How To Train Your Girlfriend

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Listen here. Is your girlfriend giving you shit?

Is she walking all over you, pushing you around, barking orders at you?

Is she downright disrespecting you by being a cunty little bitch at times?

Wishing she’ll STFU and be more subservient and obedient for a change?

I feel you. And I’m sure millions of other guys around the world feel you, too. It’s happening far too common now to men, and so you’re in good company.

And guess what?

This Shogun Method guide is written for guys just like you.

I’ll teach you how to train your girlfriend and turn her into a submissive chihuahua in no time at all.

Dig in!

First things first. How would you know if you need to train your girlfriend?

Here are some signs you must train her, and fast…

• She makes you feel somewhat less of a man
• She’s the one who is the alpha personality in the relationship, not you
• She undermines your authority
• She disrespects you openly
• She nitpicks on everything you say or do
• She embarrasses you in front of other people
• She criticizes you without reservations
• She emotionally blackmails you to get what she wants
• She takes you for granted and it’s obvious
• She acts like an asshole just for the heck of it

If your girlfriend is showing any of the signs above, even only one–then yes, you must train her.

Otherwise, your relationship will come to its inevitable end… by her hand or your own.

Besides–and most men get shocked when they hear this for the first time–it’s your responsibility as a boyfriend to train your girlfriend and tame her.

And if you don’t, as we will show you, she’s going to be one miserable, lost woman…

…or worse, she’ll go seek a man who can give her the direction and leadership she desperately craves. Surely, you don’t want that to happen, right?

Before we get into the nitty gritty, here’s something I must tell you up front.

This blog is out in the open. Which means, anyone can read it…

…which is great, because I want this knowledge to reach the masses. Guys need this, and I want to help as many people as I can.

Here’s the problem, though.

This stuff works, but it’s hardly the most politically correct thing out there.

Let’s face it. Most people will probably disagree with what I teach.

OK, “disagree” is an understatement. In fact, some even wish for this knowledge (and me) to disappear from the Internet and never be found again.

Insane as it sounds, I used to get about 10-20 hate emails every single day for writing this guide.

They didn’t faze me at first, but soon, it started to wear me out. I mean, there’s only so many death threats you can take before you freak out, right?

So, what I did was to remove the most controversial bit (read: the juiciest) and put it under lock and key.

This way, I hope those crazy bitches get off my tail and go bark somewhere else. Because frankly, I’m tired of dealing with their shit.

Still, I want you, my dear reader, to access that piece of forbidden knowledge that I want to hide from our enemies. So, here’s the solution I’m proposing to you.

The best Girlfriend Training tactic is the Master Identity Theory. The tactic involves erasing a woman’s identity and installing a fresh one that you desire.

With a new identity, she’ll never misbehave or be disrespectful to you ever again. Why? Because it’s an identity crafted and controlled by you.

There is a caveat, though.

Installing a Master Identity onto a woman’s personality is not easy at all.

If you want to give it a shot, I want you to do it with your eyes wide open. The downside to the method is this:

You can’t undo it once it’s done.

So, if you screw up, you will damage her psyche forever. There’s no turning back the clock.

Now, do you see how controversial (and dangerous) this material is and why people want to cancel me?

I have no choice. To save this knowledge and protect it, I’ve extracted the Master Identity Theory from this article and saved it as a PDF document.

To access this download, all you need to do is go here and enter your email address.

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Once done, I’ll email you the PDF and the key to unlock it. Quick and easy.

Do that right now before you continue.

Okay, with that done, let’s start with the first and most obvious question–

Why should you train your girlfriend?

I’ll say it again. Because it’s your duty.

You’re the man.

You’re the leader. The head of the pack.

If anyone in your party acts out of line, it’s your job to correct them and put them in their place…

…and that includes your woman.

Now, some might object to this.

Feminists, social justice warriors, and soy latte-sipping woke pussies might scream…

“Screw you Derek Rake. That’s sexist!”

Well, I don’t give a flying fuck.

And you shouldn’t give a fuck either.

Why should you?

Your relationship is failing… and you’re worried about what some strangers think?

Fuck that. Because right now, you’ve got more important things to give a shit about.

You have two choices.

1. You either train your woman and save your relationship, or,
2. You let her keep walking all over you, and just hope for the best.

