How To Attract A Woman After You Messed Up (The Comeback)

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Want to know about how to attract a woman after you messed up with her?

It can be done, you know—but only if you follow what I say in this Shogun Method guide to the letter. This trick has worked for me, and it has worked for my brother Shoguns… and so it will also work for you. But you gotta trust me on this.

First off, a fair warning.

So you messed things up with the woman you like. Think you feel bad now? If you’re not careful, you’ll be kicking yourself in the rear for years to come.

For one, it’ll wreak havoc to your confidence in the long-term. What if you’ve lost the love of your life because of one stupid mistake? And you’ll wonder how things would be if you didn’t screw up with her…

Or…

You can use this awful experience, turn it around, and use it to make her fall even deeper in love with you… and this time, possibly forever.

Charting Your Comeback

Think of it this way…

Ever heard of those great comeback stories in sports?

It’s like when the losing team comes from behind to win an important game. Or when a fighter who’s getting beat down rises up and knocks out the champion in the last round.

Ever noticed that the shittier the situation is, the sweeter the comeback story gets?

That story is inside you, too, my friend.

Here’s what I want you to understand, so listen up because it’s important.

The worse you messed up with your lady, the bigger the opportunity to make her fall madly in love with you.

That’s your comeback story. And if you want to get her back, then follow what I say in this article.

And it all starts with the one big fat mistake to avoid making at all costs. Because once you make this mistake, there’s zero chance of recovery for you. It’s true.

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The Biggest Mistake A Man Can Make With A Woman

So here’s the one big mistake to avoid making at all costs.

Let’s say you fucked it up with the woman you like. You turned her off, you offended her, or you got locked in her friend-zone.

What should you never do at this point?

Here’s the answer. You must never apologize.

That’s it.

Now, if you’ve already apologized, sorry to say: It’s pretty much game over for you. Your only hope is if she changes her mind and gives you another chance, and that can take weeks or months—if ever.

Why is apologizing such a mistake? Here’s why: Confirmation.

When you apologize to her, she confirms her worst suspicions. You’re yet another weak, needy man who’s desperate for her affection.

And so, from now on, her defenses will be up. Worse, she’ll be the one controlling the frame. You’ll be like a puppy following her around, hoping for attention—and to top it all off, you’ll never get what you want.

Yup, it’s that bad. Tell me—have you ever apologized to a woman, only to see shit go from bad to worse?

In any case, that leads us to the next question. Instead of apologizing, what should you do after you’ve fucked things up with a woman?

How To Attract A Woman After Making A Mistake

Here’s the key…

If you’ve messed up your chances with a woman and she’s ignoring you, and you haven’t apologized yet, you still have hope.

Remember your comeback story?

Your fuck-up is the first part. The comeback is the second part. And you make it happen with what I like to call the Flirting Frame.

What’s the Flirting Frame?

Well, it’s like this…

People, especially women, decide with their emotions—not logic.

The key is to let her negative emotions—her anger and disgust—fade over a month or so. That way, when you re-enter her life, she’ll forget your fuck-up.

Suddenly, you have a fresh new chance. And you’ll make such a good impression that she can’t help but fall in love with you.

That’s the comeback you’ve been waiting for. And that’s what the Flirting Frame will do for you.

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The Flirting Frame

So let me tell you all about the Flirting Frame.

What is it?

Well, it’s a technique that’s straight out of the labs of Shogun Method. Unlike cheesy pickup artist lines, Shogun Method is hardcore female psychology. (Interested to be a Shogun? It may or may not be for you. Before anything, read this Shogun Method review.)

Some accuse Shoguns of exploiting the weak spots in the female mind. I guess there’s some truth in that, I’m not gonna deny it. By exploiting these weaknesses, Shoguns often create happier relationships with women. And the Flirting Frame is one of the many tactics by Shogun Method to do just that.

So how does the Flirting Frame work? There are two steps to the process.

First, you need to let her forget about the fuck-up. That means you should not contact her for at least three weeks. No calls, no texts, no likes on Facebook.

Ever noticed you can’t remember what made you angry over two weeks ago? That’s just the human mind—given enough time, it gets over stuff. That’s what you want her mind to do.

Next, you’ll need to be in the right frame of mind when you reconnect with her.

You’ll want to be (1) accusatory, (2) non-critical, and (3) disqualifying.

Here’s what that means.

First, when you meet your woman again, she needs to see you in a playfully teasing mood. Let’s say she works in a museum. You can greet her:

“Hey, how have you been? Besides, you know, brushing the dust off Michelangelo’s David…”

Or if she’s a marine biologist, you can greet her with:

“Hi! What have you been doing for fun lately? Besides, you know, freeing Shamu or something…”

Did you catch that? You greet her in a funny, playfully accusatory, and non-critical way. It makes her laugh, breaks the ice, and allows the interaction to continue.

Disqualification is the Key

Now, here’s the secret. Throughout your interaction, you’ll want to disqualify her as a romantic partner.

Of course, you don’t say that outright. Instead, you imply it with your teasing statements.

For example, if she tells you she just went on a shopping binge, tell her:

“Remind me never to let you manage our joint account.”

Or, if she tells you she’s been going to the gym lately, you can say:

“Yeah, on second thought, let’s never date. I’ve gone out with muscleheads before and it was scary.”

Did you catch the technique? You’ll know you’re doing it right when she’s laughing and bantering with you. Almost as though you didn’t mess things up with her just a month ago.

That’s the Flirting Frame. It makes her feel you’re confident, strong, and dominant enough to disqualify her.

Where To Go From Here

Now, here’s the catch: She won’t feel this accepting of you forever.

What the Flirting Frame does is make her attracted to you. And yet that’s not enough, because attraction fades rather quickly.

Any Shogun will tell you this: attraction doesn’t last. You’ll need to  twist her attraction into addiction. And to do that, I recommend capping the Flirting Frame with another Shogun Method technique.

Fractionation.

(Or, as some may want to call it, Fractionation seduction.)

It’s what makes Shoguns better with women than everyone else. With Fractionation, you’ll get a woman emotionally addicted to you. Remember… it’s all about emotional addiction. It’s never just about “attraction” or “seduction”. You want to eventually turn her into a submissive girlfriend. And Fractionation is the key to emotional addiction, leading to submissiveness.

Now, here’s the thing…

A lot of poseurs and relationship gurus claim to teach Fractionation, but let me tell you this… there’s nowhere better to learn it from us, the Shoguns. After all, we are the OGs who taught the world about Emotional Addiction.

Well, guess what? We have an Online Masterclass where I teaches the Fractionation technique in full. I have placed the link at the end of this guide for you. Click on it and you’ll get to see if it’s still online. If not, you’ll have to buy Shogun Method to see Fractionation in all its glory.

In the Masterclass, you’ll learn how Fractionation works, how it makes women feel addicted to you, and—most importantly—how to use it today.

Want to win her back after you fucked things up with her?

Then trust me. You’ll want to have mastered Fractionation by the next time you meet her.

So, here’s the game plan.

Your fuck-up was the first part of your comeback. That’s already in place. You can’t change it.

The second part is to use the Flirting Frame to turn things around and make her fall in love with you.

That’ll happen in a few weeks from now.

What’s the third part? It’s using Fractionation to get her addicted to you for life.

That’s the plan. And you got a few weeks to prepare, so let’s start today.

Click this link and join the Online Masterclass. Just remember to enter your best email address because that’s where the Shogun Method team will send your Invitation Ticket if you qualify.

Remember: It’s not about what you do. It’s about how she feels about what you do. So do only the things that make her feel madly in love with you. And Fractionation is how you do it.