How To Keep A Woman Interested In You Forever
How do you keep a girl interested in you?
You might have a woman in your life right now, and you like her very much…
…but unfortunately, she seems to be losing interest in you. What should you do?
This Shogun Method guide will show you exactly what to do to keep a woman interested in you for as long as you want.
Let’s get started.
Table of Contents
- How To Keep A Woman Interested In You Forever
- Female Psychology 101
- Manipulation is the Name of the Love Game
- How To Manipulate A Woman’s Emotions
- How To Keep A Girl Liking You: Multiple Scenarios
Female Psychology 101
First of all, let’s get a hard fact out of the way…
Men and women think differently. And that’s exactly how Mother Nature designed us to be, and for good reason.
And here’s where the difference is.
While us guys tend to think logically, women think emotionally.
A woman’s hind brain dominates her thinking patterns. This means that she’s always run by her emotions, and never by logic.
This means that it’s useless to force a woman to be logical. It doesn’t work, it annoys her, and it makes you look like you don’t know a thing about women.
So what does this fact of female psychology have to do with keeping a woman interested in you?
Why Nice Guys Finish Last
Guess what’s the BIGGEST mistake that a guy could do with a woman?
Trying to convince a woman to like him back.
They do all sorts of things that logically should make her like them more, such as:
- They’re completely honest with her, trying to prove they’d never cheat on her…
- They never offend her, trying to prove they’d treat her right…
- They follow her preferences, trying to prove they’d make her happy…
…but what usually happens? After all their effort, these poor guys just get friend-zoned….
…and meanwhile, she hooks up with some dumbass who doesn’t treat her even half as nicely as they do.
Women don’t fall in love a guy who tries to logically convince or persuade them to love them back.
Instead, being emotional beings that they are, they fall in love with the bad boy who they have sexual chemistry with… and makes them feel the most intense emotions.
Makes perfect sense, right?
Now, some of these “nice guys” might complain:
“But I DO make her feel intense emotions! POSITIVE emotions, at that! Why would she friend-zone ME, in favor of some jerk who makes her feel NEGATIVE emotions?”
Most guys who feel this way are also unprepared for the answer to that question.
The Power of Negative Emotions In Relationships
The answer is this:
Negative emotions make women feel more attracted to a guy than positive emotions do.
In fact, behavioral scientists have known this for a long time.
Emotions like fear, dread and uncertainty show tell-tale signs in the body. Those signs include:
- Sweaty palms
- Elevated heart rate and blood pressure
- Butterflies in the stomach
Here’s the kicker:
Studies have found the EXACT tell-tale signs in people who felt attracted to someone.
In one particular study, two groups of test subjects were made to cross different bridges.
The first bridge was a sturdy wood bridge over a shallow stream of water. No sweat.
The second bridge was a rickety suspension bridge over a 200-foot-deep canyon. Dangerous and scary as hell.
But at the end of both bridges, the test subjects were asked questions… by a very attractive researcher of the opposite sex.
The test subjects who felt intense FEAR before talking to the attractive scientist…
…felt MUCH HIGHER feelings of attraction towards him/her.
The conclusion is simple: FEAR is correlated to ATTRACTION.
Interesting, right? But for someone well-versed in the art of Shogun Method, this is not surprising.
Manipulation is the Name of the Love Game
The above experiment explains plenty about female behavior when it comes to love and relationships.
For instance, it’s why women who have an abusive husband or boyfriend tend to stay with him.
You see, they too easily misconstrue the negative feelings as attraction.
I mean, have you ever tried to convince a female friend of yours to leave her jerk boyfriend or husband? Never worked, did it? Now you know why.
Yes, it defies logic…
…but then again, women aren’t logical to begin with. They’re emotional. And if you want to keep your woman interested in you, you’ve got to stop thinking that she’s as logical as you (or any man for that matter).
Instead, you’ll need to work to make her feel the right emotions for you.
Does that mean YOU have to be abusive, too?
Hell no. I don’t advocate physical abuse–that’s illegal, and frankly, stupid.
But what I DO advocate is this:
You must know how to manipulate her emotions.
Not with force or violence… but with your words and actions.
So, it all boils down to knowing how to control a woman emotionally and psychologically.
How To Manipulate A Woman’s Emotions
Here’s a bit of trivia about human nature…
Our brains are wired to find the reason behind our emotions.
Whenever we feel an emotion–any emotion–our brains scramble to give it a meaning. If it doesn’t manage to find an answer, we get mighty uncomfortable. (This phenomenon is known as Cognitive Dissonance in psychology.)
Here’s an example.
When you’re at home and you’re feeling stressed, your brain automatically asks:
“Why am I feeling stressed?”
Sometimes, it’s because of a real reason. For example, your brain might answer: “Oh, I’m stressed because there’s work tomorrow and I got deadlines.”
