep changing their minds?
Great questions! Today, we’ll find the missing link between what a woman says and what she really means. Keep reading!
Table of Contents
- What A Girl Says Vs What She Means
- Communication Problems In Relationships
- Why Women Say One Thing And Mean Another Thing
- Should You Trust Anything She Tells You?
- How To Communicate Better With Your Girlfriend Or Wife
- The Solution: Hypnotize Her!
Communication Problems In Relationships
If any of the above sounds familiar to you, then I have some good news and bad news for you.
Let’s start with the BAD news.
The bad news is this –
Your relationship is suffering from communication problems.
And that’s SERIOUS. Communication problems are the root of 99% of all breakups.
Misunderstandings? Infidelity? “Irreconcilable differences”?
All of these are RESULTS of communication problems.
It’s All On YOU
If your relationship is suffering right now… then you now know why. You and your woman have some communication problems that are POISONING your relationship.
And to make matters worse:
The relationship won’t fix itself.
And guess what? Your woman won’t fix the relationship, either. After all, it’s her who’s causing the communication problems in the first place, right?
So that’s the worst news of all – it’s your responsibility to fix the relationship.
Even if you had nothing to do with the problem. If you want to save your relationship, it’s entirely on you.
And if you don’t do something FAST, then you WILL lose her. That’s a 99% guarantee.
Tough, but true.
It’s Easy To Fix The Problem… If You Know How To
Here’s the GOOD news, though…
The good news is that it’s NOT your fault.
Men and women simply have different ways of communicating.
And if you simply understood these differences…
…and if you actually used these differences to your advantage…
…then nothing will stop you from turning your failing relationship around.
It doesn’t matter how bad things might seem right now. You’re about to learn how to make your relationship even more:
- and happier than it’s ever been
If that sounds good to you, then be sure to take down notes!
Let’s start by taking a closer look at the ROOT of the problem…
Why Women Say One Thing And Mean Another Thing
Have you ever said: “But you said ____!” to your girlfriend or wife?
Or, have you ever wondered why she’d say one thing, but mean or do something completely different?
If so, then that means one thing:
You DON’T understand how women communicate.
And that’s okay. Because here’s the thing:
Even WOMEN don’t understand how women communicate.
Still – you’ll need to wise up quick. And you will shortly.
Masculine vs Feminine Style Of Communicating
In his book Way of the Superior Man – one of my favorites – author David Deida has this to say…
There are two styles of speaking:
- The masculine style, and
- The feminine style.
The masculine style says what it means.
The feminine style says what it FEELS at the moment.
Did you catch that difference?
The masculine style’s word is its honor.
The feminine style’s word is fleeting and temporary.
Here’s the thing you must understand about how women communicate…
Sometimes, women speak in the masculine style. And in these moments, you can trust them to mean what they say…
…and yet the vast majority of the time, women speak in the feminine style, in which:
- They mean what they say, but only at that moment
- What they’ll say can change in five minutes, depending on how they feel
- In their minds, they’re not lying – they’re completely honest with themselves and the world
And so it’s wrong to expect your woman to mean EVERYTHING she says.
In other words:
You can’t judge the feminine with the rules of the masculine.
That would just lead to – you guessed it – communication problems.
So you’ll need to change a few things in the way you communicate with your woman. And fast.
Should You Trust Anything She Tells You?
Some of my Shogun Method clients, after they learn about the feminine style of speaking, ask me:
“Does that mean we shouldn’t trust anything a woman says?”
The answer is, of course, “No.”
And here’s why…
You see, the feminine style of speaking is like the ocean surface. It can be flat-calm or dangerously rough, depending on its environment.
If a woman is in an unhappy, frustrating, or tumultuous relationship…
…then most of the time, her words will NOT match what she really means.
But if she’s in a happy, satisfying, peaceful relationship… then she’ll mean every word she says LITERALLY.
I hope you caught that. Very important!
In fact, it’s only when you’re sure your woman is happy, stable, and in love with you…
…that you can take anything she says literally.
And when she’s NOT happy or stable or in love with you… then don’t take anything she says personally.
Just don’t. It’s NOT personal.
It’s just her speaking out how she FEELS at that moment. And how she feels can change in the snap of a finger.
And THERE is where the solution lies…
How To Communicate Better With Your Girlfriend Or Wife
If you think about it, we guys are a lucky bunch.
We know what we want, we say what we mean, we follow what works. Pretty simple.
Women, on the other hand, are under constant mental stress.
Here’s what your woman is going through right now:
- She doesn’t really know what she wants
- She only knows how she feels at the moment
- She makes most (if not all) of her decisions in life based on how she feels
This is the reason why women say they want “successful, stable men”… but end up dating players and deadbeats.
That’s the reason why they LOVE drama, even though drama makes everyone feel worse.
That’s the reason why they use emotional blackmail, even though it’s damaging to the relationship.
The Solution: Hypnotize Her!
Here’s the entire situation summarized below:
Women don’t follow what works. They follow what they feel. It’s a habit, and they’re powerless against it.
Big problem, right?
But again – the problem holds the seed of its own solution.
And that solution comes in the form of the hypnosis technique you’re about to learn. In short, you’ll learn how to hypnotize your woman!
This is the same hypnotic technique that hypnotherapists use on their clients to:
- Break bad habits (like smoking, drinking, nail-biting, etc.)
- Cure depression, anxiety, phobias and addictions
- Undo toxic beliefs and improve quality of life
It’s also the SAME hypnotic technique used by:
- Entertainment companies, when creating addictive TV shows and movies (think Game of Thrones)
- Commercial brands, when they build tremendous loyalty to their products (think Apple)
- World leaders, when leading millions of loyal followers to whatever end (think Donald Trump)
And, yes – it’s the same hypnotic technique that will:
- Make your woman snap out of her bad behavior
- Fall madly in love with you for life – almost as though she’s addicted to you
- Make her obey your every command and respect your authority
What’s this hypnotic technique?
It’s called Fractionation.
In a nutshell:
It’s a storytelling technique that puts her on an emotional rollercoaster.
With your words, you make your woman feel intensifying cycles of:
- Pain vs. Relief
- Pressure vs. Pressure
- Sadness vs. Happiness
- Anger vs. Compassion
- And other emotional ups and downs
Ever followed an addicting TV show, like Game of Thrones?
If you think about it, it’s one giant emotional rollercoaster all the way. And that’s what keeps you (and millions of other viewers) hooked.
Well, guess what – that’s the same effect Fractionation will have on your woman. Except she’ll feel hooked on YOU.
- She’ll love you more than anyone and anything in the world
- She can’t get enough of you
- She’s going to say and do anything you want just to keep you
And yes – you can kiss communication problems goodbye.
Here’s the best news of all: You can learn and master Fractionation today.
All you’ll need to do is join my Online Masterclass on Mind Control. Check it out – click this link below:
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The best thing about Fractionation?
It’s all storytelling. It’s just words.
This means that ANY guy can learn it.
And it has the tremendous power to build strong, happy, lifelong relationships – and rebuild broken ones.
I urge you to hurry, though. Communication problems tend to spiral out of control REAL FAST.
I’ll see you in the Masterclass,
P.S: Got any questions or comments? Or maybe a story to tell? I’d love to hear from you. Just sound off in the comments box below.