How To Make Your Ex Girlfriend Want You Back
Broke up with your wife or girlfriend?
Want to get her back, but not sure how?
Neither did Earl, a husband who recently asked me for help with his marriage. His wife, Rachel, had been threatening to leave him.
“Derek, I’m on the verge of giving up, myself,” an exasperated Earl told me.
“I’m doing everything right in our marriage. I’m honest with Rachel. I try to make her happy. I try to meet all her needs… but she STILL hates my guts. Why?”
Does Earl’s story sound similar to your own?
If so, then prepare to be enlightened. This Shogun Method guide will show you how to win your ex back…
…and the advice you’ll be getting is NOT what you’re expecting. Believe me.
Of course, some may have you think that it’s not worth going after an ex (or, “rooting through garbage“), but you already know that’s not true.
This article will show you that it’s indeed possible to mend a broken relationship… provided you know and do these three very important steps that you’ll learn next.
Table of Contents
- How To Make Your Ex Girlfriend Want You Back
- How To Win Your Ex-Girlfriend Back… The WRONG Way
- “Get Your Ex Back” Mistakes That You Must Avoid
- How To Win Your Ex Back Fast (In 3 Steps)
- How To Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back Fast (Use Fractionation)
How To Win Your Ex-Girlfriend Back… The WRONG Way
How many guys do you know who tried to win their exes back… but never succeeded?
Most of them, right?
Here’s the reason why…
Most men these days follow junk advice about how to start a relationship over… and that’s why they fail.
And here’s some junk advice you’ve probably heard before:
- “To win your ex back, you must have a heart-to-heart talk with her!”
- “You must put her happiness before yours!”
- “You must give in to her demands!”
If any “marriage expert” gives you advice like that, run the other way. Seriously.
“Get Your Ex Back” Mistakes That You Must Avoid
So exactly WHY is it wrong to have a heart-to-heart talk with your wife? Or focus on happiness, or give in to her demands?
Mistake #1: Having A Heart-To-Heart Talk
Conventional thinking states that “honesty” and “openness” is the key to happy relationships.
Sure, it has its place in non-romantic relationships – friends, co-workers, relatives, etc…
…and yet when it comes to girlfriends and wives, the rules change.
Think about it for a moment. When you and your woman first started dating, did you:
- Make the courtship exciting and mysterious? Like you were letting her figure you out piece by piece?
- Or, did you openly and honestly confess your love for her?
If you’ve ever tried #2 above on ANY woman in the past… it didn’t go too well, did it?
Here’s why – the more intrigued she is by you, the more attracted she feels…
…and yet when you’re honest and upfront with her, she figures you out too quickly… and the intrigue is gone.
And all the attraction is gone with it. Whoops.
My advice? Keep your intentions hidden. Keep her interested by keeping her intrigued!
Mistake #2: Focusing On Her Happiness
Wasn’t “focusing on her happiness” exactly what caused your problem in the first place?
Think of it this way. If your woman spent the last few months or years breaking her back to make you happy…
…at the cost of her own happiness…
…how would you feel?
You’d feel like you owe her, right?
And it’s NEVER a good feeling when you owe someone something.
Guess what – that’s exactly how she feels when you focus on her happiness.
My advice? Focus on yours. You can’t give what you don’t have.
Makes sense, right?
Mistake #3: Give Her Whatever She Wants
This is similar to Mistake #2.
By giving her whatever she wants, you make her feel like she owes you.
My advice? Free her from that kind of slavery.
And instead, put her in a different KIND of slavery…
How To Win Your Ex Back Fast (In 3 Steps)
Right now, take a moment to think about your luckier friends.
Think about those guys whose wives or girlfriends absolutely adore them. The ladies worship them like gods. And they are absolutely happy doing that.
What do they do that most other guys don’t?
Simple… they simply don’t follow conventional advice about winning ex girlfriends or wives back.
Instead, they follow what WORKS.
What works? Just this fact of human life:
That women desperately want to be led by a strong, dominant, in-control man.
That’s what I told Earl.
The day he came to me, I gave him three steps to save his marriage with Rachel:
Disarm, Confuse, and Enslave.
Here’s how this powerful Shogun Method “how to get your ex-girlfriend back” strategy works…
Step #1: DISARM Her.
Instead of trying to beg, plead, or convince her not to leave you…
…DISARM her by saying this:
“You’re right – let’s take a breather.”
