How To Make A Woman To Submit To Your Authority
Do you sometimes wish you could “train” your wife?
Do you sometimes wish you could make her more obedient and respectful?
Or, maybe you’re secretly wishing for a submissive wife who obeys you without question?
I know, I know… it’s not something you say out loud.
You could already imagine what the feminists would say:
“Who the hell TRAINS his wife?”
“Who are you to tell your wife what to do?”
“You’re sexist, misogynist, and chauvinist!”
Yadda, yadda…
But let’s face it – if your wife has been disobedient or disrespectful…
…and you wish you could train her…
…but you feel guilty or shameful inside…
…then understand this:
It’s NOT your fault.
In fact, you could probably blame the feminists and Social Justice Warriors for it. They’re the ones who convinced society with bullshit such as “Happy wife, happy life.”
Table of Contents
- 1 How To Make A Woman To Submit To Your Authority
- 2 Shock Collar For Your Wife Or Girlfriend…?
- 3 Does Your Wife Need To Be Trained?
- 4 Why “Happy Wife” Does NOT Mean “Happy Life”
- 5 Wife Training Techniques: What “Pickup Artists” Don’t Know
- 6 How To Make A Woman Submit To You: Three Enslavement Techniques
- 7 Fractionation Will Turn Your Wife Into A Submissive Little Kitten
Shock Collar For Your Wife Or Girlfriend…?
Yeah, I said it. “Happy wife, happy life?” It’s pretty much hogwash.
I mean, you’ve witnessed it for yourself, right? The better you treat your wife…
- The more she walks all over you
- The more she pushes you around
- The more batshit crazy she becomes
- The more she pussywhips you
- The more she wears the pants in the household
- The more psychotic she becomes
And to top it all off – she never seems satisfied!
Instead, she gets more and more irritable, demanding, and critical of you. She’s slowly turning into a female sociopath right in front of your very eyes. You hate to admit it, but she’s becoming an asshole.
So what’s the deal here? Why do wives go down this path of nastiness?
And most importantly, how to train your wife without getting shamed or thrown in jail?
Well, that’s what this Shogun Method guide is all about. It’s not quite the “shock collar for your wife” or a “wife training class” or “wife obedience training bootcamp” but it’s close. 🙂
Does Your Wife Need To Be Trained?
Most husbands make the mistake of thinking that after the wedding, the game is over.
But how wrong they are. They realize too late that the game is only starting.
It’s something Dan, one of my Shogun Method clients, realized a little late.
He told me his story when he came to my San Diego office last summer:
“When Liz was just my girlfriend, our relationship was awesome,” Dan told me.
“Everything was so smooth and effortless. Like we were DESTINED to get married. But everything went downhill after the wedding!”
Dan then described what his relationship with his wife Liz was like then and now:
- Before, she respected his authority …but now, she WAS the authority
- Before, she was happy and satisfied …but now, she was never satisfied
- Before, the relationship was effortless …but now, Dan feels like he’s walking on eggshells
- Before, she was docile …but now, she’s like a ticking time-bomb of a female sociopath
He asked me rather bluntly: “What to do when your wife hates you?”
Are you in a similar rut as Dan was?
Do you feel like you could do with a more “submissive” wife?
If so, then I’ll tell you what I told Dan …read on!
Why “Happy Wife” Does NOT Mean “Happy Life”
Let me say this once and for all:
“Happy wife, happy life” is NOT meant to be your marriage’s motto.
The reason is simple…
Letting your wife push you around will NOT make her happy.
And here’s why:
A woman will only be truly happy when she follows the lead of a dominant man.
It’s true!
This sounds politically incorrect, but fuck it. Being submissive is something Mother Nature has programmed into normal, healthy females.
It should be obvious, right?
Imagine this situation:
Let’s say you and your wife are faced with a financial problem. It’s a no-win situation – no matter what you do, you’ll both lose money.
Naturally, she expects you to do something before the problem gets worse. So, answer this question for me:
Which statement from you would make your wife happier?
- Answer #1: “I’ll go with whatever makes you happy, honey.”
- Answer #2: “I’ll take care of it.”
She’ll LOVE you more if you told her Answer #2.
Even if it puts her own opinion in the backseat.
Here’s why she’ll love you…
Because you’re a strong, dominant guy who’s completely in control, even in bad situations.
When I told this to Dan, he agreed with me… but he also said:
“You’re right, Derek, but wouldn’t my wife throw a fit if I suddenly started dominating her?”
