What Makes A Good Boyfriend?
Have you just started a relationship with a woman, and you now want to become the best boyfriend you can ever be?
Or, is your relationship a little rocky, and you want to make it better by becoming a better boyfriend?
Hey, I feel you.
You hear stories of shitty men beating their women and abandoning their families…
You want to be different. You want to stand out. You want to be a shining example of what men could be.
And this Shogun Method guide will help you be the best boyfriend you’ll ever be.
Dig in!
Beware Of Bad “How To Be The Best Boyfriend” Advice!
You know what? I’m proud of you. I think it’s great that you know your relationship’s success depends on you.
Most guys don’t get that, but you do, and I think that’s awesome.
But at the same time, I need to warn you:
Be careful HOW you try to be the best boyfriend you can be.
Why?
Because if you’re not careful, you might follow advice that actually makes you a WORSE boyfriend!
I mean, how many of the following pieces of “good boyfriend advice” do you agree with?
- You should never offend or hurt your girlfriend’s feelings!
- You should follow her preferences in the little things!
- You should be 100% honest and upfront with her!
- You should make her happiness your first priority!
- You should do gentlemanly things like holding doors and pulling out chairs!
Here’s the bad news:
If you agreed with even just ONE of those ideas above…
…then you’re probably on the road to becoming a BAD boyfriend.
But why, you ask?
After all, we’ve been taught to do all these things since we were kids. Why in the world would things like honesty and thoughtfulness be BAD?
Here’s why…
They Have Lied To You
Yup – you’ve been lied to.
By what?
By what I call the “tyranny of good manners.” It’s the tidal wave of political correctness that’s sweeping all over the world.
Political correctness parrots ideas like:
- “Men and women are equal in all respects!”
- “Patriarchy is evil!”
- “Anything offensive must be destroyed!”
- “Say Happy Holidays, and not Merry Christmas!”
- “It’s fine for a woman to be fat!”
- “Use gender-neutral pronouns!”
I call it a “tyranny’ because it’s a totalitarian thing. When you don’t agree with political correctness, you’re instantly:
- A bigot
- A misogynist
- Sexist
- Racist
- Stripped of the right to express your opinion
The result? Modern society is now extremely harmful to masculinity. Today, the clear majority of men don’t have any idea exactly HOW to be a man.
And as a result, too many men become clueless boyfriends or husbands. Their breakups and divorces are inevitable.
Men Are Not The Only Casualty
Worst of all, because of the lack of masculinity, its polar opposite is suffering as well. Women can’t find any “real men” anymore.
And as a result, nearly HALF of all marriages today end in divorce.
70 years ago (before this whole “political correctness” bullshit blew up), the divorce rate was 10%!
The moral of the story?
Fuck “political correctness”.
Instead, be “politically incorrect”.
Since you’re reading this Shogun Method guide, you’re on the right track.
What you’re about to learn will change the way you see and treat women forever.
And believe me when I say your girlfriend will THANK you (and your political incorrectness) for it.
How To Be The Best Boyfriend – Obey These Five Rules
The five rules you’re about to learn are based on the fundamental rules of masculinity. And you can be sure that they are as politically incorrect as it gets!
They’re based on what WORKS and what’s backed by SCIENCE. And they’ve been field-tested and proven by over 17,000 Shogun Method practitioners to work.
Let’s start with the first rule…
Rule #1: She’s Only Loyal To Your Power.
She won’t be loyal to you because you’re a great guy.
She won’t be loyal to you just because you’re her boyfriend (or even her husband).
She’ll only be loyal to your power over her.
Understand this:
When it comes to picking their boyfriends or husbands, women don’t choose “the one.”
Instead, they choose the most powerful guy they can get.
Why?
Because of Rule #2…
Rule #2: “The One” Does NOT Exist.
The concept of “The One” or “Soulmate” is a human creation.
Much like the concept of Santa Claus or the Tooth Fairy, it isn’t real.
You know what IS real?
Power.
