How To Know If Your Ex Is Over You For Good
Did your ex-girlfriend just break up with you?
Are you still in love with her?
Do you wish you know how to get her back?
If you answered “yes” to all those questions, then this exclusive Shogun Method guide is for you.
Here’s the good news…
No matter how painful the breakup might have been, there’s always a chance that she’s not over you yet, either.
She may be hiding her feelings well, but they’re still there. And that means you CAN get her back…
…but only if you act FAST, and if you do things RIGHT.
This Shogun Method guide will show you how to do both.
Table of Contents
- How To Know If Your Ex Is Over You For Good
- Three (3) Signs Your Ex-Girlfriend Is Still Interested
- Why She Dumped You in The First Place
- What Women Really Want In A Boyfriend
- “Pickup Artist” (PUA) Tricks Are For Chumps
- The ONLY Way to Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back For Good
- How to Use Fractionation To Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back
Three (3) Signs Your Ex-Girlfriend Is Still Interested
So how DO you tell if your ex-girlfriend isn’t over you yet?
See if she shows any of the following three signs:
Sign #1: She Still Stays in Touch With You
…but take note:
SHE has to get in touch first, not you.
She might:
- Just “check in” to see how you’re doing
- Trying to restart an unresolved argument you once had as a couple
- Texting you early in the morning, seemingly drunk
- And other ways she’ll get in touch with you
When your ex-girlfriend stays in touch with you, it’s a secret sign that she’s still not over you. She’s likely wishing you’ve changed since the breakup – and if you did, she’d gladly get back with you.
Sign #2: She’s Stalking You on Social Media
Even after the breakup, she didn’t unfriend/unfollow you. She still “likes” your updates once in a while, and she’s often online when you are, too.
This is a sign that she likely misses you. She definitely misses you enough to want to know how you’ve been since the breakup.
And thirdly:
Sign #3: She’s Asking Around About You.
“Hey, I just bumped into your ex,” your friend or relative tells you. “She asked how you were doing.”
What does it mean?
It means she’s not over you yet, full stop. If she WAS over you, she’d probably want nothing to do with you anymore.
She wouldn’t ask your friends and/or relatives about you, and would instead avoid bumping into them if she could.
But here she is, curious about you. She’s secretly looking for excuses to hook up with you again.
If your ex-girlfriend shows even just one of these three signs, then it’s clear. She’s not over you. She’s still open to having you back.
And you CAN get her back… again, if you act FAST and do things RIGHT.
So how exactly do you “do things right” in getting your ex-girlfriend back?
It all starts with knowing…
Why She Dumped You in The First Place
Why did she dump you?
It’s the same reason why 98% of all women dump their ex-boyfriends: You weren’t man enough for her.
You could have been:
- Too weak
- Too wimpy
- Too passive
- Too submissive
- Too nice
You get the idea. When a woman is in a relationship with a weak boyfriend…
…and she sees most other guys around her are stronger and manlier than he is…
…you can bet she’ll want a breakup.
Makes sense, right?
That, my friend, should clue you in on the solution:
If you want her back, you want to be the opposite of weak.
What Women Really Want In A Boyfriend
Here’s the truth (which may sound a little politically incorrect)…
Women are programmed by Mother Nature to follow strong, capable, determined men.
Sidenote: here’s the scientific research that back that theory.
You see, it’s a biological thing. Women are at their happiest, most content, and most at peace when under the leadership of a dominant man.
History shows it. Studies prove it. Even the Bible attests to it.
Make no mistake: Your girl WANTS you to dominate her.
Again, it’s a subconscious need. Most girls aren’t even aware of it.
But it doesn’t matter what she says or believes she wants. Deep down, she wants a strong, dominant, capable boyfriend.

Unfortunately, she didn’t find that in you… and that’s why the breakup happened.
So how do you get her back?
Let’s first talk about what NOT to do:
“Pickup Artist” (PUA) Tricks Are For Chumps
Do a quick Google search on “how to get your girlfriend back.” You’ll get swamped with silly “Pickup Artist” tricks, word-for-word “magic lines”, so on and so forth.
The reason why none of these things work is because of a simple fact:
They’re all grounded in trickery and dishonesty.
The “usual” cookie-cutter “how to make your ex want you back” process goes this way:
- You don’t contact your ex-girlfriend for one month.
- You contact her if she doesn’t.
- You pretend you’re doing just fine without her.
- You wait for her to bring up the topic of the breakup.
- You weasel your way into sleeping with her.
- When you wake up, you’re in a relationship with her again.
Then the process ends with what we call the “Pussywhip” condition:
“You’ll need to promise yourself to be a better boyfriend this time around.”
Fuck that shit. Did you notice the disconnect?
The process starts with trickery and dishonesty…
… and yet it ends by making you “promise to be a better boyfriend.”
Crazy, right?
As a result, if you follow this process, you MIGHT just, you know, get your ex-girlfriend back.
But guess what? In no time, she’ll realize you played her for a fool, and she’ll leave you again – this time, FOR GOOD.
So don’t make that mistake! She deserves better, and so do you.
