How To Make Your Girlfriend or Wife Love You More (Love Deepener Trick)

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How do you make your girlfriend or wife love you more?

Your relationship with her might be doing okay right now, but it’s not enough. You want more.

Or maybe things are going to shit, and you want to save your relationship or marriage.

Which situation are you in?

Whichever it might be, let me first say this: You got the right idea.

You absolutely must make your woman love you more. That alone will solve most of your relationship problems, it’s true.

Unfortunately, there’s just one problem. A lot of the conventional relationship advice out there only makes her love you more… but only for a short while.

Think about it. Flowers wilt. Gifts lose their luster. Even the emotional high and orgasmic ecstasy she gets from good sex wears off in a zap. 

Make no mistake. Unless you find a long-term way to make her love you more, your relationship will continue to feel like a chore.

And here’s a fair warning. Once it gets so unbearable you give up on it, then you’ve utterly lost the game.

So, let’s fix that problem in today’s Shogun Method guide, shall we?

You’re about to learn a technique called the “Love Deepener.” And I’m going to bet you’ve probably never heard of anything like this before.

Let me ask you this–

Do you want a submissive girlfriend who will cater to every one of your whims and fancies?

Are you ready to learn how to make your girlfriend or wife love you more?

Sexual Dynamics Between Males and Females

So let me tell you about the origins of the Shogun Method Love Deepener technique.

What is it, and where did it come from?

Well, here’s the answer. The Love Deepener technique came from, ahem, the sharp minds at Shogun Method HQ.

What’s Shogun Method?

If you know us Shoguns, you know we’re all about hacking the female mind to gain an upper hand in our relationships…

…and the Love Deepener is one of our more advanced Shogun Method techniques there is. (And if you’re interested to learn the whole gamut of our tactics, read this review of Shogun Method.)

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I was quite reluctant to teach this, in all seriously. I don’t know how long this will remain online so go ahead and take lots of notes.

Let’s begin.

The Female Purpose

To understand the Love Deepener, you must know the basic needs of an emotionally healthy woman.

Pop quiz…

What do you think is the meaning of life for a woman?

I know that sounds rather airy fairy, so I’m gonna be more specific–

What role would give a woman the most meaning, purpose, and direction in her life?

Kinda deep, right? I know. So, I’ll save us some time and tell you right away. The answer is this–

Women are meant to be nurturers.

That is the role Mother Nature has ingrained inside every emotionally healthy woman.

The Male Purpose

What about men’s role then? It’s this–

Men are fighters.

Combining the two, you’ll get Mother Nature’s formula for humankind:

Men fight, women nurture.

That’s the simple, fundamental rule that has sustained humanity for two million years. And that same basic programming is alive and well in our brains even today.

The Problem with the World Today

Now, here’s the problem…

Today, conventional dating and relationship advice teaches the opposite of this.

Dating gurus tell men to “put their best foot forward.” We’re taught to show women only our best qualities. Wit. Hard work. Honesty. Valor. Bravery.

And our bad qualities? We’re taught to hide them from women no matter what. And all of it is for one purpose: So that women choose us among their many suitors.

All-in-all, we’re taught to look perfect, hiding all our flaws. It’s “how you get the girl,” or so they say.

Bullshit.

Because unfortunately, putting your best foot forward does not get you the girl. And here’s why: 

It violates the rule of Mother Nature.

Remember, women nurture. They heal. And when a woman finds a man who shows no flaws, weaknesses, or wounds, what happens?

She has nothing to heal, that’s what. And so, she will not feel like she has a deep purpose in his life.

And so she might like you, but she won’t feel drawn to you. And that’s why she ends up friendzoning you.

Meanwhile, she meets an idiot bad boy with several flaws. And her basic programming kicks in: “Aha. Here’s a guy I can nurse back to health.” And so, she falls deeply in love with him.

It’s crazy, right? It doesn’t seem to make any sense…

…and yet in the deepest parts of our brains, as per Mother Nature’s design, it makes perfect sense. We’re drawn to those with whom we feel the deepest meaning, purpose, and direction.

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And so, if your girlfriend or wife seems to be falling out of love with you, consider this. You just might seem too perfect.

