Dating Advice For Guys (It’s A Landmine Out There!)
Looking for relationship advice for men?
If you are, then you’re at the right place.
Let me take a guess…
Perhaps you already know a considerable bit about dating. However, when it comes to women, you’re not as successful as you’d like to be…
Or, you keep falling for the wrong kinds of women…
Or you’ve tried everything, but nothing’s working… and so you’re looking for new relationship advice for guys.
If any of the above applies to you, then you’ll want to read this guide to the end.
Let me assure you –
The information that you’re going to find here is entirely unique – you’ll never find it anywhere else.
I promise that you’ll never find cookie cutter “dating guru” or “Pickup Artist” stuff here.
Instead, you’ll find some “out-of-the-box” insights that you can use to improve your dating life tremendously…
In particular, you’ll learn about my proprietary “four-step model” that you can use to make any woman fall in love with you quickly.
Table of Contents
- 1 Dating Advice For Guys (It’s A Landmine Out There!)
- 2 Get Ready For “Out-Of-The-Box” Relationship Advice For Men
- 3 Surprising Truth About What Women Really NEED
- 4 Why Pickup Artist (PUA) Tricks Don’t Work
- 5 What Women Really Want From You
- 6 Intrigue (The “I” Stage)
- 7 Rapport (The “R” Stage)
- 8 Attraction (The “A” Stage)
- 9 Enslavement (The “E” Stage)
- 10 The IRAE Model
- 11 Learn Mind Control NOW
Get Ready For “Out-Of-The-Box” Relationship Advice For Men
My name is Derek Rake, and I’m the founder of Shogun Method.
Want to know the most common kind of men who come to me for help?
It’s this: the nice guy who’s a good man through-and-through, but who simply can’t win at love.
One of the many was Kirk, a 33-year-old engineer from Austin, Texas.
Kirk was a genuinely great guy…
- He had an amazing career at a huge multinational, drawing a great salary
- He was the traditional gentleman, and he believed in old-fashioned chivalry
- He was looking for long-term relationships, not short-term “pickups”
…and yet, he was super unlucky with women.
Kirk told me about his past girlfriends:
- His first girlfriend (“Stephy”) started out okay… but soon became an angry and dominant woman who turned him into a pushover
- His second girlfriend (“Clara”) was in a long-distance relationship with him. She eventually got tired of waiting for him and gave up
- His third girlfriend (“Camila”) abruptly left him to go back to her ex… who she married in a matter of weeks
At that point, Kirk thought he was out of options… so he started following Pickup Artist (“PUA”) advice.
And he tasted some success for a while. He had a couple of flings that were fun…
…but in the end, every one of them left him.
When the dust settled, he was still single and lonely.
Finally, truly out of options, he came to see me in San Diego.
And he soon realized he should have come to me FIRST.
Now, answer me this question –
Does Kirk’s story sound somewhat like yours?
Yes? Well, then this Shogun Method guide is for you.
In it, you’ll learn how Kirk solved his problem and started a long-term relationship with the woman of his dreams…
…and how you, too, can do the very same.
And like Kirk, you’ll learn to do it with some rather “out-of-the-box” methods. Keep reading to find out what these methods are.
Surprising Truth About What Women Really NEED
Let’s start by stating a fact about women:
They are EMOTIONAL creatures.
Heck, you probably already know that, right?
Well, so did Kirk. That’s why, with each of his first three girlfriends, he showered them with POSITIVE emotions:
- He did his best to make his girlfriends HAPPY
- He would get on FUN dates with them every Saturday weekend
- He made them feel SECURE when they are with him
And yet they all left him, one by one.
What Kirk didn’t realize was this surprising truth about women:
Women need NEGATIVE emotions, too.
They need “BAD” emotions to balance out the “GOOD”.
In the Shogun Method world, we call this the “emotional rollercoaster.” And it’s what women REALLY desire in their relationships.
How Men And Women Want Different Things In Love
How do you feel when a beautiful woman suddenly strips in front of you?
Turned on, right?
And you couldn’t help it, right? You really can’t. It’s biological.
