When Is It Time To Break Up With Someone You Love?
Do you have a girlfriend or wife, but your relationship with her has gone from good to bad to horrible?
- Be tired of being disrespected
- Feel she doesn’t love you anymore
- Feel sick of being dominated, manipulated, and pushed around
- Have caught her cheating, and you feel betrayed
- Be weary of her neverending drama and negativity
- Still love her, but feel like giving up
You’re having such a horrible time that you’re thinking of breaking up with her.
And guess what? You’re not alone feeling this way.
In fact, my email inbox gets filled with questions like:
“I want to break up with my girlfriend but I still love her. What should I do, Derek?”
“Should we break up or stay together?”
“When is it time to break up with someone you love?”
“How to know when it’s time to break up?”
If you have a similar question, then you’ll find the definitive answer in this Shogun Method guide.
See this video :-
Table of Contents
- 1 When Is It Time To Break Up With Someone You Love?
- 2 Nelson’s Story
- 3 How To Manipulate A Woman’s Emotions (And Make Her Love You For It)
- 4 Now, It’s Your Turn
Let me tell you a story about this Shogun Method client of mine.
Nelson was a 33-year old attorney I met recently. He had been married to his wife Jill for about six years. He loved her a lot, but now he felt like just giving up.
“She’s just a nasty little bitch all the time now,” Nelson told me.
“She’s never satisfied, she’s always mad about something, and she never listens to me. At times she acts like a female sociopath. I don’t understand. Am I not good enough for her? Would it be better if we just went our separate ways?”
What did I tell Nelson that day?
It’s all in this Shogun Method guide. But here’s what I CAN say at this point:
What I told him that day completely SHOCKED him.
And if you, too, are thinking about breaking up your long-term relationship… then this guide will likely shock you, too.
I told Nelson three big things that day. And here’s the first one:
#1: “It’s Not Your Fault”
The first thing I told NELSON that it was NOT his fault his relationship falling apart.
EVERY relationship goes bad in time. EVERY SINGLE ONE. No exceptions.
It’s natural. You can’t avoid it.
You see, there are so many factors that push relationships to failure. They include:
- The “Law of Familiarity.” When you have too much of anything, you start taking it for granted. (In Nelson’s case, Jill was taking him for granted.)
- When the relationship falls into a routine, it starts to feel pointless for a woman.
- These days, society demands men and women should have “equal footing” in a relationship. This is a disaster waiting to happen – you’ll see why as you continue to read this guide.
And if your own relationship is on the rocks, it’s NOT your fault, either.
But – there’s a catch.
Here’s the second thing I told Nelson:
#2: “It IS Your Responsibility.”
True: it wasn’t his fault that things were going under…
…and yet guess what? It was HIS responsibility to fix the relationship.
Likewise – if your relationship is broken, it’s YOU responsibility to fix it.
I mean, duh. You’re the guy. You’re the leader of the relationship. It’s your job.
Ever heard of the Social Justice Warrior mantra that “men and women should be equal in all respects”?
Men and women are not equal.
In fact, if you agreed with that mantra even just a little during your relationship…
…it’s probably one of the reasons things are SO BAD with your woman right now.
When the man doesn’t act like “the man” in the relationship:
- His woman can’t respect him. And she can’t love a guy she can’t respect
- His woman starts “wearing the pants” in the relationship, because someone has to
- His woman realizes she’s trapped to a weak, passive man and that makes her dissatisfied as HELL
So, let me repeat that.
Men and women are not equal.
Men have to lead, and women have to follow.
The man is the alpha in the relationship.
And as such, it’s your job as the leader to fix the broken relationship.
Initially, Nelson had an objection to this. He told me:
“Derek, why is it just MY job to fix the relationship? Shouldn’t Jill do HER part of the job, too?”
“No,” I answered. “She doesn’t have to do her job because it WASN’T her job in the first place. And if you waited for her to do her job, you’ll be waiting forever.”
I mean: think of it this way –
She can’t even fix HERSELF!
And you’re expecting her to fix your relationship for you?
Not gonna happen, right?
So , here’s a quick recap…
The good news is that it’s NOT your fault that things have gone to the dogs.
The “bad” news? It’s YOUR responsibility to make things better.
And here comes the cold, hard truth:
She’s only behaving badly because you haven’t been DOMINANT enough in your relationship.
So, let’s say you decide to break up with her today. Then, one day you’ll realize that you could have rekindled the relationship, but you didn’t…
…and you’ll live to regret that decision, possibly for a lifetime.
And that brings me to the third thing I told Nelson that day:
#3: “Knowing That, Do You REALLY Want To Break Up With Her?”
I know it hurts, and yet I have to say it again.
It was your lack of dominance that caused your relationship’s problems. Your woman’s bad behavior is just the result.
But I know – you had no idea.