Great question!
Here’s the answer:
Well, you don’t have to transform to the Dominating Alpha Male right off the bat. Especially if you follow everything I say in this guide.
Now, in case you’re thinking, “Great, more pickup tips,” then you’ll be surprised…
Wife Training Techniques: What “Pickup Artists” Don’t Know
In fact, if you used Pickup Artist tricks to win your wife’s heart…
…then it’s probably the reason why she’s walking all over you right now.
Here’s why: Pickup Artist tricks may work only for the short-term.
In the Pickup Artist world, the goal is to have sex with a woman. That’s the endgame. And that’s exactly why it’s problematic.
Pickup Artists have zilch to offer about leading a strong, happy, lifelong marriage.
That’s why most Pickup Artists get caught with their pants down in marriage. All of a sudden, their old Pickup Artist tricks don’t work. And so they foolishly let their wives take the lead in their relationships.
Sad.
Now, let me clarify this outright…
Pickup Artist tricks might work for, well, “pickup” or “seduction”. But it fails miserably when it comes to long-term relationships. Like, you know, marriages.
Submissive Wife Training
Here’s the bottom line:
Never rely on lightweight Pickup Artist or Dating Guru tricks to train your wife.
Instead, you’ll need something even more powerful:
Emotional Enslavement
Emphasis on the “emotional” part. I don’t, and never will, advocate physical enslavement (which is pretty much slavery).
Besides, emotional enslavement is more common than you think:
- It’s when you feel compelled to follow a TV show
- It’s when you feel compelled to buy a certain brand
- It’s when you feel compelled to pursue your hobbies and interests
You don’t “need” to follow the TV show. You don’t “need” to buy the brand. You don’t “need” to pursue your hobbies and interests.
But you do anyway, because you’re addicted to them.
THAT’S the kind of emotional enslavement you’ll put your wife under. And that’s the foundation to Shogun Method-style wife training techniques you’re going to learn next.
Now if “enslavement” makes you somewhat uncomfortable, know that it’s perfectly natural.
I want you to understand this, however…
There are only two ways for you to solve your problem with your wife:
- Option #1: You can hope and pray that she trains herself to be more respectful and obedient, or
- Option #2: You can train her yourself.
Option #1, well, is not an option at all. Leaving things up to her is precisely what got you into this mess in the first place!
No-brainer, right?
How To Make A Woman Submit To You: Three Enslavement Techniques
Next let me share with you the three enslavement techniques that I taught Dan. They helped him train his wife, and will help you train yours as well.
Technique #1: Emotional Blackmail
If your wife ever said, “If you loved me, you would ___”, then you’ve been emotionally blackmailed.
And guess what? Two can play that game!
The formula is simple. It goes like this:
“If you don’t (something you want), then I’ll (something that you’re sure will hurt her emotionally).”
The closer to and more reliant she is on you, the more effective this tactic becomes.
(The second volume of the Black Book component of Shogun Method contains the Emotional Blackmail strategy in its entirety.)
Technique #2: Gaslighting
This is an “office politics” power move that I’ve adapted for relationships.
Gaslighting works like this:
- You highlight one of her fears or insecurities
- If she defends herself or denies it, double-down and give examples to prove your point
- Once she admits you’re right, you’re in power
- Shower her with kindness and approval to reinforce her new, more submissive attitude
- Repeat until she’s completely obedient and respectful to you
As with emotional blackmail, repetition is the key in gaslighting. Alternate your “training” with periods of kindness and enjoyment.
Technique #3: Fractionation
Fractionation is the cornerstone technique of Shogun Method. It’s what all the other techniques, including emotional blackmail and gaslighting, are based on.
In fact, if you could only learn and use one technique to train your wife, I suggest you pick Fractionation.
Fractionation is a storytelling technique that exploits one of the female mind’s biggest flaws:
Her weakness (and addiction) for emotional rollercoasters.
When you put your wife on an emotional rollercoaster, all her logical reasons for resisting you simply melt away.
As a result, she’ll be more vulnerable to your suggestion and instruction.
And that’s how you would train your wife and transform her into a submissive partner in your marriage.
Fractionation Will Turn Your Wife Into A Submissive Little Kitten
Let’s revisit Dan’s story.
After he learned Fractionation from me (and a slew of other mind manipulation techniques), he went off to use them on Liz.
And guess what? The results were tremendous:
- She stopped nagging
- She stopped criticizing
- She stopped contradicting everything Dan said or did
- She started looking to Dan to tell her what to do
- She started needing Dan’s validation and love
- She started respecting him more
- She started actively making the marriage a happier place for both of them
Amazing, right?
