How To Regain Power In A Relationship As A Man

Is your woman constantly nagging you? 

Are you increasingly frustrated and unhappy? 

Do you want to regain power over your woman and make her obey you for a change?

Well, listen up because I’ve got some valuable insights for you. The Guilt Inducer technique might just be the gamechanger you need. 

Let’s face it, being a henpecked partner is no fun at all. Many men, just like you, have experienced it. Trust me, I know exactly how you feel.

Here’s the thing, though. You already know that if you keep putting up with her crap, she’ll just keep doing it…

…but you’re also afraid that if you confront her, it might lead to a blow-up.

Is She Dominant In The Relationship?

It’s a tough spot to be in. I understand.

But fear not, because things can change. I’m here to show you how to put an end to her crappy behavior, once and for all. 

Not only that, you’ll transform her into a loving and devoted girlfriend or wife for the long haul… not the female psychopath she might become.

It all starts with one crucial step– 

Understanding why she has taken on the dominant role in your relationship. 

Yes, there’s a reason why she plays that role and not you. And that reason is key to reshaping the power dynamics in your relationship.

So, what’s the reason?

Well, it’s because you, my friend, have somehow stopped leading the relationship.

You didn’t do it on purpose, and yet it happened nonetheless.

Here’s the thing, though. It’s not that women lack the ability to lead —some can lead somewhat well. I mean, there are women CEOs out there, right?

Romantic relationships are different. Women want different things from their men than from their work. And if you’ve read the free IRAE Model book from iraemodel.com, you’ll know what I’m talking about here.

So, what does a woman want from her man? Well, it boils down to love, but not just any love…

…it’s love that intertwines with a deep sense of security.

You want your woman to feel both secure and loved. But she can’t feel that way if you’re merely her follower.

Make sense?

The Absence of Male Leadership

Now, you’ll see that the real issue is the absence of male leadership, your leadership. And that has a deep emotional impact on your woman.

This stresses her out, because as the leader, she feels burdened with the responsibility of providing security. This accumulated stress needs an outlet, which often shows up as henpecking.

And yes, you heard it right. Henpecking is a response from women who don’t feel secure in their relationships. If she disrespects you, it’s because you can’t give her security she craves.

Now, let’s take a moment for self-reflection. This could be painful, but it’s the first step in recovery. So, let me ask you this–

Are you the leader or the follower of your woman?

Alright, now it’s time to delve into the question that we need to ponder over–

How do you regain the power of a leader in your relationship? Or, how do you make her the follower?

Well, it’s all about the Guilt Inducer technique you’re going to learn next. (And if you’re wondering how to get a girl with daddy issues, then this is also the appropriate technique.)

The Guilt Inducer Technique

Before we get into the details, let’s go back to where it all began.

It all started in a community of men who study how the female mind works in love. You might have heard of its name–the Shogun Method brotherhood.

The Guilt Inducer technique came about when Shoguns discovered a fascinating truth–

Women will go to great lengths to avoid feeling guilty.

When accused, a woman can react in two ways: 

One, she denies any blame, numbing herself to the guilt. Or,

Two, she submits and tries to correct her behavior.

The Guilt Inducer technique pushes her towards the second response. And it revolves around a simple phrase: 

“You are ungrateful.”

These are the three words that will pierce through her heart like a poisoned spear, so use carefully. And I will show you how to do it.

Let’s consider a scenario where henpecking arises again and an argument seems imminent. You might say, 

“You’re ungrateful, you know? Despite all I do for you, how dare you treat me this way? How dare you.”

If she denies any blame, reinforce your point with evidence like, 

“Oh really? I paid off your student loans without a simple ‘thank you.’ Ungrateful.” 

If she counterattacks, you don’t have to argue back. All you need is this line– 

“See? Ungrateful. That’s what you are.”

Remember the magic word that you want to use again and again–

UNGRATEFUL.

Repeating words have hypnotic effect, so keep using it. It will register inside her subconscious and she can’t do anything to stop it.

The Ultimate Punishment for Poor Behavior

Now, understand this–

You don’t have to win the argument. Instead, say she’s ungrateful and let your words simmer in her mind. Then, walk away. That’s all it takes.

Repeat this a few more times, and you’ll witness a change in her. She grows kinder, warmer, and even displays a touch more gratitude. Anything to prove she’s not ungrateful, right?

And when this transformation occurs, congratulations. The power is back where it belongs—with you. I gotta warn you though, because your work isn’t done yet. Oh, no.

You see, the ungrateful label is a punishment for her poor behavior. So, if she behaves well as a submissive wife as she should be, you gotta dish out the reward.

How do you do that?

Well, it depends what she likes. Sometimes all it takes is some reassurance that she’s on the right path, a gentle pat on the back. No need to be a fool and and splurge on an LV bag for her. That’s for suckers.

And there you have it, my friend. This is how you regain the power in a relationship as a man. Remember the three magic words that you want to hammer into her mind–

“You are ungrateful.”

Once the Guilt Inducer effect kicks in, she will surrender to you. And when this happens, reward her. If she misbehaves again, wield the Guilt Inducer hammer.

Easy, right?

Now, this cycle of pain, pleasure and pain has a name–Fractionation. In fact, it’s what powerful men use to control their girlfriends emotionally and dominate their relationships, every one of them.

Five years ago, I hit rock bottom. I was sick of getting pushed around by my woman, and let me tell you… she was a one heck of a bully. All it took for me to bring her to heel was a little Fractionation. She turned into an obedient girlfriend but hey, I still dumped her later for a gal with bigger tits, LOL.

Anyway, jokes aside… if you want a strong and happy relationship in which you’re the boss, here’s what to do: be a Shogun.