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How To Dominate Your Wife

March 10, 2018 2 Comments

How To Be Dominant In Your Marriage

Are you married, but you’re the submissive partner in your marriage?

Are you NOT happy with it… and neither is your wife?

Want to flip the script, dominate your wife, and regain control over your relationship?

If you answered “YES” to any (or all) of those questions, then congratulations – you’re at the right place.

Are You Getting Dominated By Your Wife?

Do this for me. Check your life and relationship for the following signs:

Twelve Signs You’re Dominated By Your Wife

  1. Your wife keeps telling you things like: “You just don’t get it”
  2. Your wife gets the final say in everything
  3. Your wife controls the finances in the relationship… your money is her money
  4. Your wife resorts to emotional blackmail to get what she wants
  5. Your wife behaves like an asshole to you… and gets away with it
  6. Your wife is on a short fuse almost all the time
  7. Your wife refuses sex – or she gives it to you, then tells you later she didn’t like it
  8. Your wife talks about your sexual performance with her girlfriends… as a joke
  9. Your wife nags you, criticizes you, and undermines you incessantly
  10. Your wife is becoming a feminist, or is already one
  11. Your wife talks glowingly about other men in her life
  12. You feel trapped or insignificant, or that you exist only to make your wife happy

If any of the above feels like a knife to the heart, then this Shogun Method guide is for you.

Today, you’ll discover the truth on WHY you need to dominate your wife… and HOW.

By the end of this guide, you’ll have the tools and strategies you’ll need to flip the script…

…dominate your wife completely…

…train her into a submissive wife who surrenders to your authority…

…and finally restore the balance in your relationship.

But most importantly – you’ll be happy again. (And as a nice side benefit, so will she.)

Fair warning, though – you may need to act FAST.

Here’s why:

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Your Wife Wants You To Dominate Her

Yes, you read that right.

She WANTS you to dominate her.

I know that sounds crazy. After all, you’ve probably heard your wife (and many other women) say they want to be “strong, independent women.”

But how many times have you ALSO heard women say things like the following?

  • “I want a guy who’ll keep me grounded.”
  • “I want a guy who ‘gets’ it.”
  • “I want a guy who’s got his shit together.”

Completely contradictory, right?

Here’s how to make sense of the seemingly contradictory thoughts in a woman’s mind…

What A Woman Truthfully Wants

When a woman says, “I want to be a strong, independent woman,” she’s basically saying what society wants to hear.

In fact, it’s one of feminism’s most common rallying cries. (And due to societal conditioning, no woman will dare to question it.)

But when she says, “I want a guy who’s got his shit together,” she’s saying what SHE wants to hear.

Which of the two matters more to her you, you think?

Naturally – what SHE wants will always be more important than what a bunch of strangers wants.

And when a woman says things like “I want a guy who keeps me grounded,” or “I want a guy who’ll sweep me off my feet…”

…there’s a scientific term for that.

It’s called “hypergamy.” And it means a woman’s search for a man of higher status than her.

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Women’s Desire To Find A Better, More Dominant Man

Every woman is hypergamous. There are no exceptions at all… hypergamy is hardcoded into the female psychology.

Yes, even women who are already in long-term relationships are hard-wired to be on the “lookout” for stronger, dominant male.

She wants a strong, dominant guy to be in charge in her relationship…

…and if her current man is not dominant enough, she will look out for one who is.

Now take note – she “wants” to be dominated. It’s NOT a “need.”

Meaning to say, she doesn’t NEED a strong, dominant man to exist and be happy.

But if she WERE dominated, she’d be MUCH happier and more alive. That’s why women look for strong, dominant men all the time.

What does this mean for you?

You’re married. So, being a strong, dominant man goes DOUBLE for you.

And since your wife is unhappy, it means you’re NOT living up to her expectations…

…and when this happens, your wife’s hypergamous nature will go into overdrive.

Not good, right?

If You DON’T Dominate Your Wife, Hypergamy Kicks In

Guess what – there was PROBABLY a time when your wife saw you as the strongest, most dominant guy in her life.

When she was still single, she was looking for a guy of much higher status than her.

That’s probably why she married you. Back then, YOU were the high-status guy. YOU kept her grounded. YOU swept her off her feet. YOU had your shit together.

But as the years went by, what happened?

You stopped dominating her and started placating her, didn’t you?

You were the sweet husband, spoiling your wife, putting her happiness as your #1 priority.

Suddenly, you were no longer the strong, dominant man she fell in love with.

How do you think she feels? Tricked? Scammed? Treated like a fool?

That’s why she hates the relationship, and hates YOU, right now.

