How To Get Her Attention And Make Her Interested In You
Are you single?
Want to meet lots of women quickly?
Want to learn how to get a girl’s attention without getting blown off?
If so, you’re on the right track.
And guess what? You’re not alone. In fact, I receive many of these questions everyday:
“Derek, how to get her attention when she ignores you?”
“How to get her attention through text?”
“Can you teach me how to get a girl’s attention without talking to her?”
“How to get her attention online or on Facebook?”
“How to get her attention back… after I screwed up?”
This Shogun Method guide answer all those questions, and more.
It will show you how to capture a girl’s attention and make her interested in you. In short, you’ll learn how to pick up women the right way.
Table of Contents
- How To Get Her Attention And Make Her Interested In You
- Why Getting A Girl’s Attention Is Important
- How To Get Her Attention And Make Her Interested
- How To Get Her Attention Online / On Facebook / Over Text
- How To Get Her Attention When She Ignores You
- Closing The Deal: Moving To Rapport, Attraction, and Enslavement
Why Getting A Girl’s Attention Is Important
Make no mistake… getting a girl’s attention is EVERYTHING.
Here’s why: it’s the starting point of attraction.
If you can’t even get a girl’s attention, nothing else will help you.
It doesn’t matter if you’ve got the bedroom skills of a Sex God. If she doesn’t want to talk to you, you won’t make any progress at all with her. Makes sense, right?
The IRAE Model
Inside Shogun Method I teach the following four “stages of love“:
- Stage #1: Generate Intrigue
- Stage #2: Build Rapport
- Stage #3: Trigger Attraction
- Stage #4: Enslave Her Emotionally
We call this the IRAE Model.
To “win” a girl, you’ll need to go through each of the four stages in sequence, without skipping a stage.
And here’s what that means…
If you can’t get a girl’s attention – if you can’t generate Intrigue – then everything else doesn’t matter.
You should know that generating Intrigue is the most important stage of all… and yet most guys fail at it.
But with the techniques in this guide, you won’t.
Next, I’ll show you how to get a girl’s attention and get her interested. At it works whether you’re meeting her face-to-face, online, or over text.
And better: it won’t be like anything you’ve ever seen before. So, keep reading!
How To Get Her Attention And Make Her Interested
Most guys use “pickup lines” to try to get a woman’s attention.
These are the routines that they learned from “Pickup Artists” (PUAs) or “Love Guru” blogs.
My advice: don’t be like most guys (read: beta males).
And these are the reasons why:
- They’re rehearsed, and she immediately knows you’re making it up
- They’re forced, so she immediately feels you’re up to something
- They’re not tailored to the situation at hand, so they’re usually awkward
Using pickup lines for making girls interested is what chumps do. You know, the kind who ends up in the friend zone.
You should know better because you’re Shogun Method-aware.
So, instead, use the technique that I am about to teach you next…
The Magic Of Intrigue Pings
This technique is called “Intrigue Pings.”
Better than pickup lines, Intrigue Pings are:
- Natural, and
- Tailored to the situation.
And here’s how to structure an Intrigue Ping. It has three parts:
- Your statement,
- Her response, and
- Your question.
Next, let’s look at some examples of Intrigue Pings.
Let’s say you’re at a coffee shop and you spot a pretty woman, and you want to talk to her. So, here’s how you’d structure an effective Intrigue Ping:
- YOU: “I’m probably going to regret asking this, but…” (Your statement)
- HER: “Yes?” (Her response)
- YOU: “…do you ever put vanilla in your coffee?” (Your question)
Or, if you’re on the sidewalk…
- YOU: “I know I shouldn’t be asking you this, but…” (Your statement)
- HER: “Hmm?” (Her response)
- YOU: “…but have you ever tried that cocktail lounge down the street?” (Your question)
That’s it. Easy, right?
Once you have mastered the art of crafting Intrigue Pings, it’s enough to start a conversation with ANY girl, anywhere, anytime.
Why Intrigue Ping Works So Well
Now, let’s dig deeper into why Intrigue Ping works so well…
- Your initial statement catches her attention and makes her curious about you.
- Your question is tailored to the situation, and it’s a more natural opening to a conversation.
Those two reasons are why Intrigue Pings are superior to lame pickup lines and routines.
And that’s not all. The best part about Intrigue Pings is that you don’t need to spark any attraction YET.
That can come later. The important thing right now is to simply “get your foot in the door.”
Back to the IRAE Model: attraction is stage #3. One step at a time, remember?
How To Get Her Attention Online / On Facebook / Over Text
Now, what if the girl whose attention you want to grab isn’t in front of you?
What if she’s online, or on Facebook, or over text?