So, again, it’s not your fault.
Here’s the truth –
If you break up your relationship now, you’re pretty much giving up and admitting defeat.
If you can live with that, then that’s okay. (Most guys can’t.)
But, do you think it’s worth it?
After all, post-breakup, you’ll probably need to do the following things:
- Get your life back together again
- Probably have to move somewhere else
- Deal with a messy divorce (if you’re married)
- Start dating again
- Have to adjust to your new girlfriend again
- Have to deal with her psychotic behavior all over again
- And other crap you’ll have to deal with
Do you really want to go through all of that?
In fact, I think you’d do the smart thing and try to salvage the relationship.
After all, you’ve poured too much time, money, and energy into your relationship to give up now.
You’d rather get up, man up, and fight tooth and nail to make things right.
You’d rather give yourself one last chance to redeem yourself and save your relationship.
That’s exactly how Nelson felt when he realized his mistake.
And since he had nothing to lose, he went ALL IN – and won Jill back.
Here’s how he did it…
How To Manipulate A Woman’s Emotions (And Make Her Love You For It)
I taught Nelson the fastest way to establish his dominance and save his relationship:
He had to manipulate Jill’s emotions.
I’ll show you how he did that in short while, step-by-step, so keep reading. For now, let’s talk about you and your woman.
Here’s how I would analyze your situation:
- Your relationship is falling apart because your woman is behaving badly
- She’s behaving badly because her emotional needs aren’t being met
- Her needs aren’t being met because she never feels emotional rollercoasters anymore. (Unlike when you were still dating)
- She’s not feeling those emotional rollercoasters anymore because of one reason. You’ve been too focused on making her “happy”
- And that’s a problem because – get this – women need negative emotions, too
(If you didn’t realize #5 before now, don’t worry. Neither did Nelson or most other guys I’ve coached.)
So, here’s what you must do right now:
Your #1 priority is to put her on emotional rollercoasters. You’ve got to give her the “tingles” once again.
Give Her The PHYSICAL Excitement She Craves
In Nelson’s case, he knew that Jill was starved for excitement in their relationship.
At the same time, Nelson’s company was having a celebratory field trip soon.
So Nelson, out of the blue, told Jill: “We’re going on a field trip today. Pack some clothes. We leave in an hour.”
Jill was surprised, but she obeyed. She rode with Nelson and his co-workers for three hours into the country.
It turns out the field trip involved tandem skydiving in the sunset. And Jill was terrified of heights.
Since Jill was already there, and she was unwilling to ride another three hours back to town, she agreed to come along.
The skydive scared her shitless, and she “hated” Nelson for it.
But guess what? It did the trick.
In the days that followed, Jill became sweeter and more respectful of Nelson.
Give Her The EMOTIONAL Excitement She Craves
Nelson didn’t stop there. He knew he had to keep her on the emotional rollercoaster.
So he kept throwing his weight around the relationship. He started to act like an asshole… just like I asked him to.
When she argued with him, he argued right back – unlike before, where he would end the argument with a meek “Yes, dear.”
And one day, they had a HUGE argument where Jill threatened to leave.
The old Nelson would have given in to her demands, just to avoid being “the bad guy.”
But not this time.
Looking her in the eye, Nelson told Jill:
“You think you’ll hurt me by leaving? Fuck you. Don’t insult me.”
That SHOCKED Jill to no end – Nelson had never sworn to her before. She had to exit the argument in a huff.
But you know what?
Later, Jill came back on her own, apologized to Nelson, and asked if she could stay.
(Pro tip: never shy away from pissing off a woman.)
Now, It’s Your Turn
Today, Nelson and Jill are still married. And with a stronger, more dominant Nelson in charge, things are getting better and better.
Giving a woman the emotional rollercoaster she craves? You do it with Mind Control.
Making a woman emotionally addicted to you? You do it with Mind Control.
Forcing a woman to be subservient to your dominance and authority? You do it with Mind Control.
That’s the key. Nelson mastered it.
And now, it’s your turn.
If you want to save your relationship FAST, then here’s what you MUST do, right now.
I’m inviting you to join my Online Masterclass on Mind Control. Click this link below:
(We qualify everyone who wants to join the Masterclass. Because of this, use your best e-mail address when signing up. That’s where I’ll send your Invite Ticket as soon as you qualify.)
I want you to remember this:
If your relationship is failing, it’s not your fault. But it IS your responsibility to make things better.
She won’t fix your relationship.
And the relationship won’t fix itself.
It’s ENTIRELY on YOU.
And that’s good news. Why? Because you’re more than capable to get the job done and make your relationship even better than before.
The secret sauce? Mind Control. And its power can be yours today.
I’ll see you in the Masterclass after this,
P.S: Questions? Comments? A story to share? Sound off in the comments section below. I’d love to hear from you.