She’s losing her sense of meaning and purpose while she’s with you, and that’s why she’s looking elsewhere.

And that’s where the Love Deepener technique comes in. You can use it to turn the dying embers

The Love Deepener

So, here’s how the Love Deepener technique works.

Instead of trying to show your woman you’re a perfect man—or even just a good man—do something different. Instead, you frame yourself as the Antihero.

What’s that?

Think of fictional characters like Deadpool, Captain Jack Sparrow, or Severus Snape.

Why are they so popular?

They’re heroes in the sense that they fight for justice, but they’re flawed. They’re far from being role models. They might have questionable morals or a tendency to make poor decisions.

And yet in the end, they have good intentions.

That’s the allure of the Antihero. And this is the kind of man women go crazy for.

It’s all because of one thing:

They feel they have a purpose with him.

And that’s precisely how you want your woman to feel about you… that you’re a leader.

Show her that you’ve suffered much in your life, but you bear the wounds and injustices quietly. And sometimes, at precious moments, you show your scars to her.

Sometimes, you give in to a momentary burst of anger.

Other times, you show your unbridled passion for your beliefs and values.

And sometimes, you might even let slip your murderous intent on something you see as evil.

And yet most of the time, you keep your weaknesses hidden behind a strong, confident exterior.

You get the idea, right?

And yet through it all, there’s one critical catch: You show your scars only to her, and no one else.

Think of it this way. She’s your healer. She’s your nurturer. She’s the only one who ever sees your anger, passion, or danger. No one else ever does.

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That, my friend, is the Love Deepener technique. It’s how you make her love you more. She won’t be able to help it—after all, she’ll see her purpose in life is to be your healer.

That’s your love story as a couple. You’re the Antihero, and she’s your healer. You face challenges and you get hurt. She heals you, you get back in the fight, and you win. And then, you celebrate victory in each other’s arms.

What woman could resist that story? Take it from me… absolutely no one.

Now, of course, there’s a big catch. And it’s another crucial ingredient of the Love Deepener technique.

How To Make Your Woman Love You More

A Caveat

When I say you should show your woman your scars once in a while, that’s not to say you should be vulnerable.

That is, you must avoid:

• …bitching about your work, or
• …complaining about injustice in the society, or
• …crying over your losses, or
• …whining over how another guy kicks your ass.

Why?

Simple—whining makes you a whiner, that’s why.

And no woman wants to have a whiner as a boyfriend or husband, trust me on this.

Now, here’s what you must understand…

Excessive vulnerability does more harm than good to you. Show her your weakness as PART of the Love Deepener technique, and then STOP. 

So, here’s the tricky thing… few guys know where to stop. The danger of overdoing it is real.

The thing to remember is this–

She’s your nurturer, not your caretaker.

You show her a small weakness, she nurtures you back to health, and you carry on with your Mission. That’s how it works.

This means that after you show her your vulnerability, you’ve got to  show her your strength next. It’s a cycle of ups and downs, latching her into a roller coaster ride of a lifetime.

Where to Go from Here

Now if you’re a seasoned Shogun, then you know what I’m talking about here–Fractionation. It’s a classic Shogun Method technique that puts women on emotional rollercoasters.

Amazingly, Fractionation is somewhat like the Love Deepener. As you bring her up the emotional highs and then plunge her down the emotional lows, she gets addicted to you…

…and as any Shogun will tell you, emotional addiction is stronger than love.

Because here’s the thing. Any woman can fall out of love in a snap. And yet no one can just “fall out of addiction” just like that.

When she’s addicted to you, she can’t live without you. And so she’ll never, ever go away. (Also, in case you are wondering how to train your wife and turn her subservient, this is the way.)

That’s the power of Fractionation, and—again—I strongly recommend you learn it as a life skill. And once you learned it, you’ll know how to hypnotize a woman–any woman–at will. (And yes, Fractionation is not just a seduction trick–it’s a legit hypnosis tactic. Or, strictly speaking, NLP.)

How exactly do you do that?

That’s the best part.

What you need is Shogun Method. That’s the only place you can learn Fractionation, and learn it well.

Once you join, you’ll get help from your buddies at Shogun Method HQ, masters of Mind Control.

After all—she’s worth it, right?