How To Get Over A Broken Heart When You Still Love Her
Have you ever lost a woman to another guy?
She might have:
- Dumped you to start seeing another guy
- Broken up with you to get back with her idiot ex-boyfriend
- Divorced you, and is now seemingly happy with another man
Let’s be honest here. A woman leaving you for another man is absolutely SOUL CRUSHING.
It’s like she’s telling you: “You’re not even half the man he is.” Ouch.
I know how it is. A broken heart is the absolute worst feeling a guy could have. I’ve been there myself.
When you’re nursing a broken heart, you’ll experience symptoms like:
- Anxiety and restlessness… you feel shaky, anxious and breathless
- Insomnia… you just can’t fall asleep at night, and when you do, it’s hardly restful
- Pain… yes, real physical pain… stomach ache and pain in the chest area
But here’s the thing…
Since my last breakup, I’ve found a way to mend my own broken heart. And I didn’t stop with just the mending…
I also got my woman to leave her new boyfriend and come running back to me.
If that sounds good to you, too…
If you want to make her change her mind and come back to you…
…and not just come back, but actually STAY with you for the rest of her life…
…then pay close attention to what I am going to say next because this will be crucially important to you.
Table of Contents
- How To Get Over A Broken Heart When You Still Love Her
- How To Mend A Broken Heart
- How To Mend A Broken Relationship: Here’s What NOT To Do
- The Right (And ONLY) Way To Get Your Girl Back
- Healing A Broken Heart? Fuck That Shit
- Step #2: Destroy The Boyfriend
- Step #3: Use Fractionation To Make Her Want To Stay With You Forever
How To Mend A Broken Heart
The first step to mending a broken heart: Man up.
I’m not kidding. Pussies never get over their broken hearts. You got to man the fuck up, point blank.
That means you should decide, this very moment, whether to:
- Get over it and move on, or
- Fucking DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT and get your girl back.
If you’re leaning towards the second option… then this article is all about you. It’ll teach you how to DESTROY the new guy and make her run back to you.
And guess what? Even if you’re more interested in just moving on… well, I STILL recommend you read this article to the very end.
Because unless you learn the lesson in this article, your next girlfriend will ALSO leave you. (I know this sounds awful, but it’s true, and it’s important that you realize this before it’s too late.)
So, let’s not make the same mistake twice, alright?
Good. Let’s kick the lesson off with…
How To Mend A Broken Relationship: Here’s What NOT To Do
When it comes to getting a girl back, conventional advice would tell you to…
“Be completely honest!”
“Give a heartfelt apology!”
“Ask for a second chance!”
“Promise to be better this time around!”
And yadda yadda…
It’s typically the advice that you’d hear on a show like Oprah.
Here’s the thing…
I must admit it… this kind of advice is pretty good…
Good for making an audience nod their heads, clap their hands, and hug a bunch of strangers.
And yeah, it’s also good for keeping a TV show’s ratings up.
But does it work in real life?
If you’ve ever tried it yourself, you’ll know it just makes things WORSE.
And guess what?
It’s the same story for most of the “get your ex back” advice you get from “Pickup Artist” (popularly known as “PUA”) sites.
You know, that “one weird trick that will get your ex girlfriend back into your arms”…
The advice those sites give are great to get clicks, likes and comments…
…but again, do they work? Not really.
Let me give it to you straight: There’s ONE way to get a girl back, and one way ONLY.
And guess what? It’s completely different from conventional Oprah-style dating advice or the usual “Pickup Artist” tricks.
What is it?
The Right (And ONLY) Way To Get Your Girl Back
Right now, think of some of the happiest, most satisfied wives and girlfriends you know.
Doesn’t it seem like they’re under some sort of HYPNOSIS whenever they’re with the man of their lives?
Like they’re BRAINWASHED into loving him… respecting him… and following his lead no matter what?
Here’s what’s really happening behind the curtains with those women:
They are under Mind Control of some sort.
Let me be clear:
This is not the sort of “Mind Control” peddled by conspiracy theorists and “reptilian aliens are taking over the world” nut jobs. Far from it.
In fact, it’s the same kind of Mind Control YOU get subjected to when:
- You get hooked on a popular TV show like Game of Thrones or The Walking Dead
- You become loyal to certain brands, like Apple or Starbucks
- You support the initiatives of certain world leaders and politicians, but not others
- You subscribe wholeheartedly to a certain belief or value system
In other words… this is REAL Mind Control. It’s none of that hokey “you are getting sleepy” crap.
It’s Mind Control that’s backed by centuries of good, old-fashioned science.
