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Do you want to get your ex girlfriend or wife back… but you are afraid of screwing it up?
If so, you should be. One tiny mistake, and she’s gone for good.
Luckily, you can get her back—but only if you’re willing to do this evil trick.
And if what you get is a better, happier, stronger relationship, it’s a small price to pay, right?
Besides, it’s because men are not willing to use evil tricks that they lose their exes all the time.
Instead, they resort to “nice guy” shit like apologizing, sitting down and having an honest talk with her, write her an apology card, etc.
You might have tried that yourself. And if you have, you already know they don’t work.
Doing that nice guy crap only makes you look weak. And even if she comes back, she’ll break up with you again.
And so, you’ll need a change in strategy and mindset.
This time, you’ll need to use this somewhat underhanded trick I call the Shame Reversal.
And it gives you a much better chance of getting your ex-girlfriend or wife back than by begging and pleading. Believe me.
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Shame Reversal: What Is It?
So, how does Shame Reversal work?
Well, here’s how.
First, you need to stop begging for her to come back. Instead, you need to validate the breakup. You’re making the breakup official.
The best way to do this is to (innocently) bump into her sometime. Plan ahead, but don’t make it obvious.
And when she asks how you’re doing, you tell her something like:
“I’ve been doing fine… I’ve been trying new things, meeting new people, and dating new women… it’s been fun. I’m doing alright.”
Or, you can say:
“I’m OK. I’ve gotten promoted, went to Bali to chill. And I started seeing someone. I hope you’re doing just as well.”
You get the idea, right? You’re reversing the shame… by getting rid of yours while making her feel some of her own.
The Trick Is To Make Her Upset
Not only that, Shame Reversal is about making her see that the breakup was good for you.
And that’s the complete opposite of how you’d usually feel when a woman leaves you.
Likewise, she’ll feel shocked. She’ll feel upset that you’re actually doing better without her in her life.
Almost, you know, as though she was actually a drag on your life.
And that’s exactly how you want her to feel.
Here are three reasons why the Shame Reversal technique is important:
First, it requires you to be totally non-needy to pull it off. And as you should know, neediness is the #1 killer of your chances of getting your ex back.
So… with the Shame Reversal, you avoid the neediness pitfall completely.
And second, it makes you stop chasing her.
The more you chase someone, the more she runs from you. Stop chasing and she stops running away.
And third, it forces her to think about you. And it gives her a chance to miss you.
Zero neediness. Closure. And a chance to miss you.
These are the three ingredients to getting your ex girlfriend or wife back. And the Shame Reversal technique provides all three in one fell swoop.
“This Sounds Dirty and Manipulative.”
And not only that… guess what? With this move, you’ll be living inside her mind, rent free.
Now, you might think–
“That sounds dirty and manipulative, Derek Rake.”
And yes, it is. It’s an artificial way to make her miss you—which is why I called it evil. If you want to know how to manipulate a woman‘s thoughts and emotions, this is one of the ways us Shoguns do it.
And yet, think about it for a second.
If you can’t make her miss you, you’re wasting your time, right?
So, if you want to get her back, no matter what it takes, everything is fair game. Even evil tricks like the Shame Reversal technique.
Besides, coming back to you will be the best decision she’ll ever make. It’s for her own good that you’re doing this, remember that.
When She Comes Back To You
OK, so what do you do after you do the Shame Reversal technique?
Well, one of two things will happen.
First, she might feel relieved—as though she’s glad to finally find closure herself.
When that happens, congratulations—that’s closure for you, too.
It means there’s no getting her back, and you just saved yourself weeks or months of trying.
Or, the opposite might also happen:
She may start missing you.
You’ll know this when, after you use the Shame Reversal technique, she wants to stay in touch with you.
If she blocked you on social media, then maybe she has added you back again. She might even like a couple of your posts.
You might even start hanging out again.
These are signs you’ve made her interested again.
And when this happens, what should you do?
How To Seal The Deal
In Shogun Method, we call this the Intrigue phase. And it’s the point where the fish nibbles on the bait.
(As Shoguns know, this is the first stage of the IRAE Model–Intrigue, Rapport, Attract and Enslave. It’s the four stages of love that every woman goes through.)
And when she’s intrigued, guess what? It’s only a matter of time before she brings up the breakup.
When she does, that’s your chance to get her back.
And when you do that, you must start off strong. This is when you lay out your “new terms and conditions” for the relationship.
For instance, you can tell her:
“I’d love to get back with you again, but there’s got to be some changes. First, when we have a problem, we talk. No silent treatment, no mind games, or I’m gone. And second, understand that my work is my #1 priority, and everything else comes second. Okay?”
Whatever your new terms might be, this is the time to lay them out for her. Again, she can take it or leave it.
If she declines, you still win by saving months or years of your time.
Meanwhile, if she agrees with your new terms, congratulations. You’ve successfully gotten your ex back…
When that happens, you’ll have a new challenge. You got her back—now you need to make her stay.
Because here’s the thing you must know.
Most guys who get their ex-girlfriends or wives back end up reverting to their needy behavior soon after. As a result, their exes break up with them again, and this time it’s for good.
You’ll want to avoid that from happening, right?
So, how exactly do you make her stay for good this time around?
Dark, Insidious, All-Round Evil
You’ll do that with another evil trick, of course—and we Shoguns call this one Fractionation.
It’s a technique from Shogun Method that does one important thing:
It slowly increases her emotional dependence on you.
Because if she’s dependent on you emotionally, she’ll need you to survive like she needs water to drink and air to breathe.
And best of all, it’s easy to learn—after all, it’s a simple conversation trick that appears harmless to common people.
And harmless it may look, underneath it all, Fractionation is dark and insidious as hell.
It puts her on emotional rollercoasters, which makes her feel addicted to you.
And when she gets hooked on you, she’ll realize leaving you was a mistake. And it’s one she’ll never, ever, ever make again… no matter how strong or independent she think she is without you.
Sounds good, yes?
Well, guess what? It gets even better.
Here’s the link to the legendary Shogun Method Online Masterclass.
Once you enroll, you will get to learn all you need to know about Fractionation.
With this powerful hypnosis technique under your belt, you’ll have the ability to get any woman addicted to you—whether it’s your ex or anyone else. And once she’s back… it’s also the key to training your wife or girlfriend, turning her submissive and subservient to your dominance.
Are you ready to stop feeling so helpless and insignificant?
Are you sick and tired of feeling powerless around women?
And instead, do you want total control over your girlfriend or wife–her mind, soul and body?
Then Fractionation is the one technique you’ll ever need to master, full stop. There’s no fucking beating around the bush. Learn it and be the man she’ll want to be with, forever.