How To Lead A Woman In A Relationship Or Marriage

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Here’s an important question. What’s the leading cause of breakups and divorce?

Believe it or not, it’s the lack of leadership on the man’s part. When you’re not leading your relationship like you’re supposed to, that means your woman is leading. And that’s where it goes downhill.

If you’re reading this guide right now, then you know the danger you’re in. It’s not politically correct to assert yourself as the “head of the household” these days. And that means your reputation as a man is at significant risk, too.

So, what’s a guy to do? If you’re wondering how to lead a woman in a relationship or marriage—well, you’re about to find out. Not only that, if you’re here to know how train your wife, then you’ll also learn that.

In this Shogun Method guide, you’ll learn all about the AIT Protocol. It’s a system of acting, thinking, and speaking that will make your woman happily follow your lead. And with zero nagging, yelling, and arguing involved, too.

With the AIT Protocol, your relationship or marriage will be strong and rewarding. Your woman will be happier and more contented than ever in her life.

How Men Lose Their Power

Now let me tell you all about the AIT Protocol.

The Protocol was developed in our labs here at Shogun Method HQ, led by me, Derek Rake. And if you’ve heard of us, then you know how we are the antithesis of what conventional dating and love advice. More on that later.

The AIT in the name stands for Alpha-In-Training. It’s meant to make other people—especially the woman in your life—see you as an alpha male and treat you as such.

Think about the typical well-regarded successful man in modern society. Women love him, men want to be like him, and society in general respects and honors him.

With the AIT Protocol, that’s precisely how your woman—and others—will treat you.

Now, this might sound controversial to some people. After all, society these days pushes for co-equal relationships and marriages. People are taught to expect men and women to carry the relationship as equals…

…and that’s a stark contrast to what we used to believe, right? In the past, men were taught to be the heads of the household, and the ladies were taught to be the hearts. It wasn’t about power—it was about mutual service.

And it worked. Back then, the divorce rate was at 10%.

These days, though, it’s upside down. People today mistakenly think leadership is about power. And some circles are all too happy to “balance” things by shaming traditional male roles.

Here’s the problem—it’s not working. Ever since co-equality became the norm, divorce rates shot up to as high as 55%. Something is deeply wrong with the system.

And that’s what led to the creation of the AIT Protocol. Shogun Method is all about leading a strong, happy, lifelong relationship at any cost. No matter what idiots think.

Do you feel the same way? Do you think a strong relationship with a happy woman is worth more than what strangers think about you?

“But I’m Not An Alpha Male”

Now, you might be thinking:

“That sounds great, Derek, but I’m not an alpha male. Not even close. What should I do?”

Here’s the good news about the AIT Protocol:

It doesn’t matter if you’re an alpha male or not yet.

All that matters is that people think you are.

Here’s why: we’re all human beings. And we treat other people not according to what or who they are.

Instead, we treat other people according to our perception of them.

And so, if you’re not an alpha male—or at least not yet—but people think you are, what happens?

They’ll treat you like an alpha male, that’s what. They’ll love you, respect you, honor you, and celebrate you.

And that’s precisely what the AIT Protocol will do for you.

That leads us to the next question: So how exactly do you become an Alpha-in-Training?

The AIT Protocol

The clue is in the initials: A, I, T. There are three areas you’ll be working on:

• Alpha traits, that’s the “A” part…
• Independence, that’s the “I”…
• And “T” stands for Turpitude.

So, it’s Alpha Traits… Independence… and Turpitude. That’s the formula for leading a relationship or marriage and making your woman happy at the same time.

Now let’s talk about Alpha traits, Independence, and Turpitude.

First up. I believe every man should continuously and relentlessly build their alpha male traits. You can do this in three major ways:

• One, by working out and getting physically strong and mentally tough.
• Two, by having manly hobbies. These include those involving business, preparedness, crafting, and combat. And,
• Three, by having a mixed circle of friends—including other women. Ideally, beautiful ones. You’ll see why in just a second.

Second: Independence. You need to learn to do your own thing and succeed without your woman’s help. She’ll see your success, and get to share the benefits, too.

And as a result, she’ll work double-time to make sure she never loses you. She’ll happily follow your lead and support you like a loyal, grateful sidekick. She’ll be the submissive wife you’ve always wanted, willingly, lovingly and happily.

And third: Turpitude. You want to be the opposite of politically correct.

For instance:

• If you want to talk about your exes, do so. Nothing should be taboo to you.
• If there are pretty women in your circle who want to work, chat, or mingle with you, let them. This is the independence part of the equation at work.
• And if your woman says or does something you disagree with, let her know. That’s so much more “alpha” than being a yes-man, don’t you think?

And there you have it—that’s the AIT Protocol. Alpha traits, independence, and turpitude. That, my friend, is how to lead a woman in a relationship or marriage.

It’s a three-pronged approach to leading your relationship and making her happy. Your woman will see you as a true alpha male, and nothing will convince her otherwise.

And yes, that’s even if you’re not quite there yet. Your girlfriend or wife will treat you like the leader you strive to be, nonetheless. And, again, that’s all that matters, right?

Where To Go From Here

Now, just in case the AIT Protocol is a bit much for you to absorb, don’t worry.

I have another technique to teach you: One that gives you the same results like the AIT Protocol. Your woman will love you and others will recognize and respect your leadership.

Here’s the difference—this other technique is a bit of a challenge to master. Yet it’s only one technique, and you’ll see results almost immediately.

So, if you’re the type who’d rather focus on making one improvement instead of three at the same time, you’ll like this.

The technique is called Fractionation. It’s a simple NLP seduction pattern that does one thing:

It makes the other person feel emotionally addicted to you. And without them noticing, too.

Imagine just talking to someone—and little by little, they get sucked into you. They’ll like you, trust you and—if you want—fall in love with you, too.

Now, imagine if you could get the woman in your life that addicted to you. How much easier would it be to lead your relationship?

You bet.

And the answer lies in front of you right now. Be a Shogun. You know it makes sense.

But before you make the jump, read this review first of the Shogun Method program. It’s not for everyone, and so I want you to make sure you know what you’re getting yourself into.