So how do you know if she misses you?
Maybe you had a date with this great new girl. You liked her a lot and want to see her again, but you’re not sure if she feels the same way.
Or she might be this old flame in your life. You’re missing her right now, and you wonder if she misses you too.
Or maybe you had a fight with her and you haven’t talked to her in a couple of days. It might have been quite a bad fight, and you might be regretting having said some things to her. Your relationship might have turned toxic, and you wished things didn’t turn out the way they did.
And now you’re sitting around, wondering if it’s all over. Has she well and truly dumped you? Or does she miss you, too?
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Listen closely because here’s the deal…
If you’re coming off a big fight or breakup, then the answers to your questions are in this guide today.
You’re about to know for certain how to find out whether a woman misses you or not.
After you find out, you can then decide what you want to happen next between you and her. And from there, you’ll learn exactly how to get your desired outcome with her.
Sounds good?
Now, before we continue, do take a moment to download the essential Action Checklists. It’s a companion guide to this article that summarizes everything you’re about to learn here into handy lists of action steps.
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With this Action Checklist, you can make her miss you and want you again, one proven step at a time. Follow the action steps inside this Checklist and everything will work like clockwork.
What’s more, it also contains a bonus technique not covered in this article. (I have to hide it inside this PDF because I don’t want it to be widespread.)
The Bonus technique called the Text Intrigue Ping. It’s a sneaky trigger that makes a woman think about you by invoking her curiosity. It’s like Mind Control embedded in a few lines of innocent text.
And the best part? All you need to use the Text Intrigue Ping technique is your phone and a few minutes.
Download this free PDF and keep the Text Intrigue Ping in your back pocket. It will come in handy later, trust me on this.
Signs A Woman Misses You Secretly
Sign #1: She Talks About You With Her Friends
Well, there are no easy ways to know this for sure if you don’t know her friends…
However, if you have a couple of co-acquaintances then you can quickly call them up to, you know, just to check.
Even better:
If she calls up YOUR friends to ask about you, then you can be sure that you’re on her mind… all the time.
Sign #2: She Goes To Places You Usually Go To
If you happen to bump into her at one of your favorite haunts as a couple, then you can be sure of one thing:
She is there with ONE purpose, and that is to see you. Look… if she despises you then she won’t be turning up at places where you could bump into her. Makes sense, right?
Sign #3: She Texts You
If she texts you, then she misses you. End of story.
Of course, she may find excuses just to text you. Those excuses are exactly that: excuses. When you see a text from her, then you can be sure that she is thinking about you.
So, how many of those three signs do you see? If you see any one (or all) of those signs, then congratulations – you’re indeed on top of her mind all the time. What are you waiting for? Just call her up and get her back already.
However, let’s say that she’s not showing any signs that she misses you at all. So, how to make her miss you then?
If She Misses You, Take The Next Step
What if she DOES miss you, and now you want her to be with you? What if you want to be lovers – whether for the short-term or the long haul?
Luckily for us, the solution to both situations above are the same. It takes two steps.
- The first step is to ask her out to a face-to-face date – which is a challenge in itself.
- The second step is to make her feel attracted to you during the date – yet another big challenge.
Let’s tackle each step one at a time.
So why should you ask her out to a face-to-face date?
The reason is simple:
If you only communicate with her online or via text, then she’ll easily forget you.
I mean, think about it – she’s probably texting and chatting with a bunch of other men besides you. And if that’s the only way you interact with her, then you’ll just be “another one of the guys” for her.
Meanwhile, not many men in her life meet her one-on-one and face-to-face. And that’s your chance to make an impact and make her start missing you when you’re apart.
Now, here are TWO reasons why it’s not easy to ask her out…
Firstly, she can very easily say “no” to your invitation. If she’s feeling skeptical of you – which she will when you suddenly ask her out without warning – her first inclination is to decline or think up of some excuse. Right?
And secondly, even if she does like you, your date invitation will feel “needy” to her.
She’ll immediately think:
“Oh, this guy has the hots for me. He wouldn’t ask me out without warning if he didn’t. I’d better play hard to get so as not to look too easy.”
And so she declines and starts playing with your feelings. Trust me – you don’t want to get trapped like that.
That’s why I suggest you use the “Text Intrigue Ping” technique when asking her out. You just send her a few sneaky text messages, and it’s your best way to guarantee a “yes” from her.