And it’s the kind of Mind Control that’s going to help you get your girl back FOR GOOD.
Healing A Broken Heart? Fuck That Shit
Let’s recap what we’ve covered so far:
- You don’t sit in your tears and try to “mend a broken heart”.
- To stop the pain, you must take DRASTIC ACTION and get her back.
- To get her back, you’ve got to use Mind Control on her.
So far, so good.
Here’s how you use Mind Control on her. There are basically three steps to follow:
- Re-establish contact with your girl
- Destroy the new boyfriend
- Use Fractionation to make her come back to you and STAY with you for the rest of her life
Let’s jump right into the fun part…
Step #1: Re-establish Contact
This step is best done after some time of “zero contact” with your girl.
You re-establish contact by sending her a text that makes her life a little better. For example, if she was an art lover, you can text her:
“Hey, how you doing? Just wanted to let you know that the Art Museum is holding an exhibit in a few months. You might want to check it out. Anyway, hope you’re doing fine. Ciao.”
Most times, she’ll respond by thanking you and asking you how you’re doing. Congratulations – you’ve made that significant first step.
Sometimes, she might contact you first. That usually happens when you spend at least a couple of weeks with zero contact – she’ll miss you enough to check on you.
In either case, when contact is re-established, here’s the most important thing to do:
BE A FRIEND.
That’s right. Just act like you’re old friends, and that talking again after a few weeks of zero contact isn’t a big deal.
Nothing romantic yet. Nothing sexual yet. Nothing about the past relationship yet.
And yes, you’re effectively putting yourself INTO the “Friend Zone“. This may seem counter-intuitive, but there’s a good reason for this… and you’ll find out why you MUST do this in the next step.
Step #2: Destroy The Boyfriend
After you re-establish contact with the girl, you’ll start chatting with each other from time to time. Appear as harmless as possible for reasons that you’ll know soon enough.
Eventually, she’ll bring up her new relationship with her new boyfriend. That’s when you start Step #2 – to destroy him.
In all likelihood, she’ll be less than 100% happy with her new boyfriend. Once you’re sure about that – such as when she complains or jokes about one of his bad habits – that’s when you ask her:
“Here’s a question: If you could choose the guy to spend the rest of your life with, what would your ideal guy be like? What would he look like? How would he talk? How would he make you feel?”
Here’s how the Mind Control happens:
- She’ll be describing her ideal guy, and she’ll be feeling those emotions of hope and desire.
- You’re the only guy physically with her. She’ll subconsciously attach those feelings of hope and desire to YOU.
After she’s finished describing her ideal guy, then you tell her:
“Isn’t it funny how we have goals for most things in our lives? We have ideal jobs. Ideal lifestyles. Ideal life partners… but the ones we get are almost always disappointing?”
Once you run this routine a few times, she’ll start complaining more and more about her current boyfriend. That’s because she now knows: “I know what my ideal guy is like… but it’s NOT HIM!”
And then, once you’re quite sure she’s at least 50% sure she wants to leave the guy, push her over the edge by telling her:
“So what are you waiting for? Dump the loser already!”
And if she doesn’t break up with him right away, she will soon enough. And you’ll be the first one to know about it!
Also remember that to make Boyfriend Destroyers successful, you’ll need to obey these two rules:
Firstly, repetition is key. You’ll need the “Boyfriend Destroying” effect to kick in by repeating the routine over time.
Secondly, the delivery needs to be covert. Obviously you’ll need to do this without her catching you outright. This is why you must appear to be harmless – you’re just a “friend” concerned with her well-being.
(This is why you must put yourself IN the “friend zone”. Get it?)
Extra credit: more tips on how to get your ex-girlfriend back from another guy here.
Step #3: Use Fractionation To Make Her Want To Stay With You Forever
Step #3 is the most important part of the strategy. After you destroy the boyfriend and she dumps him, you’ll need to do two more things:
- Make her want to come back to you
- Make her STAY with you for the rest of her life
If you can’t do these two things, then you’ll STILL lose her again. What a waste!
What’s more… even if you DID get her back, if you don’t know how to make her stay, you’ll just lose her again.
You’ll need to change something.
In particular, you’ll need to change the way she FEELS about you.
And that’s where Fractionation comes in.
Fractionation is the Mind Control technique of the Gods.
It’s the key to getting your woman back.
And it’s the key to making her happy, satisfied, and completely committed to you.
Put simply: If you don’t use Fractionation, you’ll lose her again. Guaranteed.
But if you DO use Fractionation, you’ll keep her for life.
Easy decision, right?
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