Make no mistake… that’s going to shock her. She’ll snap out of her solid, defiant position and stare at you in disbelief.
She’s going to be asking herself a million questions a minute:
- “Wait – what did he just say?”
- “Is he serious?”
- “Does that mean he’s giving up?”
- “When he said ‘take a breather’ – did he mean temporarily, or permanently?”
- “Did he find another woman?”
- “Who is she?”
- “How would he have met her?”
- (And on and on the hamster wheel spins…)
Before Earl used this technique, Rachel used the issue of divorce to tick him off.
She was using the issue to control Earl. It was her “weapon.”
Now, suddenly, she’d been disarmed. She lost her weapon.
Naturally, she panics. She’s in a vulnerable state.
And when she’s vulnerable, it’s time for Step #2 in this three-step strategy.
Step #2: CONFUSE Her.
The next step is to create doubts in her mind about leaving you.
How do you do that?
For sure, you don’t do it by TELLING her not to leave you. (If you do, she’ll REGAIN her “weapon,” and the argument starts all over again. Makes sense?)
Only this time, you can’t disarm her a second time. She’ll be ready for it.
So again – don’t tell her not to leave you.
Instead, make her think she’s telling HERSELF not to leave you.
With a Mind Control technique called “Implanted Commands.”
I give Implanted Commands a comprehensive treatment inside Module 6 of Shogun Method. Here’s a “Cliffs Notes” version…
An Implanted Command is a phrase within a sentence that, when spoken on its own, would be a DIRECT command.
(We’ll look at some examples below and you’ll see how easy this technique is, so keep reading.)
In the same sentence, there are what we call the “camouflage” phrases along with the Implanted Command. These are designed to distract her conscious mind – so that the Implanted Command gets accepted by the subconscious mind easily.
In Earl’s case, here are two examples of Implanted Commands I taught him:
- “Imagine if you <Implanted Command>.”
- “Sure, I’d tell you to <Implanted Command>, but I won’t.”
(The phrases in the italics are the camouflage phrases.)
For example –
“Imagine if you left me and settled down with a new guy… only to realize your new relationship is MUCH WORSE. Try to imagine how much you’d hate yourself for being too hasty.”
“Sure, I’d tell you to stop being a selfish prick and work with me on this… but I won’t.”
Earl used these Implanted Commands on Rachel again and again. They planted ideas in Rachel’s mind that confused her and made her rethink her decision.
Finally, Rachel surrendered, stopped all the mind games, asked Earl an honest question:
“So, what do you want me to do?”
Surrender. That was Earl’s sign to move on to Step #3…
Step #3: ENSLAVE Her.
Let me clarify this –
By “enslave,” I don’t mean PHYSICAL enslavement. That’s illegal …and dumb.
Instead, I mean EMOTIONAL enslavement. It’s when you make your woman feel totally, completely addicted to you emotionally.
As a result, she won’t only come back to you. She’ll STAY with you for life.
You won’t just win your ex back, but you’ll also KEEP her forever.
So, how do you enslave your ex?
By using the most powerful Mind Control technique of all: Fractionation.
How To Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back Fast (Use Fractionation)
Fractionation is a Shogun Method tactic that puts your woman on emotional rollercoasters.
Notice that the first two steps (Disarmand Confuse) put your ex on emotional rollercoasters. The effect is powerful – it snaps her out of her bad behavior and makes her vulnerable to your commands.
Fractionation does that, too. Only 100X more powerfully.
It’s potent stuff.
Earl tried it on Rachel – and the results simply stunned him.
“I can’t believe it,” Earl told me a few weeks later.
“It’s like she’s a totally different woman. The divorce is no longer on the table, and she’s been treating me like a king. Thanks, Derek!”
Earl won his woman back.
And guess what? You can, too.
Just follow the three simple steps: Disarm, Confuse, Enslave.
If you’d like to master Fractionation, then I’m inviting you to join my Online Masterclass on Mind Control.
After attending the class, you’ll have a master-level knowledge of what Fractionation is and how to use it.
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If you want to win her back, then you’ll need to become what she desperately needs you to be:
Not a weak, supplicating “yes-man”…
…but as a strong, dominant, powerful leader.
This guide just showed you the fastest way to become that.
But you WILLneed Fractionation. It’s the key to the whole thing.
Here’s the link to the Masterclass again. Click it, follow what I say, and win her back!
P.S: Have you ever tried winning an ex back? How well (or how badly) did it go? Tell us your story in the comments section below.