Are you dating a woman right now, but she’s not ready for a relationship?
Then this Shogun Method guide will tell you exactly what to do.
Before anything else, let me say this: I know how frustrating your situation is.
It always sucks when you’re ready for a relationship, but she’s not.
It’s like she’s playing hard-to-get, trying to make you sweeten the deal or something.
I remember a friend who told me about his experience with a woman who wasn’t ready…
He told me she made him wait for a relationship for a whopping three years.
And many times in those three years, he’d get tired of waiting and pull away from her.
And those were the times when she’d chase after him, sweet-talking him back into chasing her.
And once he’s back in the mix, she goes back to her “original programming,” making him wait again.
This went on for three whole years, until my friend gave up on her for good.
To this day, my friend looks back at those wasted years with regret.
So, here’s the lesson:
Don’t fall into the trap.
The longer your woman makes you wait, the lower your chances of actually “winning” her over in the end.
Yes – even if she asks you to wait for the right time (whatever that means).
Because listen closely. The longer you wait, the lower your chances. Believe me.
You’re about to learn what it really means when you’re ready for a relationship, but she says she’s not.
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The Real Meaning of “I’m Not Ready”
So here’s what it means when you’re ready, but she’s not.
All-in-all, it means she has power over you.
I’m not even kidding.
Think of the old trick of making a horse go forward by dangling a carrot in front of it.
You’re the horse, she’s the rider, and carrot is the relationship you want with her, just beyond your reach.
And with this setup, she can make you do whatever she wants.
- For instance, she can keep asking you for your money, time, and energy. Or,
- She can turn you into one of her many other admirers, constantly orbiting her and doing her bidding. Read: friend zone. Or,
- She can keep asking you to be there for her while she dates other guys behind your back. Like some insurance policy.
That’s what I mean when I say she has power over you. And she does.
Pretty crazy, huh?
Of course, Shogun Method fixes this by making her submissive to you. You’ll find out about Shogun Method later, but for now, I want you to know this…
Even if she DOES becomes your girlfriend eventually, she’ll keep controlling you.
And that’s even WORSE than now.
See the point I’m trying to make?
Do you now see that when you’re ready, but she’s not, she actually has power over you?
Regardless, the next big question is staring you in the face.
What should you do to get out of your current “horse and carrot” situation?
Here’s the good news: There IS a way out.
And I’m about to show it to you.
In just a moment, I’ll teach you something called the “Now Or Never” technique.
And it will do two things for you.
- Not only will this technique break her control over you…
- …But it will also make her want a relationship EVEN MORE THAN YOU DO.
How’s THAT for a solution?
Now or Never
So let me tell you about the Now Or Never technique.
Have you ever heard the saying: “You don’t know what you got ‘til it’s gone?”
Psychologists call it the “scarcity principle.” The less available something is, the more we want it.
Economists call it supply and demand. The lower the supply, the higher the demand. Easy concept.
You get it, right? It’s part of the human condition. We want what we can’t have.
And that’s the principle behind the Now Or Never technique. Some know it as the NoN Trick, and it refers to the same trick.
The Now or Never was discovered by us in the Shogun Method group, an online community of men who use psychology in dating.
We Shoguns believe that men should be dominant partner in a relationship to which women should be subservient to. So, things like obedient girlfriend training (frequently with mind control and hypnosis) are not out of the question.
Now, back to the Now or Never technique. At its core, it’s meant to do one thing–
To make your girlfriend want you more because you’re scarce.
So how does the Now or Never work?
As its name implies, you’re going to put her on the spot. You’ll tell her that you’re either getting into a relationship now… or never.
Of course, you won’t tell her that outright.
Instead, you’ll say something like:
“I love you, but I want you to know that I want to settle down soon. And I will, with or without you. So if you’re not ready to, that’s okay. But I’ll need to say goodbye and move on with my life.”
See how it works?
Once you say that, one of two things can happen.
- Either she stops playing her games on you and agrees to a relationship, or…
- She says “okay,” and leaves you.
Now, if she ends up leaving you, that’s a good thing. You free yourself from a relationship that was only going to get worse over time.
“That’s Boyfriend Duty”
The Now Or Never technique puts you in a win-win situation. And that’s better than your current situation, that’s for sure.
Here’s another way to use the Now Or Never technique…
Whenever she asks you to lend her money, or move her furniture, or otherwise go out of your way for her, tell her:
“That’s boyfriend duty.”
That’s it. You politely refuse, suggesting that she ask her boyfriend instead.
Now, she might say “Please?”, to which you stand your ground and say: “No, ask your boyfriend to help you.”
Now, if she teases you by saying: “But you’re ALMOST my boyfriend,” you can say: “Yeah, so I’m ALMOST about to help you, too.”
See how it works?
You’re forcing her to face it. Are you her boyfriend or not? No matter her decision, you’ll win.
That’s the magic of the Now Or Never technique.
So if she’s not ready for a relationship, try it out. You’ll be amazed at how quickly she makes up her mind.
Where To Go From Here
Now, here’s an important caveat about the Now Or Never technique.
It’s not the ONLY technique you’ll need.
For instance, let’s say she did end up becoming your girlfriend. What’s next?
You’ll need to use new techniques to build a strong, happy, long-lasting relationship with her.
So here’s what I suggest: Learn the whole thing. Become a master of mind manipulation techniques.
And you know what?
The fastest way to do that is to join Shogun Method, the online community of men who do just that.
And you’ll be in good company. We’re a global group of 17,000 men who use psychology to understand women completely. As a result, we lead strong relationships with happy women.
Do you want your relationship to be effortless? Light, easy-to-handle, and incredibly rewarding every single day?
Trust me. If you could learn only one new skill for the rest of your life, pick female psychology.
And Shogun Method is your first step in mastering this crucial area of your life. With it, you will regain your power and masculinity as any man should have.
Are you ready to learn the ultimate skill of a lifetime?
What are you waiting for? Be a Shogun now… the opportunity is right in front of you.
Come and join us–we are here for you.