Mirroring Psychology In Attraction & Relationships
You’ve probably heard of “Mirroring” somewhere and how it’s a powerful way to make women like you more. And now, you want to learn everything you can about it.
It’s true. If you want to be great with the ladies, then you’ll want Mirroring to be in your toolkit of techniques.
In this Shogun Method guide you’ll learn all about the psychology of Mirroring and how you can use this technique to make yourself better with women.
Table of Contents
- 1 Mirroring Psychology In Attraction & Relationships
- 2 Power Of Nonverbal Attraction
- 3 Mirroring: A Definition
- 4 How To Mirror Someone You Like
- 5 Don’t Neglect The Verbal Half
Power Of Nonverbal Attraction
Ever noticed that whenever you’re an authority on the current conversation topic…
…or if you’re simply talking about something that excites you…
…you tend to be more animated?
You move your arms, you gesture with your hands, you even touch the person you’re talking to.
And as a result – people pay more attention to you and agree with you more.
Yes, right? Well, that’s the power of nonverbal communication.
That should tell you one thing: If you’re not a master of nonverbal communication – or better known as BODY LANGUAGE…
…then you’re less than half as good with the ladies as you could be.
- Of all the women who would have liked you, only half end up actually do
- You’ll go on half the number of dates you could have had
- You MIGHT still meet the woman of your dreams but it’s going to take twice the amount of time
But, if you ARE a master of body language, you get double everything:
- Double the women who like you
- Double the dates
- You may very well meet the woman of your dreams in half the time
So make no mistake: You MUST master body language!
And the most powerful body language technique out there is the reason you’re reading this guide. It’s Mirroring.
And by the end of this guide, you’ll know what Mirroring really is, why it works, and how to start using it TODAY.
Mirroring: A Definition
Mirroring is simply mimicking her body language.
For instance, if she’s sitting relaxed with her hands clasped over her stomach, you should do the same.
If she seems a little tense, with her arms and legs crossed, you should likewise assume the same position.
The result: She likes you and trusts you more, almost instantly.
Why does Mirroring work so well, though?
It’s all because of a flaw in the female mind:
While it can filter out words that imply familiarity, it CANNOT filter out actions.
This is the reason why, when you tell a woman you just met:
“I know exactly what you feel.”
…she immediately seems to resist you. That’s because in her mind, she thinks: “You know how I feel? But I’ve just met you! You’ve GOT to be up to something…”
Meanwhile, if you imply familiarity with your actions – such as by Mirroring hers – she can’t resist that.
And as a result, deep inside, she’ll FEEL that familiarity with you.
She’ll think: “There’s something about this guy I really like. I don’t know what it is – but I’m going to find out!”
Which reaction would YOU rather get from women? The second one, right?
Mirroring is great for building Rapport. It creates that powerful emotional bond that opens the doors to romance.
And you’re about to learn how to do it… so, keep reading!
How To Mirror Someone You Like
There are three things you’ll need to do when Mirroring a woman you like. Here’s the first one:
#1: Obey The Three Second Rule
The first thing you’ll need to learn about Mirroring is the Three Second Rule.
That is: You should only mimic her actions three seconds AFTER you notice them.
This is to keep her from NOTICING you’re Mirroring her movements. That’s because when she notices, she’ll immediately think you’re MOCKING her.
And when that happens, everything falls apart. She instantly dislikes you, she breaks rapport, and you ruin your chances with her. That’s when your sexual chemistry with her drops down to zero.
So don’t be too obvious – respect the Three Second Rule!
#2: Show Genuine Interest
The second thing you’ll need to do is to be genuinely interested in what she’s saying.
Forget what the Pickup Artists say, and DON’T fake interest. It’s a no-win situation:
- If it doesn’t work, she finds out you’re faking, and her interest in you drops.
- If it DOES work, you’ll end up with an attractive but BORING woman.
Either way, you lose…
…and besides – it’s easier to feel the same way she does when you feel REAL, INSIDE-OUT interest in her. Makes sense, right?
#3: Mirror Everything You Can
And the third thing you’ll need to do is to mimic everything you can.
- Verbal tics
- Physical tics
- Tone of voice
- Breathing patterns
What’s your goal for doing these three things?
It’s this: To reach the Rapport Inflexion Point.
What is the Rapport Inflexion Point?
This is the point when she likes you and trusts you so much that SHE starts Mirroring YOU, subconsciously.
When you sense a strong enough emotional bond with her, do something very obvious.
A good example would be to stretch your arms.
If she does something similar within the next few seconds, you’re in. You’ve successfully used the Mirroring technique on her!
Congratulations – she likes and trusts you enough. You’re ready to take things to the next level with her.
So far, so good, right?
Now, I gotta warn you, though…
Don’t Neglect The Verbal Half
You already know how important body language is in love and relationships…
Simply, if you don’t have the right body language, you’ll only enjoy HALF the success you could have had with women. It’s true.
And yet, guess what? The opposite is also true.
You might know how to Mirror a woman, but you don’t know the right way to carry a conversation with her.
The result will be the same: You cut your positive results by half.
Not good, right?
How To Talk To Her (And Make Her Like You)
So, what’s the right way to carry a conversation with a woman you like?
Here’s a clue: It’s not having an “intellectual”conversation with her. You might have tried it before and what happened? You got friend-zoned.
That’s the usual result for trying to be harmless.
Here’s another clue: It’s not flirting with her. You might have tried it before and gotten rejected.
That’s the usual result when you haven’t built enough Rapport with a woman yet.
So what’s the right way?
Answer: By using the Fractionation technique.
Fractionation is a Mind Control technique. It involves putting your target on an emotional rollercoaster.
We’re talking about gradual, intense cycles of positive and negative emotions.
Think of the emotional rollercoaster you get from following your favorite TV show. Or the emotional rollercoaster women get from reading novels like Fifty Shades.
That’s the kind of addiction she’ll feel when you use Fractionation on her – only about TEN TIMES more intense. (That’s because it’s pretty manipulative.)
And when she’s emotionally addicted to you, everything else follows:
- She’ll like you
- She’ll trust you
- She’ll feel attracted to you
- And when you lead the interaction to the next level, she’ll gladly follow
Sounds great, right?
Next, I’ll recommend to you a resource on how you can learn Fractionation in just a couple of simple steps. Keep reading!
Join My Online Masterclass
You’ve learned the most powerful nonverbal technique there is – Mirroring.
Want to master the most powerful VERBAL technique there is?
Then I invite you to join my Online Masterclass. In it, I will share with you how to use Fractionation to exploit a woman’s psychology flaws and make her like you (almost) instantly.
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(Use your best e-mail address when signing up. That’s where I’ll send your Invite Ticket as soon as you qualify for the Masterclass.)
If you want to be great with the ladies, you’ll want to have the complete package.
You must master both verbal and nonverbal communication.
You’ve just received everything you need to start using Mirroring on the women you meet.
If you want the other half of the package – if you want to master Fractionation – then you know where to go. Here’s the link to my Online Masterclass again.
Click that link, and I’ll see you at the Masterclass.
P.S.: Any questions about Mirroring you’d like clarified? Leave them in the comments section, and I’ll see what I can do.