Is She Playing Mind Games On You? Here’s How To Find Out For Sure
I knew this kid in high school.
Let’s call him Todd.
Todd was on the football team and as you’d expect, he had an uber high opinion of himself.
Besides being a star athlete and honor student, he had a drop dead gorgeous girlfriend called Kate.
Long, brown locks… big, round hazel eyes… pearly white teeth… shapely, 6 ft figure… you know, the works. She was an absolute dream.
But what he didn’t know at the time was that she was blowing the rest of the football team behind his back.
Eventually, it all came out in the high school rumor mill.
And once Todd found out he was never the same again. The world came crashing down, and it completely fucked him up.
Let’s face it. Truth is, nothing hurts like being played by a girl.
Who are we kidding? It’s a massive blow to your ego, and to call it an “embarrassment” would be the understatement of the century. (Plus, that shit can mess you up for a really long time.)
And you know what? It’s because of women like Todd’s girlfriend that I’ve written this article. (Many thanks to Derek Rake who has kindly offered me the space on his blog to publish this piece.)
Every guy needs to know the warning signs of infidelity because no matter what, you NEVER want to get played.
Speaking for myself, I’ve been lucky enough to avoid being cheated on…
…which is why I’ve enlisted the help of my buddy Kenneth, who admittedly had more experience in dealing with women than I.
Back in the day, Kenneth had a girlfriend called Mason.
After years of dating, he was getting ready to propose to her, when one day out of the blue she dumped him.
“I want to date other people.”
Jim would later find out she had cheated on him with some guy from work.
After they split he was a broken man and spent his days and nights pounding six packs.
Seeing what this did to him made me realize I never wanted to be in this position.
I asked him why he thinks it happened.
“I ignored the obvious signs she was playing me.”
Table of Contents
- 1 Is She Playing Mind Games On You? Here’s How To Find Out For Sure
- 2 How To Know If A Girl Is Playing You – Watch Out For These Signs
- 3 You Need To Know The Truth Behind Her Lies
- 4 To Keep A Woman, Confuse The Shit Out Of Her
- 5 How To Control Her… By Using Psychological Manipulation Techniques
- 6 Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
How To Know If A Girl Is Playing You – Watch Out For These Signs
What obvious signs I asked him?
He told me that looking back it was clear as daylight.
“For the longest time, there were these unexplained absences.”
“She was always off doing something with someone, and when she came back I’d have to hear some B.S. story about a friend she was with.”
“After a while, I realized that this friend was probably a boyfriend.”
“The other thing was that she was always on her phone, talking and texting random people.”
“She also lost interest in sex completely…”
“…also it just seemed like she was hiding something, you know?”
Eventually, he put two and two together, figured out what was going on… but out of fear and confusion, he decided to just bury his feelings… until she decided to dump him.
You can learn a lot from his experience.
Most importantly that you need to be aware of what your women are up to.
(Take your eyes off the ball for even a little while and something bad could happen.)
You Need To Know The Truth Behind Her Lies
Today, old Ken keeps a tight leash on the girls he’s seeing.
You can say that he had learned his lesson (albeit the harsh way).
After going through Shogun Method, he realized his entire approach to women and dating was dead wrong.
For example, he tells me if you think your girl is playing you, the worst thing you can do is keep quiet about it.
Don’t be afraid to confront her and demand to know exactly what’s going on.
And when you do, pay close attention to the psychological signals she’s giving off.
(If you’re familiar with Derek’s Shogun Method portfolio, then using the Truth Extractor makes it piss easy to expose the truth behind the lies.)
For example, make sure to watch her eyes closely:
If they dart around or she can’t make eye contact it’s a good sign something is wrong.
Also, does she touch her face when speaking to you, or cross her arms and look nervous or defensive?
Also, make sure to listen closely to the way she speaks. Sounding nervous, stumbling over her words or stuttering could all mean trouble.
According to Ken he sometimes goes further than just asking:
He’s not afraid to, as he says, “interrogate” his women.
There’s nothing ugly or nasty about the way he does it.
In fact, his methods are pure genius.
The girls don’t know what he’s doing so they give up their secrets easily, and in that way, it’s almost like a sneaky form of Mind Control.
“It’s necessary,” Ken tells me, “Learning how to know if a girl is playing you is absolutely essential to your well-being as a man!”
(Even if you’re already married to her, it’s important to know if she’s playing mind games on you. Detecting the early signs that your marriage is failing is how you can stop a divorce from happening.)
To Keep A Woman, Confuse The Shit Out Of Her
So what does Kenneth do?
He starts off by getting them confused.
Did you know that confusion is a mild form of a hypnotic trance?
You go into a trance when confused because it breaks you out of your habitual, limiting thought patterns. In addition to this, it makes you more compliant and willing to answer questions.
If that sounds manipulative, it’s because it is. 🙂
And guess what? The easiest way to confuse a person is by using words which sound similar but have different meanings.
For example, words like leave and leaf.
Another way is with words that are opposite to each other. You know, like left and right or up and down.
Use these together in a sentence and pay close attention to how women respond.
You can also confuse people by talking about many different subjects all at once.
When you’re talking change the subject every so often, and don’t let her focus on one thing.
Doing this will confuse her and also creates a type of tension which makes her more compliant with your commands.
Confusion is a really useful way to trick people into telling you the truth.
It works because it makes you open up and go off balance. And when you can’t think straight, that’s when you slip up and reveal secrets.
How To Control Her… By Using Psychological Manipulation Techniques
Next, he moves onto something called a “Yes Set”. (This technique is also known as a “Yes Ladder” in psychology circles.)
