Ways To Make Your Wife Fall In Love With You Again
OK, answer this question for me…
Have you been married for a few years, but now your marriage is going stale?
Not sure? Well, then check how many of the following signs your wife is showing:
- She’s not nearly as interested in you as she was when you were still dating
- Sex has gotten stale, boring, or conditional
- She no longer cares what you do
- She doesn’t answer your calls and texts as often, and as quickly
- She seems to be setting higher and higher expectations for you
- She’s just plain cold to you
- She’s displaying some signs of a female psychopath, and it’s terrifying
- She says she’s “fine” when you ask her what’s wrong
Do you identify with any of those signs?
If you do, then listen up. You’re about to know how to make your wife want you again – physically and emotionally. You’re in for a real treat today.
Continue reading! 🙂
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The Story Of Vince & Sarah
Vince, a teacher from Cleveland, complained to me that his wife, Sarah, was showing these signs and more.
“Give it to me straight, Derek. Is my marriage failing?” Vince asked me.
“Sure is,” I answered without hesitation. After all, all the signs were there.
“Dammit,” he spat, then sighed.
“Derek, look, I’ve tried every damn thing. I’ve tried being nicer to her. I’ve tried taking her out on more dates. I’ve tried having heartfelt chats with her every night. Yet… nothing is working!”
I shrugged. “Of course not.”
He stared at me blankly. “But WHY not?”
I smiled and got ready to tell him what I’ve told thousands of other men in failing marriages before him.
What I told him that day, I’ll tell you in this Shogun Method guide.
If YOUR wife is showing signs she doesn’t want you anymore… then this guide is for you.
You’re about to learn the REAL REASON why wives stop wanting their husbands…
…and what you absolutely MUST do to save your marriage.
So, pay attention closely – because your marriage is worth it.
Let me start by giving you some reassurance.
It’s Not Your Fault
Here’s the sad fact of the matter:
All marriages DEFAULT towards failure.
In other words, marriages don’t tend to “work out” on their own.
Instead, sadly, the opposite is true:
Marriages tend to FAIL on their own.
So, it’s important to realize that it’s not your fault.
You see, a lot of factors naturally set in to pull your marriage towards failure:
- A predictable routine
- The stress of raising children
- Displeasure at each other’s flaws
- And, unfortunately, more
Here’s the kicker…
While it’s not your fault that your marriage is failing, it IS your responsibility to fix it.
It’s ENTIRELY ON YOU to make your wife want you again.
Because let’s face it: she won’t do it for you.
And no marriage counselor or therapist will do it for you.
And “Oprah advice” – like treating her more nicely and being more honest – will definitely NOT do it for you.
I’ll say it again: It’s on you.
But don’t worry – I’ll show you what to do.
You’re about to learn how to make your wife want you again… even MORE than she did when she married you.
Great. Let’s start by taking a closer look at the problem…
Why Your Wife Doesn’t Want You Anymore
So, why DO wives stop wanting their husbands?
The biggest cause is this:
“Lack of excitement”
There’s just no more drama going on:
- The “chase” is over – she’s got you in the bag
- You’re her safe, stable, reliable provider of security
- She’s realizing that “happily ever after” is also “BORINGLY ever after”
Here’s the thing about women…
Whether they’re single or married, they NEED drama.
They crave it. They look for it. They go CRAZY without it.
So what does a wife do when her marriage has no drama?
On instinct, she LOOKS for drama.
On instinct, she CREATES drama.
And she does this in various ways:
- Disrespecting her husband
- Undermining his authority
- Responding negatively to everything he does for her
- Getting on his nerves so he reacts in a negative way
- Stressing him out enough to make him cheat… and then use his infidelity against him
- Cheating on HIM… and then using their unhappy marriage as an excuse
- Behaving like a prima donna just to get attention
- Acts insecure
Now, again… this is all on INSTINCT.
She doesn’t know WHY she does it. But she does it anyway. And in her mind, she FEELS she’s doing the right thing…
…even though she’s dragging your marriage through the mud.
(When it comes to love and relationships, she’s relying on her EMOTIONS entirely)
Now, read this carefully:
The lack of drama is the #1 reason why marriages fail.
