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Should You Dump Your Girlfriend? (The Five-Sin Checklist)

September 29, 2023 Leave a Comment

Are you tired and fed up of your girlfriend or wife treating you like crap?

Well, guess what? If your woman keeps criticizing and disrespecting you, you should be.

Because here’s something every man should know:

If a woman mistreats her man, it’s only because he lets her.

And if you want them to treat you the way you want, it’s time to write your Shit List.

What’s that, you ask?

A Shit List is your list of deal breakers. These are the behaviors from women you will not tolerate, no matter what.

The moment you see her do any of these Shit List behaviors, it’s time to dump her as she deserves.

Table of Contents

  • The Shit List Starter Pack
    • The Cheating Rule
    • The Disrespect Rule
    • The Selfish Rule
    • The Thirst Trap Rule
    • The Disloyalty Rule
  • Why You Must Lead Her
  • How Emotional Distress Leads to Devotion
  • Where To Go From Here

The Shit List Starter Pack

Now, you might wonder:

“What exactly should go into my Shit List?“

That’s a fair question—when you’ve been pussywhipped for a long time, it’s hard to know what to do next.

And that’s what this concise Shogun Method guide is for.

What I’m going to give you is the Shit List Starter Pack. These are five rules and standards every man should have with the women he dates.

With your Shit List in place, you won’t waste any more time and money with undeserving women.

And you’ll attract the ones who will love and respect you, as you’ll soon see.

How does that sound to you? Good, right?

So here’s the Shit List Starter Pack.

The Cheating Rule

Number one on the Shit List: 

If your woman cheats on you, dump her.

And this doesn’t only mean physical cheating. If you catch her winking at other guys or flirting with them over text, show her the door.

Remember… emotional cheating is ALSO cheating. As a self-respecting man, you will never tolerate unfaithful women. Show her the door if she cheats… physically OR emotionally.

The Disrespect Rule

Now, number two on the Shit List:

If she disrespects you in public, dump her.

If she disagrees with you on anything, you must discuss it privately.

And if she doesn’t have the upbringing to know even that, then you shouldn’t tolerate it. Let her learn the hard way.

The Selfish Rule

And now, number three: 

If she wants you to put her over your own goals, dump her.

Friend, a woman should never, ever be your #1 priority.

Instead, your goals and dreams should be. Your mission in life is your priority.

And she’s welcome to be your #2 priority if she wants to.

If that’s not good enough for her, she can find some chump to push around.

The Thirst Trap Rule

Number four on the Shit List:

If you notice her dressing up for other guys but not you, that’s a red flag.

And my advice is the same. Dump her before she dumps you.

The Disloyalty Rule

And last on the Shit List:

If you find out she’s been talking crap about you to her friends and family, dump her.

You must always expect your woman to respect you. And it must be genuine.

should you dump your girlfriend or not

So if she’s respectful to you but talks crap about you to other people, she’s fake.

And you know better than to spend any time with a trickster.

There you have it—the Shit List Starter Pack.

To recap, here they are again:

Dump her if…

…one, she cheats on you.

…two, she disrespects you in public.

…three, she wants you to put her above your goals.

…four, she dresses up for other guys but not you. And,

…five, she talks crap about you behind your back.

Easy, right?

Why You Must Lead Her

Now, here’s the question I want to ask you:

Do you notice something about these five rules?

If you look closely, you’ll realize this. They’re all signs or symptoms of a bigger problem.

The problem is she doesn’t see you as the leader of the relationship.

And when that’s the case, the relationship will not end happily, no matter what. Sorry, but it’s true.

To fix the bigger problem, you’ll need something like Shogun Method. With it, you can restore the balance of power in your relationship with you as her rightful leader.

Now, as a bonus tip, let’s answer a commonly asked question:

When a woman treats you badly, is it possible to change her behavior?

Can you make her realize her mistakes and beg you for your love and forgiveness?

The answer is yes. And not only that… you can also turn her into the most loyal, most loving woman you’ve ever met. If you want to know how to make a woman submit to you completely, this is it.

How Emotional Distress Leads to Devotion

I won’t kid you, though. It’ll be hard.

Why do I say it’s hard?

Well, here’s the reason. It involves inflicting emotional distress on her—something some men aren’t willing to do.

And yet it’s a great way to deliver justice to a woman treating you like crap.

So, how exactly do you do that?

The first step is to leave her. She broke the rules on your Shit List, so you show her the door.

Only in this case you’ll explain nothing. But, you can say something like, 

“I think we should see other people.”

Or,

“I don’t want to be in a relationship this time.”

And no matter how much she cries, rages, or demands an explanation, shrug it off.

Simply go your own way and don’t contact her for an entire month.

If she tries to call you, don’t answer. If she texts you, don’t reply. You should have zero communication.

And then, when the four weeks are over, contact her and say: “We need to talk.”

At this point, she might hate you so much she refuses to see you. If that’s the case, congratulations. You’ve potentially saved yourself several years of agony with the wrong woman.

Meanwhile, if she eagerly agrees to see you, go ahead and meet her. You’ll see how much she’s changed in the last month.

She’ll be more respectful and attentive now.

And when she asks you back, tell her your new rules. 

Let her know you won’t tolerate any fake or toxic behavior in your relationship, or else.

And after that, you’ll have one of the most loving, loyal and obedient girlfriend you’ll ever have.

Where To Go From Here

Now, of course, I hope you don’t have to go that far.

That said, you must know how to inflict emotional distress on your woman from time to time.

If you don’t, she will mistreat you.

So, what should you do instead?

I suggest you learn the Fractionation technique.

It’s a hypnotic technique that puts your woman on an emotional rollercoaster.

It’s enough to give her the emotional distress—and emotional high—she needs.

And when she gets those thrill rides merely from being with you, that’s when she realizes your worth.

She won’t take you for granted. And instead, she’ll be careful not to do anything to offend you or drive you away.

And that includes anything on your Shit List.

Now, if you want to learn how Fractionation works, here’s how. Join our legendary Fractionation Online Masterclass. Go ahead—sign up now.

About Derek Rake

Derek Rake is the founder of Shogun Method, the world's one and only relationship strategy for men based on authentic Mind Control technology. He is widely acknowledged as the leading international authority on using Mind Control and extreme hypnosis in dating and relationships. Shogun Method's "Enslavement, Not Seduction" philosophy makes it one-of-a-kind in the relationship coaching world. Attend his legendary Masterclass - click here.

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