How To Get My Ex Girlfriend Or Wife Back

Can I Get My Ex Back?

“Would it be possible for me to get my ex back if her breakup line was ‘We aren’t on the same path.’? Please teach me how to make your ex want you back. I’m pretty desperate!” – Jeremy G. from Oakland, NJ

Derek Rake’s Answer:-

Yes. Just spend some time away and go back a few months later to game her the way you did the very first time. Always works. 🙂

How Can I Win My Ex Back?

“Hi, I have a serious problem getting over a girl. I want her back, but don’t know how to go about it. What tips do you have to get an ex to go out with you again? Or is it hopeless? Should I move on and never look back? Honestly, I like this girl a lot and we only broke up because we hardly talk anymore and because she stopped making an effort. Is it hopeless to chase this situation? In particular, how to make your ex miss you?” – Refugio T. from Helena, MT

Derek Rake’s Answer:-

Although I can teach you the ways of winning an ex back, are you sure you want her? I mean, you gave me some good reasons on why you broke up in the first place. No effort and a lack of communication are real death sentences for any relationship. So why go back to that? Why not move on?

I promise that you’ll find another girl who is sweet and beautiful and great in bed and a better fit for you overall. Someone you can relate to and talk to and who will work harder for your relationship. I’d say: move on.

And this is what you have to do to win her back, too. (Since she will have to get in touch with you first in order for it to become effective.) Besides, you need to move on for yourself and your sanity, as well. Think out it. Really. And email me if you decide to go out with her again. That’s when I’ll help.

How Can I Win My Ex-Wife Back?

“Hi Derek, first of all, I want to thank you for this chance to share what’s in my heart and mind. My question is: how can I win my ex-wife back? We divorced just two weeks ago and we had only been married for two years.” – Nicholas O. from Ocala, FL

Derek Rake’s Answer:-

One that brings all of the “get your ex back” advice together that I have been giving out as of late: Whenever You Invest More Time In Her Compared To What She Does For You, You Will Lose Her Forever!

(On a sidenote, you should have paid attention and read my “How To Save A Marriage” guide, but that’s water under bridge now.)

Emotion and love have a purpose when it comes to meeting women – a huge one, for that matter. Love is probably the most beautiful thing that you can do for a woman and is very important in any man’s future.

However, you seem to be positive that she is perfect for you and it has only been two months. Two Months! Why, it takes even longer than that to get a custom car painted and sent to a Honda dealer. (And those guys are fast.)

How do you expect to find out if a person is right for you that quickly? The answer is that you can’t. What you’re experiencing is lust as opposed to love. You want her emotionally and physically, but you aren’t in love.

You feel invested in her because of the ton of compliance that you’ve been giving her. But it’s not love. Here is the dirty, quick secret for you here: give her some space! Cut contact. Be completely brutal and pull yourself away from this hurtful situation.

Right now, all you are doing is hurting yourself when you’ve already taken a shot to the arm. Cut contact. Make her run after you for a bit. When she runs back, attract her the way you would any new woman in your life. But this time, make use of the tactics that I have taught and do not give your dominance up too fast, either.

Sorry if this was brutal, but it was for your own good. No matter how much you might hate me now, you’ll thank me later on. I promise. 🙂

For additional guidance, read this: how to get over someone you love (and can’t let go).

How To Win Her Back

So she’s left you. You cheated. Or you were inconsiderate. Or you forgot your special day for the umpteenth time. Or you haven’t introduced her to your family even after being together for the last five years or so. In however way you did it, she’s finally had it: you failed to make her feel as loved as she deserved and she’s out of your life – FOREVER.

Or maybe not.

Before anything, check if it’s really all over by knowing for sure if your ex-girlfriend is really over you.

Then, continue…

When girls initiate breakups, it’s only one of two things: she wants to get your attention and send you a message, or she really wants out. You’re lucky if you’re in the first situation, it’s easier to get out of. But the second situation, I can’t make any assurance.

But then again, girls are just as forgiving as they are fickle minded. Girls take after moms – they give as many chances as we can. They forgive.

So is it goodbye forever? Maybe, but maybe it’s worth a shot to try winning her back. No, if you know how to flirt with girls like a pro. Don’t know how to? First of all, assess your first. Know whether or not you have the characteristics of a natural seducer. Here are some tips on how to get your ex back:-

8 Ways To Get An Ex-Girlfriend Back – Derek Rake Style

1. Use the October Man Sequence on her.
2. Be patient and be consistent. Girls who have been burned are ever more careful. She won’t let her guard down too easily on you this time around. So patience is key. Oh, and be consistent while you’re at it. You’re on the disadvantaged side, you’re the one who has something to prove.
3. Make her fall for you all over again. Revisit anything and everything that she used to love, and used to love with you. Use all your great memories together for your leverage. Use gifts, music, anything that will flood her with the great memories of you two, together.
4. Get her attention. You could go as cheesy as you want – serenading in public, paying for an ad, or getting a million YouTube views for a public apology. However way you want to win her back, it should always start by getting attention. Warning: Avoid anything that resembles self-inflicted injuries, suicide attempts, or anything like that. That’s blackmail. A sweet dozen roses every day will actually do. This will get her attention back to you.
5. Timing is everything. Don’t just do it on impulse! You’ve got to catch her when she’s more lonely than angry (at you, of course). When she’s lonely, she’s more sentimental and it would be easier for her to open up for an emotional conversation with her.
6. Use Fractionation. Or any comparable Mind Control technique.
   
7. Make the necessary changes. So she hates you for always being late? For breaking all your promises? For being a flirt? Or for being un-sweet? Win her back by changing everything that she hated about you. That’s one hell of a way to apologize!
8. Be sincere. Girls, thanks to our natural intuition, are very sensitive. We can more easily tell a lie from truth than men. And if you’re in her ‘bad faith’ list, she’s more highly suspicious of you. She’d watch your words and actions twice as much as she used too when you guys were okay. So be sincere. Match your words with your actions.

To help you get in the right mindset, here’s a good article (despite being written by Oprah!) about second chances.

How Can I Stop Girls From Cheating?

“What makes women cheat and how can I stop girls from cheating? I would love to read what you have to say on this topic.” – Roger M. from De Kalb, IL

Derek Rake’s Answer:-

Why do women cheat? God, there are various reasons. Mostly, it boils down to them losing interest in who they’re with, especially when a dominant guy shows up to woo them.

This is why girls hardly ever leave bad boys – since these guys are always exciting, even weeks after hooking up with a girl.

How can you stop girls from cheating? The truth is: there is no answer for that. However, you can do your best by getting a ton of compliance.

This is why women do not leave their abusive husbands. Although they no longer feel safe with them, they will not leave because they have huge compliance.

Naturally, this doesn’t mean you should ever beat her, though. No, there are many more effective, better and much safer ways to get this done – as you may have seen in Shogun Method.