“But Derek, how about infidelity?”
Good point. Guess what, though? Infidelity is NOT the root cause.
Infidelity is CAUSED by the lack of drama.
It’s either she cheats on you… or she makes your life hellish enough for you to cheat on her.
And that’s the biggest danger of all.
If you don’t give her the emotional drama she so desperately craves, she’ll find another man who does.
Yes, it’s pretty crazy. It’s also unfair, I know.
But should that surprise you? The game of love has ALWAYS been unfair to men.
It’s ALWAYS been us who do most of the work.
So, it’s just one of those problems that won’t go away on their own.
But here’s the good news:
Like all problems, it contains the seed of its solution.
And you’re about to learn how to solve the problem – just like Vince did.
How Vince Made Sarah Want Him Again
You can’t REASON with your wife to want you again.
To a woman, love is purely emotional. It’s not logical.
Also, remember that all her bad behavior is not intentional.
It’s on INSTINCT.
It’s a woman’s instinctual response to the lack of drama. It’s hard-wired inside her psychology.
And this is what that means…
You’ll need to address the problem on an INSTINCTUAL level.
Not with “Oprah advice” or “Pickup Artist” (PUA) or dating guru tricks.
But, with MIND CONTROL.
How To Use Mind Control On Your Woman
Back to Vince:
The day I met him, I taught him a simple yet powerful Mind Control technique.
That technique is called Fractionation.
It’s a storytelling technique used by hypnotherapists, salespeople, life coaches, and more.
It works by putting the listener on an emotional rollercoaster.
And that’s where Fractionation’s power lies.
To women, emotional rollercoasters are the most ADDICTING type of drama!
When a woman is put on an emotional rollercoaster, good things happen:
- She snaps out of her toxic behavior
- She pays complete attention to you
- She feels the uncontrollable urge to follow and obey you
Sounds great, right?
Here’s how Vince used Fractionation to make Sarah want him again in five simple steps:
#1: He stopped being sweet to Sarah, and instead buried himself in work and hobbies. This snapped Sarah out of her bad behavior, and she began asking if he was okay.
#2: He added some drama to the marriage by telling her: “I just needed some alone time.” And when she asked why, he wouldn’t explain.
#3: When she kept prodding, he finally told her: “Maybe we need time away from each other.” This drove Sarah crazy until she begged him to reconsider.
#4: He relieved the drama by “agreeing” to give the marriage a second chance.
#5: In the weeks that followed, Vince kept using Fractionation to:
- Discourage Sarah’s bad behavior
- Encourage her good behavior
- Establish his leadership in the marriage
- Command respect for his authority and dominance
- And more
Little by little, Sarah began to change:
- She started having the “hots” for Vince again
- Sex was fun, exciting, and frequent again
- She became Vince’s #1 fan
- She has stopped behaving like a female sociopath
- She obeyed his every instruction without question
- She accepted him for who he was
- She was much warmer and sweeter
- Most importantly: She was much happier and more satisfied
Today, Sarah wants Vince more than she wanted him when they were still dating.
And now, it’s… your wife’s turn.
How To Make Your Wife Want You More Than Ever
One big warning:
Not all kinds of drama will save your relationship.
For instance, physical or emotional abuse can lead to drama… but it won’t fix your marriage. (Duh.)
Neither will passive-aggressiveness or childish silent treatment. It’s drama, but it makes your wife want you LESS, not more.
Only one kind of drama can make her want you more.
That kind of drama is the emotional rollercoaster.
And you can only put your wife on an emotional rollercoaster through Fractionation.
You, too, can learn Fractionation… and you can learn it RIGHT NOW.
All you need to do is join my Online Masterclass. Check it out by clicking this link –
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Finally, remember what you learned earlier:
All marriages default to failure.
That includes yours. It’s true.
So, if your wife seems to no longer want you, it’s NOT your fault.
However, it IS your responsibility to fix it.
Truth: she won’t fix your marriage. And your marriage won’t fix itself.
But YOU can. And with Fractionation, you WILL.
Don’t wait until it’s too late! Learn Fractionation now.
I’ll see you in class,
P.S: Questions? Comments? Violent reactions? I’d love to hear what you think. Just sound off in the comments box below.
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