And that leads us to…
The ONLY Way to Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back For Good
What’s the only way to get your ex-girlfriend back for good?
The answer: Fractionation.
Or more specifically, it’s when you make her so emotionally addicted to you that she’ll do a complete 180-degree turn.
Imagine her coming back to you, loving you again, and staying with you… for the rest of her life.
Sounds great, right?
And guess what: Fractionation will make that come true for you.
Now let’s dig a little deeper and see what Fractionation has got in store for you, alright?
If you pay attention, you’ll start seeing Fractionation around you. It’s the same technique that businesses use to:
- Create brands that consumers become fiercely loyal to (e.g. Apple, Ferrari, Louis Vuitton, etc.)
- Create TV shows that millions of addicted fans watch (e.g. Game of Thrones, The Walking Dead, etc.)
- Create fictional universes that hook nerds in for life (e.g. Star Wars, Dungeons & Dragons, etc.)
Now listen up because this is where it gets really interesting…
To get your ex-girlfriend back, you’ll use the exact same technique on her.
You’ll just repackage it to make your girl emotionally “addicted” to you again… and stay that way for life!
Here’s how it’ll go:
- You meet up with your ex-girlfriend one more time…
- You run the Fractionation technique on her, showing how you’re the same guy she once loved. Only this time, however, you’re stronger, more dominant, more alpha, and more capable than ever before…
- She comes back to you and never leaves you again. And she’ll feel the happiest, most contented, and most at peace she’s ever been in her life… being the submissive girlfriend she has always been destined to be.
How does that sound? Great, right?
How to Use Fractionation To Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back
To use Fractionation, you’ll need to understand how Shogun Method operates.
Shogun Method students understand this fundamental truth about love and women:
Every strong, happy relationship with a woman goes through four distinct stages.
- Intrigue Stage, when your ex-girlfriend felt interested in you for the first time
- Rapport Stage, when you and your ex got to know each other very, very well
- Attraction Stage, when she felt romantically/sexually attracted to you
- Enslavement Stage, when you make her so emotionally addicted to you that she’ll never, ever leave you
This process is also called the IRAE Model – the framework of my teachings inside the Shogun Method.
How is this relevant to you?
Well, here’s how…
You’ve probably covered the first three steps (Intrigue, Rapport, and Attraction) with your ex-girlfriend.
Here’s the kicker, however…
Since you didn’t do the fourth step – Enslavement – that’s why you lost her.
Don’t lose hope yet because here’s the good news:
If she still isn’t over you, then you still have time.
You’ll need to take action right now and use Fractionation on her. And once you get her back, you can use the same technique to make her your obedient girlfriend: one who has eyes for you, and you only.
How does that sound?
To learn how to use Fractionation and get your ex-girlfriend back before it’s too late, join the Shogun Method brotherhood. Then, get started with the Fractionation module immediately.
Remember: You need to act FAST, and you need to do it RIGHT.
Otherwise, you’ll lose her for good – plain and simple.
You only have one shot to get her back. Make it count: learn how to use Fractionation on her today.
I’ll see you at inside the Shogun Method brotherhood,

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I appreciate that talk once again thank you
‘Ashamed’ as charged: I still love my ex – for the time being. When contemplating I visualize and this in my mental projection; Shogun Method X’s ARCI sequence ‘skeleton’ fits into the IRAE methodology framework (A’I, (R’)R, C’A, I’->E) though almost only purely at the ‘enhanced’ persuasion (indoctrination) level that the IRAE process takes into overdrive – incorporating even more hardcore, cutting edge tools such as ‘clinical’ hypnosis, ‘extraterrestrial’ NLP, ‘evolved’ storytelling, extreme manipulation, neuro-psychology, ‘love’ anthropology, CBT, etc. This, presumably, is because the ARCI order is a sort of mutated IRAE method remastered primarily for cultic persuasion. But my biggest wonder is: how do connect the Shogun Method’s IRAE Model (“primary rainbow”) to ReSeduction 2.0’s VCRD Model (“secondary rainbow”) [not sure how to phrase this question that it matches the exact ‘fluid’ thought in my thought-stream buffer, but here goes…] I could only liken ReSeduction’s Model to the Fake Breakup gambit / DCE strategy / BZA Protocol, though at a more overdrive ‘advanced’ level. The Models: VCRD and IRAE navigate divergent seduction pathways, but what’s the corpus-callosum (correlation) and reticular formation (differentiation) from a birds eye view? (any oversimplification to this Q1, is what am asking)
Q2 +I’ve gone through the book – ‘A Billion Wicked Thoughts’ where it says female arousal is intercepted by the *Miss Marple Detective Agency*. Is that a similar mechanism at work as that which you had explained in Thought Leaking on how when love is overwhelming for her cortical brain? And this ’emotionally charged memory repression’ the same *thing* we exploit in sexual tension elicitation using subcommunications and disqualification in ENTICE/REPEL?
Q3 And, is -empathy- really the strongest emotion instead of -fear-?
Fred–post this inside the ShogunMethod.net community. There are material I want to keep confined within our brotherhood, and this is one of those material.