It’s a no-brainer. If you want to fix your relationship, you must train her. Trust me on this.

Think of it this way. Training her is for her own good. It’s for her own happiness.

Being tied to a strong, dominant man she can’t push around will be the best thing to ever happen to her. She wants this. Believe me.

Every woman does.

There are two ways to train your girlfriend to be obedient to you.

The short-term way and the long-term way.

Let’s start with the short-term way on training your woman and turn her into an obedient girlfriend–Operant Conditioning.

The short-term way is by using a Mind Control technique we call Operant Conditioning.

Operant Conditioning is simple. It uses positive and negative reinforcement to:

• Encourage good behavior, and
• Discourage bad behavior.

It’s like training a child or a dog.

• If she does something that pleases you, reward her.
• If she does something that displeases you, discipline her.

Easy, right?

Now, the same feminists and beta males would be the first to scream,

“Hey, asshole, women are not dogs!”

Well, no shit.

Who said they were?

It doesn’t change anything.

Operant Conditioning works equally well on girlfriends (and wives, too. If you want a submissive wife, this is how you do it also).

Try this–

• (Negative): If she does something that displeases you, scold her or walk out on her.
• (Negative): If she persists with her bad behavior, you give her the cold shoulder for several days.
• (Positive): If she apologizes for making a mistake, you reward her by giving her attention again.
• (Positive): If she does something that pleases you, you reward her with affection.

This girlfriend behavior modification technique flat-out works. It’s a staple Mind Control technique that every Shogun Method practitioner knows.

You’re now deep in the trenches with me, and you should be realizing one thing by now.

What I teach is nothing like conventional guru dating advice, or, God forbid, Pickup Artists. Unlike those shysters, I teach the real deal.

I teach Mind Control.

But, here’s the important thing to understand. Mind Control doesn’t work for everyone.

Specifically, Mind Control doesn’t work on every woman.

I know that’s somewhat weird for me to say, but it’s the truth. Women respond to Mind Control differently as individuals.

Here’s the important question, though. Does Mind Control work on your woman?

I don’t know. I don’t know her.

What we can do for you, however, is to help you find out for yourself. And to do that, all you need to do is to take this quiz.

In five minutes, we’ll tell you her Vulnerability Score. If she scores above 30, she’s highly vulnerable to Mind Control, and will respond to every tactic you’re going to learn from me.

Some women score a big fat zero. No matter what you do, she’s as dead as a dead duck, so don’t bother.

How do you think your woman will score?

Only one way to find out–take the quiz now. Click this link. Continue right after you find out her Vulnerability Score. free resource

Apart from your woman’s Vulnerability Score, you should also get information on her Shogun Method Archetype from the quiz.

Once you’re done, let’s continue with the second Mind Control tactic you’re going to learn from me today.

And it’s a tactic that’s different from Operant Conditioning in one important way.

Here’s the thing. Operant Conditioning works only for the short-term.

The rewards and discipline may stick with a child or a dog… but not with women. Not for long, anyway.

Why not?

Because of an inherent flaw in female psychology:

A woman has an innate need for emotional rollercoasters.

Women are desperate for emotional rollercoasters in their lives.

They feel unstable and unbalanced without it.

If they don’t have it they go looking for it. If they can’t find it, they’ll create it.

How?

The most common way is by creating drama in a relationship.

She’ll nag you, argue with you, criticize you, disrespect you… just to get a reaction from you…

…so that she gets the emotional rollercoaster she desperately craves.

Now, here’s what you need to understand about the female mind.

Most women don’t know consciously they need emotional rollercoasters.

Most women dismiss it as “needing excitement,” or “just one of my moods,” or “it’s his fault.”

So, here’s what that really means.

Most of the drama your girlfriend creates is subconscious. It’s a knee-jerk response to the lack of emotional rollercoasters in your relationship.

Sure, Operant Conditioning might do the trick. But you’ll need to keep using it over and over… because the effect wears off over time.

You already know that Operant Conditioning is short-term solution.

So, what’s the long-term way to train your girlfriend?

The answer is in the next section… and it’s going to blow your mind.

Buckle up!

So, how do you train your girlfriend to obey you and do what you want?

Answer–

Enslavement.

OK, let me be clear.

By Enslavement, I don’t mean physical Enslavement.

