How To Treat A Woman You Love Romantically
Want to know how to treat a woman?
Picture this: You meet a new woman who seems nice. You like her, and she seems to like you, too. You’ve had a couple of dates, and things seem to be going well.
Now you want to take your relationship with her to the next level. What should you do?
- Give her flowers?
- Treat her to a fancy dinner?
- Take her on a romantic vacation – all expenses paid?
A word of caution.
If you chose one of the above (or some other sweet gesture)…
…then you might be making the biggest mistake you could ever make when treating a woman.
This Shogun Method guide will show you why.
Table of Contents
- 1 How To Treat A Woman You Love Romantically
- 2 How To Treat A Woman For Dummies
- 3 How To Treat A Woman Romantically
- 4 How To Be A Real Man
How To Treat A Woman For Dummies
So what’s the biggest mistake you could ever make when treating a woman?
That’s just it. “Treating a woman.” That’s the mistake.
It’s a huge mistake because the “treating a woman” mindset is probably the WORST mindset you could ever have. It’s a mindset that sets you up to RUIN your chances at romance with a woman.
Because it’s one of the biggest misconceptions in the history of dating. That misconception goes thus:
“If you treat a woman right, she’ll like you more.”
Sounds logical. Except it doesn’t work in real life.
Have you ever tried “treating a woman right,” only to get friend-zoned or rejected in the end?
Well, if you’re planning to treat this new woman of yours “right,” then you’re going to get the exact same result.
Why You Should NOT Treat A Woman
Do women like men who treat them right?
Do they FALL IN LOVE with them, though?
Nope. (Except maybe the lonely, desperate, crazy ones.)
This is why the average hot woman often has lots of friend-zoned admirers around her.
They happily treat her nicely, take her to dinner, give her free rides, offer shoulders for her to cry on, etc…
…but she’s not in a relationship with any of them.
Want to be one of her friend-zoned admirers?
So don’t “treat” her.
Otherwise, she’ll think: “Oh, wonderful. Another admirer. Can’t have too many.”
Now, you might be wondering:
”So You Can’t Be Nice To Her?”
I’m not saying you “can’t” be nice to her. You sure can.
But this should be the catch: She has to EARN your good treatment before you give it.
Her friend-zoned admirers give her good treatment without her doing anything for it. She has no incentive to treat them any more than just friends.
You want to reverse those roles. Instead of trying to win her approval, you want HER to want to win YOURS.
And you do that by being a “real man.”
How To Treat A Woman Romantically
There are really only three ways to treat a woman you’re romantically interested in:
- As a “nice guy”;
- As a “bad boy”; or
- As a “real man.”
The Nice Guy
You’re a “nice guy” if you give a woman good treatment when she hasn’t earned it.
The nice guy is:
- Never offensive
- Has nothing to hide
- Is “always there for her”
- Is very openly obsessed about her
The nice guy’s motto is: “I treat you well. Please treat me well, too.”
And 99% of the time, the nice guy gets friend-zoned by the women he likes.
The Bad Boy
You’re a “bad boy” when you’ve learned women don’t fall in love with nice guys… but deep inside, you still want women to like you too.
The “bad boy” is:
- Seemingly angry all the time
- Arrogant but unfunny
- Treats women badly
- Secretly still wants women to like him
The bad boy’s motto is: “If you don’t like me, fuck you.”
Women tend to feel attracted to bad boys in the beginning. But after a while, either his true neediness starts to show, or they get tired of his shitty attitude.
In short, women MIGHT fall in love with bad boys, but they won’t STAY in love for long.
The Real Man
The “real man” is who you want to be.
The real man is:
- Doesn’t care what others think about him
- Driven by purpose, not women
- Not invested in winning women’s affection
The real man’s motto is: “Take me or leave me.”
Real men have seen it all before. They know how women act, think and feel in the dating game. So when a woman tests him, he doesn’t find it insulting – he finds it funny.
And yes, women fall MADLY IN LOVE with real men. He’s strong, dominant, and immovable – a true pillar of strength.
How To Be A Real Man
If you want to become a “real man” – the kind of man all women LOVE…
…then you’ll need to get your head fixed up. The first change needs to happen NOT in your behavior, but in your mind.
You need to cultivate the “real man’s mindset.”
A real man’s mindset is non-conformist. It doesn’t follow what’s trendy, or expected, or “politically correct.”
Instead, a real man’s mindset follows what WORKS.
And that’s not always easy to do. It’s not easy to believe you should NOT treat women well… especially if you were brought up by your parents, your school, and your society to think so.
But if you can’t adopt the real man’s mindset, then you’ll always be a “nice guy” or “bad boy.” And your love life will always be disappointing.
So how do you cultivate the real man’s mindset?
There are two ways:
#1: The Standard Way
The standard way to cultivate the real man’s mindset is through PRACTICE.
You go and meet attractive new women on a regular basis and practice being indifferent. You practice NOT being invested in them.
You practice NOT caring what they think about you… and you practice NOT feeling insulted when they test you.
Experience is a good teacher, but it has a drawback: It takes a LOT of time.
And along the way, you’ll fail a lot. And those failures can discourage you from practicing any further… and then you fail to adopt the real man’s mindset.
That’s why I advocate an alternative…
#2: The Shortcut
The shortcut to cultivating the real man’s mindset is to master Mind Control.
More specifically, you’ll need to study Mind Control principles and techniques. Then you apply them to your interactions with women.
Mind Control is a “shortcut” because, instead of time-consuming trial-and-error…
…it uses principles and techniques that have been PROVEN to work. Mind Control is founded on centuries of established science.
The result? You’ll adopt the real man’s mindset faster. You’ll get experience AND fewer failures along the way… and your encouraging results will keep you going.
Want to stop being a “nice guy” or “bad boy?”
Want to become a “real man,” and start getting the results you want out of the dating game?
Mastering Mind Control is the fastest way.
And luckily for you, you can do so today by joining my Online Masterclass on Mind Control.
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So remember: The best way to treat a woman is NOT to.
Instead, understand what women REALLY love in a man.
Women love a man who:
- Is strong and dominant in his relationships
- Is driven by his purpose in life, and not his sexual desires
- Doesn’t get insulted or offended easily, and instead finds drama funny
- Has a “take me or leave me” mindset in dating
- Holds women in high regard, but never higher than he holds himself
You can be that kind of man.
The fastest way to do that?
Master Mind Control… which you can do today. Here’s the link to my Masterclass again.
Become a real man,
P.S: Now that you know what NEVER to do when wooing a woman (including flowers and dinners)… what was the worst thing you’ve ever done in hopes of making a woman like you? Tell me your story below.