Guess what happens next?

  1. Either she stays in the relationship, giving you hell until you “man up…”, or
  2. She goes out, finds a higher-status alpha male, and then dumps your ass for him.

You’re in a lose-lose situation. And you’ll need to get out of it FAST.

How?

By dominating your wife, FAST.

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How To Dominate Your Wife

So how DO you dominate your wife?

I’ll give you a clue by telling you how “players” do it. These are those forever-single guys who can sleep with two, three, four, or more women in rotation.

The most successful players out there:

  • Date women who are completely subservient to them, even though they’re never “official”
  • Know that every single one of their relationships will end eventually
  • Use tactics that keep their women clinging desperately to them for as long as they can

How do they do it?

Dread Game

Here’s how they do it: by using a technique called the “Dread Game.”

Basically, they make each woman “dread” losing them, the good feelings, and the great sex she gets from them.

They do this in two ways:

  1. By fucking her BODY better than any other guy in her life
  2. By fucking her MIND better than any other guy in her life

By “fucking her mind,” I’m talking about putting her on emotional rides. These players go hot-and-cold on them: loving them one moment, disappearing the next.

The result?

It drives women crazy. But it’s the kind of “crazy” that women love – it’s like a drug. And the ladies would go to GREAT LENGTHS to get their fix of him.

Makes sense?

Planting Dread Inside Your Wife’s Mind

Of course, eventually the women get tired of the chase, end the relationship, and move on. And the player goes on to find another woman to add to her rotation.

That’s the key to training your wife to be submissive and obedient. Dread.

You’ll want your woman to DREAD the possibility of losing you… so she’ll do everything she can to keep you.

Now, in your situation, it’s a little tricky.

You’re not a player who’s after multiple short-term relationships.

You’re a husband who’s trying to keep one long-term relationship together.

And at this point, “fucking her body” might be out of the question, especially if she already hates you that much.

So here’s what you should do:

Fuck with her mind. MASSIVELY.

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Why You Need To Totally Fuck With Her Mind

Here’s the good news:

When you control her mind, her body (and everything else) will follow.

In a way, Dread Game is a form of Mind Control. It preys on known psychological “flaws,” or weaknesses, of the female mind.

By manipulating these flaws, you control her behavior. And by controlling her behavior, you control your relationship.

That’s how Mind Control works.

But again, Dread Game may not even be the right technique for you. You’re not a player who’s juggling four desperate women.

And so you’ll need a technique that’s like Dread Game… but works in a marriage.

That technique is “Fractionation.”

What’s Fractionation?

Think of “Fractionation” as like being Dread Game that’s 10 times more insidious and powerful.

Like Dread Game, it will put your wife on an emotional rollercoaster – but only on a much more INTENSE scale.

Think of it this way:

  1. Dread Game preys on a woman’s natural fear. Fractionation INSTILLS fear.
  2. Dread Game’s effects are temporary. Fractionation’s effects are PERMANENT.
  3. With Dread Game, women will see your love as like a drug – something she can get over in time. With Fractionation, your wife will see your love as her LIFE SUPPORT – something she’ll NEVER let go of.

And guess what – you can master Fractionation today.

How?

By signing up for my Online Masterclass on Mind Control below:

Female Enslavement

Request Invite To Derek Rake’s Online Masterclass – Click Here

(IMPORTANT: Please use your best e-mail address when signing up. It’s where I’ll send your Invite Ticket as soon as you pass our screening process.)

A fair warning before you sign up:

Fractionation is NOT for everyone.

(It’s not for 99% of guys out there who don’t get it.)

It’s not for you, for instance, if you’d rather let your wife cheat on you than hurt her.

It’s also not for you if you’re okay with her leaving you in the end.

And likewise, it’s not for you if you’re totally happy being a “henpecked” husband.

But: if you’re NOT okay with any of that…

…if you want to take charge of your relationship…

…if you want to make your wife TRULY happy…

…and if you want to become the strong, dominant man she desperately needs you to be…

…then you know what to do. Sign up for my Masterclass here.

I’ll see you in the Masterclass,

Derek Rake

P.S: Questions? Comments? Need help? I’d love to hear from you – sound off by leaving a comment below.

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Derek Rake is the founder of Shogun Method, the world's one and only relationship strategy for men based on authentic Mind Control technology. He is widely acknowledged as the leading international authority on using Mind Control and extreme hypnosis in dating and relationships. Shogun Method's "Enslavement, Not Seduction" philosophy makes it one-of-a-kind in the relationship coaching world. Attend his legendary Masterclass - click here.

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    November 22, 2021 at 9:12 am

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