But don’t you have days when you feel stressed for no apparent reason?
In those cases, your brain actually MAKES UP a reason for the unexplainable stress:
“Oh, I’m probably stressed because I’m not sleeping enough, or not eating well, or not exercising enough…”
Guess what–women’s brains act the same way (but only 100X more intense than a guy’s).
When you make a woman feel fearful or anxious, or when you give her the “butterflies,” her brain tries to find out why.
And since those are the feelings associated with both danger AND attraction…
…and since she can’t find anything dangerous around her…
…her brain decides:
“I think I’m in love!”
Try it out – instead of treating a woman nicely all the time, tease her often. Say no to her once in a while. Don’t be afraid to make her angry.
(Yes, make her angry.)
You’ll be surprised at how much more interested in you she becomes.
Now, our critics will scream how manipulative this is. To which, we shall answer: guilty as charged. If one wants to know how to manipulate a woman, this is it: by exploiting her Cognitive Dissonance.
How To Keep A Girl Liking You: Multiple Scenarios
How To Keep A Girl Interested In You Over Text
We’ll need an entire guide on text game alone – it’s far too deep a subject to be covered here in this short section. (Read these rules for texting a girl.)
However, if all you want to do is to keep her interested while you’re texting her, then bear these in mind:
- Keep your text sessions short – you have other priorities.
- Don’t worry if she gets mad. That means she’s thinking of you.
- The more she thinks of you, the more interested in you she’ll be.
In short, use texting as a tool to keep yourself on top of her mind, but don’t overdo it.
Exploit the fact that text can be easily “misunderstood”. Annoy her and make her angry by sending the “wrong” text to her. For a full guide on how to do this, post me a request in the comment section below.
How To Keep A Girl Interested, Long Distance
First, understand that long-distance relationships are super tough. You’ve got to bring your A-game to make it work for you.
Texting will obviously be important, and so remember the tips in the preceding section.
Also–don’t just go for dinner, drinks and coffee when you meet. Do something physical and scary– hiking, biking, rock climbing, skydiving, etc.
Remember. Fear = Attraction!
How To Keep A Woman Interested Long Term
If she’s your girlfriend and you’re living close together, then do these immediately:
- Stop being nice to her all the time.
- If she’s misbehaving, call her out on it.
- If she makes a dumb decision, tease her about it.
- If she wants your attention when you’re busy, don’t give it.
- If she gets mad, let her simmer. It’s only going to be good for you long-term.
- Don’t discount the power of making her want you sexually.
How To Keep A Woman Interested In You Forever
Sometimes, long-term isn’t enough. When you’re absolutely, 100% sure she’s the one you want to spend the rest of your life with…
…then you’ll need a more permanent approach.
Being mean to her sometimes… teasing her… going through scary experiences with her…
…these are all great, but they’ll only work when you do them. And it’ll be a challenge to keep doing them for the rest of your life.
So if you want to spend forever with her, do this instead:
Use Fractionation on her.
It’s a Mind Control and hypnosis technique that puts your woman on emotional rollercoasters. Think of it as “keeping her interested” on a nuclear grade.
Using your words and actions, you:
- Give her some pressure, then give her some pleasure
- Give her some pain, then give her some relief
- Make her feel negative emotions on purpose
- Hurt her emotionally when she disrespects you, then reward her with affection when she apologizes
- Keep her guessing by NEVER being 100% upfront with her
Don’t get me wrong: you’re not being just a jerk…
…you’re being a jerk AND a nice guy at the same time. Only a real man understands female psychology well enough to do that.
And you’re that man.
The result? She’ll fractionate. That means she’ll:
- Stop pretending to not like you
- Stop trying to put you in her friendzone
- Start feeling madly in love with you
- Start feeling emotionally addicted to you – an addiction she’ll have for life
- Start trying to win you
Do it right, and she’ll be interested in you forever.
How does that sound?
If that’s something you want to happen, then you’ll want to master Fractionation now…
…before she completely loses interest in you.
And guess what–you can master Fractionation today.
All you need to do is sign up for my next Online Masterclass on Mind Control.
Click on this link to request your access.
(Note: not everybody qualifies for the Masterclass. On the registration page, enter your best email address – if you qualify, we will email you your very own private access link.)
Now, a fair warning: Fractionation isn’t for everyone.
If you’re not 100% sure and committed to making her your woman for life… don’t use it.
If you make her fractionate, and then you dump her or cheat on her later on… you’ll break her and scar her for life.
So I repeat:
If you’re not man enough to commit to her for life, don’t use Fractionation on her.
But on the other hand, if you ARE sure she’s the ONE…
…and you’re willing to do whatever it takes to make her yours…
…then Fractionation is your best bet. Here’s the link to my Masterclass again.
P.S: Got any questions about Fractionation and keeping a girl interested in you? Need help? Post me your question and I’ll answer it personally below.