Today I’m going to share with you the best way to save a relationship in crisis.
I’ll be talking about saving a relationship… not fixing one. If you’re trying to get back together with your ex after she has left you, then that’s a different issue. And that’s not what we are going to talk about here today.
However, if your relationship still has any pulse at all, you can save it. And I’m going to show you how to save it in this short article.
Before that, check out this video :-
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Signs That Your Relationship Is Falling Apart
The first thing to do to save your relationship is to know if you’re close to breaking up. Here are the signs that you need to look out for.
- You may notice that your wife or girlfriend is distant when you try to be close to her.
- Or, your arguments will be getting worse, reaching new levels of intensity. It might seem like every single thing you do and say irritates the shit out of her.
When you see these two big red signs, it means you need to save your relationship, fast!
In a moment I’ll tell you exactly what you need to do. But first, I need to warn you:
You’re already in the danger zone… your relationship will soon be beyond repair. Whatever you do, don’t wait for her heart to grow completely cold.
So, without further ado, this is the three-step formula on how to save a relationship or marriage.
The three steps are:
- Step 1: Disarm her
- Step 2: Confuse her
- Step 3: Enslave her
I’ll explain more about each step, so continue reading!
How To Save A Relationship In Crisis (In Three Steps)
Step 1 is to “DISARM” her.
Imagine you’re in a war. What happens when you throw down your weapons?
You surprise the enemy. That’s what’s gonna happen, right?
And guess what? It’s the same when you’re fighting with your woman.
Catch her off guard by saying something like:
“You’re right. Let’s take a break.”
What happens once you start agreeing with her?
Instead of fighting with you, she’ll become preoccupied with questions.
She’ll start to think: what the fuck is going on?
And as you know, a woman’s imagination is as fruitful as they come. Soon, she’ll start worrying whether she’s actually lost you. And this, my friend, will put you in the position of power.
When she’s disarmed, her defenses come down. You then take the next step…
Step 2 is to “CONFUSE” the shit out of her.
When her defenses are down, then you’ll be in a position to manipulate her mind and emotions.
You do this by communicating one thing to her conscious mind, and another to her subconscious mind. And you do both of these things at the same time.
This may sound rather complicated, but trust me – it’s pretty simple!
The technique that you can use to do this is called Implanted Commands. It’s a Shogun Method tactic which is based on a tremendously powerful hypnosis principle.
Implanted Commands are presented in full detail inside Shogun Method, but here’s a quick explanation of how it works:
First, you’ll tell her a simple, engaging story. This story is to keep her conscious mind occupied so that she stays on track with all the details.
While her conscious mind is distracted, then you’ll be free to slip in some suggestions without her noticing!
Those suggestions become “commands” which will then received and processed by her subconscious without questioning. And you know what? She can’t resist it because she doesn’t even realize it’s there! Sneaky, right?
For example, consider this statement:
“I could tell you that you’ll regret this for the rest of your life, but I’m not going to do that.”
Consciously, she understands that you’re not going to say that she’s going to regret breaking up with you.
However, on a subconscious level, it’s a different story. You’ve “commanded” that she’ll feel regret, and without being consciously aware of it, she starts to react to that idea. And her emotions start to change, experiencing regret as if you’ve already left her.
Amazing, right?
There is a list of 44 Implanted Commands inside Module 6 of Shogun Method, but that example will do wonders for you if you do it correctly.
And once you’ve sown some confusion in her mind, then it’s time to take the final step to seal the deal.
Step 3 is to “ENSLAVE” her mind to you.
I know, I know… enslave is a strong word.
But don’t get me wrong. It’s emotional enslavement that we are talking about here.
The point of “Emotional Enslavement” is to keep her devoted to you for the long term.
After all, what every woman wants is a man whom she could be devoted to for a long time. So, give her what she wants. Enslave her to save her!
So how do you enslave a woman to you emotionally? It’s pretty simple, actually. You do this with a technique called Fractionation.
A Mind Control tactic, Fractionation is a mix of hypnosis, behavioral psychology, and storytelling.
Make no mistake. It’s persuasive. It’s manipulative. And it’s downright sneaky.
And guess what? Your relationship depends on it.
Fractionation works like this:
You lead her through emotional ups and downs. You pull her to you and then you push her away. In other words, you build a connection with her, and then you break it.
And every time you reconnect, the connection will be deeper… until it reaches a point where she becomes emotionally addicted to you.
And when that happens, you will have the ultimate control and authority over her!
Sounds great, right?
It gets even better! Here’s the link to an Online Masterclass where you’ll get to learn the Fractionation technique in full. Click on that link and follow the instructions. 🙂
Christian says
Hi Derek, how long should this process take? My gf has been hinting at an end, seeing the relationship with an expiration date. I’m ending this today, or at least disarming her, but just curious how long it takes to go through the whole process. Still working on making my way through the Shogun Method so I have lots to learn and master.
Derek Rake says
Depending on how severe your relationship crisis is. Some advanced Shoguns could do it in less than a week.
Rockycruz says
Hey Derek
I believe in your book and getting it when my wages come end of this month. I BELIEVE what you’re saying, I have proof of all you say, all by what I have collected over years, testing things out. I wanted to see from every point of view, from nice guy, from this guy, that guy, different women, local, distance, women o18, 20, 25, 35, 40.
Everytime, it happens, over and over again.
But there is something missing, a sequence, process, step by step I need to enslave and it’s why I am getting your book. I am making mistakes, yes but purposely to see what is working and what isn’t. Now I need sequence to hit hard with pure confidence. I’m hungry for knowledge. Hungry!
Please let me know in comment Derek if the book comes with assistance later so I get nudged in right direction sometimes. If it doesn’t, I’m cool with that too. Book is valuable anyway.