This is a technique Kenneth learned from his time selling insurance. And yes, it’s quite insidious knowing how sneaky insurance salesmen could be.
It works like this:
You ask your girlfriend a bunch of questions which all have simple “yes” answers.
“Did you go to work today, did you drive there, did you drink coffee?”
As someone replies yes, yes, yes to these questions they start to lose concentration.
Then you casually ask her what you really want to know about.
For example, you could say, “Are you cheating on me?”
Most of the time she won’t be paying attention and will reveal what’s actually on her mind.
I once saw Kenneth use this method on a cute bartender.
He asked her a bunch of questions like, “Do you work at a bar, do you own a smart phone, do you live at home…and…do you like butt sex?”, to which she replied YES without thinking.
We both cracked up laughing and the girl went scarlet red.
The “Yes Set” is just one of the many Mind Control and hypnosis based techniques that can be used to put any woman under your control and dominance in no time at all.
Here’s the key to ultimate success with women:
Master Mind Control and you’ll never get played by a girl again, period.
With what you’ve learned today you can figure out exactly what’s going on in her mind.
And when she thinks you have eyes in the back of your head…
…she will be too scared to mess around behind your back.
At this point, you will have total dominance and power over the women you desire, and they will love, fear and respect you completely. Believe it.
All it takes is the nerve to step up and demand what you want from women.
This, my friend, is how to be dominant with women.
To paraphrase Jesus of Nazareth: ask and ye will damn well receive.
Use Mind Control and your results will be off the chart.
And to be honest with you, this is what women really want.
They prefer a man who demands total loyalty and doesn’t fucking tip toe around them.
Accept the truth that she wants to be controlled and dominated by you.
And the best way to do this is to tool up on Mind Control techniques and start using them on your woman right away.
To kick start your journey into the world of Mind Control, extreme persuasion and manipulation, attend this free Masterclass by Derek Rake:
Once you’ve seen the Truth, there won’t be any turning back – I promise you.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
Compiled by Derek Rake and Fredo Hill
How to know if a girl is playing mind games with you?
Pretty easy. Here’s a list of the mind games that women often play on men:
- Making you jump through hoops by asking you to do unnecessary or unimportant things.
- Pretend to be weak so that you do everything for her… like carrying her bags and fetching her coffee.
- Playing the victim, acting as if she gets bullied (by you).
- Crying in public and pretend as if she gets bullied (by you).
- Openly flirting with other men in your presence.
- Dressing up like a tart and go date other men.
- Making intimacy “conditional”… she punishes you by withholding sex.
- Praising other guys just to make you feel insecure and inadequate.
- Ignores your calls or texts… only to reply much later on purpose to show her “power”.
Yes, entirely fucked up, I know… but that’s the nature of the beast that we need to deal with.
Does any of the above ring a bell?
If they do, then your woman is playing you, plain and simple.
Fret not, however; the antidote is here: you’ll need to get an edge by using Mind Control on her so that she yields to your dominance and authority. Get started quickly by attending this free Masterclass.
Signs she playing games – what are those?
See the above. Additionally, here are the four big signs she is a player by nature:-
How To Spot A Female Player
- She introduces you as a “friend” or (worse) a “companion” – never a “boyfriend”.
- She has a lot more guy friends (who will do things for her) than girl friends. She’s just playing all of them… and you.
- She is somewhat emotionally detached from you. This is a huge warning sign – ignore at your own peril.
- She tells you that she needs “alone time”. Absolute hogwash.
Again, you’ll need to fight fire with fire: Mind Control is the only way you can get an upper hand and regain your leadership position in the relationship.
Can I use these techniques to play mind games on a woman instead?
Instead of merely “playing mind games”, however, considering taking things to the next level by embracing the Dark Triad philosophy of getting women. Despite what you may have led to believe, narcissism, Machiavellian-ism and psychopathy will bring you success (with women, and in life) more than anything else.
How to tell if a girl is playing with your emotions?
The truth is that every woman will be attempting to play with your emotions (yes, every single one of them) – even if she has genuine feelings for you. What you need to be aware of are women who are not romantically interested in you, but want to use you as an “emotional tampon”, or to get attention of the other guys.
Learn how to identify such women by noticing these signs:
Signs She Is Using You Emotionally
- She calls you up to bitch about her problems… in her other relationships.
- She is evasive whenever you ask her about her relationship status, or about the other guys that she seem to be constantly seeing or contacting.
- She only asks you out whenever she has got “free” time… she doesn’t MAKE time for you. Huge warning sign!
- There’s zero affection for you. She may not resist you when you try to be close to her, but she doesn’t initiate anything intimate.
- Frequent flakes… often at the last minute. This may be the biggest tell-tale sign that she is using you emotionally.
If she is playing me, then how do I fight back?
Here’s the absolute three worst things that you can ever do when a woman is playing you:
- Play along, and hope that she will change for the better in the future: “Once she falls in love with me for real, she will stop all this nonsense.”
- Get angry, and confront her. This will expose your weakness further and open yourself up for more manipulation and exploitation. Remember: only the weak wear their emotions on their sleeves.
- Use “Pickup Artist” (“PUA”) tricks on her. Sure, these trickery may work in lightweight situations like the bar pickup scene, but when it comes to dealing heavy duty women stuff, Pickup Artist techniques are as useful as pair of wrinkly tits on a 96-year old nun.
Stop the madness!
Instead, it’s time to pull up your big boy pants and use what the pro’s use to put women under their dominance: Mind Control.
Remember: you gotta be cruel sometimes to be kind (both to you, and to her). Trust me: she wants you to dominate her.
Get started by watching this Masterclass right now – click here.