Unrequited Love – What To Do When She Doesn’t Love You Back?
It’s worse than heartburn.
Worse than kidney stones.
Worse even than watching the Miami Dolphins “play” football.
It might be most awful, soul-wrenching feeling in the entirety of life.
I’m talking, of course, about unrequited love.
We’ve all been there. We’ve all felt it.
We all know just how mentally and emotionally crushing it is.
And we all know how difficult it is to overcome—one way or another.
More often than not, it devours us. We are lost in a black pit that we can never quite crawl back out of.
But I’m here to tell you: the dragon of unrequited love can be slain.
You can emerge victorious.
But you don’t just have to take my word for it.
In this guide, you’ll learn all about the psychology behind unrequited love. And importantly, how you can hack it with a simple Mind Control technique.
You’re going to learn all you need to know about this technique, but for now, I’d like to introduce you to my friend Jamin.
Table of Contents
- Unrequited Love – What To Do When She Doesn’t Love You Back?
- Meet Jamin, A Case Study in Unrequited Love
- How Not To Deal With Unrequited Love: Beware Of Bad Relationship Advice!
- The Truth About Women: Emotion Trumps Reason Every Time
- The Key To Unlocking Unrequited Love: Manipulate Her Emotions!
- Accept Your True Nature As A Manipulator
- How To Manipulate A Woman’s Emotions In Four Steps
- How To Use Fractionation On Women
Meet Jamin, A Case Study in Unrequited Love
I could see it in his eyes—Jamin was hopelessly smitten.
“So, what’s her name?”
More than just his eyes, though, I could see it in his bearing and in his posture. Jamin carried a heavy weight with him.
And, little by little, day by day, it was slowly wearing him down. Breaking him.
“Alright. Tell me about Sarah.”
“Oh, she’s just incredible.” Jamin was off and running. “Gorgeous blue eyes, long red hair, fair skin—she’s grown up in Calgary, went to school there, too. Got her master’s degree in twentieth-century poetry.”
“Okay.” I leaned forward on my elbows. “But now tell me about Sarah.”
“Huh?” He was clearly confused. “But you said—”
“You obviously love this girl. I can see that. But just being in love with her—that’s not the reason you’re here to see me for this consultation. Is it?”
He shook his head.
“Right. So,” I said slowly, “tell me about Sarah.”
“Well, we met at work,” he explained. “The Upmark Greeting Card Company.
“She writes, obviously. Poetry and some prose. Copy for the fronts and insides of cards.
“I do graphic design. We ended up working on a project together.
“I didn’t believe in love at first sight. Lust at first sight, sure. But not love.
“Not until I met Sarah.
“Unfortunately, she didn’t really feel the same way.
“I tried everything—everything that had always gotten girls interested before. I really don’t know if she’s playing hard to get…
“And when none of that worked, I went down the rabbit hole of internet dating advice. Found out all those things you’re supposed to do to get a girl’s attention.
“You know, all those things that are supposed to attract a talented, professionally minded woman.”
“Let me guess,” I broke in. “None of it worked, right?”
“If it had, I wouldn’t be sitting here,” Jamin said. “Would I?”
“Of course not. That’s what makes the question rhetorical.”
“I just don’t know what she wants. I have a good job. A nice apartment. I’ve got my shit together. And she knows it.
“So what is she looking for that I don’t have?”
How Not To Deal With Unrequited Love: Beware Of Bad Relationship Advice!
We all ask ourselves that question, at one point or another.
And no, it’s not “why does unrequited love hurt the most?” It’s time to move on from self-pity if you haven’t done so already.
It’s this question:
“What is she looking for that I don’t have?”
It’s always a dark, soul-searching moment when we ask it.
Because, no matter the answer, it’s never something that we want to hear.
Many of us go looking for guidance on this topic.
And what we find are things that we shouldn’t hear.
What Conventional Dating Advice Would Tell You
And so we find “Conventional Dating Advice” articles about qualities women find attractive. They tell us that women look for things like:
- Status. You need to be well-established in your profession—not to mention your savings account.
- Confidence. You can highlight your positive qualities but still avoid outright bragging.
- Sense of humor. Don’t take yourself too seriously, though. Loosen up and laugh a little.
- Liveliness. Stay engaged in the conversation. Don’t allow your mind to wander.
And they tell us that, when talking to a woman, you should:
- Smile at her!
- Make eye contact!
- Stay relaxed around her!
- Speak slowly and calmly!
- Listen and give her your full attention!
- Tell engaging stories!
- Express your desire for her!
Some of these tips are sort of on the right track.
But they leave out certain crucial elements—which is why they don’t really work that well…
…and then others are just flat-out wrong.
You see, a lot of this advice depends on one, single false premise.
That women are rational animals.
When, as you should know, they are not. And I’ll tell you why next.
The Truth About Women: Emotion Trumps Reason Every Time
Women are emotional beings, plain and simple. They are hardly rational at all.
Think about it.
If women were rational, dating them and living with them would be a simple matter, right?
But, as we all know, dating women can be a living hell.
If they were, being a “nice enough” guy would be sufficient to snag the woman of your dreams.
She would think,
“This guy’s really put together. He’s nice, he’s got his life on track, and he’s really easy to get along with. I like him a lot.”
Sadly, the reality is different.
