How To Get A Woman To Leave Her Boyfriend For You
Is there a girl in your life you wish was your girlfriend… and yet unfortunately, she’s already taken?
Or do you have a girlfriend right now, but she’s about to leave you for another man?
If you’re in any of the three situations above… then this Shogun Method guide is for you.
Here, I’ll teach you how to get a girl to break up with her boyfriend to be with you. Dig in!
Table of Contents
- How To Get A Woman To Leave Her Boyfriend For You
- “Will She Leave Her Boyfriend For Me?”
- Stealing Someone’s Girlfriend? Why It’s NOT “Stealing”
- Why You Must Get Her To Leave Her Boyfriend For You
- How Mark Stole Jessica From Her Boyfriend
- Give Her A Much Better Boyfriend – YOU
“Will She Leave Her Boyfriend For Me?”
It’s these three situations that can make a guy wish a woman would break up with her current boyfriend.
You’re so in love with her that you can’t help but wonder if you could do anything to make her leave her boyfriend for you.
I met one such guy, Mark, during a Shogun Method meetup not too long ago.
We were in a group coaching session with other single men. They were all nice guys who wanted to start long-term relationships. (Or, they were not out to “pick up” women.)
“I’ve basically had a crush on her since we were kids,” Mark told us about Jessica, the object of his affections.
“She currently has a boyfriend, who’s a real jerk. But I still see her from time to time, and I know I’ll be so much better for her than he’ll ever be.”
“Okay,” I said. “So you want to become Jessica’s boyfriend in the future. What are you doing now to achieve that outcome?”
“Nothing,” Mark shrugged. “I’m waiting my turn.”
I gave him a puzzled look.
“I’ll wait until she breaks up with him.”
“Waiting My Turn” Is Not Viable Strategy
“OK. But what if she DOESN’T break up with him?” I asked.
“Well, I…” Mark trailed off.
“What if she ends up marrying the bastard and starts a family with him?” I pressed.
Mark stared at the ground, sighed heavily, and shook his head. “I’d be torn to pieces,” he finally answered. “But she’s taken. There’s nothing I can do at this point.”
“Sure there is,” I said.
At that, Mark – and all the other guys in the group – stared at me in shock and surprise.
“What?” Mark sputtered.
“Yeah,” I said simply. “You could steal her if you wanted.”
A chorus of shocked and amused banter followed.
“That’s crazy!” Mark laughed. “That’s MORE than crazy!”
You’re One Moment Away From Losing Her For Good
“Sure, Mark. But what’s crazier: Jessica leaving her jerk boyfriend for you? Or Jessica spending the rest of her life with an insufferable douchebag?”
At that, everyone quieted down.
“I suppose she’d be crazy to settle for him,” Mark admitted. “But isn’t stealing someone else’s woman… I dunno… WRONG?”
I shook my head. “Not always,” I said, leaning forward. “Listen closely, guys…”
That day, I opened Mark’s eyes (and everyone else’s) to the truth. Everything I told them that day is inside this guide.
So if you, too, have a girl in your life who’s currently with another guy…
…but you’re absolutely sure YOU’LL be so much better for her than he’ll ever be…
…then pay close attention. This Shogun Method guide will change your life.
Stealing Someone’s Girlfriend? Why It’s NOT “Stealing”
When I suggested Mark should “steal” Jessica from her douchebag boyfriend…
…he and the other guys reacted in shock.
And you know what? I had expected it.
Can You Truly “Own” A Woman?
Most guys today accepts the idea of “ownership” when it comes to women.
Here’s what that means:
The idea is that if one man “owns” a woman, then she’s off-limits to other men.
Some guys think that “ownership” comes with marriage. If she’s married, she’s off-limits.
Other guys think “ownership” comes with being taken – meaning if she has a boyfriend, she’s off-limits.
And still other guys think “ownership” comes with calling dibs.
For example, if one of your buddies tells you he has a crush on this woman, he has called “dibs” on her. And so… she’s off-limits.
Women Are Not Property
What about you? At what point do you believe a man “owns” a woman?
Here’s the thing…
…it’s all bullshit.
People can’t “own” other people. People aren’t property.
Do you know what the literal definition of owning people is?
That’s why the idea of “owning” a woman is total bullshit.
But, it really depends on what you believe.
Personally, I believe a woman is only off-limits when these two conditions are met:
- She’s happily married, and
- Getting involved in her life would only affect her life NEGATIVELY
So, here’s the deal…
If she’s NOT happily married to the guy…
…and if she’s NOT completely happy and satisfied with him…
…and you’re sure that she’ll be SO MUCH HAPPIER if you were her boyfriend…
…then it’s game on.
(Sidenote: if she’s married, and you think you can give her a better deal, read this guide.)
Why You Must Get Her To Leave Her Boyfriend For You
Back to Mark for a moment.
As I was explaining all this to the group, he raised his hand and asked:
“But shouldn’t I wait my turn, first?”
My answer: “Why? Is it a race? First to get her wins her?”
The answer is, of course, “No.” And it’s all for the following reasons:
- She won’t pick the “fastest” guy – she’ll pick the BEST guy.
- Good women are almost never single. If you wait your turn, you’ll be waiting forever (important!)
- If you want her, you gotta be willing to fight for her. If you’re not, you’ve already lost
And here’s the kicker:
Just because she’s taken doesn’t mean her current boyfriend is her “Mr. Right.”