That’s just plain dumb. (Not to mention illegal.)

Instead, I’m talking about emotional Enslavement.

It’s the same kind of emotional addiction women feel for their…

• Netflix dramas
• Hollywood chick flicks
• Gossipy girlfriends
• Erotic novels
• Handbag and lipstick brands
• Pop idols and celebrities

These things create the same emotional pattern inside a woman.

Pain followed by pleasure. Familiarity followed by surprise. Boredom followed by excitement.

Anger followed by joy.

In short, a rollercoaster.

While she’s on the rollercoaster, she’s helpless. She’s powerless against her girlfriends, her erotic novels, her TV soap operas.

And here’s the thing.

In spite of the powerlessness, she is completely happy and satisfied.

You’ll want her to feel the same powerlessness, happiness, and satisfaction with you.

What you’ll do is this.

You’ll give her the same kind of emotional rollercoaster she gets from those things.

And you do it the smart way.

Unlike Operant Conditioning, you don’t wait for good or bad behavior to happen–you just do it.

If you have downloaded the Action Checklist PDF, you’ll already have access to the Master Identity Theory.

The Master Identity is the example of an Enslavement tactic. With it, you’ll overwrite her identity with one you control–and so you will put her under emotional Enslavement.

If you have missed it, download the PDF now. Keep it safe. It’s unlikely I will share it out in the open. Once you learned it, you will understand why.

Apart from the Master Identity, there are plenty of Enslavement tactics inside the Shogun Method knowledge universe to pick and choose from. Here’s a simpler one you can try today–

Out of the blue, without warning, disappear for 24 hours.

Don’t answer her texts, don’t pick up her calls.

Then just show up again.

Naturally, she’s going to ask where the hell you’ve been.

That’s when you tell her:

“I needed time away from you”

Even better, issue the ultimate girlfriend obedient command of all time:

“Don’t text me”

That’s it. No explanations. Just say your piece, and let her take it or leave it.

And then, as the knockout punch, disappear for another 24 hours.

Inside Shogun Method, we call this the Fake Breakup. Or, Dread Game.

Done correctly, it will make your woman beg you for a compromise.

And when she does, that’s when you can lay out your terms.

• You’ll tolerate no disrespect any longer
• She can expect no more Mr. Nice Guy from you
• From now on, she does what you say or fuck off
• She can respect your authority or leave
• Whatever else you want (yes, anything… your imagination is the limit)

And here’s why that works so well.

Since she’s powerless against the emotional rollercoaster you just put her on…

…she can’t help but say yes to you.

And she’ll be glad she did. Because nothing makes a woman happier than knowing she’s with a strong, dominant man.

Not for the faint-hearted, I know. Just like Shogun Method.

Now, the feminists, social justice warriors and beta male soyboys might get one last shot in and yell…

“But Derek Rake… that’s manipulative!”

To that, I say this.

Fair is fair.

Your girlfriend has been creating drama in your relationship for the heck of it…

…but you are creating drama to save the relationship and make her happy.

Which of the two situations is the noble one?

I rest my case.

This Shogun Method guide has just given you one example of how to emotionally Enslave your woman and make her happy.

That one example, the Fake Breakup has helped thousands of Shoguns so far…

…and guess what? It can help you, too. If they can do it, so can you. Trust me on this.

Here’s the catch, though.

To become a true master of emotional enslavement, one technique on its own won’t be enough.

That’s why I invite you to learn the foundational strategy behind all my tactics.

That foundational strategy is Shogun Method. Applied psychology that’s laser-focused to your woman and relationship.

And the best part? You can kickstart your journey to Shogun Method mastery right now.

Yes, right now.

Click here for details on the Shogun Method course.

Remember. You must train your woman. It’s not optional.

Fail to train her, and she’ll make your relationship a living hell, and you’ll end up as a pussywhipped beta male…

…and yet if you train her right, and she’ll be the happiest, most respectful woman in the world.

Take control of her and make her surrender to your dominance and authority.

Shogun Method shows you the way.

Remember: I am on your team.

P.S: Questions? Comments? Need help to train your girlfriend and turn her into a submissive pet? Post a message below and I’ll answer you personally.

The way a man loves a woman differs from how a woman loves a man.

A man loves a woman for who she is.

A woman loves a man when she respects him.