Well, guess what? The same goes for women and emotional rollercoasters.
Emotional rollercoasters turn women on. They can’t help it. It’s something Mother Nature hard-wired into the female mind over 200,000 years of evolution.
Women get more of these emotional rollercoasters from bad boys and jerks…
…and NOT ENOUGH OF THEM from nice guys.
Now, most nice guys guys – like Kirk – try to fix this by following Pickup Artist advice.
And to make things worse… they quickly realize it’s NOT the solution, either.
Why Pickup Artist (PUA) Tricks Don’t Work
Why don’t Pickup Artist tricks work on women?
Simple, really. Consider these two scenarios –
- If she’s the type who’s looking for a long-term relationship, she’ll soon realize you “tricked” her. And so she leaves you in the end.
- If she’s NOT looking for a long-term relationship, she’ll STILL leave you in the end.
Either way, you lose, right?
And that’s why following Pickup Artist advice is fun for a while… but in the end, you feel even MORE empty.
It makes you realize that being single and lonely isn’t the worst thing…
The worst thing is being single and lonely, and then tasting what it’s like to have a woman in your life…
…and THEN becoming single and lonely again.
No joke… that fucking hurts.
You’ve been through that, right?
Well, you’ve been through ENOUGH. So, let’s fix that today.
What Women Really Want From You
What do women really want?
Again – it’s emotional rollercoasters. Positive emotions, then negative emotions, then more positive emotions.
Who do women fall in love with?
Answer: men who make them feel the most intense emotional rollercoasters.
Think of the happiest, most contented wives you know. Did you notice that at least some of them are married to jerks?
They keep having arguments…
They keep having power struggles (which the guy always wins)…
They’re never the “fairy tale couple”…
…and yet, these women are happier than the others who are married to “nice guy” types of men.
It’s not because these women are dumb.
It’s simply because their husbands are SMART.
These guys KNOW women love emotional rollercoasters. They KNOW their wives will create some drama from time to time. They handle it and give her the emotional ride she needs.
Want women to like you, trust you, then fall MADLY IN LOVE with you?
Then follow the four steps you’re about to discover in this guide.
It’s the same four steps I taught Kirk the day I met him.
And it’s the same four steps that helped Kirk find and marry the woman of his dreams.
Let’s start with the first step!
Intrigue (The “I” Stage)
At the time, Kirk had his eyes set on Leanna, a 25-year-old interior designer in his social circle. (Name changed for privacy reasons)
Leanna was smart, kind, and goal-oriented – exactly the kind of woman he wanted to be in a relationship with.
The first step I taught Kirk was to “intrigue” her in a way that no other guy could. Here’s how he did it.
I taught Kirk that every woman has two “faces”:
- Her “social face,” which is the personality she shows to society; and
- Her “alter ego,” which is the personality she’d show if she knew she wasn’t being judged (or, the true nature of women.)
I told Kirk that he had to speak to Leanna’s “alter ego.” That way, she’d start dropping her “social face” around him, and be herself more.
Kirk did this at a party. Leanna started talking to him about business, to which he replied:
“Really? It’s my day off and you want me to tell you about work? Let’s lighten up, please.”
(In the Shogun Method world, that’s known as the Intrigue Ping.)
Leanna laughed, and from then on started relaxing around Kirk. That’s when he moved to Step #2…
Rapport (The “R” Stage)
Here, Kirk needed Leanna to feel a much stronger emotional connection to him than to any other guy in her life.
He did it by speaking to her in the same way she speaks to herself in her mind.
(Technically, this is known as VAKSOG Matching.)
Here’s how he did it: Whenever Leanna spoke, he took note of the words she used.
He noticed that she used “visual” words often: “See,” “Beautiful,” “Watch,” “View,” and so on.
And so he started using the same words while speaking to her. He would be as “visual” as he could in their conversation.
Soon, Leanna was telling him:
“Are you sure we’ve never met?”
“Wow, that’s EXACTLY right! How did you know that about me?”
“It’s like you know me better than my best friend!”
She started feeling a super-strong connection with Kirk. It was a connection that he soon turned into attraction.