He’s just “Mr. Right Now.”
He’s just the best guy in her life AT THE MOMENT.
But YOU can do so much better. Am I correct?
Consider the outcomes if she left her current boyfriend for you:
- You win the woman of your dreams. You’re happy.
- She ends up with an even better guy – you. She’s HAPPIER.
- The other guy will be fine. We’re guys. We’re used to rejection. (If he’s a wimp then it’s not your problem.)
In fact, stealing her makes the world a better place.
So there’s no real reason NOT to steal her. Right?
Of course, ultimately, it’s your call.
If you believe in “ownership,” that’s your choice. You can stop reading this guide right now, and go back to, well, “waiting your turn.”
But if you DON’T believe in “ownership” of a woman…
…and if you KNOW FOR SURE you’ll be so much better for her than her current boyfriend…
…and if you’re willing to FIGHT for her, like you’re supposed to…
…then keep reading. You’re about to discover what I taught Mark on how to do it.
Let me get this out of the way first:
You’re NOT going to use any form of violence.
I don’t advocate it, and it’s not necessary.
Instead, the techniques you’re about to discover use something more powerful:
And here’s how Mark did it.
How Mark Stole Jessica From Her Boyfriend
I taught Mark a technique called “The Prophesy.”
And here’s how Mark used it to steal Jessica from her boyfriend…
First, Mark set up a coffee date with Jessica. He was lucky because they had already been seeing each other occasionally. A chat over coffee was harmless and familiar enough for her to say “yes.”
During their coffee date, Mark waited until Jessica mentioned her boyfriend. When she brought up one of her boyfriend’s annoying habits, Mark put his plan into action.
Step #1: He Used Some Reverse Psychology On Jessica.
“We were going to watch a movie last week,” Jessica said. “I was already at the cinema waiting when he arrived… with ANOTHER woman. Could you believe that?”
“Wow,” Mark said. “That’s crazy. Who was it?”
“I forgot her name,” Jessica said, “But he said it shouldn’t bother me because she was like a little sister to him. Pssh. Yeah, right.”
“What an ass,” Mark agreed. “I’m surprised you still put up with him.”
“Well,” Jessica started, “he’s my boyfriend, and I should trust him.”
Mark then used reverse-psychology on Jessica. He sighed and said, “Well, that’s totally your choice. You’re free to hook up with anyone you want. Even if it’s an insensitive douche like him.”
This made Jessica think she was making a mistake by hooking up with an “insensitive douche.”
Then Mark continued…
Step #2: He Set Higher Expectations For Her.
“You gotta admit though,” Mark said. “He’s not exactly the ‘husband type.’ I remember you saying so when you first told me about him. That’s why I’m surprised why you still put up with him.”
Jessica thought for a moment. “Yeah, you’re right,” she said. “Maybe I’m settling. I’m so dumb.”
Step #3: He Made The “Prophesy”.
“Again, it’s your life, so who am I to speak,” Mark continued. “But, if you stayed with him…”
Jessica listened intently to what Mark had to say.
“…I think you’ll be setting yourself up for a lifetime of pain, disappointment, and lots of his ‘little sisters.’”
Here, Mark created a win-win situation for himself:
- If Jessica agreed with him and broke up with her boyfriend, he won.
- If Jessica DIDN’T agree with him, she’d go back to her boyfriend. But sooner or later, she’ll realize Mark was right. THEN she’d break up with her boyfriend. Mark still wins.
- What if Jessica DIDN’T agree with him and DIDN’T break up with her boyfriend? Well, Mark still wins because he’s no worse off than before.
That did the trick for Mark. Jessica eventually broke up with her idiot boyfriend.
And later, Jessica fell in love with Mark… and today, they’re one of the happiest couples I personally know.
Give Her A Much Better Boyfriend – YOU
“The Prophesy” is the example of a Mind Control technique used in a relationship.
It’s very different from the cookie cutter “Pickup Artist routines” that you’ve seen elsewhere…
…and because of this, Mind Control is about 100X more effective than your garden variety “Dating Guru” trickery. It’s true.
Now you might be wondering:
“Mind Control sounds awesome… but what’s the catch?”
Here’s the answer:
Mind Control isn’t something you can “wing.”
Mind Control is a life skill. And like any other skill, it must be worked on.
It’s by no means a “magic bullet”.
It’s not a shortcut.
To master Mind Control, you need to know the right words to say and the right feelings to trigger.
And if you did it via trial-and-error, it could take you YEARS.
That’s exactly why I came up with an Online Masterclass on Mind Control.
I compressed YEARS of experience and science into a class that lasts in less than an hour.
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Just because a woman has a boyfriend doesn’t mean he “owns” her.
And if you’re sure she’s going to be much better off with YOU than with the other guy…
…then you owe it to her, to yourself, and to the WORLD to steal her from him.
And with Mind Control, it’s as easy as taking a piece of candy from a toddler. Believe me.
It will be too late if she decides to spend the rest of her life with him! Master Mind Control NOW – click here.
I’ll see you at the Masterclass,
P.S: Questions? Comments? A story to tell? Be sure to sound off in the comments section below.
P.P.S: I’ve received the following questions via email –
“Derek, could you teach me how to get a girl who has a boyfriend but likes you?”
“How to get a girl with a boyfriend to cheat?”
“How to get a girl with a boyfriend to hook up with you?”
Leave me a comment if you want answers to those questions.