Is your girlfriend insecure, and she’s driving you crazy?
If you want to know if you’re dating an insecure woman, see if she’s showing any of these “insecure girlfriend” signs.
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Five Signs of an Insecure Girlfriend
- The first sign is she can’t take criticism. She always takes it badly, and so you’re letting her bad habits go unchecked.
- The second sign is extreme jealousy. She’s jealous of your friends, relatives, and even hobbies, and she tries to keep you all to herself.
- The third sign is holding grudges. If she never forgives and never forgets, that’s a relationship disaster waiting to happen.
- The fourth sign is extreme neediness. Either she can’t live without you… or she wants YOU to not be able to live without HER. Either way, it’s not healthy.
- And lastly, the fifth sign is the need for external validation. She constantly needs others to build up her self-esteem… you most of all… but she never does it herself.
If your girlfriend is showing any of these signs, I have some bad news and good news for you.
The bad news: She’s definitely insecure, and her insecurity will not go away on its own.
In fact, the more you try to make her feel better, the worse her insecurity becomes.
In psychology circles, it’s called a feedback loop.
It’s the reason why you don’t try to calm your pet dog when she’s afraid by petting her. Your affection ends up reinforcing her negative state of mind.
And guess what? As it turns out, people are the same.
The more you placate and validate her, the more insecure she actually becomes.
And that’s DANGEROUS for your relationship because the only outcome is a breakup. Either she gives up or you do.
So is there ANY way to cure your girlfriend’s insecurity?
Luckily enough, there is. If there’s a definitive method on “how to deal with an insecure girlfriend” that works all the time, then this is it. (Alternatively, you can also use hypnosis on her. Learn how to hypnotize a woman and put her under trance to deal with her acute insecurity.)
This technique is called the “Emotional Firewalk,” and you’ll learn all about it in this Shogun Method guide today.
If your girlfriend is truly insecure… then the Emotional Firewalk is the best gift you could ever give her.
Because she can’t get rid of her insecurity by herself. If she could, she would have done so a LONG time ago.
You’re her only hope. So don’t let her down.
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Make Her Walk The Emotional Firewalk
Now here’s what the Emotional Firewalk is all about.
The term comes from the literal “firewalk,” or the act of walking over hot coals with one’s bare feet.
The literal “firewalk” is one of the scariest things you can ever do in your life.
But once you do it, nothing else in the world scares you anymore.
You could start million-dollar businesses… you could climb mountains… you could go after the girl of your dreams.
Everything is easy once you get the scariest thing out of the way.
Now guess what?
The same principle applies to your girlfriend’s insecurity.
Right now, your girlfriend is scared of a million things, but one thing scares her the most:
The feeling of not being loved.
And everything she’s doing to you right now… taking things the wrong way, being jealous, holding grudges, being needy, etc…
… it’s all an unconscious, uncontrollable attempt to feel loved.
And the more you placate her, the more you reinforce the idea in her head:
“I need to take things the wrong way, be jealous, hold grudges, and be needy… so that he’ll love me and take care of me.”
Let’s change that because, as you already know, that’s not going to end well.
How To Tap Into Your Girlfriend’s Greatest Fear
Just like its namesake, the Emotional Firewalk forces her into her greatest fear… so that she can conquer it in the end.
In your girlfriend’s case, her greatest fear is LOSING YOUR LOVE.
And that’s exactly what you’ll make her feel – like she’s about to LOSE YOUR LOVE… and she needs to conquer her fears in order to win your love back.
Let’s use an example…
Let’s say she’s extremely jealous.
When you tell her you’re going on a fishing weekend with the fellas, she flies off the handle and says:
“It’s either them or me!”
What do you do?
You either placate her (which guarantees more of the same bad behavior)…
…or put her on the Emotional Firewalk, which I recommend.
Here’s an example of what putting her on an Emotional Firewalk looks like:
- First, she warns you by saying: “It’s either them or me!”
- Then, instead of canceling your fishing trip, you tell her: “You know what? I want a happy life, too. And part of that happy life is to spend time with my friends. If you can’t accept that, then you’d better find a way to do so soon. Otherwise, we’re not going to work out.”
See what’s going on?
You’re forcing her to let go of jealousy, which has been a sort of security blanket for her until now.
You’re forcing her to make a choice: If she wants to keep you, she must stop being so jealous.
That’s the Emotional Firewalk. And you leave her with two choices:
- Either she does NOT do the Firewalk, and instead breaks up with you… which is a good thing, because you’ve saved yourself from a relationship that was sure to be toxic…
- Or she walks the Firewalk and lets you have your fishing trip… and then afterward, you show her that she did NOT lose your love after all.
If she makes the second choice, then she’ll come out of the Firewalk stronger, more confident… and much less insecure.
And in time, she’ll thank you for it.
That’s the power of the Emotional Firewalk.
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The Necessity of Cruelty in Love
Now, you might be thinking: “Derek Rake, that sounds cruel.”
That’s a fair comment.
But you know what’s A LOT more cruel?
It’s letting her stay trapped in her insecurity for the rest of her life, so she never finds true happiness and peace.
THAT’S really cruel!
You know how it goes. Sometimes you got to be a little cruel to be truly kind.
And if you REALLY want what’s best for your girlfriend… the Emotional Firewalk is the greatest gift you could ever give her.
In just a moment, I’ll give you even more examples of the Emotional Firewalk in action… so that you’ll get an even better understanding of how to use it correctly.
Now here are a few more examples of Emotional Firewalks you can put your girlfriend on.
Let’s say she monitors your activities like a hawk, and it’s driving you crazy.
You can put her on an Emotional Firewalk by disappearing for a few days. No phone contact, no Internet contact, nothing.
Let her go crazy for a few days, or until she begs you to come back.
Then when you do come back and she demands to know where you’ve been, tell her: “I needed some alone time.”
And then you continue the relationship like nothing happened.
Put her on this Emotional Firewalk a few times, and soon she’ll realize she doesn’t need to watch you like a hawk, after all… because she realizes you’re a guy she can trust.
Or here’s another example…
Let’s say she can’t take criticism. The next time you have an argument, don’t hold back – tell her about one of her flaws.
Then when she denies it, don’t hold back either. Double-down on your claim by giving examples of how she fell short of your expectations.
Keep the Firewalk going until she breaks down, admits her shortcomings, and apologizes… after which you reward her with your loving reassurance.
A few Firewalks like this, and she’ll be open to criticism for the rest of her life… which, of course, is a VERY good thing.
Where To Go From Here
You’ve just learned a powerful technique to cure your girlfriend of insecurity FOR GOOD. You might get the submissive girlfriend who will bend over backwards for you… and off both of you go into the sunset.
But anyhow, let’s take it to the next level.
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…and as a result, become a MASTER of your love life as a whole, and you’ll encounter no problem you can’t fix?
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