As I teach my brother Shoguns in Shogun Method, a woman can only love a man she respects. In fact, she can’t love a man she has little or no respect for. In the female mind, love is rooted in respect and reverence.

What leads to respect and reverence?

Training is key.

Of course, it sounds somewhat offensive to “train” a woman to love a man. After all, falling in love should come naturally, right?

But, here’s the thing. If you think you can train a child or a puppy into obedience, why do you think you can’t do the same for your partner?

The answer is that you can indeed train your girlfriend to be both loving and obedient. And you should.

Keep this in mind. You are only training your girlfriend to show you’re a man worthy of respect.

If you want a loving, enduring relationship, girlfriend training is 100% essential.

There are two–Master Identity Theory and the Black Rose Sequence.

I can’t teach both out in the open for obvious reasons. I’ve snuck the Master Identity Theory in the back of the Action Checklist PDF (find the download link above). You can get it freely (for now.)

The Black Rose Sequence is available only to verified Shoguns. This knowledge must always be protected and kept inside our community. If you are already a Shogun, it’s here.

I have an Elite Coaching service, but I am usually booked well in advance. And it’s necessarily expensive because of one practical reason:

As there are now 18,000+ Shoguns around the world in our community, I can’t help everyone personally.

If you want to apply, click here. Application does not guarantee acceptance.

Love originates from respect. And respect is born when she senses your masculine worthiness.

What’s masculine worthiness?

Simply put, it’s your value as a man. And it’s measured relative to her value as a woman, in eight ways.

1. You must be smarter than her.
2. You must know more than her.
3. You must understand life better than her.
4. You must solve all her problems.
5. You must be able to take care of her. (And her children.)
6. You must lead her and provide her with guidance.
7. You must be the rock that she relies on to calm her emotional turmoil.
8. You must give her the opportunity to support your own mission.

Everything in girlfriend training revolves around these eight traits. Your words and actions must consistently showcase your masculine worthiness. That’s how you secure the respect and love of a woman for a lifetime.

The IRAE Model maps the four stages of love. It’s how women go from initial interest to lifelong devotion to a man. This forms the core strategy of how Shogun Method operates.

So, where does girlfriend training fit into the IRAE Model?

The answer is the A and E stages. You only start at these stages when she is already committed to you as her girlfriend or wife.

To learn about all four stages, I, R, A and E, go to iraemodel.com. There, you’ll get to download a beautiful digital book for free.

Girlfriend obedience commands are alterations of Implanted Commands to work in girlfriend training.

Implanted Commands are hypnotic phrases that penetrate into a woman’s subconscious, bypassing her rational mind.

Here’s something that may surprise you… your girlfriend doesn’t get to consciously decide to respect you or not. To her, it’s an automatic, emotional and instinctive response.

With Implanted Commands, you influence her emotions and instincts to convey a message to her subconscious–

“Respect me.“

There are 44 Implanted Commands in total. You can find them all inside Module 5 of Shogun Method.

Ivan Pavlov, along with Jung and Freud, played a significant role in shaping Shogun Method. Girlfriend behavior modification draws inspiration from Pavlov’s work.

In the Pavlovian school of conditioning, there are two parts to behavior modification.

• Positive reinforcement.
• Negative reinforcement.

Positive reinforcement is about providing pleasure as feedback to desired behavior. If the target behaves according to what you wish, reward her with praises and approval.

Negative reinforcement is about providing pain as feedback to undesired behavior. If the target behaves against what you wish, punish her with a snub or other kinds of negative feedback.

Behavior modification requires both positive and negative reinforcement. Out of the two, negative reinforcement may be more effective, but you need a good mix of both.

In this guide, I’ve given you an overview of how to train your girlfriend.

You’ve learned three new Mind Control ideas:

1. Masculine worthiness, or the eight traits
2. Implanted Commands
3. Positive and negative reinforcements

The beauty of Shogun Method is that it combines all three elements into one easy strategy. You only need to apply Fractionation on her to achieve this. By Fractionating her, you will:

1. Demonstrate the eight masculine traits.
2. Use Implanted Commands to appeal to her subconscious mind.
3. Reinforce her positive behaviors and repel her negative ones.

All you need to learn Fractionation is to enroll into the Shogun Method online course.

Now that you have the background knowledge, get ready to start obedience training on her. Click here to start.