How do you get her interested then?
Guess what? This is an even BETTER situation than being face-to-face with her. (You’ll learn why below.)
However, here’s a slight problem…
Remember that the best Intrigue Pings are tailored to the situation.
Online, you don’t know where she is or what she’s doing. So it’s tricky to “tailor” your message to the situation, right?
So what do you do?
Simple. The “situation” is you, messaging her. And that’s what you use for your Intrigue Ping.
Here’s an example:
- YOU: somethings been bugging me all day… can you help
- HER: sure what is it
- YOU: I was wondering if youd reply to my text. Congrats. You passed the test
- YOU: hope im not interrupting you… but can I assume something about you
- HER: ok whats up
- YOU: whatever youre doing right now is less interesting than texting with me
And from there, you can have a “normal”, natural-flowing text conversation. Easy, right?
Once you’ve done that, however, it’s tempting to put your guard down.
After all, she’s already paying attention to you, and you’re having a nice, natural conversation with her, right?
Well, don’t rest on your laurels just yet…
You see, attention and interest from a girl is a temporary thing. You can lose it as quickly as you’ve gained it. Remaining attractive to women is an ongoing thing…
So, what if you made her interested in you… but LOST it along the way?
That’s up next… continue reading!
How To Get Her Attention When She Ignores You
How do you know when a girl has lost her interest in you online or over text?
There are three signs… either she…
- stops replying entirely, or
- takes a long time to reply, or
- she starts talking to you about the other guys in her life
IMPORTANT! When you see these signs, you’ve got to act quickly, and here’s why…
If you don’t get her interest back, and FAST, she’s going to convince herself she’s not attracted to you. And that’s when you lose her.
How to get her attention back? You’ll need to use another technique. This technique is “Fractionation“.
Fractionation & Emotional Rollercoasters
Fractionation is a “mind manipulation” technique that puts a girl on an emotional rollercoaster.
Why do you need to put her on an emotional rollercoaster?
Because when you do…
- She pays full attention to you
- She feels much more inclined to say “yes” to anything you say or ask
- She feels an emotional attachment to you – almost like an addiction
You’re giving her the same emotional thrill ride she gets from her TV dramas and romance novels.
Here’s the good thing about Fractionation… it’s pretty easy to make it work (if you know how to use it.)
We’ll talk about how Fractionation works in a while. For now, here’s a quick way you can use the technique to revive a girl’s interest in you.
So, the next time a girl you’re texting starts showing signs she’s lost interest in you, do this:
Simply text her –
(Yes, you read that right.)
Of course, she’s going to reply angrily.
But no matter what she says, you reply:
“sorry that was for someone else”
That’s emotional rollercoaster for you. She goes from shock and anger to feeling curious.
Because you said, “someone else.”
Now she’s going to think: “Who did he just call a bitch? Another woman? He’s seeing someone else? Who is it?”
She’s hooked again. You got her attention back. And now you can pick up where you left off.
Of course it is. That’s Fractionation for you.
OK, so you may have reservations about this technique. It’s crude, uncouth and psychologically manipulative.
After all, you’re a decent guy. You wouldn’t call any girl a “bitch” – especially someone you fancy, right?
Well, guess what?
Success in love and life is NOT about being “decent”. It’s about getting the results that YOU want.
And to get the results you want, you must stop being the nice guy.
Closing The Deal: Moving To Rapport, Attraction, and Enslavement
Let’s recap the IRAE Model:
The entire “make her fall in love” process goes through four stages:
What this “how to get a girl’s attention” guide revealed to you was just the first stage: Intrigue.
Once you have Intrigued her, then there are three other stages to pass to make her fall in love with you.
These are the Rapport, Attraction and Enslavement stages.
What’s going to move you through the rest of the stages?
You guessed it: Fractionation. And the best thing is that you can master Fractionation TODAY.
All you need to do is to sign up for my Online Masterclass on Mind Control. Click on this link:
(IMPORTANT: Please use your best e-mail address when you sign up. It’s where I’ll e-mail your Invite Ticket as soon as you pass our screening process. Thank you for understanding.)
Now, remember this:
Success in love and life isn’t about doing the “decent” thing. It’s about getting the results you want.
And that’s why conventional “Love Guru” and “Relationship Expert” advice never works.
Don’t get me wrong… they may be good at making girls “like” you. But they are terrible at getting the REAL results you want.
You don’t want a girl to just “like” you. You want to enslave her to you emotionally.
Life is short. Start getting the REAL results you want TODAY. Master Fractionation NOW.
I’ll see you in the Masterclass,
P.S.: Questions? Comments? Story about a girl you want to share? Need help? Write to me below.