Attraction (The “A” Stage)
Kirk started taking Leanna out on dates, where they talked more and got to know each other better.
During these dates, they would normally talk about non-romantic topics. Then Kirk would branch off and talk about something related to romance and sex. Then he’d go back to being non-romantic again.
He did this over and over. It was a subtle emotional rollercoaster for Leanna… but she loved it anyway.
(Shogun Method students know this: the key to making a woman attracted to you is to put her through a series of emotional rollercoasters.)
Soon enough, Leanna fell in love with Kirk – and they got into a relationship.
Kirk finally had a girlfriend who was MAD for him… and yet guess what? He wasn’t finished.
Enslavement (The “E” Stage)
Even after Leanna became his girlfriend, Kirk kept putting her on emotional rollercoasters:
- Most of their deep conversations were emotional rollercoasters
- Most of the dates they went on involved some emotional rollercoasters
- Their vacations were emotional rollercoasters from start to finish
- When they argued, Kirk stood his ground and established his dominance. At first, it shook Leanna, but it made her love him even MORE later
The effect? Leanna got COMPLETELY addicted to Kirk.
She knew she could NOT get this kind of emotional satisfaction from any other guy in the world.
In other words, Leanna is emotionally enslaved to Kirk. Leaving him is a sheer impossibility for her… because she needs him like she needs water and food to survive.
Today, Kirk and Leanna are happily married, and Kirk is a completely changed man. He’s a far cry from the wimpy nice guy I first met when he came to my San Diego office. In fact, he had trained his wife in such a way that she became completely subservient to him.
The IRAE Model
Is there one woman you have your eyes on, too?
Oh, many women?
What if I told you that one of them can be your girlfriend in a couple of weeks… or even less?
It’s possible. It happens all the time. Leanna willingly became Kirk’s girlfriend in less than a week.
You’ll need to learn some hardcore Shogun Method techniques.
Remember the four steps?
It’s what we call the IRAE Model in Shogun Method. (IRAE is pronounced eye-ray, and it stands for Intrigue-Rapport-Attract-Enslave).
It’s the definitive roadmap or “stages of love” that you must bring a woman through if you want her to be with you.
Inside each of these stages are the Mind Control tactics that you’ll use to bring the woman closer to Enslavement.
In Kirk’s example above:
- In the Intrigue stage, Kirk bypassed Leanna’s “social face” and connected directly with her “alter ego.”
- In the Rapport stage, Kirk used a Shogun Method technique called “matching her VAKSOG Modes.”
- And in the Attraction and Enslavement stages, Kirk used a Shogun Technique called “Fractionation.”
All of these techniques do one thing on your woman:
They put her on emotional rollercoasters.
And that, my friend, is the “secret sauce”.
It makes her see you in a special way – MUCH more special than she sees any other guy in her life. It’s true.
Learn Mind Control NOW
Here’s the deal…
Learning the ways of Shogun Method (and the IRAE Model) cannot be done in a single day.
In other words: Shogun Method is not a magic bullet. You can’t just buy Shogun Method and then expect miracles to happen.
However, that doesn’t mean that you can’t get quick results if you want them…
…and that’s why I’m offering you a “Quick Start” version of Shogun Method – an invitation to my Online Masterclass on Mind Control.
Inside this Masterclass, you’ll learn the quickest way to put a woman through an emotional rollercoaster so that she falls in love with you.
So, here’s the deal –
If you want to stop being single and lonely…
…and if you’re serious about starting a relationship with the woman of your dreams…
…then do this:
Learn how to use Mind Control to put a woman through intense emotional rollercoasters.
To do that, click this link:
After you click the link, a new page will come up. Follow the instructions on that page and you’ll be all set.
Women don’t like nice guys.
And they don’t like Pickup Artists either.
What do they like?
Emotional rollercoasters. They can’t get enough of them.
YOU can give it to them. YOU can make them fall MADLY IN LOVE with you.
Here’s the catch… you MUST master Mind Control. It’s the key.
I’ll see you in the Masterclass next,
P.S: Questions? Comments? A story to share? Be sure to sound off in the comments section below. Get writing!