How To Attract A Woman Who Is Already Married (Caution: CONTROVERSY AHEAD)
Derek, help me,” he said. “I might just need to start taking crazy pills if you don’t.”
As soon as Richie walked into our coaching pad here in sunny San Diego, he began blurting out his women problems.
“She’s just started working at my company. She’s a stunner. A real perfect ten.”
“What’s the problem?” I asked.
“Well,” Richie said. “She’s a bit…. unavailable.”
I knew exactly where this was headed. It was the classic unattainable-female dilemma.
Richie was a new private client of mine I’d only met a few weeks previously.
A bespectacled, skinny dude with a pronounced Southie accent (he had grown up in Boston before moving to San Diego for college), he was the definitive embodiment of Mr Average.
And quite frankly, he was absolutely hopeless with women when I met him. A virgin until he was in college, he was unceremoniously dumped by his girlfriend when he walked into her cheating on him with his roommate.
Thankfully, Richie was a rapid learner, and he consumed the Shogun Method like a duck takes to water. Soon, he started to see an uptick in his dating life again, seeing a couple of women over a series of casual dates.
However, this was a new predicament for him.
“I don’t know what to do,” he continued, “I’ve only just met her. What are the chances she’d leave her husband for me?”
“Richie, sit down,” I told him.
“I’m going to tell you something about women which you must remember for the rest of your life.”
“Ever heard stories of a woman leaving her husband of twenty years to run off with a guy she’s just met?”
“Do you know why that happens?”
“No. Why?” he asked.
“Because you shouldn’t expect women to think and act rationally, that’s why.”
“This, I already know,” Richie said. “When it comes to the matters of the heart, they are an emotionally-driven animal. That was one of the first things that I learned in Shogun Method.”
I nodded. “So, even if her husband is the one that pays the bills and keeps her in handbags,” I continued, “she’ll still go wherever her heart tells her to.”
Richie was beginning to see my point.
“I see,” said Richie. “So, how do I control what her heart wants?”
“Listen up. I’ll tell you everything you need to know on how to seduce a married woman.”
We’ll hear how Richie fared later, but for now, let’s talk about what you want to know.
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Warning: Seducing A Married Woman Is Not For The Weak
OK, let’s be honest here.
If you’re going after a married woman, you may be causing a world of hurt for you, and for the woman that you’re going after. (Don’t believe anyone who’s going to tell you otherwise.)
It’s pretty serious business, no doubt about it.
There’s a real possibility of really fucking it all up – if you don’t know what you’re doing.
Your challenge is threefold.
- Firstly, you will need to make her interested in you. That’s a given.
- Secondly, you’ll have to get her to overcome her own inhibitions regarding something which is considered as taboo by others – cheating on her husband.
- Thirdly, you’ll need to deal with the husband. You can bet your ass that he’ll be as pissed and vengeful as fuck.
Are you expecting anything less? You’re going to turn him into a cuckold.
He will have to deal with this nasty picture in his mind of you sticking your dick into his wife’s multiple orifices. His family and friends are going to laugh at him.
No matter if he deserves it or not, he’s going to go through hell.
All in all, understand this:
It ain’t gonna be a nice stroll in the park for you.
Not even if you’ve completely mastered the Shogun Method at the black belt level.
Let’s say I arm you today with everything we know about “how to seduce a married woman”. (In fact, once you’re done reading this article in its entirety, you know more about how to attract a married woman than most guys you’ll ever meet.)
Congratulations. You’re now a PhD in the dark arts of enticing a married woman (and as a side effect, cuckolding a guy).
And guess what? That’s not all.
Knowing what to do is not even half of the battle. Who are we kidding?
Having the knowledge about how to seduce a married woman is not enough.
You’ve got to have the balls to do it.
How To Seduce A Married Woman The Easy Way
Still here with us? Great.
If you were turned off by my little rant there, then you wouldn’t have any business trying to entangle yourself with a married woman (and her potentially lunatic husband).
So you’ve pretty much decided to give it a shot and take the proverbial plunge. Good. You’re as fucked up as the rest of us here in the Shogun Method world. 🙂
Now let’s get back to topic. You want to know how to seduce a married woman and make her dump her husband for you.