Guess what? It’s now your turn.
I’ll say it again: You MUST train your wife. It’s not optional.
You need to be in control, and she needs to be happy. Your marriage’s survival is at stake.
Being in control and having authority over her is how you can make a relationship last.
Let’s recap:
You’ve seen an overview of three Emotional Enslavement wife training techniques that will help restore the power balance in your favor:
Emotional Blackmail, Gaslighting, Fractionation
That will give you a tremendous kickstart in your Shogun Method journey. (For detailed strategies, comprehensive tips and word-for-word routines for all three tactics, see Module 7 of Shogun Method.)
Out of the three techniques, Fractionation is the most important. It’s the keystone to everything you need to train your wife.
You can learn the Fractionation technique in my Online Mind Control Masterclass. It is widely touted as the most authoritative resource on Fractionation, and deservedly so:
Online Mind Control Masterclass (Request Invite)
Remember: there are only two ways your marriage will survive…
You can either hope and pray your wife trains herself… or you can train her starting from now.
The answer is obvious, so act right now and strike while the iron is hot!
Take the next step and click here now. A new page will come up. There, enter your details and if you qualify, you’ll receive your Private Invite over email.
I’ll see you in the Masterclass, alright?
PS: Got questions or comments about training your wife? Leave them below and I will answer them.
I think men do need to be in charge and dominant as women are weak and emotional and can be very childlike. I believe women love a dominant man but won’t admit it. Unless they are trained from birth (as in some countries) they definitely need training in later life. Fathers should take responsibility for their training at an early age and when they give their daughters away in marriage so should be ready for husbands authority, with minimum training required. A woman submitting to her husbands god given authority is natural and women’s nature is to be commanded and led by men, who are obviously superior in every way
You’re a pretty rare breed, Patricia. 🙂
As a women, Patricia, I totally agree with you.
It took me a long time before I admitted to myself, or just understood, that the real big problem in my relationships, was the lack of authority coming from my male partner. They were so “crushed” by their agressive, dominant. unsatisfied by the new ways of life, babyboomer mothers, that its almost impossible to find a man who is not afraid of what a woman will do or think of them. Even worst; they don’t take charge or initiate things. They don’t always take the first step; when the door bell rings, when someone approach your couple to talk or anything else, they let their female partner take the lead! I mean… And its not their fault because their mother crushed them and took all the space. Never realizing that this boy you are treating like a second class citizen will turn into a man. And he will never be confortable as man in his manly skin because he was only tauhgt to step aside and give space to the ”goddess”.
At the same time, they did not learn how to help around the house. You basically end up living with a teenager. It feels like your a single mother in charge. Hard to admire and feel happy as a women in these conditions.
The boyfriend I am with now, and we met a long time ago, and we are truly soulmates…well…he suffers from that too.
His parents take a lot of place. They are very dominant, they talk a lot. If we would come from a trip and try to talk about it, they would interrupt us and talk about their own old stories we heard a zillion times. I often told my boyfriend not to be scared to say what he thinks and tell them politaly; excuse me dad or mom, I ways saying something, or I was talking about my trip and I am not finished. You know what I mean? Put them back in their place. Or say what he thinks, clear and loud. And say NO when its NO. We had many arguments over the past two years because he nerver says no to hi parents or sisters, without even considering plans we already had or my opinion, or my availability. Why? Because saying NO was not an option for him. So I slowly but steadily push him to be his own self towards his family.
Its a big point I think because once he will take his place and assume it, inside his family dynamic, he will do it everywhere.
Witch brings us to me; I also encourage him a lot to not view me as a praying mantis. I keep telling him how anxious and unhappy it makes me when he is not taking charge and taking decisions like a man should. I am often relieved that we don’t have kids(I can’t have kids) because he lets me be the authority figure with our animals (a cat and 2 dogs) I mean…. For real??
Even with sex, it took a while but now its an area where I’m mostly satisfied, where I encouraged him to feel like its ok to be MY predator…Its okay to let the raw, masculine and agressive sexual pulses come up and seek to get a relief of them…WITH ME. I am not made of porcelaine, did I say many times. Undress me, when you want, where you want, show me what you want right there and then, and I will do anything you want. Don’t you know I would do anything you want if you just ask? ASK! I repeated many times to him. You know…told him many times; Its ok to be a man and act like one. Its ok to make me your doll, your pleasure object, I Do get pleasure out of it, I was WIRED that way, it makes me HAPPY. (please note I am not talking about shitty fifty shade of shit here) Just normal hormonal male and female vibe thing. Anyways, it seemed to have worked well because he is gaining confidence and he is not the same man in bed. He is enjoying himself more and more and so am I.