If you’re a powerless man, your girlfriend will dislike you more and more as time goes by.
And when a more powerful man walks into her life… guess who she’s going to choose?
Rule #3: She Will NOT Love You Unconditionally. Ever.
Why not?
Because unconditional love means one thing:
Sacrifice.
Do you think she’s going to sacrifice her happiness and peace of mind to love a powerless man?
No, she won’t. Not when there are other, more powerful guys out there who want her, too.
Think about it. If you’re powerless, she’ll look at you and see sacrifice.
Then she looks at her other, more powerful options… and she sees opportunity.
It’s a no-brainer. She’s going to go with the guy who has the most power over her.
And if it’s not you, she won’t go with you.
Rule #4: Sex Is Her Prize. Commitment Is Yours.
Super important rule, so pay attention.
Imagine you were single. You’re in town, on a sidewalk, waiting in line for a cab.
While waiting, you strike up a conversation with the woman next in line.
Within minutes, you notice she’s dropping hints about taking the same cab…
…going somewhere private, having sex…
How would you feel?
Would you be interested in marrying her?
Probably not, right? (I hope not, anyway!)
That’s because, subconsciously, you know that sex is a woman’s biggest prize. The more hard-to-get she is, the more desirable she seems, and the more men will chase after her.
But if a woman gives sex away freely… you’ll wonder if she’s a prostitute.
Or, you’ll wonder if she’s up to something.
Likewise, you have your “biggest prize,” too.
It’s your commitment.
The harder it is to win a man’s commitment, the more powerful he appears, and the more women will chase after him.
Now imagine if you pledged your commitment (or your “undying love”) to a woman too soon…
…how do you think she’ll feel?
You got it – she’ll think you’re a man-whore.
A cheap, desperate, powerless beta male.
My advice: Don’t be so quick to pledge your love. Drag it as long as you can.
And lastly…
Rule #5: The Less She Gets To Control You, The More She Loves You.
Makes sense, right?
The more she controls you, the less she respects you.
And the less she respects you, the less she loves you.
Correspondingly…
The less she controls you, the more she respects you… and the more she loves you.
I hope you’re getting the picture by now.
THAT’S what the best boyfriends are made of.
And if you want to be the best boyfriend she’ll ever have in her life…
…she needs to feel your power, dominance, and control.
Be The Best Boyfriend By Dominating Your Woman
How exactly do you dominate and control your woman?
Not physically, that’s for sure. I never condone physical abuse…
Instead, you take the psychological-emotional route…
…by using Mind Control.
Why Mind Control?
Because everything starts there – in her mind.
Her experience of you depends completely on her perception of you.
If you control her perception of you, then you control her experience of you.
And if she perceives you as the most powerful, most dominant guy in her life…
…then she’ll GLADLY get into a long-term relationship with you.
Why wouldn’t she, right? In her mind, no one else is more powerful than you. She hit the jackpot, and now she’ll never let go of you. She might be the wildest of wildcats around the block, but she’s willing to be tamed by you… being the obedient girlfriend she has always wanting to be!
If that sounds good to you, then I invite you to be a Shogun today.
Now, you might be wondering: what’s the catch?
The catch is simple:
Mind Control might not be for you.
For instance, to some guys, it might be too much, too soon. Especially when they’ve believed society’s lies about women all their lives.
So, here’s the deal. Do NOT join the Shogun Method brotherhood if:
- You think political correctness is alright
- You’re okay with treating your girlfriend as your equal in all respect
- You’re fine with hoping for the best that your relationship works out on its own
- You think the idea of “how to train my wife” or “how to make my girlfriend submissive” is preposterous
But if you’re NOT okay with any of that…
…if you REALLY want to be the best boyfriend your woman could ever have…
…then you know what to do.
Establish your dominance. Impose your control. Win her for life.
Derek, I only have a problem. She says that she doesn’t feel like I am the one but she can’t stop loving me either. I am really confused what to do here because I know that there’s nothing like “The one” , then probably I am doing something wrong here.