Healthy Relationship Rules For Couples To Obey
Are you dating or married to a woman you love dearly… but she seems to be acting up lately?
Or are you in a relationship that was once effortless…
…but now, everything seems so stressful and soul-crushing?
She might be:
- Constantly stressed out
- Controlling and dominating
- Angry at you for things you didn’t do
- Challenging your authority
- Acting batshit crazy for no reason at all
If any of the above hits home, then guess what? You’re not alone.
It’s the what we call the “perfect relationship that got ruined by commitment” problem.
LOTS of guys experience it!
Table of Contents
- Healthy Relationship Rules For Couples To Obey
- Every Relationship Will Turn Bad (It’s Just A Matter Of Time)
- Top 10 REAL Relationship Rules To Obey
- Rule #10: Don’t Make Her Happy All The Time.
- Rule #9: Don’t Be Honest All The Time.
- Rule #8: Leave The Pickup Artist Crap In The 2000’s.
- Rule #7: Obey The IRAE Model.
- Rule #6: Don’t Just Be Her “Boyfriend” Or “Husband.”
- Rule #5: She’ll Only Be Happy if You Dominate Her.
- Rule #4: To Dominate Her, You Must Manipulate Her.
- Rule #3: To Manipulate Her, You Must Enslave Her.
- Rule #2: You Can, And Should, Make Her Think What You Want.
- Rule #1: Put Her On Emotional Rollercoasters.
- The Most Important Rule Of All: You Must Fractionate Her
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Every Relationship Will Turn Bad (It’s Just A Matter Of Time)
If you really think about it, it doesn’t really make lots of sense, right?
I mean – how can a relationship that was SO GOOD suddenly become SO BAD?
How can the sweetest, most madly-in-love girlfriend suddenly turn into a harpy?
Those are some of the questions Steven, one of my Shogun Method clients, asked me about his wife Dana.
“We were crazy in love with each other for three years,” Steven told me. “Then we got married and it all went to hell.”
And that’s not all…
Steven also told me that the harder he tried to please her, the worse her behavior became.
“I had to give up my social life to please her,” Steven complained.
“I stopped studying so I could work a second job to please her. I go with her preferences in every aspect of the relationship. And she STILL treats me like dirt. What am I doing wrong?”
I looked Steven in the eye and said, “Everything.”
He looked insulted. “What?!”
I sighed. “You heard me. You’re doing EVERYTHING wrong. First and foremost, you’re trying to make her happy… which is one of the WORST things you could ever do.”
Why Trying Making Her Happy Is Futile
Let me pause my story right there.
Did that last statement shock you?
If, like Steven, you’re with a woman you love dearly, but the relationship is going to the dogs…
…then chances are you’re doing something wrong.
And if everything you try keeps making things worse…
…then you’re probably doing EVERYTHING wrong. Common sense, right?
But you know what?
It’s NOT your fault.
You and millions of other guys in the world today have been conned!
For decades, men have been fed truckloads of bullshit advice about relationships.
For example: there’s the timeless advice of “Happy wife, happy life.”
Did you ever buy into that?
I’m telling you now – it’s bullshit. And if you believe it, then your RELATIONSHIP will be bullshit.
“Honesty is the best policy.”
That’s ALSO bullshit, times two.
Sure, it’s a good “policy”. But it’s far from being the best.
In fact, if you’re completely honest with your woman… then you’re setting yourself up for a future with a lot of pain.
If any of this shocks you… then GOOD.
It’s MEANT to shock you.
It’s meant to break you out of these crazy ideas that are flushing your relationship down the toilet.
And instead, I’ll be giving you the ten REAL relationship rules to obey.
Want your girlfriend or wife to be less emotional and disrespectful?
Want her to respect you AND be happy at the same time?
Want the ultimate key to understanding relationships?
Then take the red pill, and I’ll show you how deep the rabbit hole goes.
Top 10 REAL Relationship Rules To Obey
Let’s start with #10 – and I already mentioned it earlier.
Rule #10: Don’t Make Her Happy All The Time.
Ever noticed how the happiest girlfriends and wives around seem to have a man who’s a bit of a jerk?
For instance, he:
- Argues with her from time to time
- Disciplines or punishes her bad behavior
- Always dominates the relationship
- Sometimes makes her cry
- Doesn’t make her his top priority in life
Meanwhile, the nice guys who would “never do anything to hurt her”…
…tend to get pussywhipped by the women they love, and tend to eventually get left behind.
Simple. Women are happiest when they feel both pleasure AND pressure in their relationships.
But when it’s just pleasure day and night, seven days a week… they get bored of it FAST.
Think of it this way: how would you feel if your life was about nothing but TV, video games, surfing, and fast food?
It might be fun at first. But soon enough, you’ll ask yourself: “Is this all there is?”
That’s EXACTLY what your woman feels when you try to make her happy all the time.
Eventually, she’ll look at you and ask herself: “Is this all there is?”
So first things first:
Don’t try to make her happy all the time.
There’s a better way, and you’ll learn it in this article. So, keep reading!
Rule #9: Don’t Be Honest All The Time.
The more honest and predictable you are, the more bored she’ll be. It’s true.
And when she’s bored, she’ll be on the lookout for men who are NOT boring.
My advice? Keep her guessing, and keep her interested. There’s nothing more attractive to a woman than a guy she can’t figure out.