Some days I just wish I could go to the end of a field and scream at the top of my lungs because I need my BF to dominate me, gently, in a kind way, like we share such a sweet love, But still be in charge. Be the man. I feel so anxious and so frustrated because of his teenage behavior. We talk about it. I don’t know where its going. But I can’t directly use the words I just used in the previous sentence.
I wish I could. But its too much. Too much in this period of time we are living in. He would think I am nuts or something. But I dream about it all the time. I want him to be THAT MAN sososososososo much. So I can finally just be my little dolly cute feminine and relaxed self.
Please note, that my BF has a good career and his someone I fully trust and respect. He his not doing nothing with his life etc. Just lacking confidence as a man. 🙁
Thanks for “listening”
I don’t know what to do.
Enjoyed reading this article a lot.
M
How about you patricia? Have you ever try this?was ok?
♀️
Teach me how to prove who’s in charge without the use of manipulation. I used to know a few female doms that had taught me a thing or two. They’re out there.
What happens when a very insecure man tries these methods on a strong woman raised by her Dad and knows mind games and abnormal psychology? Are there woman who cant be broken?
Nope. Shogun Method works on all women because they are all wired the same way.
‘Enslavement is the key to a woman’s emotional well-being and happiness. ‘ I would like to meet the happy slave women who are emotionally fulfilled by your presence.
Well Sam I’ll try to be brief. So I married my submissive. We are in a D/s relationship / marriage. She’s 110% my submissive, wife, slave. She’s in a week long work training seminar this week. Yes she has a job she loves, to meet her / us you would have no idea we are in a committed long time D/s marriage. She’s already texted me 4 times today telling me how much she loves me and how much she loves being owned by me. She tells me constantly how safe and secure she feels being my submissive wife.
I could probably write my own book on how we got from the first meet for coffee to her being my owned submissive wife, slave.
Suffice to say swift hard punishment followed by lots of reward and praise. Consistency, honesty respect. I have her complete trust and loyalty. She has my complete respect appreciation and love for her submission. SJM
I am outraged by this fucking white pieces of shit ruining our gender equal economy, but in all honesty this article does have an extremely valid point. I believe that wives should be held on leashes as it is a fantastic way to tame them and make them obey you. Then we can fuck them very nice.
True to a certain extent. But remember: women are not the enemy.
How can I help convince my husband to take control over me? I try to be submissive, but am very strong willed sometimes and forget to stay in my place. And I have told him several times that I fully believe women are under men and I want this and he excitedly agrees to it, but he doesn’t follow through. );
you should empower him to take charge. sign and notarize a discipline contract and ask him to take charge and keep you in line. the contract should clearly state that discipline is what you want and that it will never be called abuse amd used against him.
There is much confusion surrounding this subject, and D/s is often interpreted as a means to control women. Many of the men who are attracted to D/s for that reason, have issues that make them completely unsuited to act as a Dom. Submissive women are not looking for a chauvinist, mysogynist, narcissist, sociopath, or abuser, but unfortunately, many of them do not understand this, so that is what they end up with.
Years ago, a friend who had been a submissive for decades, told me that what had driven her to the lifestyle was a controlling husband. There is a big difference between acting out on your particular personality disorder, and entering into a mutual give and take relationship where each party receives what they desire or need.
I grew up learning that women were 2nd to men openly. My dad ran the house and was the authority and it was always my pleasure to make sure that he was comfortable because it made MY LIFE comfortable. Now with my husband, I fully trust that he knows best, and by doing so I’m nice and round with his first baby! And he gave that to me because I’m clean, organized, supportive, and pretty. So little work for so much happiness! I mean, be honest ladies, doesn’t it give you a little sexy thrill to submit fully? :3
While female submission is a beautiful thing, the techniques of gaslighting and emotional blackmail will not get long-term results for positive and genuine submission because they are purely beta tactics only used by weak men. A real alpha would never have to resort to those because he has the tools to lead from love, logic, and confident assertiveness rather than of insecure, domineering techniques straight out of the narcissistic playbook. I have been on both sides of this dynamic and guarantee that my bitches are loyal because they benefit from submitting to my guidance.