You’ll learn the Text Intrigue Ping technique when you download your copy of my How Do You Know If She Misses You Action Checklist. If you haven’t gotten yours yet,
click here now.Final Step: Enslave Her Emotionally
After you schedule the date and actually meet up with her, that’s where the second step comes in. And that is to make her feel attracted to you.
And to do that, you’ll need to use a second technique: One I call “Fractionation.”
Fractionation is a simple Mind Control technique you can use to make a woman feel emotionally addicted to you quickly. When you use it correctly, you’ll be stuck in a woman’s mind for a long, long time…
…and the more she thinks of you, the more attraction she’ll feel. This is the name of the game: you want to Enslave her emotionally. You want to be dominant over her.
However, before you use Fractionation on a woman, consider its implications…
The effect of Fractionation cannot be undone. If you overdo it, and it’s quite simple to overdo, you might just get a stalker in your hands. And for this reason, I only recommend that you use Fractionation on a woman that you’re sure that you want to be with for a long time. (After she becomes your girlfriend, it’s also how you control her and make her obey your authority.)
Makes sense?
If you agree only to use Fractionation ethically, click this link. On that page, you’ll find a form where you can submit a request to join the free Online Mind Control Masterclass. In the Masterclass, you’ll learn how to use Fractionation on a woman to make her emotionally addicted to you.
See you at the Masterclass,
Founder, Shogun Method
Frequently Asked Questions
What To Say When A Girl Says She Misses You?
Well, it depends on what you want, right?
If you want a relationship with her, the key is to stay dominant. Don’t tell her: “I miss you too,” which makes you look weak and submissive.
Instead, say something like: “That’s cute. We should hang out sometime,” and set up a date where you use Fractionation to seduce her.
Meanwhile, if you DON’T want a relationship with this girl, then simply put her in your friend-zone.
Go ahead and hang out with her if you want. Just make sure your “dates” are all about having fun, sharing conversations, and adding value to each other’s lives.
Steer clear of anything that remotely touches on romance and sex, and you should be fine.
How Do You Know If She Misses You After A Breakup?
Aside from the three signs we covered in the article above, look for these three other signs:
- She’s seeing another guy who looks like you or has the same personality as you.
- She got into a new relationship really quickly.
- She’s posting new photos of her “great new life” on social media and makes sure you see it.
A good way to “test” if she really misses you is to set up a face-to-face date to “catch up” with her. Use the Text Intrigue Ping technique on her and see how she responds.
If she agrees to meet up, then she misses you. If she declines, then she probably doesn’t. It’s that simple.
(Side Note: I cover the Text Intrigue Ping technique in my Action Checklist.
Get it here now.)
When A Girl Says “I Miss You” To A Guy – Can He Take Her Seriously?
That’s a 50/50. Through Mother Nature’s design, women are manipulative beings. They can say things to make you react in certain ways. “I miss you” is one of their most seductive, effective manipulation tools.
At the same time, she could really miss you and she’s desperate enough to say it out loud. That’s why it’s 50/50.
The key to knowing the truth is to not get swayed by your emotions. Always be dominant and control the frame of your interaction. And the easiest way to stay in the dominant frame with her is by using Fractionation.
It can make manipulative women feel the urge to stop trying to control you, and instead start feeling attracted to you.
What’s more, Fractionation also makes women who are already attracted to you soon feel MADLY IN LOVE with you. Believe me because this is 100% true.
In short, Fractionation puts you in a win-win situation. It’s an indispensable technique that should be in every smart guy’s toolkit.
To master Fractionation today, join my Online Masterclass here.
Mike says
Hi Derek,
I broke up with my girlfriend – she said she could not continue to be with me because I was married to another woman. You see, it was something she had accepted in the beginning of my relationship with her, and so I thought it was OK. Could you please tell me whether I have a chance with her again?
Derek Rake says
I’ll reserve my judgment on your case. The strict “technical” answer is yes – with Shogun Method she’ll come back to you, but the broader question would be: why?
Howard says
It seems that she is displaying all the signs that you mentioned in your article. What do I do next? I have screwed up once, and there’s no room for further errors. Please advise.
Howie
Derek Rake says
It’s important to strike when the iron is hot! Set up a meeting with her, and then use Fractionation on her. To learn how to use this technique, watch my online Masterclass (free).
Enslavement, not seduction!