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Okay, so here’s a difficult question for you and yet I want you to answer it honestly.
Has your wife stopped loving you?
Have you tried everything to make her love you again, but nothing seems to be working?
Want to know how to make your wife love you again–and this time stay in love with you for good?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, then I know how you must feel. You’ve spent years working on your marriage, only to watch it crumble before your eyes.
You feel helpless and frustrated. And yet you cling to the hope that if you tried hard enough, you’ll win back her love soon.
Unfortunately, here’s the bad news. You might actually be driving her away without knowing it.
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The Biggest Mistake Husbands Make That Repels Their Wives
I’m about to show you the huge mistake that husbands make when trying to make their wife love them again.
Let me put it this way.
When a woman loves you, and then after some time she falls out of love with you… then there’s only one reason.
This reason is so common that we have a name for it inside Shogun Method. We Shoguns call it Conditioned Repulsion.
Think of it this way.
She doesn’t love you anymore because, right now, she’s repulsed by you.
Now, why is she repulsed? How did it happen?
And most importantly–how do you reverse this terrible condition?
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Repulsion Comes From The Lack Of (Male) Dominance
Understand this–repulsion is merely the opposite of attraction.
Put simply, your wife has fallen out of love for you because she’s no longer attracted to you.
But why? After all, there was a time when she loved you and would do anything for you. Why did she lose that attraction to you?
Here’s the root cause.
You’ve been doing things that have been repulsing her–without you knowing it.
Case in point? You’ve been “trying too hard” to make her love you again. (Yes, trying too hard is a transgression in a woman’s eyes.)
Meaning you’ve put in effort to win her approval, and she knows it.
And she hates that, by the way. The more you exert effort to win her approval, the more she feels you’re a weakling who’s not worthy of her respect.
Now, you might be thinking–
“Wait a minute, Derek! I’m working hard to keep our marriage together. Why does she see me as weak?”
Her attraction to you is not based on your effort. It’s based on your dominance.
That is–if she feels like holds a higher position in the marriage than you, then she sees you as weak.
And when you’re working so hard to please her, that tells her that she is indeed above you.
And so she sees you as weak.
And therein lies the problem.
When she sees you as weak, she can’t respect you.
A Woman Can Only Love A Man She Respects
Inside Shogun Method, we have this credo–
When a woman can’t respect you, she can’t love you.
And that leads to an even bigger problem. When she can’t love you, she can’t be with you. And that’s where marriage falls apart.
That’s how it is with female psychology. She doesn’t want your effort. She doesn’t care how hard you work. She doesn’t give a shit how much you love her and want the marriage to work.
All she wants is your dominance. The dominance that she can get to respect, and subsequently, love.
And so that leads us to the obvious question.
How do you establish your dominance in your marriage and make your wife love you again?
Here’s the solution–with a Shogun Method technique we call Conditioned Re-Attraction.
It’s pretty much the only way to make your wife love you again at this point… if your marriage is already as screwed up as it is.
Conditioned Re-Attraction re-establishes your dominance in your marriage. This re-ignites her respect, attraction, and love for you.
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The Conditioned Re-Attraction Tactic
Shogun Method is all about conditioning a woman’s behavior by pleasure and pain. It’s about hypnosis–if you want to know how to hypnotize a woman and train your wife into a model of subservience and submission, that’s where you should look.
The Conditioned Re-Attraction is a stripped-down tactic that starts with the basics. You will begin by doing things that make her respect you more.
And here’s the trick–you do it in a discrete, concealed manner.
You make her realize (on her own) that she’s not in control of the marriage–you are.
The Fake Breakup
The first step of Conditioned Re-Attraction is to snap her out of her cold, uncaring state. (This is meant to be a Pattern Interrupt if you’re familiar with hypnosis.)
One of the easiest ways to do this is to do a fake breakup with her.
You simply tell her this.
“Let’s take a time-out. We should spend some time away from each other. We should meet other people. And then we get back together and see where we go from there.”
This is meant to be non-negotiable. No matter how mad she gets, you pack your bags and spend a few days doing whatever you want. You can take a mini-vacation, or meet up with friends, or work on your business. It’s up to you.
No matter what you do, you ignore your wife’s calls and texts.
That is–unless she apologizes for her shitty behavior and begs you to come back.
That’s when you come back to her and lay down your new terms and conditions for the marriage.
Set New Terms For Your Marriage
Your new terms may include–
- That she respects you as the head of the household…
- Or that she stops disrespecting you or your decisions…
- Or even that she should follow your direction without question…
- Or perhaps that if she doesn’t like the new terms, she can leave…
- Or you can leave without explaining shit to her.
Now, you might be wondering:
“But, Derek, what if she leaves?”
If she does, then she might have been too far gone to save.
Then again, at least you’ve freed yourself from a lifetime with a woman who will never respect you. And that’s a win if you ask me.
Meanwhile, what if she agrees to your terms–which is what will likely happen if you don’t show weakness?
Then congratulations. You’ve successfully made your wife love you again. Your marriage will be stronger and happier from now on.
Pretty good, huh?
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Your Next Challenge
Now here’s the next challenge.
As wonderful as your newfound dominance might be, you can’t sustain it all the time.
Sometimes, you’ll slip back into your weak, wife-pleasing mindset. This can happen when you’re stressed out, or when you’re having a bad day. It happens.
And when it does happen, there’s the risk that your wife will see your weakness and think:
“Was he just pretending to be dominant this whole time?”
And then she starts feeling repulsed by you again.
How do you avoid that?
With another of our Mind Control techniques, of course.
We call this one Fractionation. And it’s even more powerful than Conditioned Re-Attraction.
(Some know it as Fractionation Seduction, but know this–its use goes beyond seducing women.)
Without getting into too much detail…
Fractionation is a storytelling technique. That means it requires you to use nothing more than words.
It’s just that the words you say will put your wife on intense emotional rollercoasters.
And they go on and on until she (in hypnosis terms) Fractionates. This is when she gives up control and starts looking to you for direction and security.
As a result, she feels completely and helplessly addicted to you.
And when that happens, then you’re all good. Trust me on this.
Even if you did have bad days and slipped back into weakness, your wife wouldn’t mind.
That’s the power of Fractionation. And you’ll want that power on your side.
Where To Go From Here
Now, here’s the thing: there’s no way I can teach you Fractionation in a short guide like this.
Here’s a link. Click it. It will take you to the Shogun Method Online Masterclass on Mind Control.
There, I’ll teach you everything you need to know about Fractionation. What it is, how it works, and how to use it on your wife to get her addicted to you.
Your wife doesn’t love you anymore because she feels repulsed by you.
If you don’t use Conditioned Re-Attraction, and if you don’t master Fractionation…
…then you will lose her. And you don’t want that to happen, do you?
Want to give your marriage a fighting chance?
Want to make your wife love you again–and this time, for as long as you want?
And are you willing to do whatever it takes?
Then do the right thing and join us as a Shogun.