How To Woo A Lady And Win Her Love
Is there a woman in your life you secretly want to be your girlfriend…
…but you’re not sure what to do to win her heart?
So did Harry, a 37-year-old physician from Pennsylvania. He was one of the many clients who wanted to learn Shogun Method after having failed too many times with women.
“I just have a lot of bad luck with women, I guess,” Harry told me.
“I’ve always gotten friend-zoned, ignored, or flat-out rejected. But I’m pushing 40, and I want to get it right this time. Can you help me? Teach me how to woo a woman, Derek!”
In this guide, I’ll tell you what I told Harry that day. It helped him win the heart of the girl of his dreams mere weeks after we talked.
This guide will also show you what NEVER to do when wooing the woman you want…
…what to do INSTEAD…
…and a “magic bullet” technique that will help you understand relationships on a deep level and fast-track your way into her heart.
Table of Contents
Let’s start with what NOT to do…
How To Woo A Woman – The Wrong Way
What’s the most common mistake men make when wooing a woman?
It’s this: Using Pickup Artist (PUA) tricks.
They use pre-rehearsed routines that supposedly make women feel more attracted to them.
Now here’s the problem with Pickup Artist routines – they’re not relationship-oriented…
…you know what? They’re not even dating-oriented.
So, what are they?
They’re ORGASM-oriented.
95-98% of Pickup Artist advice out there are all geared to help you have sex with more women… but not much beyond that.
So when you use PUA tricks on a woman you want to become your girlfriend, you trap yourself in a lose-lose situation:
- Worst case, she rejects you.
- Best case, she sleeps with you… and THEN she leaves you.
If you think #2 isn’t so bad, think again.
Nothing’s worse than having the woman of your dreams for one night… and then losing her… and then realizing too late that you’ll NEVER have her again.
So let me say it again: If you use Pickup Artist tricks on the woman you want to woo, you WILL lose her.
Don’t trap yourself like that.
Instead, follow what WORKS.
How To Woo A Woman – The Right Way
The right way to woo a woman is to take it one step at a time.
And as it turns out, there are four “steps” to take.
In Shogun Method, we call these steps:
The IRAE Model
IRAE (pronounced “eye-ray”) is an acronym for the four steps or “stages of love” in the process:
- The Intrigue stage,
- The Rapport stage,
- The Attraction stage,
- and the Enslavement stage.
How it works is remarkably simple…
Focus on moving through one stage at a time, IN SEQUENCE, without skipping any one stage.
Each stage has a specific endpoint to achieve:
- For the Intrigue stage, it’s to break the ice with her, get her attention and engage her in a friendly conversation.
- For the Rapport stage, it’s to make her start wanting to be more than just friends with you.
- For the Attraction stage, it’s to make her fall in love and get into a relationship with you.
- For the Enslavement stage, it’s to make her STAY in love with you for the rest of her life.
Each stage also requires specific Shogun Method techniques to be used. When you move your relationship to a new stage, you then switch to a different set of techniques to use.
Trust the process, and you maximize your chances of not just winning her, but also keeping her for life.
Now, you might be wondering: “Processes? Techniques? Doesn’t all this sound just like Pickup Artist stuff?”
Why Shogun Method’s IRAE Model Is Not “Pickup”
First of all, understand this:
EVERYTHING in life is a process.
Think about it. Everything is all about getting from Point A to Point B. It’s true!
Starting a business, mastering a new skill, tying your shoelaces… it’s all about processes.
Wooing a woman is no different. It takes:
- A good knowledge of your current situation (Including what you want, but DON’T have)
- A clear idea of what your goal is (Your woman and the kind of relationship you want)
- A proven process of bridging the gap between #1 and #2
Secondly, any process requires techniques. Don’t you agree?
And wouldn’t you also agree that some techniques are better than others?
The trouble with the vast majority of Pickup Artist techniques is this:
They’re based on pseudoscience.
You’ve probably heard of Pickup Artist terms like:
- “Inner game”
- “Visualization”
- “Affirmation”
- “Chemistry”
- “The Law of Attraction”
These are all interesting concepts, especially when they’re taught to you by some “guru.” But in reality, they’re vague concepts that aren’t really based on hard science.
Shogun Method, on the other hand, is cold-hard science. It’s based on applied female psychology, social exchange hypothesis, modern hypnotherapy and dark triad theory. And it’s followed by 17,000 practitioners (and growing).
If you had to pick the techniques you had to use, would you pick what’s trendy? Or, would you pick what’s been proven (by science) to work?
No-brainer, right?
Now, if you find all of this information a bit overwhelming, don’t worry. So did Harry.
It’s a lot to take in. I know! Normally, it takes the average Shogun Method practitioner a few weeks.
Luckily, you won’t have to wait that long. The day we talked, I taught Harry a magic bullet technique that can be used at any of the four stages of the process.
You’re about to learn what that technique is shortly… so, keep reading!
How Harry Wooed The Woman Of His Dreams
The technique I taught Harry is called Fractionation.
You may have heard it called fractionation seduction, and it’s the same thing. It’s a storytelling technique, so you use nothing more than the right words, said at the right moments.
Fractionation puts your target on emotional rollercoasters. Tiny ones at first, then bigger and more jarring ones as you go along. Make no mistake… Fractionation can be seen as somewhat manipulative.
The effect? She’ll gradually feel more and more addicted to the emotional thrill ride – and to you.
That’s exactly what happened when Harry started using it on his target – a beautiful woman named Abby.
“I couldn’t believe it, but it worked,” Harry told me later.
“Abby went from acquaintance to friend to girlfriend in just under four weeks. She’s absolutely addicted to me, and I have you to thank!”
Actually, Harry had himself to thank. Before I met him, he was a nice guy who would never use something like Mind Control on a woman.
So, it was a huge leap of faith for him to try Shogun Method. And it paid him back with the relationship of his dreams, with the girl of his dreams.
It’s Your Turn
Now, think about YOUR woman–the one you want to be your girlfriend.
You, too, can have the relationship of YOUR dreams with her. Trust me on this.
However, you must be ready to do two things:
- Forget everything you learned about Pickup Artists…
- …and master the tenets of Shogun Method, especially the Fractionation technique
Luckily for you, you can do both steps TODAY.
All you need to do is sign up for my Online Masterclass on Mind Control.It teaches Fractionation as a core principle.
Check out the Online Masterclass in the link below:
Request Invite Ticket to Online Masterclass
(NOTE: Please use your best e-mail address when signing up. It’s where I’ll send your Invite Ticket IF you qualify for the Online Masterclass. Not everybody qualifies.)
Now, if the thought of using Mind Control and applied psychology makes you feel leery… that’s okay. I get that a lot.
The truth is that my material is definitely not for everybody.
As it was with Harry, it can require a leap of faith.
That’s why we have a screening process for the Online Masterclass on Mind Control.
We don’t let just anybody in – we have to make sure you’re fit for it, first.
But right now, do this for me:
Think of the woman you want to be your girlfriend.
If you REALLY want her to be yours…
…and if you’re willing to do WHATEVER it takes to make her yours…
…including using hard science and Mind Control to do so…
…then you should be a shoo-in. Here’s the link to my Online Masterclass again. Click it, and follow the instructions.
Make her yours!

P.S: Got any questions about wooing a certain woman in your life? Sound off in the comments section below.
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