What if I told you there is actually a simple way around this?
That would sound fantastic, wouldn’t it?
What if I told you that there was a way to remove the hassle of “seduction” and replace it with a simple technique to make any married woman become putty in your hands?
And to make it even better, it works not only on attached women. You can pretty much use the same principles to attract any woman you want.
In fact, any woman you see – whether it’s the sultry barmaid at your local watering hole or the mature married lady who works in the finance department – will pretty much get you permanently stuck in her mind like a big fat South African leech.
Sound too good to be true?
Well, guess what? It’s not.
If this sounds like your idea of heaven, I’ve got some good news for you. If you want the awkward social niceties of modern dating to be a thing of the past, I have one word for you…
Fractionation: A Masterclass In Mind Control Manipulation
We’ll dig deep into what Fractionation is in a minute, so hang on for a moment, alright?
Now let’s revisit what I said to Richie.
The guys who take women from their husbands after only knowing them two weeks might just be using a Mind Control technique like Fractionation to do so.
Be honest now. If you had the ability to take any woman you wanted and make her your single-serving lover for the night, wouldn’t you do so?
Deep down, you know you would, right? 🙂
The truth is that Fractionation is all around us. You’ve probably seen it in a million different places already, but you never noticed it.
We’ll get to that in a second. First, there’s something we need to address regarding the process of seducing women.
You might have seen the word manipulation knocking around this page a few times, and this might set off alarm bells in your head.
But the truth?
Whether we like to admit it or not, we’re all manipulators.
We use manipulation to get what we want. Whether it’s a job, a promotion, a sale, or to get anyone to do our bidding… manipulation is how we reach our goals.
And you know what? This is especially true when it comes to seduction.
Of course, modern dating and “Pickup Artist” (also known as PUA) style advice has us believing that if we’re nice, honest guys that we’ll eventually get the girl.
I’m here to tell you that that’s bullshit.
Quite simply: nice guys get friend-zoned, and manipulators get the girl in their bed.
Ask yourself this: which one would you rather be?
An honest loser, or a successful manipulator?
I think you already know the answer.
Fractionation – A Variation Of Hypnotic “Push Pull”
Before we get into the finer details of Fractionation (and how to use it to seduce a married woman), it’s important to understand the principles behind it.
Anyone familiar with hypnosis concepts might know that hypnosis uses what’s called the ‘push-pull’ pattern.
What this pattern does is that it forces the conscious mind to go take a back seat for a while.
Then, when the conscious brain is out of action, the subconscious jumps in to take its place. And when the subconscious is in the driver’s seat, then the person is pretty much under the thumb of the hypnotist.
Ever wondered how professional hypnotists can make a person do pretty much whatever they want?
Cluck like a chicken, dance around the room, make love to a broomstick?
It’s because the subconscious takes in everything around it. Think of it like a tape recorder which never turns itself off.
So, when it hears something like: “when you wake up, you’ll dance until you fall over,” that’s exactly what it programs the brain into believing it should do.
Now, I know what you’re thinking. And yes, you’re absolutely right…
This same principle works amazingly well when it comes to seducing women.
In fact, the entire concept of Fractionation is built around this very idea.
How To Seduce A Married Woman With Words – Use Fractionation!
Now let’s quickly dive into the inner workings of Fractionation.
Here’s the technical definition of Fractionation –
It’s a process where you pull your target in by building rapport, and then break rapport, and then you pull her back in again so that you build a stronger level of rapport than the last time.
Fractionation is a ‘push-pull’ style pattern which allows the seducer to put their target girl into a hypnotic trance, allowing you to bypass her conscious brain.
Then, with her subconscious mind open for you toy with, implanting your desires into her head is as easy as taking a lollipop from a kid.
And when this happens, you’ll keep her interested in you for as long as you want.
If that sounds rather complicated to you, don’t worry – it’s actually pretty simple (especially once you’ve seen some examples which I am going to share with you next).
Fractionation Is Everywhere You Look
Most women don’t realize it, but Fractionation gets used against them as a manipulation tactic on a daily basis.
