Two Biggest Mistakes Nice Guys Make With Women

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Here’s an honest question. When it comes to dating and women, are you a nice guy?

Or are you a badass?

Or… are you not sure?

By now, you’ve probably heard that in the dating game, “nice guys finish last.”

Now, while that may not necessarily be true, being a nice guy DOES have its disadvantages with women.

• You sabotage your own efforts.
• You miss one golden opportunity with women after another.
• It’s like you’re punching your own ticket to her friend-zone.

That’s why it’s important to know if you’re a nice guy or not.

That way, if you are a nice guy, you can quickly make adjustments to how you approach women.

After all, life is short. Do you really want to be a nice guy all your life?

Now, here’s the good news…

It’s easy to find out whether you’re a nice guy or not.

And it’s all by looking at the top two mistakes nice guys make with women.

Put simply–if you’re doing even just one of these mistakes, then you’re a nice guy.

So let’s find out what they are, shall we?

The Problem With Nice Guys

So here are the two biggest mistakes nice guys make with women.

The first mistake is to just follow her lead.

This is when you never take your relationship with a woman to where you want it to go.

And instead, you make your decisions based on her preferences.

Yup, it’s a mistake. Not just that – it’s one of the two biggest mistakes nice guys ever make with women.

So… when you’re with a woman, do you tend to go with her preferences?

Hold that thought for a moment. Let’s now talk about the next mistake.

The second mistake is to never tell her what to do.

This is when you’re too afraid to give her orders…

…or, you’re too scared of potentially hurting your feelings…

…and so, to make sure she likes you, you do whatever she tells you, instead.

When you’re with a woman, do you never tell her what to do, and instead do what she tells you?

So, these are the two biggest mistakes nice guys make with a woman:

• Just following her lead…
• …and never telling her what to do.

The Friend Zone Problem

Why are they the two biggest mistakes of all?

Simple–because they all lead to the dungeon called the friend zone.

They produce the exact opposite of the result you want in the dating game.

And, yes, they’re the reasons why sayings like “nice guys finish last” ring true even today.

So let me ask you another honest question right now.

Have you ever been friend-zoned because you just followed a woman’s lead, or never told her what to do?

At any rate, the next question is pretty obvious.

So how do you stop making nice guy mistakes?

Should you start acting like a badass and start pushing women around and telling them what to do?

Of course not. That’s just asking for trouble.

Instead, I’m about to show you a technique that will change how women see you almost instantly.

They’ll stop seeing you as a nice guy and start seeing you as a real man.

You know all those male models they drool over in magazines like Cosmo?

The Erotic Feeling Trigger

The key isn’t to look like those models. That’s impossible for most of us.

Instead, the key is to know how to trigger the same (erotic) feeling women get when they see those models.

They feel hot. Bothered. Excited. Horny. Sexy.

Well, guess what? You can trigger those same feelings in the women you meet.

And without taking your shirt off, too.

So how exactly do you do that?

With a technique I call Hypnotic Suggestion, and you’re about to learn it next.

ALSO READ: How To “Force” A Woman To Fall In Love With You

The Art of Hypnotic Suggestions

Hypnotic Suggestions are a classical hypnosis and NLP routine, dating back to the days of Shogun Method’s intellectual forefather, Milton Erickson.

Here’s how it works…

For decades, psychologists have known the female mind’s deepest need.

Throughout history, women have always craved the leadership of a strong, successful male.

It’s the reason why the best hunters, warriors, diplomats, healers, and traders got the most women. The female mind cannot resist the draw of a leader of men, no matter how hard it tries.

That’s the psychological principle the Hypnotic Suggestion technique is based on. And it’s the key to making women see you as a real man… and not another nice guy. And if you want to know how to hypnotize a woman and make her fall in love, this technique is the answer.

How Hypnotic Suggestions Work

So how does the Hypnotic Suggestion work? There are two steps to follow.

The first step is the redirection.

Here, you direct her attention to something she wasn’t aware of before.

Let’s say you’re chatting with a woman you like. You can redirect her attention with statements like:

“Do you smell cinnamon?”

“Listen to the birds chirping outside.”

“Hear the chatter from the other room.”

You can also redirect her attention by asking deep questions, like:

“When was the last time you felt truly happy?”

“What was the worst pain you’ve ever felt in your life?”

“How did your last ex-boyfriend make you feel about yourself?”

You get the idea, right?

The key is to make her think about something unexpected–something under your control.

In a sense, you’re making her think what you want her to think. By asking simple questions, too.

Now, the second step is the suggestion.

Here, while she’s in the middle of your redirection, you tell her what you want her to do.

For instance, you can say:

“Hey, join me for coffee and a cinnamon roll.”

“So it’s been a while since you last felt truly happy. It must feel terrible. Why don’t we go have a little fun?”

“You said so yourself: Your ex made you feel worthless. I think it’s time you started following your own rules, don’t you think?”

You see how it works now?

It’s a simple technique you can use anytime, in any conversation, with any woman you like. (Yes, even on your girlfriend or wife. In fact, it’s an essential technique I teach in the Shogun Method wife training program.)

Try it out, and you’ll notice she’ll warm up to you much more quickly.

She’ll start opening up to you. She might start telling you her more intimate secrets. She might even straight up confess her feelings to you. And, further down the road, she might even turn into the submissive girlfriend you’ve always desired to have.

That’s the power of the Hypnotic Suggestion technique. Try it out and you’ll be surprised. I guarantee it.

Where To Fo From Here

Now, of course, the Hypnotic Suggestion technique isn’t the only one you can use.

It’s just one of many techniques that operate off of a “mother” principle. It’s called Fractionation.

And if you want women to see you as a real man for the rest of your life…

…but you only had the time to master one new skill…

…then I strongly suggest you pick Fractionation.

With it, you’ll have the power to make women feel whatever you want them to feel. And all by saying the right words at the right time.

As a little thank you for reading until the end of this guide, I’m giving you access to a special bonus resource. It’s an Online Masterclass on Fractionation, and you can sign up today.

In it, you’ll learn precisely why Shogun Method techniques like Hypnotic Suggestion are so powerful.

Plus, you’ll get sample Fractionation routines you can copy and use on women right off the bad.

Go ahead–check it out.