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How To Know If A Woman Is A Keeper

August 19, 2023 Leave a Comment

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Question. How do you know if you’ve found a woman worth keeping?

I get this question a lot from my brother Shoguns, and this is my answer:

The first thing to look for is if she understands her role in the relationship. A high-quality woman knows that a man’s mission in life should come first. She won’t ever make you choose between your goals and her. 

Not only that, she’ll support your dreams and understand that your mission is your top priority. So, if you find a woman who knows her place and respects your goals, that’s a great sign that she’s a keeper.

The second thing to look for is whether she appreciates masculinity. Because trust me… you don’t want a girl who believes in the myth that men and women are the “same”. If you hear she says crap like “toxic masculinity”, stay the fuck away from her. 

You want a girl who appreciates masculinity and embraces her femininity. A good girl understands that men and women have different strengths that work well together. If you find a girl who likes masculine qualities, it’s a good sign she’s a keeper.

Table of Contents

  • Find a Woman Who Wants a Family with You
  • The High-Quality Woman Tests
  • How To Keep A Keeper Woman

Find a Woman Who Wants a Family with You

Alright, let me give you one more piece of advice on finding a woman worth keeping. The third sign to look for is whether she loves kids and wants to have a family with you. 

What do I mean by that? 

A high-quality woman understands one important thing. She knows she can do her own thing and be successful… and yet she also knows that starting a family is the most fulfilling thing she can do in life. She’s mature enough to see the value of being a supportive wife to a great man and a loving mother to their children. So, if you find a woman who’s excited about the idea of starting a family with you, that’s a surefire sign that she’s a keeper.

So, all in all, here are the three signs to look for– 

  • First, find a woman who knows her role in the relationship and respects your goals and priorities. 
  • Second, look for a woman who appreciates masculinity. She understands that men and women have unique strengths that complement each other. And,
  • Third, find a woman who loves kids and wants to start a family with you, while still pursuing her own success. 

So, if you find a girl who embodies all three qualities, then guess what? You’ve hit the jackpot and found yourself a real keeper.

The High-Quality Woman Tests

Let me show you how to test if a woman fits the first sign of being worth keeping. Get ready to take lots of notes.

Here’s what you should do–

Set up a date, then cancel less than 24 hours before, saying you gotta work on your life mission. Watch her reaction. 

If she’s cool and understands your mission comes first, she’s a keeper… 

…but if she’s upset, she doesn’t know her place and ain’t worth your time. Test for this early on and find a girl who respects and supports your priorities.

Now, let’s move on to the second sign of finding a woman worth keeping. You want to test if she appreciates masculinity. 

There are two easy ways to do it. First, bring up a real news item about a recent feminist outburst and see how she reacts. 

If she shows disdain for the feminists, then it’s a sign she’s a keeper. Second, casually mention the phrase “toxic masculinity” and see how she responds. If she dislikes the phrase, then congratulations. If she’s indifferent or leaps with joy, then sorry, man. She’s just not worth your time.

(Also, test the opposite–mention “submissive wife” to her and check her response. How does she feel about the idea of being loyal and subservient to her husband?)

And now, for the ultimate test of whether she’s a high-quality woman or not–does she love children? Here’s how to find out. 

Take her to a family gathering and observe how she interacts with your relatives and their kids. If she gets along well and enjoys spending time with them, that’s a good sign. It means she values family and is open to having children in the future. 

But, if she seems annoyed or distant around children or your family, that’s a huge red flag. It suggests that she’s not interested in starting a family or being a part of yours. 

Easy, right?

Now, here’s another way to test her. Ask her about her favorite nephew or niece in a casual conversation. 

If she doesn’t have one or doesn’t seem interested in talking about them, it’s another warning sign. It could mean she hates family and children. Bad news.

signs a woman is a keeper

Another thing you can do is to mention you want to have six kids in the future and see how she reacts. If she reacts negatively or tries to shame you for your goals, then it’s time to move on. She’s not the right fit for a long-term relationship. 

Now, what if she passes all three tests? Well, then congratulations – you’ve found yourself a high-quality woman. She values family and is a good match for you. Don’t let her go!

How To Keep A Keeper Woman

Here’s the problem, though.

Because let’s face it, when you’re after a high-quality woman, you’re not the only guy trying to win her over. So, how do you make sure she chooses you over all the others? It’s not about your wealth, looks, or personality. Nope, it’s all about how she feels about you.

To make her choose you, it’s simple–

All you need to do is to make her feel an intense emotional connection to you that no other guy can provide. 

In short, you want her to feel addicted to you, like a drug that she can’t get enough of. And the secret to achieving that? It’s through a Shogun Method NLP technique called Fractionation.

If you’ve not heard of Fractionation, then here’s how it works. With it, you’ll strap her on an intense emotional rollercoaster she won’t want to get off. The effects on her will be obvious–you’ll see her becoming addicted to you, craving to be with you all the time.

Are you ready to take your love life to the next level? If yes, then do the obvious thing. Learn hypnosis. Learn Shogun Method. That’s probably the only way you can master Fractionation and put the technique under your belt.

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Derek Rake is the founder of Shogun Method, the world's one and only relationship strategy for men based on authentic Mind Control technology. He is widely acknowledged as the leading international authority on using Mind Control and extreme hypnosis in dating and relationships. Shogun Method's "Enslavement, Not Seduction" philosophy makes it one-of-a-kind in the relationship coaching world. Attend his legendary Masterclass - click here.

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