Many guys don’t know what women want in a man. In fact, the question of “what women want” has befuddled men since forever. In fact, Sigmund Freud once said:
The great question that has never been answered, and which I have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is ‘What does a woman want?’
Amazing, right? I mean, even the greatest psychologist ever lived couldn’t answer that simple question.
So, how do we know what women want? The solution seems obvious… why don’t we just ask them? Surely, a woman will know exactly what she wants in a man…
I once asked a woman I was dating what she wanted in a man, and she told me:
“I want him to listen to me.”
“I want him to love me.”
“I want him to pay attention to me.”
Here’s the weird thing, though. I tried my best to listen to her, love her and pay attention to her. I even walked her poodle, paid for her pedicure and gave her foot massages. Guess what happened?
She dumped me.
Soon, I dated another woman and I asked her the same thing. She said,
“What kind of question is that? I don’t fucking know, man. It’s your job to know what I want.”
I was shocked, but at least this woman didn’t bullshit me. She didn’t know what she wanted in a man… and she wanted me to figure it out for her.
So, does a woman really, truly know what she wants? Here’s the answer:
Surprised? Don’t be. A woman will never know what she wants, that’s the truth. And that’s not all…
She expects YOU to know what she wants.
There’s a reason behind all this, and I’ll tell you what it is in a while, I promise. First, let me tell you another story…
After years of sucking with women, I did something smart:
I joined the Shogun Method brotherhood.
When I got accepted, the first thing I asked my fellow Shoguns was the question that had bugged me for years:
What women want?
An old-time Shogun by the name of Cronos told me:
“Fredo, no woman knows what she wants because her mind is 99% subconscious.
Ask a woman what she wants and she’ll give you the answer from her conscious mind. She’ll tell you to be more loving, listen to her more, pay more attention to her…
…but deeper in her mind, inside her subconscious, there lies another answer.”
At that moment, a light bulb flashed in my head. To know what a woman wants, we have to dig deep into her subconscious mind.
And since Shogun Method is all about the female subconscious, I went to the guy who wrote it, Derek Rake. And guess what? What he told me completely turned how I viewed love and relationships upside down.
The hour I spent with Derek Rake taught me more about women than a decade trying to figure things out on my own. The moment of clarity came when Derek said,
“I’ll tell you now what a woman wants.
She wants to be in a love story.
Call her naive, but it’s true. Every woman wants to be the star in her own romance novel, swept away by a masculine hunk in a thrilling adventure.
In her fantasy, she’s the damsel in distress, trapped in a dire situation, waiting on her Prince Charming for the heroic rescue.
In short, she thirsts for an emotional roller coaster… one on which she would get the thrills of climaxing with triumphant highs only to plunge into the deepest sorrows shortly after.
A woman will subconsciously seek the man who could put her on the emotional hell ride she hungers for. It’s not just happiness that she seeks. She is emotionally enslaved to her insatiable need for drama… a cocktail of joy AND despair.
If you want to give a woman what she wants, put her in a love story… one in which she goes through an emotional hell only to be rescued by you.”
Mind blowing, right?
So, let’s recap what we have learned so far.
- One, a woman doesn’t know what she wants. So, there’s no point asking.
- Two, she wants a love story. Or, in Shogun Method terms, an emotional roller coaster.
- Three, she will subconsciously seek out a man who could give her emotional roller coasters.
This explains a lot of things if you think about it…
I mean, why do women love jerks? Why do they stick to their shitty boyfriends who treat them like crap?
The answer: Emotional Roller Coasters.
Now here’s the thing… you don’t have to be a jerk and treat women badly to give them emotional roller coasters. No!
I mean, most of us guys never want to mistreat women, right? And yet, we must understand how the female mind works:
The only way she could experience tremendous joy is through tremendous distress.
And that’s not all. The more distressed she feels, the greater her joy would be. This female psychology phenomenon is called Fractionation, and we’ll get into that later.
And here’s another thing you must know…
There’s nothing worse to a woman than to live a boring life with zero emotional ups and downs. And that’s why they love chick flicks and romance novels… it’s because they want to ride on the emotional roller coasters through those stories.
Every woman wants to be submissive to her man. She wants to give up control and surrender to the circumstances… so she can simply let go and live.
So, here’s the key takeaway here:
Don’t just try to make your woman happy. Fuck shit up for her from time to time. And the weird thing is that she’ll love you for it!
I gotta warn you, though…
There’s a danger in overdoing the emotional roller coaster. Push it too far and you’ll damage a woman’s psychology for good. And you don’t want that to happen, right?
So, I want you to promise me. If you choose to do this, you must do it the right way. You should never, ever use this to harm women. Psychological and emotional damage is almost impossible to reverse… especially when you use something like Shogun Method.
Next, I’ll share with you a resource that will teach you how to put women on Emotional Roller Coasters. You’ll do this using Fractionation, the flagship technique of Derek Rake’s Shogun Method. If you’ve seen anybody else trying to teach Fractionation, forget it… because Derek’s the pioneer who discovered it.
So, here’s what to do. At the end of article, there’s a link. Click on it to register for the Fractionation online Masterclass. There, enter your email address. The Shogun Method team will email an invitation ticket to the Masterclass – but only if you qualify. Not everyone qualifies, unfortunately, and the only way to find out is to try. (Or, if you don’t qualify, leave me a message below so I can sneak you in.)
This is the moment your life changes forever. Go on, click here.