Ever tried to buy a used car? If you have, then you’ll be familiar with what I’m going to say next…
Here’s how the used car salesman work his way around getting the sale from you.
- First, he might agree with everything you’re saying – he’ll offer you the world at a discounted price.
- Everything seems to be hunky dory, and then, he’ll grit their teeth and let you down about a minor (negative) detail.
- Suddenly, to compensate for the “negative” detail, he’ll throw in something to sweeten the deal.
- Finally, when you’re about to sign the papers, they might let you know that there’s a hundred dollar premium to add to the total bill.
This, my friend, is Fractionation in full effect. “Pushing” and “pulling” in order to get you heavily involved in the process.
In the end, you feel that you’ve invested so much (emotionally) that giving into the demands of the used car salesman is the only natural thing to do.
Hollywood blockbusters. Best-selling novels. Soap operas.
Trashy romance books which women can’t seem to get enough of.
Sometimes, even commercials.
These are all purposely written with the Fractionation technique in mind.
The answer is this: each chapter of the book or each scene in the movie is written to put you into trance, snap you back to reality… and put you back into trance again.
And here’s what make this more exciting…
Women are know to be a lot more responsive to Fractionation techniques (compared to men).
Why? Well, it’s because of the way their brains are hardwired to process information. As you’ll remember, women run on emotions, not rationale – which makes them particularly vulnerable to Mind Control techniques such as Fractionation.
And if you want to attract a married woman, then it’s this vulnerability in her mind that you will want to exploit.
Next, we’ll discover you can do that, and more…
Before You Fractionate A Woman, Obey This Rule
Understand this –
I don’t usually teach Fractionation to strangers or people that I just get to know.
Why? Well, the reason is simple, and I won’t mince my words here…
It’s easy to misuse Fractionation to abuse women.
Indeed, given its nature, Fractionation can be downright dangerous. A lot of people are hesitant to use it for fear of irreversible damage to a woman’s psyche.
Remember that with Fractionation, you are manipulating her subconscious directly.
This is the area of the brain which deals with everything about a person; their likes, dislikes, tastes, beliefs and actions. It’s kind of like the human motherboard.
Once you messed up the “internal wiring” of a woman’s brain, she’s pretty much a goner.
So, if you do want to learn this technique, you must promise that you won’t use this technique to hurt women intentionally.
In addition, you must understand that it’s impossible to undo the effect that Fractionation has on your target.
This means that unlike normal hypnosis techniques, you can’t just click your fingers and release a woman from a trance.
So, before you learn this technique and start using it on any woman you see, pause and ponder the consequences first, alright?
Where To Learn Fractionation
Attend this free Masterclass where I will share with you the Fractionation technique as well as a host of other equally powerful Mind Control techniques to make a woman fall for you quickly and easily –
At that page, enter your best email address so that I know where to send the invite to the Masterclass.
Remember I told you that I have to be extra cautious about who to share the technique with? Well, this is the method that I use to screen through the people who want to learn Fractionation from me – so that I don’t mistakenly teach it to psychopaths or criminals. Thank you for understanding.
Addendum: What Then Happened To Richie?
After Richie left my house that day, I didn’t hear from him for a few weeks.
Eventually, he called me up to thank me for coaching him on Fractionation. Richie began using it over e-mail to his married target, then progressing to face-to-face interaction.
And then – shall we say – a little more intimate activity?
But that wasn’t all. The same week, I received an e-mail from a new client requesting my help. He had a similar problem to Richie’s, but in reverse.
“Help me. My wife has left me for a guy she’s only known a few weeks.”
I called up Richie.
“Hey, do you know a Tom Phillips?” I asked him.
“Sure, that’s my new girl’s husband.”
As harsh as it was, I couldn’t help but laugh.
It seems that all roads lead back to Fractionation. Give yourself the advantage. Watch this Masterclass on Fractionation and you’ll get the girl – no matter if she’s attached or not.
Frequently Asked Questions
How To Seduce A Married Woman Sexually?
So you want to know how to seduce a married woman into bed?
I’m assuming that you’re into a “no-strings-attached” kind of relationship…
And if that’s what you’re looking for, then it gets pretty simple.