Honesty with a woman? Overrated.
Rule #8: Leave The Pickup Artist Crap In The 2000’s.
Pickup Artist (or PUA) advice is so last decade. Leave it there.
You’re in a committed relationship. It’s a whole different ball game, and you’re learning the rules right now.
Best wise up quick!
Rule #7: Obey The IRAE Model.
In case you don’t know it yet, every relationship with a woman goes through four stages:
- The Intrigue stage, when she first feels curious about you
- The Rapport stage, when she gets to know you better
- The Attraction stage, when she decides she wants you as a lover/boyfriend
- The Enslavement stage, when she becomes emotionally addicted to you for life
Inside Shogun Method, this is known as the “IRAE Model” (IRAE = Intrigue, Rapport, Attract, Enslave).
Since she’s already your girlfriend and wife, then you’re past the Attraction stage.
But you’re not done yet. You’ll need to pass the Enslavement stage, too.
This article will teach you the one technique to do just that, so keep reading ‘til the end.
Rule #6: Don’t Just Be Her “Boyfriend” Or “Husband.”
You don’t want her to see you as just her “boyfriend” or “husband.” ANY other guy can fill those roles for her.
Instead, work to be the only guy she’ll ever want to spend the rest of her life with.
And you’re about to find out how.
Rule #5: She’ll Only Be Happy if You Dominate Her.
No woman wants to be tied to a weak man she can push around.
Want to make her happy? Then become the strong, dominant, controlling son-of-a-bitch she needs you to be.
How? That’s up next.
Rule #4: To Dominate Her, You Must Manipulate Her.
Human beings are natural manipulators. Your ancestors manipulated their environments, their situations, and their relationships.
And as a result, you’re alive today, reading this article.
People who don’t manipulate others tend to GET manipulated.
Case in point? You.
Your woman is manipulating you to say, be, and do things you don’t really want. And you feel helpless about it.
My advice? Manipulate her. Here’s how.
Rule #3: To Manipulate Her, You Must Enslave Her.
Remember the four stages of a happy, healthy relationship? The IRAE Model?
The last stage is Enslavement. Win that stage, and you win in your relationship.
Enslaving her means making her emotionally addicted to you for the rest of her life.
When she’s emotionally addicted to you, she’ll follow your lead unquestioningly.
And as you should know by now, that’s the only way she’ll be truly happy in your relationship.
But here’s the catch: You can’t enslave her through force. And you can’t enslave her with logic.
You’ll need something else – something more POWERFUL.
And here it is…
Rule #2: You Can, And Should, Make Her Think What You Want.
We’re talking about Mind Control. You need to “implant” ideas in her mind – ideas that will make her feel totally addicted to you.
Why don’t force or logic work?
Because when you use force or logic, you trigger her logical defenses. Women have been hard-wired by Mother Nature to resist or reject direct approaches by men.
So, you take an indirect approach instead.
With Mind Control, you bypass her logical defenses and go straight to her emotions.
And since she can’t resist what she can’t detect, she’ll believe and follow every word you say.
So how exactly do you do that?
The answer is in the most important relationship rule of all:
Rule #1: Put Her On Emotional Rollercoasters.
Ever noticed how you get addicted to certain TV shows, brands, sports teams, ideologies, etc.?
You get addicted not because they give you pleasure all the time. You get addicted because they put you on emotional rollercoasters.
- TV shows like Game of Thrones stress you out with conflicts, and then reward you with happy endings, then stress you out again with cliffhangers…
- Brands like Apple tease you with new products, then reward you with the release, then tease you again with even better products…
- Sports teams win some and lose some… but the emotional rollercoaster leading up to winning a championship keeps you hooked…
…and so on and so forth.
The results are obvious:
Millions of loyal, die-hard followers and fans.
And probably none of them know what got them hooked in the first place.
What got them hooked?
It’s the Mind Control technique these TV shows, brands, and sports teams use.
It’s a hypnosis technique called Fractionation.
The Most Important Rule Of All: You Must Fractionate Her
Fractionation is the same technique that will:
- Stop your woman’s bad behavior
- Replace it with the behavior you want
- Make her realize how lucky she is to have you
- Make her truly happy for the first time in her life
- And much, much more!
Back to Steven, my Shogun Method client I told you about earlier…
At first, he was understandably skeptical. But he decided he had nothing to lose, so he tried using Fractionation on his wife Dana.
The results surprised him:
- Dana almost instantly stopped treating him like dirt
- Instead, she started giving him more attention, as though waiting for guidance
- She became more docile, more emotionally stable, and more respectful of his authority
- But best of all: for the first time in a long while, she was happy again
All because Steven used Fractionation. All because he became the strong, dominant man she desperately needed him to be.
Today, it’s your turn.
Learn about Fractionation, how it works, and how to use it to restore the balance in your relationship.
You can do that TODAY – just join my Fractionation Masterclass here –
Don’t believe any of the dating “rules” you’ve been brainwashed to believe.
It’s not about making your girl happy, being completely honest, or “never treating her badly.” It has never been.
Instead, it’s all about being the strong, dominant, purpose-driven man she needs you to be. It always has been.
And Fractionation is your key to all that.
Wait any longer and she’ll leave you for a stronger man. Learn Fractionation today!
I’ll see you in the Masterclass,
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