And that’s because—I’ll say it again—women are emotional creatures.
Logic, reason, common sense? These are the things that are completely alien to a woman!
Now look back at the “Conventional Dating Advice” list above.
They sorta make sense, right?
Well, that’s the problem. They make sense.
The trouble is, women aren’t interested in “sense”.
That was Jamin’s hangup. He was expecting Sarah to behave sensibly.
And that’s something you should never expect a woman to do.
After all, there’s a reason the novel’s called Sense And Sensibility. Reason and emotion are two very different beasts.
And never the twain shall meet.
So, do yourself a favor and forget about using logic and reason to woo the woman of your dreams.
What you need is to hit her where it hurts: her emotions.
To make a woman love you back, the solution is simple… you’ve got to manipulate her emotions.
And yes, I will teach you how to manipulate a woman emotionally… and do it ethically. (Yes, that’s possible.)
The Key To Unlocking Unrequited Love: Manipulate Her Emotions!
“Jamin,” I said, “there’s one very important thing I need you to do before we continue.”
“Okay. What’s that?”
“You need to understand your true nature.”
Jamin looked even more confused than before. “What’s that?” he asked again.
“Despite all the things that make you unique,” I said, “you have one thing in common with all other men.
“The simple truth is, you are a manipulator.”
He scowled a little. “I’m not sure about that, man.”
“Sure you do. Sarah’s not interested in you, right? But you’ve been trying to convince her to be into you.”
“That’s not really the same thing.”
“Yes. It is. Think about it.”
He did, for a moment. Then he shrugged.
“Alright,” he said, “I’ll bite. What’s the deal?”
“Well, now that you’ve accepted it, we can get to work on doing it right.”
Accept Your True Nature As A Manipulator
At first, Jamin refused to recognize that he’s in the business of manipulation.
If you do the same, your delusions are only going to hold you back.
But, once you accept it, you’ll find a whole new world open before you.
Because, when you get down to it, accept this fundamental truth:
All successful relationships are founded on emotional manipulation.
I know that sounds bad, but that’s just how female psychology works.
Now, remember, manipulation depends on one very important thing.
If someone knows your goal, you’re not going to be able to manipulate them toward it. Makes sense, right?
And once the suspense and mystery leaves a relationship, a woman loses interest.
So, when it comes to a woman, you can’t ever let them know what you’re after.
Without betraying your own interest, you need to capture hers.
I’ll show you how to do exactly that next…
How To Manipulate A Woman’s Emotions In Four Steps
Let’s recap what we’ve covered so far:
- To win a woman over, you must manipulate her emotions.
- You must never let her know outright that you’re trying to manipulate her.
So far, so good…
Next, we’ll cover a four-step technique which you can use to manipulate any woman’s emotions: the legendary IRAE Model.
(The complete IRAE Model is inside Shogun Method, but we’ll give you an overview here which will get you off a flying start.)
IRAE is an acronym that stands for:
- Intrigue: capture her interest.
- Rapport: develop an emotional connection.
- Attract: get her romantically invested in you.
- Enslave: solidify her psychological dependence.
If you think this sounds like some kind of Pickup Artist (PUA) chicanery, you’re mistaken.
Here’s how Mind Control and hypnosis-based strategies like Shogun Method is different from conventional Pickup Artist tricks…
Pickup Artists are all about easy lays. That’s why Pickup Artist tricks are about “cold approaches”, “pickup lines” and “how to seduce a woman in ten minutes”.
And as such, Pickup Artist gimmicks are only worth a one-night stand.
The IRAE Method, and the Shogun Method as a whole, is different.
It will get a woman interested in you for real. And, more importantly, keep her interested. And for good measure, enslaved.
And even better, Mind Control / Shogun Method is simpler than Pickup Artist tricks. It can last as long, or progress as quickly, as you want.
Provided you have the necessary skill, of course. And that proficiency is very easy to obtain.
For example, you can learn just one Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) seduction pattern today and get tremendous results right off the bat.
And guess what? That’s the technique that’s going to break the curse of the unrequited love for you today.
And that technique is called Fractionation.
How To Use Fractionation On Women
Jamin shook my hand and practically flew out of my office.
I’d told him all about Fractionation.
A powerful Mind Control technique, it manipulates a woman’s feelings by doing one thing:
It takes her on an emotional rollercoaster ride.
And let me tell you: there’s a reason women love rollercoasters.
The anticipation of the building tension…
The intensity of the drop…
The thrill of that rising sensation as you get ready to do it all over again…
The rush of it all is, quite frankly, addicting.
And that’s why Fractionation is so darn effective.
It gets your woman addicted to you. So addicted, in fact, that she’ll do anything to keep the ride from ending. And she’ll be obedient and submissive as a puppy.
Jamin recognized that what I’d told him was going to work.
And, by now, you should realize that it can work for you, too.
Take this word of caution, though.
Once followed to completion, Mind Control is irreversible. It’s permanent.
This means that once you use Fractionation to control a woman’s mind, she’s enslaved to you emotionally until her death.
This is not a toy. It’s not something to mess around with.
Believe me, it’s the real deal.
So, if you’re not serious about your girl, or if you’re just looking to emotionally scar someone, then don’t do this.
However, if your motivations are pure and true like Jamin’s, then do the obvious. Join us and be a Shogun.