First of all, the married woman MUST already want to have an affair – with you, or with other guys.
(She has got to have an open mind with this kind of thing. In other words, you CANNOT seduce a “virtuous” woman.)
And if she’s already open to the idea of possibly sleeping with you, then here’s what you need to do:
Run the Fractionation routine on her.
With enough happy-sad-happy cycles, she will soon develop an emotional addiction to you… which will (almost!) always leads to sex.
For an Online Masterclass on Fractionation (and other Mind Control tactics), go here.
How To Seduce A Married Woman With Body Language?
A combination of mirroring and touching will work wonders with a married woman.
Again, body language will only COMPLEMENT your seduction, not replace it. Your ability to use MIND CONTROL on her will determine your success more than anything else… body language included.
How To Seduce A Married Woman By Text?
Here’s the deal… you can NEVER seduce a married woman and make her fall in love with you JUST by texting ALONE.
It can never happen.
You see, even if you’ve built rapport with her over text and you seem to be really hit it off with her, there’s a problem…
When you see her face-to-face, things WILL get awkward.
So, here’s what to do.
Use text to COMPLEMENT your seduction.
It should never be THE only way you communicate with her.
Face-to-face will always be the best.
Having said that, texting a woman is a GREAT way to keep yourself on top of her mind… especially when she is attached to another guy.
And guess what?
Fractionation works well over texting, too.
You can use the same Fractionation routine you learn inside the Online Masterclass over text and get great results. 🙂
I don’t know why some people think that making a move on a married woman is somewhat “immoral”. Give me a break. Marriage is a social construct that has got nothing to do with reality. Why limit yourself to “single” women when you can cast the net far and wide?
That said, you’re going to turn lots of guys into cuckolds, Derek Rake.
Derek Rake says
I know. It’s a dog-eat-dog world out there… and whoever who doesn’t know this stuff will risk losing their wives to those who do, plain and simple!
This knowledge is also useful to “inoculate” your wife from leaving you for another guy.
Very true. I’d use this even on my GIRLFRIEND. You won’t know how many guys out there wanting to nick her from me…
Derek Rake says
That’s one of the little-known uses of these “how to seduce a married woman” guides – use them to inoculate your girlfriend or wife from other guys (especially those who know Shogun Method!).
Long live Shogun Method says
I love you guys!
I’m divided over this… because it just doesn’t sound that right, and yet I know it works. Because it worked on me. I was married, but I just couldn’t resist this man who came on to me.
@BRAD, even the creator Derek has said: A piece of him dies when some rogue user breaks up a married woman and leaves a suffering husband…
blue eyes says
@Brad, You can only cast the net for retarded women, wise one will never fall in the trap. You get what you deserve.
Quick question: how do I deal with the husband? Do I just ignore him and Fractionate the woman? How does that work?
Derek Rake says
You can also use Boyfriend Destroyers to deal with the other guy. Don’t ignore him – that’s a mistake.
OK, I’ll keep this brief. I have a crush on this woman, and ta da… she’s married. So I’m pretty sure that you see this frequently but it’s a little different in my case. She kinda hates me and there are reasons for that which I am not going to go into.
She has got a husband who pretty much treats her like crap. I am considering Shogun Method but still haven’t pulled the trigger because I have anxiety issues. Here’s my question… can you change how someone thinks of you especially when she has a bad perception of you? I don’t know if the fact if she’s a married woman or not makes a difference.
Derek Rake says
Remember: the opposite of love is not “hate” – but INDIFFERENCE. If she has got a “bad” perception of you, it’s easier to flip that over to “love”. So, you’re in fact in a better position than if she just doesn’t care.
And yes – being married can make a difference in many ways. It also depends on how happy and satisfied she is with her marriage. Lots of past experiences for you to work your Fractionation routines on, for example.
I used to judge guys who go after married women until I fell in love with one (a married woman, that is!). Love is blind, folks. Our natural instinct doesn’t give too shits about man-made social contracts like marriage. It’s true.
i want to learn a fractionation too
Derek Rake says
Of course. Who doesn’t?