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“Hey, Derek. I caught my wife cheating on me. Can you tell me how to get over it?”
This is a question I get often. And it’s precisely the question I’ll answer in this guide today.
I’ll show you the fastest way to get over the pain, but not just that.
I’ll also show you how to get into new relationships that are way better than the one you lost.
Yup, it’s possible. It’s even easy, as you’ll soon see, but let’s start at the beginning.
First of all, let me commiserate with you.
Being cheated on cuts deep into your manhood. It’s enough to make you question the meaning of existence itself.
And yet you know what? Dwelling on it will just make your life worse over the years.
It’s a downward spiral you’ll want to get out of as soon as you can.
And yes, you can get out of it. Especially with the technique you’ll learn in this guide.
I’m about to show you a method called the Replacement Protocol which will do two things for you.
- It’ll help you get over losing your wife, and
- It’ll help you make the rest of your life the best time of your life, ever.
And it all starts with answering one question.
Why is it so hard to get over your wife after she cheated on you?
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The Replacement Protocol
So here’s the science behind the Replacement Protocol.
First of all, you know your wife cheated on you. You already know she’s not worthy of your trust. And you’re quite sure that dwelling on it won’t change a thing.
So why is it still so hard to get over what she did?
According to science, there are two reasons.
The First Reason
The first reason is failed expectations.
When you first married your wife, you probably had high hopes and big dreams for your life with her.
Unfortunately, she flushed it all down the toilet.
And now, you’re afraid to expect anything good anymore. It’s almost impossible for you to imagine a better future for yourself.
And so your mind keeps replaying the cheating incident, over and over.
That’s the first reason why it’s hard to get over a cheating wife.
Of course, Shogun Method fixes this (read how here), but you’ll first need to understand why both male and female psychology work this way.
ALSO READ: Ignoring Your Ex-Wife
The Second Reason
The second reason is emotional attachment.
I’m quite sure you don’t necessarily miss your wife right now. After all, the marriage is over.
At the same time, you do miss how you felt before the cheating incident, right?
…but now, you feel the opposite of all that…
…and so your mind keeps going back to the good old days.
That’s the second reason why it’s so hard to move on.
Simple–because that’s not how the brain works. The brain doesn’t forget trauma that easily. No.
In fact, Mother Nature programmed it to remember the times you got seriously hurt. And that definitely includes the time your wife cheated on you.
How To Get Over The Trauma Of Getting Cheated On
So how does the brain manage trauma? How does it get over a horrible experience?
By replacement, that’s how.
The brain only forgets trauma by overwriting it with newer, better experiences.
And that’s where the Replacement Protocol comes into play.
Your goal is to replace your failed expectations and emotional attachments.
With what? With better things, of course.
And when it comes to being cheated on, you overwrite the trauma with new experiences with new women.
I mean, think about it. There’s got to be hundreds, nay, thousands of women out there who are better than your ex-wife, right?
Of course there are.
So why not spend time with them instead of those dark thoughts in your head?
The Most Serious Mental Problem In Dating
The Replacement Protocol is a Shogun Method technique that was developed to solve a serious mental problem in the dating game.
This includes obsession over rejections, unattainable women, and–you guessed it–cheating wives.
The Replacement Protocol was developed by my group at the Shogun Method HQ. My group focuses on one thing: To solve relationship problems with science. Or more accurately, the science of the mind. Human psychology.
And here’s how it works…
The key word is replacement. You’re overwriting your past negative experiences with newer positive ones. And that involves re-entering the dating game and meeting new women.
Now, here’s the important distinction: You’re not here to “pick up” women. If you tried that, you’ll end up in a rebound relationship. And trust me, that will do the opposite of helping you get over your wife.
So, no. Avoid picking up women.
Instead, your goal is to check out whether they’re worth spending more of your time with.
If you approach a woman and decide she’s not interesting enough, it’s not a problem. You thank her for her time and move on to the next woman.
If she says no to you, it’s also fine. You weren’t there to pick her up anyway, so thank her for her time and move on.
How To Approach Women
Next, let me tell you exactly what to say to the women you approach.
First of all, avoid asking straight questions or giving direct compliments. Why? Simple–doing so will naturally put women in a defensive, skeptical mood. And that’s not what you want them to feel.
Instead, open your interaction by getting their attention with statements like:
- “Excuse me, I wanted to ask you something…”
- “Hi, sorry, I was just wondering…”
- “Hello there, can I have a minute?”
And then you wait for her response. She might say “Yes?”, or “Hmm?” or look you in the eye. These are signs you have her attention and she’s curious about your next question.
And then you ask her any question. That’s right–any question will do.
Of course, the best questions are tied to your current situation. If you’re at a coffee shop, asking about a brew she recommends is good. If you’re at a bus stop, asking about the next bus makes sense.
As long as you avoid romantic topics–such as mentioning “My wife cheated on me”–you’ll be fine.
You get the idea, right?
I repeat–any question will do. It will open a conversation with her. And even just a minute of conversation is enough for you to tell whether you want to know her better.
If you don’t want to know her better, thank her for her time. If you do, swap numbers. It’s that simple.
Side Note: To sharpen your approach skills, learn intrigue pings.
Even just getting into one or two new conversations every time you go to town is good. In a week, you’ll have made a new friend or three.
Keep going until you’ve forgotten about your wife and you’re excited about life again.
When you reach that point, congratulations. You’ve successfully gotten over your wife.
Try the Replacement Protocol for a month or two. You’ll love it.
Where To Go From Here
Let’s say, in the near future, one of the two following incidents happened:
- Either your wife comes back and apologizes, and you accept her back (during which you should put her on wife obedience training). Or,
- You get into a new relationship with a better woman.
In either case, you find yourself in an exclusive relationship again.
How do you make sure you don’t get cheated on again?
Here’s the answer: You’ll need to use a different technique. This one’s called Fractionation. (Some call it Fractionation Seduction.)
Long story short. Fractionation is the mother technique of the Replacement Protocol that you’ve just learned.
It’s also a conversation technique, but its goal is different. Fractionation pulls the addiction triggers in a woman’s brain.
When you Fractionate a woman, she’ll start seeing you as the manliest, most attractive guy in her life.
Yes–even if you’re not.
And this makes her feel addicted to you.
And when she’s addicted, she’ll never do anything that would make you leave her. Like, you know, cheat on you.
Want to cheat-proof your next relationship? Then Fractionation is the skill to master.
And you can start mastering it today, if you’re ready.
On the very last part of this guide, there’s a link. That link will take you to an Online Masterclass on Fractionation.
Hosted by none other than our guys at Shogun Method HQ, of course.
Remember. Fractionation is the most important skill you could ever learn for your love life.
So learn all about it today, before it’s too late.
Click this link and join the Online Masterclass now.